FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Girls selection in clubs
Girls selection in clubs
Jump to: Newest in thread
There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We experienced awful loud and in your face behaviour from a couple of females Friday ... we hear you on that one. Interestingly in the club we went to, single male behaviour was the best we had seen ... no wondering zombies. Enjoyed the night on balance, just avoided the screeching ... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?"
My thoughts are, why do you go to clubs if you dislike the "selection" of women there so much? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
My thoughts are, why do you go to clubs if you dislike the "selection" of women there so much?"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
For us its about behaviour in clubs - don't have an issue with who is in there, after all, we may not be everyone's cup of tea ourselves, but loud screeches really do my head in. Personally I think too young a crowd puts me off, but that is a personal thing, so I have to deal with it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The clubs use this tactic to entice as many women to the club as possible. Otherwise it would just be a total sausage fest. At the same time, charging single guys helps to deter knobhead guys who just want to enter the clubs for a giggle and act like dicks. It makes perfect sense to me to have fees for men and not for women. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"The clubs use this tactic to entice as many women to the club as possible. Otherwise it would just be a total sausage fest. At the same time, charging single guys helps to deter knobhead guys who just want to enter the clubs for a giggle and act like dicks. It makes perfect sense to me to have fees for men and not for women."
Apart from when there is a group of women having a giggle and acting like dicks |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"For us its about behaviour in clubs - don't have an issue with who is in there, after all, we may not be everyone's cup of tea ourselves, but loud screeches really do my head in. Personally I think too young a crowd puts me off, but that is a personal thing, so I have to deal with it. "
I've been guilty with getting carried away with loud laughing and such. Wasn't until I was playing and others were doing it, that I realised I must've been a really annoying twunt! Told myself off and I'm far more behaved and quiet in and around play rooms.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"The clubs use this tactic to entice as many women to the club as possible. Otherwise it would just be a total sausage fest. At the same time, charging single guys helps to deter knobhead guys who just want to enter the clubs for a giggle and act like dicks. It makes perfect sense to me to have fees for men and not for women.
Apart from when there is a group of women having a giggle and acting like dicks "
Well yeah, you have a point there  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My thoughts are if there aren't any then how did you manage to play with females in a club  Bit of a contradiction there"
A bit of english for you The phrase "There isn't any" refers to the "selection"...
Where is the contradiction...?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"That's the way it is. If you screen women, then even less will be in clubs.
If you don't like the ratios, then get a girlfriend 
-Courtney"
I cannot have a "normal" one. It is not an easy task to find  but I am searching for her  ...or them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We experienced awful loud and in your face behaviour from a couple of females Friday ... we hear you on that one. Interestingly in the club we went to, single male behaviour was the best we had seen ... no wondering zombies. Enjoyed the night on balance, just avoided the screeching ..."
Yes what about girls behaviour. My post is about that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?"
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to?"
not often I get in anywhere free these days and I'm certainly not a 'hole' |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to?"
Any club I saw. Yes you pay it...but how much? I saw Le Boudair recently. £60 single guys. £10 single girls
Chams and Xtasia are free for single girls. £30-£35 single guys
Never heard about girls selection for membership in any. Which club are you talking about...? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"For us its about behaviour in clubs - don't have an issue with who is in there, after all, we may not be everyone's cup of tea ourselves, but loud screeches really do my head in. Personally I think too young a crowd puts me off, but that is a personal thing, so I have to deal with it.
I've been guilty with getting carried away with loud laughing and such. Wasn't until I was playing and others were doing it, that I realised I must've been a really annoying twunt! Told myself off and I'm far more behaved and quiet in and around play rooms. "
Nothing more annoying than people having a loud conversation right near you when you're trying to concentrate! At least the wanking zombies stay quiet usually |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to?
not often I get in anywhere free these days and I'm certainly not a 'hole'"
I am not a "penis", but I still need to pay and be "selected" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to?
Any club I saw. Yes you pay it...but how much? I saw Le Boudair recently. £60 single guys. £10 single girls
Chams and Xtasia are free for single girls. £30-£35 single guys
Never heard about girls selection for membership in any. Which club are you talking about...?"
