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Strange blocking situation..

By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

I received a very nice message and face pic from a fabulous looking woman yesterday evening - we then had a bbit of a chat and she become a 'friend' on here...I had to go out and her final message was something along the lines of 'catch you again very soon'...logged on this morning and I can no longer able to view her profile as it says either I am blocked or her profile has been suspended by admin....is there anyway of knowing which of these has occurred? I am baffled by this particular situation and frustrated that I cannot contact her to find out what is going on...we only chatted briefly but were getting on very well indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm, sounds like she may have been suspended maybe? You're a decent guy by all accounts so that would be my best, optimistic guess.

Pm me her name on here and I'll see if I can see her. If I can't then chances are I'm correct.

Stu

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was she verified?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its the life of Fab really - its more common than you think - we must get a dozen such threads each week in here or advice blog

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Its the life of Fab really - its more common than you think - we must get a dozen such threads each week in here or advice blog

I know it is common...but this particular time I am very baffled by it....

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Was she verified? "

I think so, but I can't remember to be honest...

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Another poor woman who'll never get to know the full, raw, powerful animal magnetism you display.

Her loss.

Probably.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Another poor woman who'll never get to know the full, raw, powerful animal magnetism you display.

Her loss.

Probably. "

Thank you - btw, did you workout who are friend in common is??

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Another poor woman who'll never get to know the full, raw, powerful animal magnetism you display.

Her loss.

Probably.

Thank you - btw, did you workout who are friend in common is??"

...our...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a classic case of she blocked you because she didn't like what she saw.

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

Does your tits in doesn't it... Just when you think you're getting somewhere BANG!! You're blocked - I chatted to a lady for ages got on really well and then I got blocked - it happens yes and you move on you just have that nagging "why" what if she pressed block by mistake and thinks you've blocked her that sort of thing, especially if they use fab on a phone it's easy to hit the block without realising it when reading messages.

It's definitely a grrrrrr

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"It's a classic case of she blocked you because she didn't like what she saw.

...well, given that we exchanged a good few messages after she had seen all that there is of me to see, and all of them were very positive on both sides, that seems unlikely....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

like someone said its her loss

tho i get why you are confused

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"like someone said its her loss

How is it her loss?

She has blocked someone she doesn't want to meet. The OP is moaning that he has been blocked by someone he does want to meet. Surely that is very much his loss?

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

"I received a very nice message and face pic from a fabulous looking woman yesterday evening - we then had a bbit of a chat and she become a 'friend' on here...I had to go out and her final message was something along the lines of 'catch you again very soon'...logged on this morning and I can no longer able to view her profile as it says either I am blocked or her profile has been suspended by admin....is there anyway of knowing which of these has occurred? I am baffled by this particular situation and frustrated that I cannot contact her to find out what is going on...we only chatted briefly but were getting on very well indeed

I had a woman message me last week. We were just generally chit chatting. I then paid her a compliment about how she looked in her avatar pic (in which she looked very nice). She then blocked me! Totally baffling

Her loss I guess

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much"

Only because of the bizarre circumstances in this particular instance...and your interpretation that it is 'because she doesn't want to meet me', is only one of several possible explanations....

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

This happened to me once - then a few days later I could chat with her again; turns out she'd misbehaved (cant rememver what she'd done) and had her profile locked-down by admin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much"

havent you heard about the freedom of speech then?

its a forum free to post what you want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have just had the same sort of thing.

I have been swapping messages with a couple for a while, and earlier this week we agreed to meet next week. I contacted them today to arrange for Wednesday & they blocked me.

What a waste of time.

Do I report them?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Her loss I guess

'her loss'...indeed, I agree and we need to just roll our eyes and move on when this occurs, but it is baffling and frustrating all the same...

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I have just had the same sort of thing.

I have been swapping messages with a couple for a while, and earlier this week we agreed to meet next week. I contacted them today to arrange for Wednesday & they blocked me.

What a waste of time.

Do I report them?"

I don't think their behaviour is very commendable, however, I do not think it warrants reporting them....don't think any such report would be taken seriously anyway in that situation...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody women!

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

Baffling and frustrating - exactly - I know it will never happen but a 2 stage block process would be great where you have to say why you block someone would be great - that way at least you know why....

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

"I have just had the same sort of thing.

I have been swapping messages with a couple for a while, and earlier this week we agreed to meet next week. I contacted them today to arrange for Wednesday & they blocked me.

What a waste of time.

Do I report them?"

For what ?

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Sounds like she was a fake account that got suspended by admin, doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much

Only because of the bizarre circumstances in this particular instance...and your interpretation that it is 'because she doesn't want to meet me', is only one of several possible explanations...."

But arguably the ,most likely. Albeit the one you (and anyone else who it happens to including myself) find the most difficult to accept

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Her loss I guess

'her loss'...indeed, I agree and we need to just roll our eyes and move on when this occurs, but it is baffling and frustrating all the same...

