This is aimed primarily at singles (and married-and-playing folks):
Have you ever lowered your standards, in terms of facial looks and/or size & weight, for a swinging meet, compared with your standards for dating someone?
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I look for completely different things from a meet on here to a date, so it's hard to discuss my standards.
I don't believe that I can lower my standards about anything because that's how I feel so Im not capable of feeling any different about what appeals to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have a relationship with anyone at the moment so I have no standard for comparison. I doubt I would date any of the men I meet for sex,they are usually a lot younger than me. Visually/physically I'd date and fuck a range of looks. I wouldn't fuck or date anyone who resembled Catweazle or Jabba the Hutt. I do have some standards. |
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There has to be a physical and intellectual attraction for me ... or else I wont engage in any type of sexual play ...
I have to enjoy what im doing ... not thinking omg when can I get away ....
I like to social meet first ... if theres no attraction ....I will be honest and say ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell yeah 
But more often than not I think we play with people way above our league , but we stopped worrying about all that nonsense a long time ago .
If it looks like a fun meet we will go for it and 99% of the time it is
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There's been a few people we've met that are lovely people and we enjoy meets with, but I wouldn't date them.
Never say never though. I did go on a date with a guy we met at the club in Aberdeen once, so who knows? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had relationships with both attractive guys and not as attractive guys.
Looks don't come into it for a relationship to me, i didn't even fancy my last boyfriend when i met him but eventually he became the best looking guy in the world. Since we split he is fugly again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For looks, no. I have to be attracted to someone.
For personality/mind, yes. The type of person I have dated and indeed married in the past is not what I look for on a meet. Most of the qualities I find important in a partner are not important for someone I just enjoy having sex with.
Don't get me wrong, personality is still important, just in a different way.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i click with someone on here i will not consider looks as much. Guess i would 'drop my standards'.
Eg. some guys i haven't found attractive when they first messaged me, or the occasional times after that, but i got to know them in cam chat or something else and i liked them then and found them sexy coz of what we talked about. Then when they get really filthy... |
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