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Not a squirter? Does that make me less of a woman..
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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
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So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40 |
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I wouldn't worry about it if I was you
We are all different in this world, if we were all the same it would be a boring place
Anyway it sounds like you have plenty of your own lubrication anyway lol |
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over a year ago
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No it doesn't. I don't always squirt and only 4 people have made me, but it doesn't mean I have less fun with the others. I can't say I've ever asked anyone if they do, due to my name I've had women question me about how I doand in all honesty iI ddon't know, it just happens because of what he's doing. It doesn't fascinate me whether someone does or not and I never did until I was 24 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you even care? Some people like certain things.
I'm sat here in a diaper coz my blood sugars are too high today and i keep pissing myself. I'm still a woman. It pisses me off that i haven't got my usual control over my own body but i'm not ashamed of my body or it's functions. |
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over a year ago
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It's no big deal just another porn star- induced unrealistic expectation I suspect. I've only seen it happen with one woman and the first time I was quite shocked and then couldn't help thinking how the hell could she keep her mattress clean. |
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If anyone is easily influenced I guess they would feel they needed to fit certain criteria to be a real or whole woman. If I tried to conform to a lot of the perceived requirements for womanhood on fab I think I'd have to undergo a personality change and radical surgery  |
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"Why do you even care? Some people like certain things.
I'm sat here in a diaper coz my blood sugars are too high today and i keep pissing myself. I'm still a woman. It pisses me off that i haven't got my usual control over my own body but i'm not ashamed of my body or it's functions."
Exercise (pelvic floor ones, too) and weight loss would help with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40"
Well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't. I have no desire to. I've had piss forced out of me and ended up with a nice kidney infection afterwards and a swollen urethra. That led to incontinence that took weeks to get back under control. I warn men now not to even try and when I meet I refrain from drinking tea so I don't accidentally piss myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's fun when I make a gusher gush and it's fine in a hotel or a club. But a few years ago I had a gf who was a heavy gusher, at first it was fun then came the whole prep for sex, if people think stopping to slip a condom on was a pain try having to put a dry pad down every time you fancied a fuck. Or figure out who to dry your sheets to go a sleep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you even care? Some people like certain things.
I'm sat here in a diaper coz my blood sugars are too high today and i keep pissing myself. I'm still a woman. It pisses me off that i haven't got my usual control over my own body but i'm not ashamed of my body or it's functions.
Exercise (pelvic floor ones, too) and weight loss would help with that. "
It's my diabetes, my blood sugars are too high today, this happens every so often if i'm gonna get a cold or get ill. Might see if doctors can recommend anything to bring my sugars down more at these times though, it does piss me off. |
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If I hear ~ 'I'm going to make you squirt / gush' ~ translates in my head as...."I'm going to shove my fingers up you so hard & proceed to jab away with no finesse whatsover"
Its not something I think about & if that's someone's end goal then we're probably not compatable. |
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"I find it strange that any woman would feel less of a woman because of what they do/don't do in the bedroom (or insert venue of choice!). "
I suspect if anybody does feel less of a woman in some circumstances it's down to media, peer, parnter or cultural pressure but often self imposed.
Women who have had radical surgery for cancer often say they feel less of a woman and they have my complete sympathy  |
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"If I hear ~ 'I'm going to make you squirt / gush' ~ translates in my head as...."I'm going to shove my fingers up you so hard & proceed to jab away with no finesse whatsover"
Its not something I think about & if that's someone's end goal then we're probably not compatable."
That about covers it for me.
I've done it once but it was years ago and I have no idea how I did it... at the time I had no idea what it was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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squirting is not an orgasm......its a build up of fluid that needs to escape .....its not wee either, far from it .
just cos a lady squirts dosent mean youve made her cum and you can leave lol . |
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"If I hear ~ 'I'm going to make you squirt / gush' ~ translates in my head as...."I'm going to shove my fingers up you so hard & proceed to jab away with no finesse whatsover"
Its not something I think about & if that's someone's end goal then we're probably not compatable."
Hear bloody hear!!!   |
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Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40"
Haha brill post and agree with all u say  no desire to be a gusher/squirter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40"
Just picked up on this my fav subject.....
