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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Do you remember your first meeting with a person/couple/group?
Was it good/bad and how did the fun start?"
My first fab meet was at a club (I rarely go to clubs these days). It was back in April and started with her saying hi to me at the bar - ended up having a very intense little moment of fun. Fabulous and a fond memory...how long ago it already seems  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Waverly Shopping Centre. April 2005
Wasn't a fab thing. We met on an 02 phone chat site.
Purely social although that soon changed
I'd say it was pretty successful given we still see each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first experience was at a club!
But our first organised meet, we arranged to meet at the hotel. I was so nervous and dressed in a sexy dress and heels. The guy suggested he drives us to a local pub for a drink.....after a drink Clarence popped to the bar and the guy leaned in and asked if I was happy, when I said yes he asked if he could kiss me! That was the start of an amazing night that has just left us wanting more and more  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"On here... yep it was with the female half of a couple, was a social that ended up with extras... It was a very nice welcome to Fab's! "
PB...have you ever done a meet as part of a MM team on a single woman? - we have a mutual friend who is very keen to have the pair of us together... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About four months back, chatting for a while, I picked him up, he came to mine, we spent the day fucking, watching tv, going to the pub, having lunch! It was great! |
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I met a very experienced lady for a social and she then let me know she wanted more.
2 days later she is dressed to kill on my bed and knelt on my bed. She beckoned me over and took me in her mouth.
That was 18 mths ago and was the start of a very rewarding relationship that taught me lots about this crazy world before it ended.
I will always be in her debt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a single guy about a couple of months ago, I was very nervous and a bit clumsy at times, but he was very understanding and made me feel at ease. We still talk with plans to meet again but time doesn't seem to be on our sides xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first meet was at a fabulous club (sadly now defunct) in Lincoln.
Becky, in particular, was very nervous and we had made all kind of arrangements, hand signals etc to get away should we not be comfortable.
Within 10 minutes we had decided stay, and within an hour B was strapped to a pole being played with by myself and two woman (breaking her bi-duck in the process).
We had an incredible night, meeting some wonderful people who we now regard as real friends - and it has opened the doorway to a world unimaginable beforehand  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
My first meet was with someone off a different site at a hotel. It was mind blowing for me.
Although I try not to compare no one has come close but maybe it's to do with the fact that is was my first ever meet?  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Mine was lovely. I was nervous as hell but that was only to be expected. Pint, social, popped to a supermarket for supplies, found a hotel room, had a lovely time. Well I did, I can't speak for the person I was meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a Social at a club as she was meeting someone else, I had Never been to a club so I jumped at the chance to try the club scene out and meet her, After some chatting in the bar and some playing in the hot tub I was invited up to the room for my first threesome
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here... yep it was with the female half of a couple, was a social that ended up with extras... It was a very nice welcome to Fab's!
PB...have you ever done a meet as part of a MM team on a single woman? - we have a mutual friend who is very keen to have the pair of us together..."
Oh I wonder who that could be Mr Fox!! Unfortunately MMF is not something that's on my to do list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a long time ago now. It was a couple I met on a different site. We had a social: lunch at a localish pub and all got on really well. It was a first meet for all of us so we were all in the same boat. When it came to the play meet at their place we were all nervous. After a couple of cups of tea I plucked up the courage to break the sexual ice. They seemed relieved. The lady told me and her hubby to get naked while she got herself ready...she returned just wearing a thong. The rest well let's just say, after that it went swimmingly. |
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Less of a meet and more a hijack! The couples room at xtasia can be a dangerous place for a couple of newbies
Best thing that could have happened to us. We lost our swinging cherry and gained the confidence to go for what we want. |
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Terrifying. Second time, too. Each time there was a couple of hours talk first and I was thinking just do it, just do it.
The fear is part of it, though. Knowing this is insane and getting off on insanity.
Do it again? Um ... |
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I remember it well. I'd not had sex for at least 5 years, despite being in a relationship, and I thought I wouldn't know what to do.
At the time is was amazing. Then I began to realise it hadn't been that great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still see my first. He was about 3 and a half years ago,in my car. My experimental years when I was finding out what I wanted. It was at dusk by a country road,with cars going past every now and then. I couldn't do that now,I've lost my bottle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet from fab was a guy who said he was fifty. Turns uo and i swear he looked nearer to 70... most of his top teeth missing. I drank my tea and politely left. Parting on a handshake. Got home and he had messaged me sayimg shd we have sex then!!!! |
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I will go on my first meet from here, we actually had to pospone twice before it took place, we went on to see each other every Monday for a few years until sadly his work took him to live the other side of the country but we are still in touch now.
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"Do you remember your first meeting with a person/couple/group?
Was it good/bad and how did the fun start?
From here?