Baffling is the only word to describe it really. Just odd. A bit like if you were talking to someone face to face and they just walked off mid-sentence. Confusing. But this place baffle's quite often so we just move on. Plenty more fish in the sea...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bloody women!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks..."

Seriously?

You are going to get round a block by getting someone else to message them?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Sounds like she was a fake account that got suspended by admin, doesn't it?"

Nope, she is still here, someone has proved this (and that she is not suspended) by viewing her profile to check...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks..."

Bordering on creepy behaviour

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Seriously?

You are going to get round a block by getting someone else to message them?

Only to find out whether it was perhaps a block in error....that's all....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much

havent you heard about the freedom of speech then?

its a forum free to post what you want"

I'm not sure where freedom of speech comes in to this or When I said people couldn't post?

I was merely commenting that I don;t see why it causes so much angst?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour"

I don't see why, given the particular circumstances...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you checked your block list to make sure you haven't blocked her by accident? I have done it before and so have others, especially on phones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she started reading the forum op?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour"

I don't think it's bordering on it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

I don't see why, given the particular circumstances..."

You don't see that getting someone else to message someone who has blocked you as a creepy thing to do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much

havent you heard about the freedom of speech then?

its a forum free to post what you want

I'm not sure where freedom of speech comes in to this or When I said people couldn't post?

I was merely commenting that I don;t see why it causes so much angst?"

i do apologise i miss read your comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

I don't think it's bordering on it. "

I was giving the benefit of the doubt

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Maybe she started reading the forum op?"

What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig?

Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a classic case of she blocked you because she didn't like what she saw.

...well, given that we exchanged a good few messages after she had seen all that there is of me to see, and all of them were very positive on both sides, that seems unlikely...."

You sure you understand how picky people can be? Being 1 of hundreds dulls the mind.

Hell, I got blocked by a woman after exchanging messages because I mentioned light choking. And she had rough play down.

Some think they're special and use the block button to escape any supposed wrath. Which can be understandable as lots of people don't like being turned down.

It's like unmatching a tinder match. Just have summat else

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

I don't see why, given the particular circumstances...

You don't see that getting someone else to message someone who has blocked you as a creepy thing to do? "

Not in this situation - not given that this third party proposed doing so in the first place, and not given that the only message is to ask whether it was in error....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe she started reading the forum op?

What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig?

Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway..."

Just that. I often read things and get put off people by the things they say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour"

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word"

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Maybe she started reading the forum op?

What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig?

Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway...

Just that. I often read things and get put off people by the things they say."

I understand that and indeed I am sure it has put some people off me in the past - but it cannot account for this current situation being discussed..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word"

I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe she started reading the forum op?

What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig?

Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway...

Just that. I often read things and get put off people by the things they say.

I understand that and indeed I am sure it has put some people off me in the past - but it cannot account for this current situation being discussed.."

The more you post the more obsessive you sound.

Still I'm sure plenty of other women find an inability to deal with possible rejection extremely attractive

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word

I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word

I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all"

Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they just changed their mind so to save upset they blocked you. It happens.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word

I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all

Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you?"

Or think it is I that has blocked her...doesn't the same screen pop up in that situation? It would then mean that she would have to check her own block list to se the error...if indeed it is one...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone fancy a pint?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Anyone fancy a pint?"

Please - I'll have a San Miguel if you are offering...

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word

I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all

Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you?

Or think it is I that has blocked her...doesn't the same screen pop up in that situation? It would then mean that she would have to check her own block list to se the error...if indeed it is one..."

No, if you have blocked someone it tells you on the screen that you blocked them, and also how long ago.

If they blocked you, there is no message, just the standard account suspended/they blocked you blurb.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a pint?"

Thought you'd never ask

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks...

Bordering on creepy behaviour

You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy.

Such a whiteknight word

I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all

Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you?

Or think it is I that has blocked her...doesn't the same screen pop up in that situation? It would then mean that she would have to check her own block list to se the error...if indeed it is one...

No, if you have blocked someone it tells you on the screen that you blocked them, and also how long ago.

If they blocked you, there is no message, just the standard account suspended/they blocked you blurb."

I see...thanks for sorting that out...in that case, if it was in error she will see and simply contact me back at some point...no probs...I shall now put that to one side (hoping she does, obviously) and move right on...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a pint?"

il have a cider please

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I was just going to say maybe she changed her mind. We all do it, even guys.

I'm sure you have plenty of other women waiting in the wings PF!!!!

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I was just going to say maybe she changed her mind. We all do it, even guys.

I'm sure you have plenty of other women waiting in the wings PF!!!!

One or two...in fact the wings are getting rather crowded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a pint?

Thought you'd never ask

Is a pint of wine too much?

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone..

You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really..

Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks..."

Using the forums to get round a ban is against the rules. If someone has decided to drop contact, the best thing to do is accept it and move on.

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