Nothing in wrong in you at all - whether you do or don't Squirt/Gush should never be the determining factor - I love it if a women does, but its so rare these days, its not anywhere near as important than the chemistry between two / three people in first instance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"squirting is not an orgasm......its a build up of fluid that needs to escape .....its not wee either, far from it .
just cos a lady squirts dosent mean youve made her cum and you can leave lol ."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40"
Prefer the not squirt to be honest it does the bed sheets no good |
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From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me! "
Because you're of a well-adapted nature and understand that people are different |
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"Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me!
Because you're of a well-adapted nature and understand that people are different "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it makes you less of a woman"
really why ? I still have boobs and pussy I still cum I still enjoy sex .....so why the hell would the fact I dont gush/ squirt make me less of a woman ?
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"Yes it makes you less of a woman really why ? I still have boobs and pussy I still cum I still enjoy sex .....so why the hell would the fact I dont gush/ squirt make me less of a woman ?"
I was waiting for someone to bite |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't believe for a moment that all women that squirt see it as a badge of honour. I can't control whether it happens or not. It just does. Sometimes I like it when im super horny and other times its a nuisance. |
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"From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
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Can you pee when your sexually aroused??? I know I can't. When I gush/squirt I don't orgasm, so bang goes that theory
As for the guy with the mattress, tell him to stop pissing the bed!! If he hadn't been pushing all the right buttons then it wouldn't have happened. Bet once he realised he was capable of doing it he did it more than once.
So I'm guessing what goes on in porn isn't real in your opinion.... Well sorry ladies, all of you that like anal are liars and fakes or just totally abnormal!!! 
Omg just thought, if you enjoy anal and gush/squirt then there's no hope for you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I hear ~ 'I'm going to make you squirt / gush' ~ translates in my head as...."I'm going to shove my fingers up you so hard & proceed to jab away with no finesse whatsover"
Its not something I think about & if that's someone's end goal then we're probably not compatable.
Hear bloody hear!!! "
That's pretty much how I feel too
Though I can gush I prefer not to
Ironically the thing that makes me gush is the thing I don't like
I do loose fluid if handled properly but not buckets full and a real orgasums feels so much nicer  |
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"From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
Can you pee when your sexually aroused??? I know I can't. When I gush/squirt I don't orgasm, so bang goes that theory
As for the guy with the mattress, tell him to stop pissing the bed!! If he hadn't been pushing all the right buttons then it wouldn't have happened. Bet once he realised he was capable of doing it he did it more than once.
So I'm guessing what goes on in porn isn't real in your opinion.... Well sorry ladies, all of you that like anal are liars and fakes or just totally abnormal!!!
Omg just thought, if you enjoy anal and gush/squirt then there's no hope for you
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I never said everything that happened in porn wasn't real. But a lot is fake. Like when a guy just rams it in during anal without stopping for lube etc
If it isn't losing control of your bladder can you tell me where this large amount of fluid is stored in the woman's body as it's got to come from somewhere. I've seen it asked many times on here but no one as been able to answer it yet.
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"From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
Can you pee when your sexually aroused??? I know I can't. When I gush/squirt I don't orgasm, so bang goes that theory
As for the guy with the mattress, tell him to stop pissing the bed!! If he hadn't been pushing all the right buttons then it wouldn't have happened. Bet once he realised he was capable of doing it he did it more than once.
So I'm guessing what goes on in porn isn't real in your opinion.... Well sorry ladies, all of you that like anal are liars and fakes or just totally abnormal!!!
Omg just thought, if you enjoy anal and gush/squirt then there's no hope for you
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Can I just ask what do you consider a squirt?
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over a year ago
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"Don't believe for a moment that all women that squirt see it as a badge of honour. I can't control whether it happens or not. It just does. Sometimes I like it when im super horny and other times its a nuisance. "
This sounds like me. It can be really horny, but other times I cringe with embarrassment. Depends a lot on the guys attitude. |
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I went out with a squirter for a few months and it was a pain in the fucking arse. We could never just go to sleep after sex. Always had to get the towels, clear up the mess, change the sheets, put the wet ones in the wash. Total nightmare. Some people seem to like the novelty of it because they saw it in a piano but the reality sucks! |
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I squirt when getting aroused and gush at the point of orgasm masturbation makes me squirt more that's because i know my own body inside and out i don't think im more of a women because i do or think others are less of one because they don't i agree its not everyone's thing i just go with the flow no pun intended  |
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I don't and have never orgasmed, I still enjoy sex. Had lots tell me how they could give me my first orgasm, still waiting.
