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didnt think it would be so hard
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hiya poster!!!...sounds a frustrating time ...are these gals verified? , do you chat to them on the phone beforehand? What do your gut instinct say?....there is alot of timewasters , but sounds an odd occurence for you !!...sorry to hear it !!..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all what iam i doing wrong lol iam still looking for a meet mith fem but when arrange a meet there cancel at least 10 fems  "
Maybe most of the fems you contacted were men? Can chat with you online etc etc, right up to arranging a meet, but being men they have to cancel. Its a game.
But that works for you too, nobody has verified you for meeting up in person or cam. That might put another woman off from meeting, in case its a man that turns up?
Why don't you try and arrange a social meet with another woman (we know how you ladies like to chat  ) with sex not on the menu at a wine bar or somewhere busy, after you have spoke on the phone or cam.
Noy talking from experience here, just common sense I hope, you ladies have to be careful when meeting up alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah ...thats sage words Freestyle ....always chat on the phone , its a line in the sand that s out the reprobates!!! And meeting for a social drink , without overly leching is always a good idea lol....the fems we meet are mature emotionally and know what hey want but in my experience, require a convo that doesn`t revolve around sex ....that comes if trust is built!!!....keep it cool, honest, humorous!!..x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"i just couldn't be arsed...... call it apathy
Surely you have a cut and paste reply prepared by now?  "
nah...... I sure mr "hidden profile" can do it for me.....
oooh... apathy and sarcasm... on a roll now |
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By *ola1976 OP Woman
over a year ago
mablethorpe |
"hi all what iam i doing wrong lol iam still looking for a meet mith fem but when arrange a meet there cancel at least 10 fems
Maybe most of the fems you contacted were men? Can chat with you online etc etc, right up to arranging a meet, but being men they have to cancel. Its a game.hi hun yr right alot are men i would say at least 80% of them or well i will keep try but alot of fun even when men lol
But that works for you too, nobody has verified you for meeting up in person or cam. That might put another woman off from meeting, in case its a man that turns up?
Why don't you try and arrange a social meet with another woman (we know how you ladies like to chat ) with sex not on the menu at a wine bar or somewhere busy, after you have spoke on the phone or cam.
Noy talking from experience here, just common sense I hope, you ladies have to be careful when meeting up alone. "
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