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Being discovered by your Vanilla Friends
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is one thing I dread.
How will they start treat me?
Will they think I am a sex addict?
Will they trust me with their wives?
Will they start to think I have got some sort of sexually transmitted disease?
Will they think I am weirdo?
Will they even invite me to other social events?
Will they ………….
Don’t know really , I hope I won’t get caught
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If they are friends, they won't care.
If they are acquaintances, do you care about their opinion, over your happiness.
My vanilla-ish friends know. Just ask that I don't have orgies in his house, while I'm cat sitting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a single guy. What does it matter what you do? I can understand if you were a couple because it goes against convention but a single guy having sex with multiple partners... Stop the presses! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am married but "Single" on here , wife knows but has told me
"don't bring babies, or STDs" , thats why I always play it safe to return the favour really . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How would your friends find out?"
I guess they will one day coz since joining Fab , I tend to say things I normally would be shy talking about.
Fab has chnaged me a bit , e.g I can easily talk about sex and preferences , and I bet you , one day , someone is going to dig deeper and catch me in the act somewhere , my phone or something . |
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"I am married but "Single" on here , wife knows but has told me
"don't bring babies, or STDs" , thats why I always play it safe to return the favour really ."
Interestingly controversial .... wait for it. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Imagine the horror if been discovered by a family member....."
I spotted my cousin on here, I hope we blocked her before she spotted us, but who knows. In my family we dont talk about sex at all, but we have told our close friends. They were all fine about it, I would say in 50% of the couples we have told, one half of the couple has wanted to try it, but the other half hasn't.
Swinging is by no means mainstream, but perhaps it more popular than it once was. Part of the reason we rold our friends, was the break down the stigma around it. Now when someone brings it up down the pub, or on TV or a movie, they wont think of swingers as old hippies, or dirty pervs, they will think of them like normal people. (well semi normal at least  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one thing I dread.
How will they start treat me?
Will they think I am a sex addict?
Will they trust me with their wives?
Will they start to think I have got some sort of sexually transmitted disease?
Will they think I am weirdo?
Will they even invite me to other social events?
Will they ………….
Don’t know really , I hope I won’t get caught
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If they do any of the above I'd question how good a friend they really was |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Maybe it's different for a guy but my friend's that I have told have been cool. I showed one of them my profile after a couple of glasses of wine and she was....shall we say....interested  |
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We were outed accidentally to my best male friend and his partner (both men) as I'd left fab open on my pc and forgotten about it.
They were and are cool with it.
Then I got totally ratarsed with my former best female friend - confessed all - and ended up in a strange 4-way polyamourous relationship with her and her husband and me and J.
It did not end well.
Don't out yourself if you can avoid it is the lesson we learned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are friends, they won't care.
If they are acquaintances, do you care about their opinion, over your happiness.
My vanilla-ish friends know. Just ask that I don't have orgies in his house, while I'm cat sitting. "
I did giggle....What about if he leaves his wife at home, can you have an orgy with her pussy?  |
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He's away and I'm popping round to feed the cat. His girlfriend thinks I'm gay (you suck one cock...)
I was tempted to try and arrange a meeting there, as it's detached and looks amazing. Unlike my place which is a victorian terrace. My neighbours can hear a lot.
But with my current run of cancelled meets, chance would be a fine thing. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"He's away and I'm popping round to feed the cat. His girlfriend thinks I'm gay (you suck one cock...)
I was tempted to try and arrange a meeting there, as it's detached and looks amazing. Unlike my place which is a victorian terrace. My neighbours can hear a lot.
But with my current run of cancelled meets, chance would be a fine thing."
Just make sure the cat doesn't witness anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would your friends find out?
I guess they will one day coz since joining Fab , I tend to say things I normally would be shy talking about.
Fab has chnaged me a bit , e.g I can easily talk about sex and preferences , and I bet you , one day , someone is going to dig deeper and catch me in the act somewhere , my phone or something ."
Yeh I've found I'm more comfortable in things I say/do since I've been on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one thing I dread.
How will they start treat me?
Will they think I am a sex addict?
Will they trust me with their wives?
Will they start to think I have got some sort of sexually transmitted disease?
Will they think I am weirdo?
Will they even invite me to other social events?
Will they ………….
Don’t know really , I hope I won’t get caught
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You do know that "normal" people have sex too? |
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