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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect....."

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."

Hello and welcome to the forum

What intrigues you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney"

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney"

with Courtney on this one..... random xxx

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

Knitter ...... I wasn't being out of order...... Sorry it came across that way.

Post what you want and enjoy it all..... That's what fans for

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain...."

Ah go on! We promise we won't tell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain...."

Well, if you had done a forum search on this you would have known the responses wouldn't have been friendly. To be honest, I don't think anything that bad has been said. Look at similar posts by single guys and see how you feel then.

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

Come on ..... Tell us Knitter ...... I wanna know now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

Thanks but maybe I'll just continue to observe from afar lol you're sweet thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

From how you are coming across I'm guessing you've not got to the meeting stage yet, you're just browsing and the temptation to meet may or may not get the better of you.

If that is or isn't the case, be willing to accept all the consequences of your actions for good and bad.

I say this as one of the negative consequences is you will be judged by some people for what you're doing without your partners knowledge, irregardless of your personal circumstances, its inevitable and so far you've not handled that particular well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

Double standards work both ways but I have read threads that slag both for cheating, but nobody says anything about profiles that look for married guys/girls etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. "

Everyone is welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

Lol very true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

meanwhile in never never land poor old Mxy is trying to figure out what he just read

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From how you are coming across I'm guessing you've not got to the meeting stage yet, you're just browsing and the temptation to meet may or may not get the better of you.

If that is or isn't the case, be willing to accept all the consequences of your actions for good and bad.

I'm sure that you're right my apologies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps."

You're welcome. Take your time, have a look around. We're all nice in our own special ways.

Like I said before, feel free to mail me for a chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney"

New to the forum didn't know what to expect. Lesson learned

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

You think this is harsh treatment????

Really??

I'll say what I'd say if you were a man, share it with that person you love the most.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps.

You're welcome. Take your time, have a look around. We're all nice in our own special ways.

Like I said before, feel free to mail me for a chat.

Or special in our own nice way

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By *ratty_DamselWoman over a year ago

Greater London

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney"

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps.

You're welcome. Take your time, have a look around. We're all nice in our own special ways.

Like I said before, feel free to mail me for a chat.

Or special in our own nice way

Hahaha, you might be right!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

People have low opinions on cheaters. Pretty simple. On top of that you have a closed profile so the odds of you being a woman are pretty slim. So given that you are probably a fantisist called Kevin who dreams his wife will cuckold him I find this a tad dull.

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps.

You're welcome. Take your time, have a look around. We're all nice in our own special ways.

Like I said before, feel free to mail me for a chat.

Thank you but perhaps for now I will just continue to observe .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

Do you need a hand giving it a rub?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps.

You're welcome. Take your time, have a look around. We're all nice in our own special ways.

Like I said before, feel free to mail me for a chat.

Thank you but perhaps for now I will just continue to observe ."

What would you like to observe

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

Sorry guys maybe I am getting tired, but I have no idea what is going on with this thread.... confused.com xxx..hope that crystal ball clears soon xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You think this is harsh treatment????

Really??

I'll say what I'd say if you were a man, share it with that person you love the most.

Point duely noted not welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People have low opinions on cheaters. Pretty simple. On top of that you have a closed profile so the odds of you being a woman are pretty slim. So given that you are probably a fantisist called Kevin who dreams his wife will cuckold him I find this a tad dull.

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users. "

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. "
Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

I have been viewing the forums for a little while and wanted to engage but be honest at the same time I guess it's not the right way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you looking for tips on how to get him involved?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X"

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have come to the right place op, many are married here and you will find lots of sex fun x.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

I have been viewing the forums for a little while and wanted to engage but be honest at the same time I guess it's not the right way."

Knitter feel free to write whatever you feel for surely if shakespeare wordsworth or keats wrote in here they would have some peeps pulling their leg

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Yes or not judge at all?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

If this was a man then he would have been torn to shreds here by the 8th comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right "

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Yes or not judge at all?

Correct, bad choice of words on my part.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

If this was a man then he would have been torn to shreds here by the 8th comment"

Truer words were never spoken. Not sure you'd have to wait til the 8th comment.

-Courtney

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right

Thanks xx

you need to go back up and fall west of Ireland haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

If this was a man then he would have been torn to shreds here by the 8th comment"

I would have thought by the 3rd judging by other posts

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

Everyone judges.

