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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'. "
Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Yes, most of the guys who contact me are "straight".
It's because some women are put off by bisexual guys, so some of these guys will lie about their sexuality so they don't put women off.
I just ignore what they have put as their sexuality as most of the time it's not true. |
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I'm bi-curious but only interested in TVs, rather than men.
I do get winks and messages from 'straight' guys, who aren't what I'm looking for (normally) and not what they say they are looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.
Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.
Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Apart from the obviously ignorant poster it's clear that I'm not alone. I agree that some women can be put off by bisexual guys but in my experience it's usually seen as a bonus! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry i fort men who dressedup as women do it for sexual pleasure and a transsexual or transgender post op is a woman"
They are crossdressers.
Unfortunately fab lumps transmen, transwomen, male crossdressers and female crossdressers into the same category and refuses to split them out. |
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"i fort tvs are men "
I mean that I meet men dressed as women, but not men dressed as men. It's the femininity that turns me on.
So when straight guys message me, neither of us are looking for each other. |
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"Apart from the obviously ignorant poster it's clear that I'm not alone. I agree that some women can be put off by bisexual guys but in my experience it's usually seen as a bonus! Lol. "
Some are put off, some prefer it.
Better to be honest and only meet people who want you as you are.
If people lie about their orientation, what else are they lying about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the obviously ignorant poster it's clear that I'm not alone. I agree that some women can be put off by bisexual guys but in my experience it's usually seen as a bonus! Lol.
Some are put off, some prefer it.
Better to be honest and only meet people who want you as you are.
If people lie about their orientation, what else are they lying about?"
I don't lie about anything else,just that I'm not entirely straight. It's different for women,if I had bi on my profile it wouldn't deter men from messaging me. |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
liverpool |
"i fort tvs are men "
TV is basically a term which covers men who dress has women and women who dress has men.
It does annoy me when men put straight on there profile yet state they are looking for TV's .....Who are they trying to kid  |
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"sorry i fort men who dressedup as women do it for sexual pleasure and a transsexual or transgender post op is a woman
They are crossdressers.
Unfortunately fab lumps transmen, transwomen, male crossdressers and female crossdressers into the same category and refuses to split them out."
so the goal posts keep getting moved but i would think most suffer from a paraphilic disorder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so the goal posts keep getting moved but i would think most suffer from a paraphilic disorder"
You are incorrect.
Experiencing gender dysphoria is not the same as having a fetish. |
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Nothing wrong with curiosity.
So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine. But if he is doing it all the time, and had veris from previous meets, he should admit he is no longer defined as straight, and should update his profile, so you show upon the searches.
You can expand what you are looking for, within the profile. |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Just to confirm what I've been saying, a straight guy has just messaged me for the fourth day in a row, asking me to fuck him!"
Well the fact that you didn't block him after the first message might have given him some hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, most of the guys who contact me are "straight".
It's because some women are put off by bisexual guys, so some of these guys will lie about their sexuality so they don't put women off.
I just ignore what they have put as their sexuality as most of the time it's not true."
Agree totally  |
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"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'. "
Yes, on occasion. When asked about their 'sexuality' they say they won't get as many meets being bisexual to which I can wittily and amusingly reply 'and you ain't getting one from me neither'.
I might also add 'your lack of self confidence has failed you yet again' just because. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with curiosity.
So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine. "
Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Nothing wrong with curiosity.
So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.
Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?"
It will, in the very least, make him gay and at worst it will make him whatever comes after gay; supergay |
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"Nothing wrong with curiosity.
So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.
Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?"
Yes, but I don't think you have to rush to rewrite your profile before you try something new. But if you do it repeatedly, be honest and help people find you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with curiosity.
So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.
Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?
It will, in the very least, make him gay and at worst it will make him whatever comes after gay; supergay "
Oh noes! Not the supergays!
(Seriously, dip me in glitter and send me in their direction...) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Nothing wrong with curiosity.
So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.
Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?