I pay entry at chams and xtasia.
I got my membership at xtasia for kink events which has a different pricing structure but all memberships are issued on a 'behaviour permit' & can be cancelled at any time.
I've paid membership and entry at partners, la chambre & entry at townhouse, attic, the unit, & actually all of them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The clubs use this tactic to entice as many women to the club as possible. Otherwise it would just be a total sausage fest. At the same time, charging single guys helps to deter knobhead guys who just want to enter the clubs for a giggle and act like dicks. It makes perfect sense to me to have fees for men and not for women.
Apart from when there is a group of women having a giggle and acting like dicks "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
we have been lucky - not many leery fellas or at least none that havent been given ''the look'' and gone away - twice ive seen/heard bad behaviour and both times was from women |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to?
Any club I saw. Yes you pay it...but how much? I saw Le Boudair recently. £60 single guys. £10 single girls
Chams and Xtasia are free for single girls. £30-£35 single guys
Never heard about girls selection for membership in any. Which club are you talking about...?"
But don't forget... the guys aren't being discriminated against. People pay to use the facilities.
...Which is utter bollocks. Men don't use the jacuzzi/ etc more than couples or women do.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
I've got membership at the club's that require it and I pay entry.
Which clubs are you referring to?
Any club I saw. Yes you pay it...but how much? I saw Le Boudair recently. £60 single guys. £10 single girls
Chams and Xtasia are free for single girls. £30-£35 single guys
Never heard about girls selection for membership in any. Which club are you talking about...?
I pay entry at chams and xtasia.
I got my membership at xtasia for kink events which has a different pricing structure but all memberships are issued on a 'behaviour permit' & can be cancelled at any time.
I've paid membership and entry at partners, la chambre & entry at townhouse, attic, the unit, & actually all of them. "
Yes but how much!? Le Boudair £60 guys, £10 girls. You cannot say you pay. Entrance is practically free compared to guys... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It really does make sense for clubs to do that, as a single guy i had to go through the townhouses single guy meet & greet.
The fellow behind the bar ended up explaining the rules and the reasoning behind them.
From what he said, it's just people who are too d*unk/excited and/or angry that cause problems,although lots of occcasions a single divvy has caused scenes!
When i told my mates about me visiting clubs they were dying to go, even though they are my mates i know one or 2 would be a idiot in there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?
My thoughts are, why do you go to clubs if you dislike the "selection" of women there so much?"
Ahahahahah I went in clubs for only one month!?!?
Now I am going once per month as a maximum...until I will find a partner in crime at least |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"
not often I get in anywhere free these days and I'm certainly not a 'hole'
I am not a "penis", but I still need to pay and be "selected" "
I wondered when the "hole" comment was coming..... and i was wondering how the OP would dodge or deflect from that use of language....
anyway.....
what "selection" are we talking about.... clubs may limit the amount of singles guys going on a giving night.... but that to me doesn't necessarily scream selection....
so what "selection" do you think is happening?
and some clubs... couples only means that... couples only... any yet single men seem to scream about that more than single women!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Yes but how much!? Le Boudair £60 guys, £10 girls. You cannot say you pay. Entrance is practically free compared to guys..."
I asked recently for men to state how much they pay because this 'men are ripped off' at the door comes up so much and I don't think any did. Most websites don't list membership or entry prices for single men.
I do kink events/parties which has a different price structure... per head not gender dependant. So the prices I pay do not equate to your argument. Admitted I wouldn't visit Le boudair now and haven't done. If it's only that club that has such a wide difference though.... what's the average price .... (across all clubs, or at least south England/midlands/north west) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My question here then is women are always banging on about equality and equal rights ,they are always saying they are equally as horny as men they have the same desire for SEX as men ,they are always saying let's meet at a club ,so in this I want to be equal world why do men have to pay for the clubs to exist but then get castigated when they go to the clubs that wouldn't exist if they didn't go ,I think the clubs should level up the playing field and the charge for men and women should be the same   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"For us its about behaviour in clubs - don't have an issue with who is in there, after all, we may not be everyone's cup of tea ourselves, but loud screeches really do my head in. Personally I think too young a crowd puts me off, but that is a personal thing, so I have to deal with it.
