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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Need opinions on this one please?

After sending an initial message to someone, is it considered rude/irritating/wrong thing to do; to message them again weeks later despite never having a reply?

Where do you stand on this?

Thanks

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't think it's rude no,women and couples receive a fair amount of messages so may not get around to replying the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if the second message is any different to the first one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's fine with me too. Those who message every day or several times an hour piss me off.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If its been read and deleted, then yes it would be rude - a no reply is a thanks but not interested.

If its unread, it may just have gotten swamped, but again exercise caution, and check when the person was online.

I tend to delete people that start to get pushy and message time and again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have nothing to lose messaging again. If they don't like it and block you as a result then i guess they ain't interested

You never know they might just reply a second time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Need opinions on this one please?

After sending an initial message to someone, is it considered rude/irritating/wrong thing to do; to message them again weeks later despite never having a reply?

Where do you stand on this?

Thanks

I don't think its rude,however if you know the initial message was read and not responded to then I would take it as a not interested and not message again. If it didn't get read then it maybe got lost amongst others so maybe worth a try. I certainly wouldn't rexommend messaging more than twice, it gets annoying for both parties then.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As long as your message doesn't say " I messaged you three weeks ago, WHY HAVENT YOU RESPONDED". I can't see what harm it could do.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you very much

Messages that have been read and deleted, I wouldn't revisit.

Unread messages however, worth another go then.

Appreciate the feedback

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not at all - we have just cleared a lot of messages and found a reply to one of our original messages- replied saying they had fallen off the bottom of the page and all ok -

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By *ivnwcplCouple over a year ago

liverpool

"Need opinions on this one please?

After sending an initial message to someone, is it considered rude/irritating/wrong thing to do; to message them again weeks later despite never having a reply?

Where do you stand on this?

Thanks

We have found that when we post a meet or even post on the boards our messages triple, and since your profile only shows so many then some do get lost and go off the profile, I see no problem messaging them again after 2 weeks but only if they have not opened and read your first message, because if they have done that then just move on, they are not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Need opinions on this one please?

After sending an initial message to someone, is it considered rude/irritating/wrong thing to do; to message them again weeks later despite never having a reply?

Where do you stand on this?

Thanks

Thank you

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By *irty130Couple over a year ago

Bristol Area

I read some good advice a few weeks ago. Update your profile and pics etc, keep it current. Not to make it look like you're a different person or anything... but so you can say "maybe you missed my message before, I've updated my profile, so maybe you'd like to take another look?" or something similar?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its been read and deleted, then yes it would be rude - a no reply is a thanks but not interested.

If its unread, it may just have gotten swamped, but again exercise caution, and check when the person was online.

I tend to delete people that start to get pushy and message time and again."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only message once, If no reply within couple of days, I delete and move on to next victim lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have nothing to lose messaging again. If they don't like it and block you as a result then i guess they ain't interested

You never know they might just reply a second time."
theirs no ifs and butts about it if first message stayed yellow and was a couple of lines or more it wasn't read so they havnt read it ,message again but a thought out message based on profile with a face pic

hugs

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