It will, in the very least, make him gay and at worst it will make him whatever comes after gay; supergay
Oh noes! Not the supergays!
(Seriously, dip me in glitter and send me in their direction...)"
Step aside; me first; xxx |
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It's a shame that Fab doesn't have more gender and orientation options. In particular while most people identity as either male or female, gender is a spectrum. Kinsey identified orientation as such decades ago.
I would put money on a lot of guys not admitting to themselves that they have some attraction to men. |
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It's not simple. I consider myself mainly straight, but with some bi tendencies. These tendencies have been getting stronger over the last few months - so much so I've experimented meeting with men alone. And enjoyed it.
Sexuality is not black and white for a lot of people! |
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I would put money on a lot of guys not admitting to themselves that they have some attraction to men. "
I have zero attraction to men - but do enjoy playing with other men's cocks and having them play with mine. Go figure  |
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"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.
Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."
And if they are lying about that - what else will they lie about??  |
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By *d871Man
over a year ago
nowhere |
"Sexuality is not black and white for a lot of people!"
I would suggest that sexuality is not black and white for most people ( if not all people)
Unfortunately people in general like labels and labels need to have definitions. I've labeled myself as bi for what that is worth as it indicates that I enjoy sex with both males and females which is true. Unfortunately some see that as a cover for gay whilst others who do have sex with male and female are frightened that they may be labelled as gay. If only we could get rid of the labels and just all be ourselves!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexuality is not black and white for a lot of people!
I would suggest that sexuality is not black and white for most people ( if not all people)
Unfortunately people in general like labels and labels need to have definitions. I've labeled myself as bi for what that is worth as it indicates that I enjoy sex with both males and females which is true. Unfortunately some see that as a cover for gay whilst others who do have sex with male and female are frightened that they may be labelled as gay. If only we could get rid of the labels and just all be ourselves! "
nah labels are fine,its lingo innit |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
liverpool |
"I'm interested in getting with a trans female but I would still consider myself as straight. I think it's more to do with it being taboo.
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You might consider yourself straight but when people look at your profile and see you are looking to meet TV's then they will go along the assumption you are hiding your sexuality by putting straight  |
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I'm totally straight and get fed up of bi men and other "straight" men contacting me - I don't want you to suck my cock or turn me - ok - just saying like... It seems everything is not always as it seems on fab and people sometimes lie...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit
Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here  "
no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core  |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
liverpool |
"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit
Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here "
I agree...there are so many distrusting married guy's playing behind there partners back its terrible |
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"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit
Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here
no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core "
Ok in your case I'll make an exception |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit
Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here
no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core
Ok in your case I'll make an exception "
See another one converted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit
Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here "
ooooh so you have tits,,hormones? |
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"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit
Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here
no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core
Ok in your case I'll make an exception
See another one converted "
Only in respect of Mikki being evil |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As by way of proof how many fabs of my photos from men in the last half hour lol "
you fool,,their not really men ,their really sexeeeeeeeeeeeee ladys using fake pics n kiddin on their guys.
your a babe magnet |
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"As by way of proof how many fabs of my photos from men in the last half hour lol
you fool,,their not really men ,their really sexeeeeeeeeeeeee ladys using fake pics n kiddin on their guys.
your a babe magnet"
WHAT???? All this time I've thought.... Noooooooo I can't cope with that.... |
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"Just to confirm what I've been saying, a straight guy has just messaged me for the fourth day in a row, asking me to fuck him!"
Are you suggesting receptive anal sex is exclusively for gay/bi men and women only??
sexual identidy is hugely different from sexual behaviour...(ask straight men in prison) |
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"I'm totally straight and get fed up of bi men and other "straight" men contacting me - I don't want you to suck my cock or turn me - ok - just saying like... It seems everything is not always as it seems on fab and people sometimes lie... "
The problem is not the bi men, it's the "straight" men who want to have their cake and eat it.
(so tempted to replace certain words in that)
Can you block messages from single guys? That would stop these messages. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like? "
You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?