It's a necessary part of life, no one walks around blindly making decisions with no possible pre-conceptions.

It's a fantasy world to say don't judge people.

Try posting something about bareback if you want to see people turn nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"C'mon now people, regardless of whether we think its right or wrong for her to be on here without her husband knowing, she's here & by the looks of things, wants to talk.

Allow her the chance to do this?

My inbox is open knitter.

Thank you perhaps I took to many giant steps.

You're welcome. Take your time, have a look around. We're all nice in our own special ways.

Like I said before, feel free to mail me for a chat.

Thank you but perhaps for now I will just continue to observe .

What would you like to observe

I'm not sure Fallen Angel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right

Thanks xx

you need to go back up and fall west of Ireland haha "

West of Ireland is just a big ocean

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Everyone judges.

It's a necessary part of life, no one walks around blindly making decisions with no possible pre-conceptions.

It's a fantasy world to say don't judge people.

Try posting something about bareback if you want to see people turn nasty."

The problem though is usually the MOST judgemental are the ones in need of judging.

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Yes or not judge at all?

Correct, bad choice of words on my part.

Sorry mate not meant as a criticism of you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway, back to OP, what brings you here?

Rest assured, whatever the reason, you won't be the only one. Nothing shocks on here!

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right

Thanks xx

you need to go back up and fall west of Ireland haha

West of Ireland is just a big ocean"

I'll jump in and rescue you then you gotta be nice to me so I win woohoo hummina hummina

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

I guess it's fair enough it's how people feel. I think it was my misjudgement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait a second...

So you have just had a little look around and maybe exchanged a few messages etc not exactly a cheat per se but you make it quite obvious your married & he doesn't know YET you expect not to be judged.

Really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Yes or not judge at all?

Correct, bad choice of words on my part.

Sorry mate not meant as a criticism of you. "

Not at all, no offence taken. It was a bad choice of words. I just feel the OP wasnt given a fair crack of the whip so had to say something.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

I guess it's fair enough it's how people feel. I think it was my misjudgement. "

Don't sweat it

I had a thread where some peeps were trying to get at me over my comments but I just used my shield of notgiveafuckility and that was that

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Wait a second...

Really?"

I'm judging you by wondering if you really do have a slow hand or is that a ploy to get women thinking?? hmmmmm??

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Wait a second...

Really?"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have come to the right place op, many are married here and you will find lots of sex fun x."

Lol really maybe not for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women "

Thats one way to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

I'm judging you by wondering if you really do have a slow hand or is that a ploy to get women thinking?? hmmmmm??"

Just genuinely lazy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not? "

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women "

Wow! Who made you judge.

Nice hidden profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women

Thats one way to get a meet.

don't need to get 1 of here u little blurt only here to terror you little muppets"

Hahahaha! Aren't you up late?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

I have been viewing the forums for a little while and wanted to engage but be honest at the same time I guess it's not the right way.

Knitter feel free to write whatever you feel for surely if shakespeare wordsworth or keats wrote in here they would have some peeps pulling their leg

I'm confident I'm not worthy of any of the writers you mentioned thank God we all use pen names I'm not sure I could have carried the shame. Thank you btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney"

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women

Thats one way to get a meet.

don't need to get 1 of here u little blurt only here to terror you little muppets

Hahahaha! Aren't you up late? "
not rele just finished fucking your mum

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Wait a second...

Really?

I'm judging you by wondering if you really do have a slow hand or is that a ploy to get women thinking?? hmmmmm??

Just genuinely lazy

I feel your pain dude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?"

It would seem so , and anyone daring to have an opinion is jumped on .... I wonder why ?

Absolutely typical - hypocrisy rules on the forums .

As so many have said , a guy would be slated for the very same thing .

To the op - if you post on here and merely tell us you are here without your husband knowing , with no other comment - what exactly were you hoping for ?

We have played with plenty of married men and women who are ' cheating ' and are the last to judge .

Why not post a question or a statement worthy of a discussion ? You will soon feel welcome , and welcome to the fab forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women

Thats one way to get a meet.

don't need to get 1 of here u little blurt only here to terror you little muppets

Hahahaha! Aren't you up late? not rele just finished fucking your mum"

Good lad! Its about time she had something to laugh about.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman over a year ago

Greater London

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

Do you need a hand giving it a rub?