And I didn't squirt until I was in my 40's |
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We are all different in what we like and don't like and do or dont do but I feel that's all men want to see a woman squirt I blame the porn industry with their false gushes. ...life ain't like a porn film....I can't stand it when they go in and try and start drilling for oil!!! |
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I do feel that the 'squirt is piss' brigade is often trying to make those of us who do feel less of a woman - or at least a woman who is ignorant or ashamed of our bodies and their functions. I did not gush until I met my partner, and I don't always. Its never anything to do with any roughness or thrusting anything up there or hurting ... its always gentle and a great experience. |
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"I do feel that the 'squirt is piss' brigade is often trying to make those of us who do feel less of a woman - or at least a woman who is ignorant or ashamed of our bodies and their functions. I did not gush until I met my partner, and I don't always. Its never anything to do with any roughness or thrusting anything up there or hurting ... its always gentle and a great experience. "
I'm glad someone posted this because i couldn't be arsed go into detail. I've met many guys who have achieved the art of making me gush without resorting to violence |
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"I do feel that the 'squirt is piss' brigade is often trying to make those of us who do feel less of a woman - or at least a woman who is ignorant or ashamed of our bodies and their functions. I did not gush until I met my partner, and I don't always. Its never anything to do with any roughness or thrusting anything up there or hurting ... its always gentle and a great experience. "
that's great & you're obviously sexually compatible
my observation was based on people who are fixated with it, which is in my opinion, a completely different matter altogether. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She isn't too keen and has to be ultra horny. I do find the gentle approach works well. As a man I thought making a girl squirt/gush was the holy grail, I like to see it, it gives me a sense of achievement but its not the be all and end all, making her orgasm is much more satisfying and we dont have to strip the bed all the time. |
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"Yes it makes you less of a woman really why ? I still have boobs and pussy I still cum I still enjoy sex .....so why the hell would the fact I dont gush/ squirt make me less of a woman ?"
I was messing about. No it doesn't make a girl more feminine if she squirts. Or more of a woman. Doesn't make her anything |
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"I do feel that the 'squirt is piss' brigade is often trying to make those of us who do feel less of a woman - or at least a woman who is ignorant or ashamed of our bodies and their functions. I did not gush until I met my partner, and I don't always. Its never anything to do with any roughness or thrusting anything up there or hurting ... its always gentle and a great experience. "
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"From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
Can you pee when your sexually aroused??? I know I can't. When I gush/squirt I don't orgasm, so bang goes that theory
As for the guy with the mattress, tell him to stop pissing the bed!! If he hadn't been pushing all the right buttons then it wouldn't have happened. Bet once he realised he was capable of doing it he did it more than once.
So I'm guessing what goes on in porn isn't real in your opinion.... Well sorry ladies, all of you that like anal are liars and fakes or just totally abnormal!!!
Omg just thought, if you enjoy anal and gush/squirt then there's no hope for you
Can I just ask what do you consider a squirt?
Xx"
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"A large amount of fluid"? Is it a large amount of fluid? If you can't do it, how would you know? It's not for me.
There is little known about it because there hasn't really been any serious studies done on it, and until there is it will continue to baffle people.
Until recent time the female orgasm was considered a myth by the medical profession!!!!
"What do I class as a squirt"? .... It's when I'm having a really good session and need to pee, but don't want to stop so I just piss all over the guy and convince him he's made me squirt!!!
When these threads pop up, and they often do, it's always the women who haven't experienced it that proclaim it's urine, say it's disgusting and would never want to. To be honest it says more about your own insecurities about your sexual prowess than anything else!
I can't see the whole need for all this bitching. There are plenty of things I won't/don't do, have never experienced but I don't feel any less of a woman for it. I concentrate on what I like/enjoy doing and have a bloody good time doing it. Get over it!!