You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight "
Not a joke. A gay man a friend of mine knows wanted to see what a woman was like. I wondered if he was straight curious of bi-ish but maybe not |
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"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?
You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight
Not a joke. A gay man a friend of mine knows wanted to see what a woman was like. I wondered if he was straight curious of bi-ish but maybe not "
Gay-curious?
Eh?
Wotevs, as my mum would say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?
You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight
Not a joke. A gay man a friend of mine knows wanted to see what a woman was like. I wondered if he was straight curious of bi-ish but maybe not "
I've always been surprised just how many of my gay friends find it disgusting that I sleep with women (or did until recently at least and it's only the nature of the relationship I find myself in that dictates that).
I've had more ewwww's from them about straight sex than I have from straights about my cock trysts |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Guys should just have 2 profiles 1 straight other bi / gay
Never the two shall meet lol
It'd be a pretty surreal get together if they ever did?"
The first will feel superior for being straight
The second will accuse the first for being a closet bisexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love this. when im on cam showing so many come to me and say nice cock and i ask why it states on there profile there straight and they all say they put straight so women meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, the 'straight' guys are lying, but I have some sympathy. Even as a relatively young 'un on here, there was a huge stigma about being attracted to other men when I was growing up, and after seeing the shit a lot of the more overtly gay guys got growing up in school, it's still something I feel quite intimidated about opening up about and am selective with who I tell.
Given how much worse the generation before me had it, I'm not surprised a lot of older guys struggle to admit it and feel some sort of weird internalised guilt on the subject. Especially when so many people seem borderline proud of their prejudices on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.
Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."
Has nobody considered the (obvious to me) option that they might simply want to be discreet about it?
Not every Bi-Curious guy wants everyone he knows to find out about it.
There's so little empathy on this site it's unbelievable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah, the 'straight' guys are lying, but I have some sympathy. Even as a relatively young 'un on here, there was a huge stigma about being attracted to other men when I was growing up, and after seeing the shit a lot of the more overtly gay guys got growing up in school, it's still something I feel quite intimidated about opening up about and am selective with who I tell.
Given how much worse the generation before me had it, I'm not surprised a lot of older guys struggle to admit it and feel some sort of weird internalised guilt on the subject. Especially when so many people seem borderline proud of their prejudices on their profile. "
Thank you for a sensible answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys should just have 2 profiles 1 straight other bi / gay
Never the two shall meet lol
It'd be a pretty surreal get together if they ever did?"
Schrodinger's man ... simultaneously gay and straight until the box is opened
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get guys all the time!!! Asking to meet,or messages saying lovely cock ect!!! Amazzis me sometimes!!! After a message or two,thay still say there straight!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I welcome anyone who says hello to me and I am bisexual - gone past the Bi cur stage lol - but can understand some men not wishing to expose their sexuality in case it cramps their style - well it might just do that, but honesty is bar best policy/........
jon steps off his soap box and bows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazing number of men contact Steve and have straight on their profile. When this is pointed out a lot of them say they made a mistake when completing their profile.
So I guess Steve does them a favour in pointing this out to them.
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"Amazing number of men contact Steve and have straight on their profile. When this is pointed out a lot of them say they made a mistake when completing their profile.
So I guess Steve does them a favour in pointing this out to them.
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Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was talking to someone recently who admitted that he thoroughly enjoyed getting oral from other guys but absolutely insisted that since he didn't return the favour he was 100% straight!
My interpretation was he was not only bi but also selfish.
The real world interpretation of bi/straight/gay is totally distorted and disputed on Fab. The description "straight" is virtually useless. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Amazing number of men contact Steve and have straight on their profile. When this is pointed out a lot of them say they made a mistake when completing their profile.
So I guess Steve does them a favour in pointing this out to them.
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Thank you Steve
And whilst you are at it, can also please ask them to correct their height on thie profile. The 4" FabS extension may look good on paper but looses its charm when meeting in the big wide world |
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