Needs more than a damn rub...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

If this was a man then he would have been torn to shreds here by the 8th comment

I would have thought by the 3rd judging by other posts "

I haven't seen any previous quotes but I'm feeling pretty much put acknowledge into my box. My apologies all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women

Thats one way to get a meet.

don't need to get 1 of here u little blurt only here to terror you little muppets

Hahahaha! Aren't you up late? not rele just finished fucking your mum

Good lad! Its about time she had something to laugh about.

Aaaahahagahahaga

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney"

Yes, agree with you. Whether it is right or wrong is something only that person can know for certain. There could be circumstances where the 'cheating' might be the better of two evils

But not many here give that benefit of doubt to a man

Sad, at best, hypocritical at worst

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women

Thats one way to get a meet.

don't need to get 1 of here u little blurt only here to terror you little muppets

Hahahaha! Aren't you up late? not rele just finished fucking your mum

Good lad! Its about time she had something to laugh about.

Aaaahahagahahaga

Without meaning to be rude I hope she's deaf that frickin scouse accent is torture

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive. "

But I honestly don't see what that has to do with it. I haven't judged the OP here. But at the same time I don't see why you would assume anything would happen here differently to how it does in person. What response would people usually get if they said this in person?

If anything the internet is a meaner place. And if you don't know that, you find out quickly.

As I initially aid, she didn't even ask for advice. She just made a statement. I guess I still don't understand the expected reaction.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this. well arnt u a little slag then. If u wana cheat then get a fucking divorce will u. Horrible little creatures you women

Thats one way to get a meet.

don't need to get 1 of here u little blurt only here to terror you little muppets

Hahahaha! Aren't you up late? not rele just finished fucking your mum

Good lad! Its about time she had something to laugh about.

Aaaahahagahahaga

Without meaning to be rude I hope she's deaf that frickin scouse accent is torture "

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive.

If anything the internet is a meaner place. And if you don't know that, you find out quickly.

As I initially aid, she didn't even ask for advice. She just made a statement. I guess I still don't understand the expected reaction.

-Courtney"

Yo M/C

Hubba hubba

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyway, back to OP, what brings you here?

Rest assured, whatever the reason, you won't be the only one. Nothing shocks on here!

Thank you but it feels pretty cold right now. That isn't intended as a criticism simply that I wouldn't be popular on site

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By *layne75Couple over a year ago

New orleans

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain...."

Sweetie, I always find it so ironic when swingers judge. Do what makes you happy, just be honest and careful!

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Anyway, back to OP, what brings you here?

Rest assured, whatever the reason, you won't be the only one. Nothing shocks on here!

Thank you but it feels pretty cold right now. That isn't intended as a criticism simply that I wouldn't be popular on site

you're female you will be idolised and statues will be erected in your name and yes i said STATUES people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, are you carrying out a survey? With hidden profile from a supposed newbie is a bit survey-like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway, back to OP, what brings you here?

Rest assured, whatever the reason, you won't be the only one. Nothing shocks on here!

Thank you but it feels pretty cold right now. That isn't intended as a criticism simply that I wouldn't be popular on site

A site for swingers...the land where couples can't contain how 'strong' their r/ships are?

This is a wind up right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right

Thanks xx

you need to go back up and fall west of Ireland haha

West of Ireland is just a big ocean

I'll jump in and rescue you then you gotta be nice to me so I win woohoo hummina hummina"

I don't know what that is lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway, back to OP, what brings you here?

Rest assured, whatever the reason, you won't be the only one. Nothing shocks on here!

Thank you but it feels pretty cold right now. That isn't intended as a criticism simply that I wouldn't be popular on site

No less popular than me, I appear to have picked up a "fan" in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney"

Attention whoring?

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Yo Fallen I think you fell in the wrong place

I think that you might be right

Thanks xx

you need to go back up and fall west of Ireland haha

West of Ireland is just a big ocean

I'll jump in and rescue you then you gotta be nice to me so I win woohoo hummina hummina

I don't know what that is lol"

Would have to be seen to be believed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wait a second...

As previously stated didn't know what to expect. You're right of course I didn't expect this reaction.

Really?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

Every one is judged by the first thing they say to someone.