As for porn, from my experience you have to go looking for squirting porn, so if you don't like it, don't watch it simple really. I'd never watch porn I didn't like then come on here bitching about it and try to belittle the people that do like it. |
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"From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
Can you pee when your sexually aroused??? I know I can't. When I gush/squirt I don't orgasm, so bang goes that theory
As for the guy with the mattress, tell him to stop pissing the bed!! If he hadn't been pushing all the right buttons then it wouldn't have happened. Bet once he realised he was capable of doing it he did it more than once.
So I'm guessing what goes on in porn isn't real in your opinion.... Well sorry ladies, all of you that like anal are liars and fakes or just totally abnormal!!!
Omg just thought, if you enjoy anal and gush/squirt then there's no hope for you
Can I just ask what do you consider a squirt?
Xx
A reply too both your questions....
"A large amount of fluid"? Is it a large amount of fluid? If you can't do it, how would you know? It's not for me.
There is little known about it because there hasn't really been any serious studies done on it, and until there is it will continue to baffle people.
Until recent time the female orgasm was considered a myth by the medical profession!!!!
"What do I class as a squirt"? .... It's when I'm having a really good session and need to pee, but don't want to stop so I just piss all over the guy and convince him he's made me squirt!!!
When these threads pop up, and they often do, it's always the women who haven't experienced it that proclaim it's urine, say it's disgusting and would never want to. To be honest it says more about your own insecurities about your sexual prowess than anything else!
I can't see the whole need for all this bitching. There are plenty of things I won't/don't do, have never experienced but I don't feel any less of a woman for it. I concentrate on what I like/enjoy doing and have a bloody good time doing it. Get over it!!
As for porn, from my experience you have to go looking for squirting porn, so if you don't like it, don't watch it simple really. I'd never watch porn I didn't like then come on here bitching about it and try to belittle the people that do like it."
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There is little known about it because there hasn't really been any serious studies done on it, and until there is it will continue to baffle people.
Until recent time the female orgasm was considered a myth by the medical profession!!!"
So any woman that said they enjoyed sex so much that they orgasmed from it - no they didn't, they were lying as the medical profession hadn't acknowledged it. Some scientists STILL refute it.
They know your body better than you did. We're all clones of one another obviously.
It's okay now - they've acknowledged it does happen. So it's real. It definitely wasn't before |
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There is little known about it because there hasn't really been any serious studies done on it, and until there is it will continue to baffle people.
Until recent time the female orgasm was considered a myth by the medical profession!!!
So any woman that said they enjoyed sex so much that they orgasmed from it - no they didn't, they were lying as the medical profession hadn't acknowledged it. Some scientists STILL refute it.
They know your body better than you did. We're all clones of one another obviously.
It's okay now - they've acknowledged it does happen. So it's real. It definitely wasn't before "
Absolutely spot on my lovely. Us women are a bunch of fakers!! Just because we don't produce a bucket of jizz, then we aren't reaching a climax and when we do produce a bodily fluid which represents our pleasure, we're liars too. Can't win!! But then we are women and our worst critics are other women.... Sad really
But hey ho, I enjoy it and my partners enjoy it, I'm not ashamed so I'm going to carry on regardless of the haters and trolls!!!
Oooo gonna start a thread on "I don't do anal, am I less of a woman"?..... God damn NO. I'm all woman and know what I want and I'll be damned if I'm gonna let a couple of haters put me down  |
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I said from what I've read it's piss. But it baffles me where a bucket load of fluid is stored in a woman's body.
A female orgasum is not a squirt. Neither is getting really wet. There's been a few threads on here discussing this before. It's considered by most that a squirt is when a bucket load of fluid comes squirting out the female spraying out everywhere.
Again where is that stored in the woman's body unless there's another bladder like object located in our body's that only few know about.
I'm not getting bitchy with anyone I've just offered my opinion based on some research I've done and some don't like that. If you want me to belive you can squirt then please answer my question about where all this liquid is stored as it really baffles me.
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Sorry to, er, piss in anyone's bonfire, but there have been clinical studies recently that have proven it's largely urine. Doesn't change the link to sexual pleasure, but biologically and chemically? Definitely piss.
