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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone!
The reason for us returning to Fab after so long is for some advice of sorts.
Jay uses Tumblr and follows a number of users, in particular one called Hot wife.
He loves watching Sadie fuck and misses it so gets his thrills from there.
Sadie, had a look at it and decided to Google Hotwife.
Her discovery was the version of a lady being allowed to go and have sex with other guys with her hubbys knowledge and to come home telling all.
As she thought Jay fancied this...she got her head around it and decided she wanted to try it.
She told Jay, Jay got confused, upset, excited, thrilled, sick.
She also told him she'd love him to do the same which repeated said emotions.
So, with such a crazy conflict of emotions he thought maybe separate room swap, or a trusted friend might be a good starting block, but prefers the swap idea as there's something in it for him to keep occupied while it happens!
Ultimately he wants Sadie to be happy. They've been together 21yrs and haven't had solo sex with anyone else and he appreciates her curiosity, but is having a few levels of discomfort with the prospect.
Can anyone here in the hotwife scene give us some pointers as to how you started, what the downs and ups were etc to give us an informed idea of where to go?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tried something similar .
Sabrina got into a guys car and they drove round the corner , leaving me half a mile away in our car .
She came back 20 minutes later , he dropped her off and went . I didn't even see his face .
It was horny for us , but no more so than me being present and from a safety perspective we chose not to do it again .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry, but this feels wrong to me.
Your wife may only be interested because she sees you 'getting thrills' from watching another woman (cyber, yes, but still another woman), and feels she can only compete by becoming the fantasy woman you desire. The irony is that you're now feeling jealousy about a situation of your own making.
The old adage 'Be careful what you wish for', comes to mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hotwife" situation is as you have described. It's along the same lines as cuckolding, but without the humiliation of the husband. I have met hotwives and sometimes their husbands. What works for them is the thrill for them both. She enjoys fucking other guys, he enjoys her being away and doing it, awaiting the call/text/pics and for her to return.
If you don't both share the desire and see this as a thrill then I would suggest it's not for you.
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