If you say you don't do it you're a liar, simple as.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway, back to OP, what brings you here?

Rest assured, whatever the reason, you won't be the only one. Nothing shocks on here!

Thank you but it feels pretty cold right now. That isn't intended as a criticism simply that I wouldn't be popular on site

You aren't expecting to be on Sky news are you? You have a thread which some suggested hasn't got a question to worth discussing and you have garnered these long list of responses. If this isn't being popular in this forum then, maybe we have yo bring in Sky news

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

Every one is judged by the first thing they say to someone.

If you say you don't do it you're a liar, simple as. "

Not everything in life is simple

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

Every one is judged by the first thing they say to someone.

If you say you don't do it you're a liar, simple as.

Not everything in life is simple"

I'm frickin simple haha just point me in the direction wind up my elastic band and off I potter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you wont be to everyones taste regardless of your cheating. You will be judged on looks, personality, figure and your sexual preferences as well. This isnt a place for sensitive souls sometimes. You post at your peril as you have found. Best to carry on observing for now. Good luck whatever you decide.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"OP you wont be to everyones taste regardless of your cheating. You will be judged on looks, personality, figure and your sexual preferences as well. This isnt a place for sensitive souls sometimes. You post at your peril as you have found. Best to carry on observing for now. Good luck whatever you decide."

Failing that bring cookies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Failing that bring cookies

Or haribo's, they go down well. Just make it a big bag eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

It would seem so , and anyone daring to have an opinion is jumped on .... I wonder why ?

Absolutely typical - hypocrisy rules on the forums .

As so many have said , a guy would be slated for the very same thing .

To the op - if you post on here and merely tell us you are here without your husband knowing , with no other comment - what exactly were you hoping for ?

We have played with plenty of married men and women who are ' cheating ' and are the last to judge .

Why not post a question or a statement worthy of a discussion ? You will soon feel welcome , and welcome to the fab forums

I wasn't aware of all the forum etiquette I'm not new to the site but relatively new to the forum.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Failing that bring cookies

Or haribo's, they go down well. Just make it a big bag eh?

Oh class

I'm gona start calling a dolly I know on here haribo cos she definitely goes down well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, are you carrying out a survey? With hidden profile from a supposed newbie is a bit survey-like

I have hidden my profile for now I'm not new to the site but just started to peruse the forum.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Wait a second...

Really?

It would seem so , and anyone daring to have an opinion is jumped on .... I wonder why ?

Absolutely typical - hypocrisy rules on the forums .

As so many have said , a guy would be slated for the very same thing .

To the op - if you post on here and merely tell us you are here without your husband knowing , with no other comment - what exactly were you hoping for ?

We have played with plenty of married men and women who are ' cheating ' and are the last to judge .

Why not post a question or a statement worthy of a discussion ? You will soon feel welcome , and welcome to the fab forums

I wasn't aware of all the forum etiquette I'm not new to the site but relatively new to the forum."

There is no etiquette just every now and again you get a bunch of pedantic arseholes replying. (I think I'm one of them)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Failing that bring cookies

Or haribo's, they go down well. Just make it a big bag eh?

Oh class

I'm gona start calling a dolly I know on here haribo cos she definitely goes down well

Make sure you share now! Don't be getting greedy.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Failing that bring cookies

Or haribo's, they go down well. Just make it a big bag eh?

Oh class

I'm gona start calling a dolly I know on here haribo cos she definitely goes down well

Make sure you share now! Don't be getting greedy.

For you my friend I will even open the bag gently so as not to spill any

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forum etiquette? No, just plain good old common sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

Every one is judged by the first thing they say to someone.

If you say you don't do it you're a liar, simple as.

Not everything in life is simple"

Like non sequiturs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Failing that bring cookies

Or haribo's, they go down well. Just make it a big bag eh?

Oh class

I'm gona start calling a dolly I know on here haribo cos she definitely goes down well

Make sure you share now! Don't be getting greedy.

For you my friend I will even open the bag gently so as not to spill any

Don't worry about spillage, messy is more fun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where the hell is Uxbridge anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. Knitter, your very welcome here, browse away. I too am in the same predicament or scenario as you. Enjoy. X

How can the op be enjoying this? Being judged the minute she starts a thread.

Very unfair.

Every one is judged by the first thing they say to someone.

