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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" That is probably a fair comment, just on here to get their rocks off so to speak, maybe meet or maybe just look at the photos (which are bloody hot lol). It could be that they want to try it all but their partner is not interested with other joining their sexual fun....son it becomes a bit of a fantasy for him | |||
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"I might have put them off..oops !!!" You would never put someone off lol | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? " What does it matter? Block newbies then you won't even know they are on the site. Those that want to be part of the lifestyle will certainly be here a lot longer than a few days. | |||
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"I don't want to block newbies cos everyone is new at some point..." After a week, they'll be able to contact you. It's not really a harsh filter. | |||
"I don't want to block newbies cos everyone is new at some point... After a week, they'll be able to contact you. It's not really a harsh filter. "  | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" To Perv photos and profiles and are under the assumption there are loads of people gagging for it, when they are not swamped with mail and meet requests they leave  | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" Good point here from OP - I think its more to do with curiosity and possible a sexual desire - and those that do that tend to be a ones not wanting to be caught out by their other halves - but in cases of some women and couples its more to do with they are put off by the 100 or so meassages of sex they get per day | |||
"I don't want to block newbies cos everyone is new at some point..." your right even the ones that say " block newbies" lol  | |||
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"Usually a bit of late night bravado... or d*unk, especially at weekends!!" Agree | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" Filling their wank bank | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" A couple of wild assumptions there...maybe they dipped the toe in and found how judgemental people can be and decided FAB wasnt for them.. | |||
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"Had that the other day abfemale checking the site looking for her Boyfriend said "ring him " she wasnt amused" | |||
"Thinking that they will find legs in the air straightaway and shove their cock in empty balls and leave lol" You're assuming it's only men who do this? | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think?? A couple of wild assumptions there...maybe they dipped the toe in and found how judgemental people can be and decided FAB wasnt for them.." This could well be the case in most instances but for us we have had it with site supporters with past veris, they message you, you spend most of the evening exchanging flirty messages talking about arranging a meet, even exchange pics. You say your good night's then the next day when you go to continue where you left off... Poof user no longer on site. It just gets frustrating. We feel really sorry for all the genuine people out there who have to pretty much fight to get the initial contact going and it's because of things like this that spoils the fun for all of us. | |||
"They go cock blind and accidently delete their profile???!!" | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" We have had the 'user no longer on site' many times, hence one of the reasons why we are tailing off our activities on here? All the reasons posted by others on this subject do figure to an extent, however, our experience of it is that when we've arranged to meet someone after chatting for a while, and when it comes to the day/evening of the arranged meet, he, or they, go mysteriously quiet! We don't here from them in any way shape or form, and more often than not, when we go on here, we can see that they've been on line, read our messages, and don't bother to reply? We go to the meeting venue at the time agreed, and then nothing, another no-show, no call/text, nothing.....the next day, we look on here, and there it is 'user no longer on site'.....and this is with people who have been verified too, so its not just newbies that do it? Plus, we agree with '_aidback pair' that newbies should be given a chance, as we did all have to start somewhere, so its only fair? The culprits usually leave it a week or two, then set up a new profile, and unless you are very quick off the mark, and somehow recognise them, they go unnoticed, and unbelievably, we've had a couple and a single guy contact us again a couple of weeks after they stood us up, asking if we want to meet up! Luckily, we rumbled them, and an hour later its 'user no longer on site' again..... | |||
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"I don't want to block newbies cos everyone is new at some point... After a week, they'll be able to contact you. It's not really a harsh filter. " you just answered my question - how long are you classed as a newbie | |||
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"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" i think there just checking out the site and decide it's not for them wow in my opinion that is a very big assumption | |||
"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think??" Hello We had an experience on here when a guy we blocked made a new profile to make threats. He then left the site. Fabs a great website but sadly it's so easy to sign up. There's not much the admin can do though | |||
"Why do people join up for a few hours and then leave the site??? My opinion is they aren't into swinging, they just want to cheat on their partners..what do other people think?? i think there just checking out the site and decide it's not for them wow in my opinion that is a very big assumption " it's just our opinion on this and we know it's only a small % of people who do it but it seriously does get to you. Especially when you are putting a degree of trust in them sharing intimate pictures and spending time messaging back and forward when they have no intention of meeting up. It really isn't fair for the genuine people who simply want to have fun and explore. We can only imagine how frustrating it must be especially for the single males who are genuine and just simply want to have fun and help others with their fantasy. Then get couples and singles reserved to interact. We always try to answer all our messages even if it's a polite No thank you but we can understand why some don't even get a reply. It's good manors after all to take the time to reply, but it is hard keeping positive when you are giving up your time for these people and you are missing out with the genuine ones whilst chatting with them then they just leave for a few days then re-appear. It feels like they think I have wasted your time now F**k you! Sorry for the essay here xxx | |||
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