Not sure if I'm allowed to post links, but IFL Science have a number of articles. |
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"I said from what I've read it's piss. But it baffles me where a bucket load of fluid is stored in a woman's body.
A female orgasum is not a squirt. Neither is getting really wet. There's been a few threads on here discussing this before. It's considered by most that a squirt is when a bucket load of fluid comes squirting out the female spraying out everywhere.
Again where is that stored in the woman's body unless there's another bladder like object located in our body's that only few know about.
I'm not getting bitchy with anyone I've just offered my opinion based on some research I've done and some don't like that. If you want me to belive you can squirt then please answer my question about where all this liquid is stored as it really baffles me.
Xxx"
Does your bladder hold a bucket load of urine??
There are plenty of women and men on here that will vouch for the fact that it doesn't come from the urethra but from the vagina. For most of us it doesn't smell or taste of urine.
It may well be that only some women can do this because they're anatomy is slightly different which would make it possible for them to store fluid. And some, like for porn purposes do urinate. There are reports to substantiate both of these theory's. Just some people choose to believe that it's urine in order to make them feel less inadequate.
I know my own body and I definitely know the difference between getting wet and squirting. I can get wet by someone just talking dirty and teasing me and I mean dripping wet but when I squirt there is an egg cup full or so of the same fluid that literally "squirts" out of me. It feels absolutely amazing, it's different to an orgasm and definitely doesn't feel like I'm peeing myself. In fact I can empty my bladder straight after. If I'd emptied it during squirting then I wouldn't be able to do that.
And to be perfectly honest I couldn't give a fuck if you believe me or not. Your opinion has no baring on my life what so ever. Regardless of what anyone says, I'm going to continue to enjoy what I do as I am happy and secure with my sexuality and what my body does and what I enjoy. I know my body and it's capabilities |
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"Sorry to, er, piss in anyone's bonfire, but there have been clinical studies recently that have proven it's largely urine. Doesn't change the link to sexual pleasure, but biologically and chemically? Definitely piss.
Not sure if I'm allowed to post links, but IFL Science have a number of articles."
No you're only allowed to post links to mainstream sites. I don't even care any more anyway, someone could do proper tests using catheters in each hole and collect fluid from them. Someone could exlain the female anatomy better so that we;d know if pee can even travel into the skenes glands or not. Both these things would prove either way. |
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"Don't believe for a moment that all women that squirt see it as a badge of honour. I can't control whether it happens or not. It just does. Sometimes I like it when im super horny and other times its a nuisance. "
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"Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me! "
Fab,sex and even life is not a competition and we should all be happy doing what we're doing and accepting that other people can do things we can't. My OH can squirt and can orgasm from tweaking a nipple while nuzzling her neck but got upset when someone deepthroated me as she can't...Does that make her any less of a woman? Fuck no!!! Do I care that she can't? Fuck no again!!! Lighten up guys and appreciate the differences |
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"Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me!
Fab,sex and even life is not a competition and we should all be happy doing what we're doing and accepting that other people can do things we can't. My OH can squirt and can orgasm from tweaking a nipple while nuzzling her neck but got upset when someone deepthroated me as she can't...Does that make her any less of a woman? Fuck no!!! Do I care that she can't? Fuck no again!!! Lighten up guys and appreciate the differences "
Too damn right we should embrace our differences and abilities.... Variety is the spice of life.
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"I said from what I've read it's piss. But it baffles me where a bucket load of fluid is stored in a woman's body.
A female orgasum is not a squirt. Neither is getting really wet. There's been a few threads on here discussing this before. It's considered by most that a squirt is when a bucket load of fluid comes squirting out the female spraying out everywhere.
Again where is that stored in the woman's body unless there's another bladder like object located in our body's that only few know about.
I'm not getting bitchy with anyone I've just offered my opinion based on some research I've done and some don't like that. If you want me to belive you can squirt then please answer my question about where all this liquid is stored as it really baffles me.
Xxx
Does your bladder hold a bucket load of urine??
There are plenty of women and men on here that will vouch for the fact that it doesn't come from the urethra but from the vagina. For most of us it doesn't smell or taste of urine.