If you say you don't do it you're a liar, simple as.

Not everything in life is simple

Like non sequiturs?"

If I knew what that meant, I'd probably agree. Or disagree.

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Where the hell is Uxbridge anyway? "

I'm guessing far away from you?

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Where the hell is Uxbridge anyway?

I'm guessing far away from you?

Just around the corner past the post office

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, are you carrying out a survey? With hidden profile from a supposed newbie is a bit survey-like

I have hidden my profile for now I'm not new to the site but just started to peruse the forum."

In that case, you are doing well by the looks of it. When I joined newly years ago, I got banned after my first few responses to someone else's post. I thought there was a clique (or is there? Lol). But, hey you are welcome. You will learn along the way... I wouldn't mind taking your hand and leading you through by the way

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive.

If anything the internet is a meaner place. And if you don't know that, you find out quickly.

As I initially aid, she didn't even ask for advice. She just made a statement. I guess I still don't understand the expected reaction.

-Courtney"

"
"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."
"

Just saying this to a friend wouldn't get much reaction.

To a bunch of strangers I'm not so sure, but as I've now followed the green arrow and have been cheated on myself I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where the hell is Uxbridge anyway?

I'm guessing far away from you?

Just around the corner past the post office"

Don't forget to take next left turn

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Where the hell is Uxbridge anyway?

I'm guessing far away from you?

Just around the corner past the post office

Don't forget to take next left turn "

nice try but we all know that leads right into the duck pond

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive.

If anything the internet is a meaner place. And if you don't know that, you find out quickly.

As I initially aid, she didn't even ask for advice. She just made a statement. I guess I still don't understand the expected reaction.

-Courtney

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."

Just saying this to a friend wouldn't get much reaction.

To a bunch of strangers I'm not so sure, but as I've now followed the green arrow and have been cheated on myself I'm out. "

I just did and I am following behind you...

OP you have a few running threads which all follow a similar survey-like pattern...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

It would seem so , and anyone daring to have an opinion is jumped on .... I wonder why ?

Absolutely typical - hypocrisy rules on the forums .

As so many have said , a guy would be slated for the very same thing .

To the op - if you post on here and merely tell us you are here without your husband knowing , with no other comment - what exactly were you hoping for ?

We have played with plenty of married men and women who are ' cheating ' and are the last to judge .

Why not post a question or a statement worthy of a discussion ? You will soon feel welcome , and welcome to the fab forums

I guess I just didn't know how to start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive.

If anything the internet is a meaner place. And if you don't know that, you find out quickly.

As I initially aid, she didn't even ask for advice. She just made a statement. I guess I still don't understand the expected reaction.

-Courtney

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."

Just saying this to a friend wouldn't get much reaction.

To a bunch of strangers I'm not so sure, but as I've now followed the green arrow and have been cheated on myself I'm out. "

Ah the green arrow, I never think to do that.

Well just did it & yes, the proof is there.

How silly do I feel?

Well OP, I championed your corner but, feel you no longer deserve my services.

Good luck in your future endeavors.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Wait a second...

Really?

Why not?

Prior evidence would suggest people would expect to be judged for this. Regardless of whether that is right or wrong, its obtuse to assume otherwise.

Unless you're a woman.

-Courtney

Or she's new here and was being honest and inquisitive.

If anything the internet is a meaner place. And if you don't know that, you find out quickly.

As I initially aid, she didn't even ask for advice. She just made a statement. I guess I still don't understand the expected reaction.

-Courtney

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."

Just saying this to a friend wouldn't get much reaction.

To a bunch of strangers I'm not so sure, but as I've now followed the green arrow and have been cheated on myself I'm out.

Ah the green arrow, I never think to do that.

Well just did it & yes, the proof is there.

How silly do I feel?

Well OP, I championed your corner but, feel you no longer deserve my services.

Good luck in your future endeavors.

we all got busted haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The green arrow of truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 02:06:54]

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Perhaps you haven't seen previous statementsection I realise I didn't present a question I was just hoping hoping to engage perhaps I chose the wrong forum or site"

could happen anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

So true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess I just didn't know how to start "

knitter

Ultimately, do you want to do stuff on your own or as a couple? Do you think your partner would do anything or do you think its definitely not for him?

