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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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The more you want?
Picking up on something in another thread about having no sex and when you don't have any, the less you want.
Is that how it is for you?
I just know that the more sex I have, the more I want. I can and do go for a while in between meets but it doesn't make me want it less. Yes, of course there are days when I'm not horny but it doesn't really take much to get me to change that view.
Are you in the more you have the more you want camp too?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there is a scientific reason for this feeling......its because the brain releases the feel good hormone and remembers how good this feels but only in the short term....so it wants to have that feeling again.......the longer you go without releasing the feel good hormone the less bothered your brain is because its forgotten how good it was!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The more you want?
Picking up on something in another thread about having no sex and when you don't have any, the less you want.
Is that how it is for you?
I just know that the more sex I have, the more I want. I can and do go for a while in between meets but it doesn't make me want it less. Yes, of course there are days when I'm not horny but it doesn't really take much to get me to change that view.
Are you in the more you have the more you want camp too?
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I would agree you do want more and more as long its quality sex. The reverse is true though. If you get bad sex you don't want more bad sex. |
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"there is a scientific reason for this feeling......its because the brain releases the feel good hormone and remembers how good this feels but only in the short term....so it wants to have that feeling again.......the longer you go without releasing the feel good hormone the less bothered your brain is because its forgotten how good it was!!
eureka!! its my memory that is the problem then, its shocking at the moment and ive been getting very worried
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Understand what your asking.
When im single i have minimal sex drive if any. When im with someone i just cant have sex straight away. In fact it takes me at least a couple of weeks to feel comfortable enough, then that first time is just a laughable nightmare. 'He' is up then down then up then down then..... but from this there is no stopping me if the relationship continues, and the said female is usually asking me for a rest or accusing me of using her as a sex machine - jokingly of course.
In few clubs i have been to, im somewhat the same so im usually a voyeur. I cannot have sex with a female on her own as per above, but a couple i only need to meet once maybe twice, and if all three interested wahey 'he' usually works. There was one couple i played with quite often at club - that was easy as per what ive said. Need to know people and all parties must feel comfortable.
As a broadminded single bloke with little or no sex drive when single, i dont think i nor anyone else will understand this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought of opening a similar/same thread earlier this week. Im single on a swingers site and yet not really seeking a sexual meet. Ah well so long as im comfortable with it i dont really care.  |
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