I've been guilty with getting carried away with loud laughing and such. Wasn't until I was playing and others were doing it, that I realised I must've been a really annoying twunt! Told myself off and I'm far more behaved and quiet in and around play rooms.
Nothing more annoying than people having a loud conversation right near you when you're trying to concentrate! At least the wanking zombies stay quiet usually "
Except for a little bit of a squelching sound |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
STOKE-ON-TRENT |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
I
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?"
What selection procedure were you thinking of ? Only those who agree to have sex with you ?
Women tend to behave better than men, they don't follow men round like a pack of hounds. Then again neither do the men who are successful. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"For us its about behaviour in clubs - don't have an issue with who is in there, after all, we may not be everyone's cup of tea ourselves, but loud screeches really do my head in. Personally I think too young a crowd puts me off, but that is a personal thing, so I have to deal with it.
I've been guilty with getting carried away with loud laughing and such. Wasn't until I was playing and others were doing it, that I realised I must've been a really annoying twunt! Told myself off and I'm far more behaved and quiet in and around play rooms.
Nothing more annoying than people having a loud conversation right near you when you're trying to concentrate! At least the wanking zombies stay quiet usually
Except for a little bit of a squelching sound "
 only when they feel the need to wank right next to your ear |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"
Ahahahahah I went in clubs for only one month!?!?
Now I am going once per month as a maximum...until I will find a partner in crime at least "
Why are you still bitching about the price of clubs if you only attend once a month and none of the 'holes' are good enough for you?
Methinks you stopped going to clubs because you got blanked last time you were at chams. I tried to warn you about this nicely but you didn't listen. You really could have had such a better experience if you didn't think you were so much better than everyone else. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"My thoughts are if there aren't any then how did you manage to play with females in a club Bit of a contradiction there
A bit of english for you The phrase "There isn't any" refers to the "selection"...
Where is the contradiction...? "
Not quite sure how that's a bit of English, but OK!
But if there isn't a selection, then that would mean everyone is the same and from my experience of going to clubs, we are all pretty different. Having some people that will have sex with you and some that won't is a selection of different females. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Yes but how much!? Le Boudair £60 guys, £10 girls. You cannot say you pay. Entrance is practically free compared to guys...
I asked recently for men to state how much they pay because this 'men are ripped off' at the door comes up so much and I don't think any did. Most websites don't list membership or entry prices for single men.
I do kink events/parties which has a different price structure... per head not gender dependant. So the prices I pay do not equate to your argument. Admitted I wouldn't visit Le boudair now and haven't done. If it's only that club that has such a wide difference though.... what's the average price .... (across all clubs, or at least south England/midlands/north west) "
As I said...Chams and Xtasia are free for girls. £30-35 for guys.
Le Boudair £60 guys. £10 girls. I did not see any other yet... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My thoughts are if there aren't any then how did you manage to play with females in a club Bit of a contradiction there
A bit of english for you The phrase "There isn't any" refers to the "selection"...
Where is the contradiction...?
Not quite sure how that's a bit of English, but OK!
But if there isn't a selection, then that would mean everyone is the same and from my experience of going to clubs, we are all pretty different. Having some people that will have sex with you and some that won't is a selection of different females. "
I was joking ...however what you said does not make sense to me at all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Loudness and rudeness is one thing but I hate to see women getting overly d*unk in clubs not a good thing and I would hate them to be taken advantage of x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My question here then is women are always banging on about equality and equal rights ,they are always saying they are equally as horny as men they have the same desire for SEX as men ,they are always saying let's meet at a club ,so in this I want to be equal world why do men have to pay for the clubs to exist but then get castigated when they go to the clubs that wouldn't exist if they didn't go ,I think the clubs should level up the playing field and the charge for men and women should be the same "
You understood my message completely. We pay a lot more, and we are looked down.