We've only been doing this for about a year and we only do soft swap. Too tame for most but we prefer to carry on and enjoy doing what we're doing rather than go too fast and have regrets. What's done can the undone.

Feel free to message us if you need some insight from a couples perspective.

My husband started off like you, just perusing while I wasn't interested at all. That is, until I had a 'lightbulb moment'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Well in her other thread she's been regularly meeting with someone and considering being "owned" by them and having them vet her other sexual partners.

So we kinda do know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Well in her other thread she's been regularly meeting with someone and considering being "owned" by them and having them vet her other sexual partners.

So we kinda do know"

I only just saw the other threads. So husband doesn't know but she's considering being owned too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Well in her other thread she's been regularly meeting with someone and considering being "owned" by them and having them vet her other sexual partners.

So we kinda do know

I only just saw the other threads. So husband doesn't know but she's considering being owned too? "
..I suspect all bollocks searching for wank fodder PMs

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Well in her other thread she's been regularly meeting with someone and considering being "owned" by them and having them vet her other sexual partners.

So we kinda do know

I only just saw the other threads. So husband doesn't know but she's considering being owned too? "

'She', indeed is

Now I understand how Mogo-Dogo from Nigeria can clean out the bank accounts of desperate men over here

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

Sweetie, I always find it so ironic when swingers judge. Do what makes you happy, just be honest and careful!"

It always amuses me when cheating and honesty are in the same sentence

. Don't make a song and dance just get on with it and worry about the consequences another day...

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By *1sexypairCouple over a year ago

Retford

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users. "

A fantisist called Kevin who dreams

That's so wrong labeling us as cuckold....

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS over a year ago

Yarm

"Don't worry nobody actually cares if its a woman playing away on here, its just men who get slated so as you were

Love this. So true!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No body knows your circumstances so in my eyes it's up too you.

If a women tells me she's married and unhappy, surely happiness comes before anything. Your only here once right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome. "

Don't do that if I hadn't posted on every thread half the people wouldn't even know me! In fact I doubt half do now! Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect....."

Where's the judgement in that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, top tip for future posting.(if you ever do again...)

Once its out there it's pretty hard to remove the post especially if it's a slow night and not much going on, be sure that's what you want to say.

Also, dont ever feel the need to justify yourself or comply to a 'forum etiquette' ~ as long as you post within the rules that's all that matters.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"OP, top tip for future posting.(if you ever do again...)

Once its out there it's pretty hard to remove the post especially if it's a slow night and not much going on, be sure that's what you want to say.

Also, dont ever feel the need to justify yourself or comply to a 'forum etiquette' ~ as long as you post within the rules that's all that matters.

That's very true but also remember that all the above will apply to those that respond too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, top tip for future posting.(if you ever do again...)

Once its out there it's pretty hard to remove the post especially if it's a slow night and not much going on, be sure that's what you want to say.

Also, dont ever feel the need to justify yourself or comply to a 'forum etiquette' ~ as long as you post within the rules that's all that matters.

you're gonna get people who judge and people ignore but the important thing is enjoy yourself! And don't feed the trolls

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome.

Don't do that if I hadn't posted on every thread half the people wouldn't even know me! In fact I doubt half do now! Lol"

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too

Ahh judgement perfect.....

I'm certainly not judging you at all ..... I'm not that kind of person. I was just saying.

As long as your happy and enjoying life that's the main thing

"Let's hope he's not doing the same"!!!!!

It's fine really I'm still very new and figuring out where I'm welcome.

Don't do that if I hadn't posted on every thread half the people wouldn't even know me! In fact I doubt half do now! Lol

Who said that?"

Seeeeeeeeee?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I remember very early on in my Fab life coming on to the Forums and trying to explain why I was here on a 'marrieds' thread - and the inevitable pack mentality against newbie male marrieds ensued with every man (and woman) and their dog stumbling over themselves to slate me.

Thing is only you know your reasons for being here and I'm pretty sure there's a long backstory and journey to where you are today. Don't worry about the naysayers, be yourself and enjoy the Forums and the site.

And remember - not everyone is who they say they are, even the whiter than whites

Take care OP and keep posting x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You think this is harsh treatment????

Really??

I'll say what I'd say if you were a man, share it with that person you love the most.

