I have noticed an interesting trend lately. On couples profiles it says no single men, or proof needed if single. However I have had experience in the last couple of days that married women seem to use the cover of legitimacy to have their own little liaisons. Not that I am complaining, but it is interesting that men have to prove somehow they are not attached but single women and married women can have carte blanche? |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
That's just the way it is 
Lots of couples and single ladies are put off by the fact I'm not single, and that's before they've seen my ugly mug lol.
I don't understand it but they are free to meet whomever they wish and turn down those they don't for any reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd also add that the reasons i don't want to meet married/attached guys is because i just don't like cheating and liars in general, plus i fuck a lot of guys and if i catch something i'd feel bad about passing that onto someone who didn't even fuck me and had no knowledge their other half was fucking around.
Met too many shady guys in my life and that has also affected what i want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd also add that the reasons i don't want to meet married/attached guys is because i just don't like cheating and liars in general, plus i fuck a lot of guys and if i catch something i'd feel bad about passing that onto someone who didn't even fuck me and had no knowledge their other half was fucking around.
Met too many shady guys in my life and that has also affected what i want. "
 yes but do you not think the OP had a point here to ie; the amount of married women playing as singles seem to accepted ? |
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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago
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Women have the power on here because there are so many eager men.... There are loads of married women on here doing the same as married men, but they don't whine as much as us married men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
yep, women rule  "
they only rule the men who are desperate for sex. If you are not then you are both equal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
yep, women rule they only rule the men who are desperate for sex. If you are not then you are both equal "
I disagree men are better at being men than women
And women are better at being women than men |
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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
yep, women rule they only rule the men who are desperate for sex. If you are not then you are both equal "
bingo and well said |
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By *vie RuthWoman
over a year ago
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It depends if the guy is honest Speaking as a single profile married woman I am always honest and tell people im married We all have reasons for being on here Everyone has their own prefrences but they should never judge till they know why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd also add that the reasons i don't want to meet married/attached guys is because i just don't like cheating and liars in general, plus i fuck a lot of guys and if i catch something i'd feel bad about passing that onto someone who didn't even fuck me and had no knowledge their other half was fucking around.
Met too many shady guys in my life and that has also affected what i want.
yes but do you not think the OP had a point here to ie; the amount of married women playing as singles seem to accepted ? "
Possibly. I'm guessing men don't care about being lied to for some reason? |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"It depends if the guy is honest Speaking as a single profile married woman I am always honest and tell people im married We all have reasons for being on here Everyone has their own prefrences but they should never judge till they know why"
I partially agree - marital status should only apply if the other half of the swinger knows & does not object to their other halfs swinging. Its different when deceit comes into the equation. Nobody likes a liar whether male or female
Mrs _d40 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am single and only meet single guys. I don't meet guys who are attached or even who don't accom just in case....reason being I don't want to add to a woman's misery, but I'd like to add I also think it's wrong that women cheat....its just as bad IMO. If you're partner doesn't know it's because it would upset them...I wouldn't want to meet anyone who treats their partner like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever."
Yeah married guys are a bit offputting for us but weirdly married women don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
Yeah married guys are a bit offputting for us but weirdly married women don't"
Coz of my life and the people in it, i trust women to be more honest than men. I know this probably isn't reality but is just how i feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
Yeah married guys are a bit offputting for us but weirdly married women don't
Coz of my life and the people in it, i trust women to be more honest than men. I know this probably isn't reality but is just how i feel."
I generally trust my cat not to steal doner kebab meat from my plate whilst I go out the room more than I trust people initially on here
Call me mistrusting If you like . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have noticed an interesting trend lately. On couples profiles it says no single men, or proof needed if single. However I have had experience in the last couple of days that married women seem to use the cover of legitimacy to have their own little liaisons. Not that I am complaining, but it is interesting that men have to prove somehow they are not attached but single women and married women can have carte blanche?"
I don't just trust women either, I always ask them questions about their living situation to try and ensure that they're not lying to me.
I don't want to sleep with anyone who is lying to other people about their monogamy. They're can do what they want, as long as it doesn't involve me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once you get talking to people you may be suprised by the number of married single ladies.
And verifications show that public forum statements about not meeting married singles isn't always true.
There's always exceptions, and there's some utterly lovely 'genuine' singles on here. However, despite what's said on a profile you can often spot the married people on here because they are often the calm, well-rounded ones who aren't needy or judgemental.