It may well be that only some women can do this because they're anatomy is slightly different which would make it possible for them to store fluid. And some, like for porn purposes do urinate. There are reports to substantiate both of these theory's. Just some people choose to believe that it's urine in order to make them feel less inadequate.
I know my own body and I definitely know the difference between getting wet and squirting. I can get wet by someone just talking dirty and teasing me and I mean dripping wet but when I squirt there is an egg cup full or so of the same fluid that literally "squirts" out of me. It feels absolutely amazing, it's different to an orgasm and definitely doesn't feel like I'm peeing myself. In fact I can empty my bladder straight after. If I'd emptied it during squirting then I wouldn't be able to do that.
And to be perfectly honest I couldn't give a fuck if you believe me or not. Your opinion has no baring on my life what so ever. Regardless of what anyone says, I'm going to continue to enjoy what I do as I am happy and secure with my sexuality and what my body does and what I enjoy. I know my body and it's capabilities "
I can also confirm it doesn't come from my bladder |
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"Why is it that threads about squirting/gushing always attract nasty comments like a couple at the top??
If you can't/don't want to/can but don't like it, then so be it.
Why do the "I can't so therefor it must be piss" brigade feel the need to be nasty about it?
There is loads of stuff on here that turns my stomach. I read the threads with interest, then either leave without comment or just say "not my thing but good for those who enjoy it".
Don't really get the need to make derogatory remarks, it says a lot about you as a person!!!
I can't cum from a guy playing with my nipples (I know some women can) but I'm not going to accuse her of faking just because it doesn't happen for me!
Fab,sex and even life is not a competition and we should all be happy doing what we're doing and accepting that other people can do things we can't. My OH can squirt and can orgasm from tweaking a nipple while nuzzling her neck but got upset when someone deepthroated me as she can't...Does that make her any less of a woman? Fuck no!!! Do I care that she can't? Fuck no again!!! Lighten up guys and appreciate the differences
Too damn right we should embrace our differences and abilities.... Variety is the spice of life.
Some people can't get over they're own insecurities tho "
Exactly; neither is a positive nor a negative; it just is
Just because I cannot take a c**k the size of a Buick in me does not [anymore] make me feel inadequate. And those who can, are neither super-women nor less of a woman
We all are the way we are and I can live with my 'inadequacies' just as I can if I had anything I could be 'proud' of |
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"I said from what I've read it's piss. But it baffles me where a bucket load of fluid is stored in a woman's body.
A female orgasum is not a squirt. Neither is getting really wet. There's been a few threads on here discussing this before. It's considered by most that a squirt is when a bucket load of fluid comes squirting out the female spraying out everywhere.
Again where is that stored in the woman's body unless there's another bladder like object located in our body's that only few know about.
I'm not getting bitchy with anyone I've just offered my opinion based on some research I've done and some don't like that. If you want me to belive you can squirt then please answer my question about where all this liquid is stored as it really baffles me.
Xxx
Does your bladder hold a bucket load of urine??
There are plenty of women and men on here that will vouch for the fact that it doesn't come from the urethra but from the vagina. For most of us it doesn't smell or taste of urine.
It may well be that only some women can do this because they're anatomy is slightly different which would make it possible for them to store fluid. And some, like for porn purposes do urinate. There are reports to substantiate both of these theory's. Just some people choose to believe that it's urine in order to make them feel less inadequate.
I know my own body and I definitely know the difference between getting wet and squirting. I can get wet by someone just talking dirty and teasing me and I mean dripping wet but when I squirt there is an egg cup full or so of the same fluid that literally "squirts" out of me. It feels absolutely amazing, it's different to an orgasm and definitely doesn't feel like I'm peeing myself. In fact I can empty my bladder straight after. If I'd emptied it during squirting then I wouldn't be able to do that.
And to be perfectly honest I couldn't give a fuck if you believe me or not. Your opinion has no baring on my life what so ever. Regardless of what anyone says, I'm going to continue to enjoy what I do as I am happy and secure with my sexuality and what my body does and what I enjoy. I know my body and it's capabilities "
If it's a egg cup full where Deffo talking about diffrent things then. After discussions a few weeks back on here many women would consider that a gush. When getting played hard with a toy I can do that but wouldn't call it a squirt.
