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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does it really matter if you don't have picture verification but have a meet verification?
Yes I am aware of people faking veris via meets, I personally find webcam veris fishy. Mainly guys giving it to women.
This isn't a discretion problem nor is it laziness. Just curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All veris can be faked, including pic ones.
Women mainly are the watched ones on cam, no way could i verify all those guys back (plus i noticed most of them don't even have cams anyway).
Unless you actually meet that person you cannot guarantee they are authentic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a fair few guys without veris and been their first veri. Doesn't bother me, but i can get why some people feel a need to ask coz they've been messed about.
I go off how they come across in messages, if they seem genuine or not. Been messed about once of one guy (he had veris), and 3 previous meets have messed me about, so i knew they were authentic as people but even then they can not turn up when you plan something. I just fuck them off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met a fair few guys without veris and been their first veri. Doesn't bother me, but i can get why some people feel a need to ask coz they've been messed about.
I go off how they come across in messages, if they seem genuine or not. Been messed about once of one guy (he had veris), and 3 previous meets have messed me about, so i knew they were authentic as people but even then they can not turn up when you plan something. I just fuck them off."
 agreed about verifications - I to have met "straight couples" who prefer not to give Bisexual men verifications - not bothered its their choices not mine, but its slightly different than pic very - I am sure lots share same line as you do, in that its how the other person comes across in a message, which captures your imagination first.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met a fair few guys without veris and been their first veri. Doesn't bother me, but i can get why some people feel a need to ask coz they've been messed about.
I go off how they come across in messages, if they seem genuine or not. Been messed about once of one guy (he had veris), and 3 previous meets have messed me about, so i knew they were authentic as people but even then they can not turn up when you plan something. I just fuck them off.
agreed about verifications - I to have met "straight couples" who prefer not to give Bisexual men verifications - not bothered its their choices not mine, but its slightly different than pic very - I am sure lots share same line as you do, in that its how the other person comes across in a message, which captures your imagination first. "
You can tell who wants dirty chat pretty easy enough. I usually put up a status wanting meets at the time i want one, found i've never been let down by that because the guys are definitely interested in meeting at that time, although some chancers start asking what will we get up to on the meet...so i ignore them coz it's on my profile what i want, and just go for the guys who say they want to come round.
As for 'getting to know people' well if i'm chatting to someone then i take it as we're chatting, if we get on and meet up then great and i hope it happens but i never take it as they will turn up. Not been let down here either luckily. And it is just luck coz most people come on here for a fuck and not to socialise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never check to see if someone is pic verified. I would prefer them to be meet verified personally."
 do you get them to send you at least a face pic prior to meeting them ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never check to see if someone is pic verified. I would prefer them to be meet verified personally.
do you get them to send you at least a face pic prior to meeting them ? "
Yes of course. When I'm meeting i insist we swap face pics early on. I've not been caught out by someone who doesn't look like their pics yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never check to see if someone is pic verified. I would prefer them to be meet verified personally.
do you get them to send you at least a face pic prior to meeting them ?
Yes of course. When I'm meeting i insist we swap face pics early on. I've not been caught out by someone who doesn't look like their pics yet."
Nor have we  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never check to see if someone is pic verified. I would prefer them to be meet verified personally.
do you get them to send you at least a face pic prior to meeting them ?
Yes of course. When I'm meeting i insist we swap face pics early on. I've not been caught out by someone who doesn't look like their pics yet."
 I posted two funny stories about this on here recently - if someone cant give me recent pic, or share their mobile number, I become a bit suss |
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
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Both types of verification can and are faked, there is little the site can do about that.
WHO verified you is the important bit - follow the paper trail.
Profiles with hidden veris aren't verified as far as we are concerned. We also don't value veris from single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both types of verification can and are faked, there is little the site can do about that.
WHO verified you is the important bit - follow the paper trail.
Profiles with hidden veris aren't verified as far as we are concerned. We also don't value veris from single guys."
Phew! I'm glad not everyone thinks like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter if you don't have picture verification but have a meet verification?
Yes I am aware of people faking veris via meets, I personally find webcam veris fishy. Mainly guys giving it to women.
This isn't a discretion problem nor is it laziness. Just curious."
Some people seem to need babysitting and are incapable of using their own common sense to evaluate other people and they won't meet anyone without a veri.
Some people don't need any veri's to make their own decisions. |
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