From previous threads, this seems to be because the married singles are literally only here for sex. |
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"I'd also add that the reasons i don't want to meet married/attached guys is because i just don't like cheating and liars in general, plus i fuck a lot of guys and if i catch something i'd feel bad about passing that onto someone who didn't even fuck me and had no knowledge their other half was fucking around.
Met too many shady guys in my life and that has also affected what i want. "
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Once you get talking to people you may be suprised by the number of married single ladies.
And verifications show that public forum statements about not meeting married singles isn't always true.
There's always exceptions, and there's some utterly lovely 'genuine' singles on here. However, despite what's said on a profile you can often spot the married people on here because they are often the calm, well-rounded ones who aren't needy or judgemental.
From previous threads, this seems to be because the married singles are literally only here for sex. "
I'm neither needy nor judgemental and I like to think of myself as being calm and well-rounded. I'm also genuinely single. On reading my profile would you have suspected that I was married/attached? |
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By *huramMan
over a year ago
London |
"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
Yeah married guys are a bit offputting for us but weirdly married women don't
Coz of my life and the people in it, i trust women to be more honest than men. I know this probably isn't reality but is just how i feel."
It absolutely isn't reality. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Here is a generic set of rules
1. All married men cheat, it's the new norm in 2015. I'm not bothered if a bloke I sleep with is married or not. Unless his wifey decides to hunt me down which has never happened !
2. Many married women cheat. Not all, but many do. I have several married female friends and they ALL have extramarital sex. Two even use my place for day time liasons ! That is also a new norm in 2015.
So marital status is only relevant for me if I am interested in the potential for a LTR (zero with a married fella, under 10% if single)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
Yeah married guys are a bit offputting for us but weirdly married women don't
Coz of my life and the people in it, i trust women to be more honest than men. I know this probably isn't reality but is just how i feel.
It absolutely isn't reality. "
Yeah i kind of get that but it's not my reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you get talking to people you may be suprised by the number of married single ladies.
And verifications show that public forum statements about not meeting married singles isn't always true.
There's always exceptions, and there's some utterly lovely 'genuine' singles on here. However, despite what's said on a profile you can often spot the married people on here because they are often the calm, well-rounded ones who aren't needy or judgemental.
From previous threads, this seems to be because the married singles are literally only here for sex.
I'm neither needy nor judgemental and I like to think of myself as being calm and well-rounded. I'm also genuinely single. On reading my profile would you have suspected that I was married/attached?"
On reading your profile, no. There's too much of you there. On looking at just your forum posts and pictures: you never criticise, denounce, complain, flip out, cry... You're looking like the most well-rounded and sane of all of us! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Women can pretty much be what they want and demand what they want on here. They'll get what they want whatever.
yep, women rule they only rule the men who are desperate for sex. If you are not then you are both equal "
Every day, a 3rd grade boy walks home from school past a 4th grade girl's house. One day he stops to taunt the little girl. He holds up the football and says, "See this football? Football is a boy's game and girls can't have one!"
The little girl runs in the house crying and tells her mother about the encounter. She runs out and buys the girl a football
The next day the boy is riding home on his bike, and the girl shows him the football, yelling "Nah na nah na nah". The little boy gets mad and points to his bike; "See this bike? This is a boy's bike, and girls can't have them!"
Next day, the boy comes by and the little girl is riding a new boy's bike. Now he is really mad. So he drops his pants, points at his private parts, and says "You see THIS? Only BOYS have these and your mother can't go buy you one!"
The next day as he passes the house he asks the little girl "Well, what do you have to say NOW?"
So she pulls up her dress, points to her private parts and says "My mother told me that as long as I have one of these, I can have as many of THOSE as I want!"
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By *urvitlotsMan
over a year ago
Glasgow/Edinburgh |
"I will fuck whoever I want. I'm married and my husband is happy for me to play. I don't get the point of the post to be honest"
I'm a man, I'm married, my wife is happy with it, we have a great time after I have had a meet we all lurvit, lets enjoy it |
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The point of the post actually wa to find out just how many women would admit to the fact that they are no different from men(except that they are on this site as a married couple) only two were honest enough to admit it? Your were one of them, thank you |
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It's ladies' choice on here. And has been on swinging sites for as long as I've been on the scene - which is to say at least 12 years.
I have a "single male" account. I am in an open marriage, and my wife will happily chat to ladies/couples to confirm this (phone or real life). We tend not to play away as a couple so we both have "singles" accounts and don't have a couples account. I know this does put some potential partners off, but so be it.
I certainly won't see someone if there's even a whiff of dishonesty and cheating. |
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