This makes absolute 100% sense yes - me and my husband have discovered many things about eachother since swinging - and we thought we knew everything we needed to know already! We were wrong - our sex life is now much richer. We communicate more, we feel more free to explore those things that fascinate us. I am not saying it has been smooth sailing all the way - there have been a few tactless moments that have caused pain and insecurity but with care and attention, some compromises and give and take we both feel stronger and more accepted. It is definitely better to be swinging openly than to be hiding our desires and fantasies from each other.

If you do decide to broach the subject be patient and gentle - it took us about a year to get to the point where we both felt comfortable to take the next step.

Also - just to pick up on a point made earlier - yes - be aware there are judgemental people and double standards on fabs - take the bits that work well for you, leave the rest, m x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I remember very early on in my Fab life coming on to the Forums and trying to explain why I was here on a 'marrieds' thread - and the inevitable pack mentality against newbie male marrieds ensued with every man (and woman) and their dog stumbling over themselves to slate me.

And remember - not everyone is who they say they are, even the whiter than whites

Take care OP and keep posting x"

I am who I say I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a question to this thread? Or are we just supposed to know this now?

-Courtney

Of course your right I didn't actually present a question.

Since the first couple of responses were not so friendly I think it's best I refrain....

You just stated you're on here without your husband's knowledge with no background or question...what exactly were you expecting?

-Courtney

Must admit my crystal ball is a wee bit cloudy too ...

I have been viewing the forums for a little while and wanted to engage but be honest at the same time I guess it's not the right way."

If you want to join in the forums without your marital state becoming an issue then I'd suggest you just comment and get involved in other threads rather than starting a thread which draws attention the fact Hun!

People will always have an opinion, particularly the empathetic or those who have been cheated on by others - but most won't air that opinion unless someone starts a thread like this!

Hope this helps! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You say you dont feel welcome and the feeling is cold, yet you also say you've been observing the forums. If this is the case then you will be fully aware of some of the responses people get due to a thread they post (not a cheating thread either) so here I personally feel the responses you have received have been far from unwelcome and cold. If you post something like this, you will have people with opinions, you will havepeople judge you, but you will also have people support you. I will do none of those, as I don't know you or your husband and you're big enough to do what you want. People can preach all they like, but your mind is made up so not much will change it.

Good luck with whatever you do

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wow!

You lot are quite something! Not all but some of you should really think before you post.

OP... I have a spare tin foil hat kicking around here. Some of us are open minded and are happy to chat to anyone and everyone. Your private life is not my business but well done for being so honest. There's nothing wrong with getting views and opinions on stuff. I've not walked a mile in your shoes so I hope you don't feel as unwelcome in this liberated and open minded community.

Some days I really do despair.

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By *edsBonkingMan over a year ago

Near MK

Knitter. Mail me please

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By *edsBonkingMan over a year ago

Near MK

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are other sites you can use, message me and I'll let you know about some.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman over a year ago

Bathwyche

Deception is deception.

I personally think cheating/lying about it is a total shit thing to do the other person in the relationship.

You may be a woman but I would apply the same words as I would a man.

Sorry! But what's life without honesty and being who you are. And you clearly aren't in your marriage. Lying is cowardly

And yes, I can be this direct and brutal in real life.

I also realise that it doesn't define who you are...am sure you're lovely knitter, I just don't condone deception on an innocent party.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No body knows your circumstances so in my eyes it's up too you.

If a women tells me she's married and unhappy, surely happiness comes before anything. Your only here once right?"

Are you a divorce lawyer then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Deception is deception.

I personally think cheating/lying about it is a total shit thing to do the other person in the relationship.

You may be a woman but I would apply the same words as I would a man.

Sorry! But what's life without honesty and being who you are. And you clearly aren't in your marriage. Lying is cowardly

And yes, I can be this direct and brutal in real life.

I also realise that it doesn't define who you are...am sure you're lovely knitter, I just don't condone deception on an innocent party.

As you don't know the OP or her husband, you can't really say he's an innocent party.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman over a year ago

Bathwyche

"As you don't know the OP or her husband, you can't really say he's an innocent party."

Speaking objectively and metaphorically that is. It would indeed be up to knitter to deem whether the deception is being carried out upon an innocent party....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow!

You lot are quite something! Not all but some of you should really think before you post.

