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First time you and your partner agreed you would try swinging?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When was that Delicious tipping point when you both agreed to try Swinging and went to a club or joined Fab or f*cked that plus one (or two)?
How did you both arrive at the decision - did one suggest it first?
How did it feel when you both arrived at that joint decision to swing?
Were you surprised at your partner's willingness?
Or just happy they fancied the idea?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us took two years of talking about it as a fantasy.
Then one night had friends over for a meal and quite a few cocktails. 
She shocked me after they left by saying would have been nice to have sex after a night like that.
Took a little time to get over the nerves etc but have found some very nice couples on here.
So our fantasy became real, and it is fast becoming a very enjoyable hobby for us both  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
It was the natural progression from our fantasies.
We took a walk along the beach and discussed whether we really wanted to try it and both agreed we did and then discussed boundaries.
The one thing we didn't know was how to go about making it a reality but thank god for Google which eventually brought us to Fab and we have never looked back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After being together for just over a year , we discussed our deeper desires and agreed it would be a good step forward to try swinging .
That was four and half years ago , and since then we got married 3 years ago and have never looked back .
By the way , the day we decided to try it , we did it that night .
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we were together about 6 months (as FB couple), discussed it and knew we were keen to try it, joined a different site and got nowhere, found this site in January, had a false start with a couple we met (long story)and then in MArch we had a MMF arranged and he cancelled last-minute so we decided to go Chameleons and loved every second. So so glad we joined this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It came up during a particularly intense fuckathon - it started off with just saying how much of a turn on it would be to fuck while others watched us and we watched them.
Then, over the course of several months, we kept talking about it during sex and then we finally plucked up the courage to visit Libs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always liked the idea done some web cam stuff went dogging (without any success) like doing pics and videos so it was a natural progression that during a night with friends playing a dares game and we all ended up naked we decided to do it properly started off with a Twitter account then joined fab. We have our first play date next week |
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We where together 3 weeks with a crazy hot sex life, I'd been swinging as a single female so told him my likes and what I used to get up to he loves it so we've been visiting partners and cupids since, unfortunately not found the right single female yet to join us  so he is yet to actually play x |
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We'd been together for a few weeks and he suggested we try a club. We'd both been married before and neither of us had found it easy to be faithful. She agreed immediately and we went to La Chambre that Saturday night - only a few days after the topic of swinging came up. We were both rather excited by the idea and we weren't disappointed when we got there either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'd been talking about what we would/wouldn't want to do with each other, then it was a natural progression somehow into possibly meeting another person or couple.
Incidentally our first meet was actually a party with four other couples. Was a bit nerve wracking beforehand, bit definitely worth it.
Have met several great couples since. |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
We kind of both acted cool and said go for it expecting the other to back out.. Next minute in bed with another man.. Pre fab.... Drive home was quiet but actually lived it and kind if sealed a massive position if trust... Strangely made everything better... Sex got better... Not looked back |
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It all happened quite quickly for us. We'd talked about all sorts of fantasies (like all couples do), and came to the conclusion that the swinging world was probably the only way that we'd even get remotely close to making the fantasies a reality.
From that stage we investigated different swinging clubs and joined La Chambre, it seemed a good option with a separate social area and wasn't a dress down place. Our first visit resulted in Anita's first fem/fem experience and a full swap..... The rest is as they say history.
The whole process from the first suggestion to the first visit was a couple of months, and we've been regulars ever since.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Years ago we were on a nudist beach and when Clarence went to get drinks a very attractive guy next to us smiled at me, oooked my body up and down then moved his towel to show how pleased he was to see me lol!
Unbeknown to me hubbie had watched and told me how turned on he was by it all! So that planted the seed and after many many years later we decided to give it a try! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Years ago we were on a nudist beach and when Clarence went to get drinks a very attractive guy next to us smiled at me, oooked my body up and down then moved his towel to show how pleased he was to see me lol!
Unbeknown to me hubbie had watched and told me how turned on he was by it all! So that planted the seed and after many many years later we decided to give it a try! "
And we're so glad you did as our paths may never have crossed xx |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
Been together for about 20 years now...  where did the time go? Went to a swingers club in the first few months with an open mind and simply went with the flow. Some times we took part and some times we didn't... At one stage we ended up going every week and got a little burnt out with it. So we gave it a rest for a while. We have been swinging on and off ever since... And meet some great people who have become friends... |
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