I can see only two options:
1) become a couple
2) become a TV/TS |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"My question here then is women are always banging on about equality and equal rights ,they are always saying they are equally as horny as men they have the same desire for SEX as men ,they are always saying let's meet at a club ,so in this I want to be equal world why do men have to pay for the clubs to exist but then get castigated when they go to the clubs that wouldn't exist if they didn't go ,I think the clubs should level up the playing field and the charge for men and women should be the same "
Single women don't set the admission prices for the clubs. the club owners do.
And even if we did start saying 'I want to pay more else I won't go', how would that make it better? If couples and single women are charged more they won't go, therefore more single men and less play. If single men are charged less then there will be more single men and therefore less play for them. If men are charged the same but are vetted more, what happens if you're vetted out?
The clubs have come to the only solution they can to enable a fair(ish) spread of punters. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"There isn't any. Not only single guys are forced to pay much much more, and they need to be "accepted" to have a club memebership.
Single girls entry fee is inexistent, or negligible. Additionally no selection is done on them.
I do not refer only to the look, but also the behaviour towards other people.
Thoughts?"
I don't want to make it sound clinical but it's supply and demand. If there was as many single ladies wanting to go as single men then it might be different
(In my opinion)
If you don't like it don't go. Or host your own |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
OP, I'm not really getting your point.
They are privately owned business ventures. Good management and business sense says they should not disregard the _iew of their customers but they aren't their to redesign themselves to your preference.
Ultimately, as with all businesses, you can vote with your feet. If you don't like the offer, don't go. You seem to want women to go there and to cater to you and others they operate female friendly policies. They don't need or want to do the same for guys. You seem an educated man so what's so hard to fathom?
As for ladies behaviour. We complained about a woman chatting loudly in the play areas and the club in question took us very seriously so there are ways to address poor behaviour without vetting everyone.
You've tried clubs. You've given it a fair go. If they're not for you how about taking up golf and having a wank. Because the worlds not gonna change to suit you, no matter how elite you may be. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"OP, I'm not really getting your point.
They are privately owned business ventures. Good management and business sense says they should not disregard the _iew of their customers but they aren't their to redesign themselves to your preference.
Ultimately, as with all businesses, you can vote with your feet. If you don't like the offer, don't go. You seem to want women to go there and to cater to you and others they operate female friendly policies. They don't need or want to do the same for guys. You seem an educated man so what's so hard to fathom?
As for ladies behaviour. We complained about a woman chatting loudly in the play areas and the club in question took us very seriously so there are ways to address poor behaviour without vetting everyone.
You've tried clubs. You've given it a fair go. If they're not for you how about taking up golf and having a wank. Because the worlds not gonna change to suit you, no matter how elite you may be. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
After reading the original post and disregarding some of what you said, I'm presuming you mean that single females should be "vetted" to be able to get a membership at the club? (correct me if I'm wrong)
This is pretty much done by the clubs, they give the single females a membership if they want one. So many men complain that there's not enough single females in clubs, which would surely indicate not enough are going to create a vast amount to be "vetted" and then selected to become a member. All you have to do is look in the club section and re_iews, and you see the difference between figures of those going. So of course it makes sense for men to be "vetted" in a way if it works for the club. I have previously stated that I think there should just be a set figure on the amount of men entering a club and once that number is reached no more allowed entry, but then this could cause arguments as they may have a membership for the club, which was paid for to allow them entitlement to the club. Like someone else has stated if as many females were going to clubs then the probably would have a selection process.
Some clubs do require you to send a picture through for them to determine whether or not you are "good looking" enough (not a club I'd go to).
As for peoples behaviour in a club, I have witnessed females, couples and men being asked to leave the premises due to how they are behaving. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Ahahahahah I went in clubs for only one month!?!?
Now I am going once per month as a maximum...until I will find a partner in crime at least
Why are you still bitching about the price of clubs if you only attend once a month and none of the 'holes' are good enough for you?
Methinks you stopped going to clubs because you got blanked last time you were at chams. I tried to warn you about this nicely but you didn't listen. You really could have had such a better experience if you didn't think you were so much better than everyone else."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