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"So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40"
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I love women who squirt, but equally love women who don't. It's certainly not a mandatory ritual, although if the women is clearly into squirting, then its a bit of a bonus, thats all.
As for whether it's urine. I can vouch for it not being pure urine - it certainly doesn't taste or smell like piss, although given the area it arises from I wouldn't be surprised if theres a bit in there somewhere.
It's no good looking up studies, as most are either inconclusive, or based on internet surveys. I guess in the list of conditions scientists need to focus on, vaginal orgasmic squirting is far from the top of it
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"So many times all you hear is "she sauirts, she gushes" like its an olympic medal...
What about me & all the other women who dont squirt & to be honest really dont care if i never do ( i know how to get my bed sticky without gushing). Sometimes a woman will ask if i squirt & when i say no proceed to tell me how her bloke will make me do it, like i feel inadequate & must squirt to be a real woman
Well i dont. If i want to feel like a real woman i can find a man with a soft mouth & a hard cock who k ows how to make me orgasm till i get brain freeze..
Rant over, have a good day fab bonkers
Mrs _d40"
Don't give up hope.. im 32 and for the 1st time ever I got myself gushing 2 weeks ago. Not once but twice in one day haha.. new toys and new experiments. That's all it took. Wish i would've known though coz my bed was soaked for over a day..  didn't make me feel more of a woman. But i did feel totally cleansed out lol |
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"From what I've read about squirting (I had never heard of it before coming on here) it's actualy when you lose control of your bladder when having a orgasm.
Also in porn they fill the girl up with water before takes. Also a guy on here asked advise on getting rid of the piss smell from his mattress after having a squirter over one night. He just bought a new one.
Do yes your a real woman. Don't belive what people see in porn and assume is normal for sex. Just enjoy what makes it special for you xxx
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No it isn't losing control of ones bladder, if that was the case, I wouldn't do it as I am not into pissing over anyone. The liquid when I squirt/gush comes from within the vagina and is sometimes cloudy from cum juices |
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"I said from what I've read it's piss. But it baffles me where a bucket load of fluid is stored in a woman's body.
A female orgasum is not a squirt. Neither is getting really wet. There's been a few threads on here discussing this before. It's considered by most that a squirt is when a bucket load of fluid comes squirting out the female spraying out everywhere.
Again where is that stored in the woman's body unless there's another bladder like object located in our body's that only few know about.
I'm not getting bitchy with anyone I've just offered my opinion based on some research I've done and some don't like that. If you want me to belive you can squirt then please answer my question about where all this liquid is stored as it really baffles me.
Xxx
Does your bladder hold a bucket load of urine??
There are plenty of women and men on here that will vouch for the fact that it doesn't come from the urethra but from the vagina. For most of us it doesn't smell or taste of urine.
It may well be that only some women can do this because they're anatomy is slightly different which would make it possible for them to store fluid. And some, like for porn purposes do urinate. There are reports to substantiate both of these theory's. Just some people choose to believe that it's urine in order to make them feel less inadequate.
I know my own body and I definitely know the difference between getting wet and squirting. I can get wet by someone just talking dirty and teasing me and I mean dripping wet but when I squirt there is an egg cup full or so of the same fluid that literally "squirts" out of me. It feels absolutely amazing, it's different to an orgasm and definitely doesn't feel like I'm peeing myself. In fact I can empty my bladder straight after. If I'd emptied it during squirting then I wouldn't be able to do that.
And to be perfectly honest I couldn't give a fuck if you believe me or not. Your opinion has no baring on my life what so ever. Regardless of what anyone says, I'm going to continue to enjoy what I do as I am happy and secure with my sexuality and what my body does and what I enjoy. I know my body and it's capabilities
If it's a egg cup full where Deffo talking about diffrent things then. After discussions a few weeks back on here many women would consider that a gush. When getting played hard with a toy I can do that but wouldn't call it a squirt.
Xx"
So as you say "that's your opinion". If it's a bucket full = pissing yourself, smaller amount = gushing??
In real life if you had a water leak and it was "gushing" out one would assume there was loads and your house was gonna probably be flooded in no time, if it was just "squirting" out, it would be less of an emergency.
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