LOLOLOLOLOLOL
God, that was nearly a train-wreak!"
Yeah, I got off lightly in retrospect |
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By *aylis69Couple
over a year ago
Ashford |
Ours was a lovely couple several years back - they were experienced swingers - just what we needed - taught us a lot - gave some great advice that we still use today. We are very good friends with them now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a social meet and it freaked me out a little, tbh. He was quite audibly inappropriate in a public place on a Saturday afternoon. Haven't seen him again. :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"first meet in pub and was fk her arrs in the first 15 min so it was a good one for me"
Was that the woman from your meet on 22 October 2010 who said you were polite? |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"Do you remember your first meeting with a person/couple/group?
Was it good/bad and how did the fun start?"
Yup, tremendous cpl. In touch & mets with them for a few years. Until the became grandparents,life focus/time changed and they backed off the scene.
A top couple indeed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember my first meet off here - Id just joined up and he contacted me. we messaged on the Saturday night and he picked me up on Sunday morning! Was still married at time so snook out which made it more exciting!!
It was amazing - still remember every detail after nearly a year. Have seen him again at times - defo one I know I will always go back to ; ) plus we had some background connections ... But we've managed to keep it quiet!!!!
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Our first was with a single guy from this site. We met in the bar of the hotel he was staying at and had a drink before heading to his room. We didn't meet again as he wasn't local but it was a great introduction and we all had great fun. |
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By *murphMan
over a year ago
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My first meet was awesome I went to a club in Manchester to see what lifestyle was about you had to undress and wear a towel in public area I was at the bar and being a single guy feeling selfconcious when this lady came over and asked I I would like to join her and her hubby for a drink that broke the ice when she said don't worry about your hard on lol the rest was fun in a room with a glass wall it was fun not knowing who was watching us |
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My first meet as Abi was before I was on fab. Got all dressed up and met a guy in his van and we went to a quiet spot where I stripped down to my lingerie and heels and gave him head. He did cum but I was probably terrible as my mouth was so dry due to my nerves lol. Thankfully I got better |
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First meet was in La Chambre, second visit, where we had a lovely soft-swing session with another couple; we fucked our own partners to finish. It was in the room with the stars and skyscrapers and was a very erotic experience. Never got their names or saw them again. Made us both realize how liberating, natural and wonderful sex with another couple could be. Our first full swap was a couple of months later, when Rose was ready to swap and fuck. That was amazing too. It was 12 years ago and we've been swinging regularly ever since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a merely strippling of 21 ... In those days we had to use contact magazines. After a few phone calls, all was arranged.
I admit to being terrified, excited and feeling some guilt, not because I was in a relationship (I wasn't) but this wasn't what "normal" people did.....
I approached the door with trepidation and beyond that portal, beyond that step, well lets just say life changed a little, a grain of sand fell in a different direction. They were a normal couple, and although I confess I do not remember the night, when I walked back out of that house in the morning, with a smile and dare I say a jaunty step, I knew that normal is subjective.
Since then, well periods of swinging interspersed with relationships.
I still get the fear, the excitement, the thrill but the guilt has gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first fab meet was awful! Arranged to meet this guy id been chatting to on a hotel carpark. He spent 15 minutes trying to convince me to do it in the car and then when we went into the hotel he tried giving them a fake name and address, the sheer cringe factor. It didnt get any better either... Am amazed i met anyone again lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember mine, I also remember how nervous I was and was so close to having some excuse ready just in case I couldn't go through with it but she was the most calming, sensual person who put me at ease very quickly, we had a lovely evening and we still see each other regularly at least once a week
Interestingly enough she is the only lady who has messaged me first and started the flirting glad she did! |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
My first meet from here. Well I haven't gone back for a repeat performance
My first ever meet. Was a guy a good bit older than I was at the time. I was there for a social meet. He wasn't. Turned into a phone pest then for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet was a social, lovely naughty chat and the lady went to the bathroom and came back minus bra and panties..sat next to her with my hand up her skirt and stroking her smooth pussy...arranged another meet and had a great threesome.. |
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I definitely remember, because it was only 4 weeks ago. :D
He was absolutely gorgeous and I felt he really took care of little nervous me. Lol.
At the time I remember thinking what a great meet it was, but felt perhaps I had some first-cock-in-a-year shaped rose tinted glasses?
But now I've had a few more meets, I definitely fully appreciate what a great guy he actually was! A real asset to fab! A most excellent intro to swinging! :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely remember, because it was only 4 weeks ago. :D
He was absolutely gorgeous and I felt he really took care of little nervous me. Lol.
At the time I remember thinking what a great meet it was, but felt perhaps I had some first-cock-in-a-year shaped rose tinted glasses?