Some days I really do despair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

But women know

and it is amusing to watch

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

I don't really care whether I'm being played or not, I'm happy not to be mean to total strangers on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

I don't try & second guess people, I just read what they post and comment accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

I don't try & second guess people, I just read what they post and comment accordingly."

Yep. That's why people were using the green arrow.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

I don't try & second guess people, I just read what they post and comment accordingly.

Yep. That's why people were using the green arrow.

And all it shows is someone asking different questions from what I can gather... I'm not understanding what exactly is wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys just don't know when you're being played. Bless your cottons

I don't try & second guess people, I just read what they post and comment accordingly.

Yep. That's why people were using the green arrow.

Yeah well, as I confessed a while ago I thought for a long time to arrow was pointing out their gender

But you know what, I'm pretty sure most people who start threads have good green arrow days & bad ones!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry no one else will either as your profiles hidden

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this."

Personally I think you should confess to him about this and hope he doesn't throw your cheating arse out

This is all about trust not lies go hang your head in shame witn the married men who are cheating

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Why is anynody bothered...the OP certainly isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Certainly an interesting thread...

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Anybody

I am sure Nody certainly isn't arsed at all.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Responses read like asking "Siri" questions to me.

Him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 24/11/15 00:04:01]

I have been viewing various chats and have been engaged and intrigued.

I am married and he doesn't know about this.

Personally I think you should confess to him about this and hope he doesn't throw your cheating arse out

This is all about trust not lies go hang your head in shame witn the married men who are cheating "

Oh for goddess sake, wind it in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun

At this point I wish we had a filtered section I the forum for high end users.

We don't actually know the op is cheating, yes she's joined fab without her partners knowledge but, we don't know why? Or her intentions.

Lets hold back judgement until we know a bit more?

Hold back judgement? Who are you to judge?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I felt that the OP started with a deliberately ambiguous post, then was all to pleased to take umbridge at the first reply. Which was a well humored observation rather than an attack. An approach the OP continued throughout. Basically a troll.

"It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too "

Ahh judgement perfect....."

No judgement there, just a comment. Yet it set the tone for every rebuke.

The ambiguous OP also leads one to believe that the poster is just here looking, dipping a toe if you will, a newby to be nurtured. However, only a few days ago...

"I have been meeting and chatting with someone regularly. I trust him and have a great time with him.

He has asked if he can own me, take control of who and how I meet. Accompany me if he so desires and other parties agree."

Other parties....her husband? Who knows. But something ain't right.

You're quite correct people shouldn't be rude to strangers. But equally people shouldn't set themselves up for a fall. Or feign hurt feelings.

My opinion of course. And God knows I've been wrong before!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt that the OP started with a deliberately ambiguous post, then was all to pleased to take umbridge at the first reply. Which was a well humored observation rather than an attack. An approach the OP continued throughout. Basically a troll.

"It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too "

Ahh judgement perfect....."

No judgement there, just a comment. Yet it set the tone for every rebuke.

The ambiguous OP also leads one to believe that the poster is just here looking, dipping a toe if you will, a newby to be nurtured. However, only a few days ago...

"I have been meeting and chatting with someone regularly. I trust him and have a great time with him.

He has asked if he can own me, take control of who and how I meet. Accompany me if he so desires and other parties agree."

Other parties....her husband? Who knows. But something ain't right.

You're quite correct people shouldn't be rude to strangers. But equally people shouldn't set themselves up for a fall. Or feign hurt feelings.

My opinion of course. And God knows I've been wrong before!

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's always the curious type ...... Let's hope he's not doing the same too "

Ahh judgement perfect....."

No judgement there, just a comment. Yet it set the tone for every rebuke.

The ambiguous OP also leads one to believe that the poster is just here looking, dipping a toe if you will, a newby to be nurtured. However, only a few days ago...

"I have been meeting and chatting with someone regularly. I trust him and have a great time with him.

He has asked if he can own me, take control of who and how I meet. Accompany me if he so desires and other parties agree."

Other parties....her husband? Who knows. But something ain't right.

You're quite correct people shouldn't be rude to strangers. But equally people shouldn't set themselves up for a fall. Or feign hurt feelings.

My opinion of course. And God knows I've been wrong before!

I agree with this completely. This thread, in my opinion, was meant to get negative replies. And I actually don't think it has gotten many. That's just my opinion.

-Courtney

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