But now I've had a few more meets, I definitely fully appreciate what a great guy he actually was! A real asset to fab! A most excellent intro to swinging! :D"
What a lovely post |
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"I definitely remember, because it was only 4 weeks ago. :D
He was absolutely gorgeous and I felt he really took care of little nervous me. Lol.
At the time I remember thinking what a great meet it was, but felt perhaps I had some first-cock-in-a-year shaped rose tinted glasses?
But now I've had a few more meets, I definitely fully appreciate what a great guy he actually was! A real asset to fab! A most excellent intro to swinging! :D
What a lovely post "
Aw, thanks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was brilliant. This 6 foot something hunk sucked me right out of my car seat (kissing, I mean  ). And it got even better when we got home. Sweet memories.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet I got picked up by a couple and we went for a drive to get properly introduced. We all got on well at first but then when the woman and I started joking and chatting the man got very jealous very quick and he kicked me out of the car. I would of been angry but it wasn't anything I could of prevented unless I ignored her and only spoke to him. |
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I was terrified but she really helped put my mind at ease.
As it was a mff she took total control. My bf said she really got the male to female attention rstio correct but in all honestly I just lay there letting her decide or say what was going to happen.
I'm still a little shy but so glad she was my first as she made it a amazing experience and Deffo made me want more
Xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First ever was with an ex girlfriend... We met a older couple from this site! They were experienced and we all agreed to soft swap, with certain rules then the asshole bloke came in my girlfriends mouth after about a minute after we all agreed we wouldn't do such a thing!
Complete wanker!! |
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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
well our first experience was 50/50. The other half of the couple was interested not in playing but only fucking.Anyway we did not meet them anymore and we went on with other.
Let's say that just few couples know the right way to play. The perfect couples to play with is the one who aims is not only to have sex, but also to play and make everyone happy.sex is part of the play not the only one. |
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"Out of interest, do many women have meets with couples? I can see men do. Both my meets were with single guys. Never met with a couple, would be interested to hear the single woman take. "
I don't meet couples, other than socially. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can now add my own first experience. Met a lovely couple whilst they were in Tenerife on holiday.
We met in the afternoon for a drink, chatted for ages, they both made me feel like we had known each other for years and were good friends.
I do not think I could have had a more relaxed or better introduction for my first time meeting.
This couple are awesome in so many ways and I want to thank them for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was good! Was an Mmf meet that the bloke set up, she was sucking whilst he was licking her! Whilst my head was back! Eyes closed enjoying a great bj, he then started sucking me!
What a shock |
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First meet was with an older couple, a present for her for her 4th bday. I remember her laying on the bed naked, suckling me as he played with her, she came and squirter all over the shop, first time I'd ever seen it so obviously, came instantly myself.nearly choked the poor woman. Had a great night and several after that too then they moved out of the area, never to be heard of since....nice introducto in to the scene and probably half the reason I'm still hanging on in there now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first non club meet was fantastic....! I met hubby for a drink then met him and his wife at a golf club hotel a week later. Had a flirt at the bar, then she went to the bathroom and gave me her knickers with her room number written on it and asked me if I wanted to join them in 15 mins. Went up, was let in and found her lying semi naked on the bed...the next few hours were awesome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First one from here was a purely social meet and I made my excuses and left after 20 minutes. Second one from here I turned up at a hotel room door with lingerie under my coat, so getting the fun started didn't really take long. |
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"I can now add my own first experience. Met a lovely couple whilst they were in Tenerife on holiday.
I do not think I could have had a more relaxed or better introduction for my first time meeting."
relaxed! HAHAHAHAHA that's a new one. Hell I would not want a relaxed first meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first (and only) meet was awful. We met for a coffee and I didn't fancy him at all. I sent him a polite message afterwards saying I wasn't interested in seeing him again and he did not take it well and pretty much begged me to sleep with him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first from here was with a couple also my first threesome experience and I was shiting myself but left with a big smile and had it for days. I've been back a few times since |
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"Do you remember your first meeting with a person/couple/group?
Was it good/bad and how did the fun start?"
We met at a pub and came back to mine and played card games with rude consequences and it was thrilling and naughty and new. |
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"I can now add my own first experience. Met a lovely couple whilst they were in Tenerife on holiday.
We met in the afternoon for a drink, chatted for ages, they both made me feel like we had known each other for years and were good friends.
I do not think I could have had a more relaxed or better introduction for my first time meeting.
This couple are awesome in so many ways and I want to thank them for that."
Now THAT's a testimonial. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first meet was at jaydees , we were both nervous as hell and didnt really know what to do or expect , so we thought we'd watch and fool around ourseleves , then a hot couple who were near us made it obvious they were interested by the girl saying that she would love to suck R's tits so she let hr and it went on to b a really steamy session , it was so hot and erotic that we couldnt wait to go again and have been going ever since |
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