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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've never squited before(Chrissie here not Carl obviously lol) and wonder if it is an art I can learn, or is it just that some people never do?
Is it a relaxation problem I have? |
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I have done A LOT of research on it... I am capable cause I've done it before... mid wank years ago (had no idea what it was, thought I'd pissed myself) so it is possible.
Having watched someone else do it fairly close up recently it's fascinating.
But alas I've not mastered the art.
I think relax is the key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think its to do with how comfy you are
i can make myself gush/squirt very very easy but very few sexual partners can manage it, because i just feel more relaxed when im alone i think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've squirted several times in the past but don't think its all that.
Put it this way,having done it, I wouldn't worry if I never did again.
However,I do orgasm quite easily through penetration,now that I would certainly miss if I couldn't do it again. 
Bottom line,if your a woman that can't squirt,don't worry,its no big thing.  T
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've squirted several times in the past but don't think its all that.
Put it this way,having done it, I wouldn't worry if I never did again.
However,I do orgasm quite easily through penetration,now that I would certainly miss if I couldn't do it again.
Bottom line,if your a woman that can't squirt,don't worry,its no big thing. T
XXX"
i must admit i go along with this
the orgasums i have where i dont loose fluid are far more intense than the ones where i do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x"
your still young tho and probably still learning about your body
i never had a orgasum at all till i was over 30, took a lot of self exploring till i knew my body well enough to know how to do it, but once you know yourself you can share it with others  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x
Really?
Even by yourself? "
Never, not even by myself.. Think it's a control thing, can't relax enough etc etc.. Sucks regardless of the reason though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x
your still young tho and probably still learning about your body
i never had a orgasum at all till i was over 30, took a lot of self exploring till i knew my body well enough to know how to do it, but once you know yourself you can share it with others "
That's actually a massive comfort, thank you As I said above, think there are various factors in my way at the moment.. RE: the control thing, it gets to the point where I physically stop a guy if it starts to feel too intense, I don't like not knowing what to expect. So wish I could have been one of the girls who orgasms at the drop of a hat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x
your still young tho and probably still learning about your body
i never had a orgasum at all till i was over 30, took a lot of self exploring till i knew my body well enough to know how to do it, but once you know yourself you can share it with others
That's actually a massive comfort, thank you As I said above, think there are various factors in my way at the moment.. RE: the control thing, it gets to the point where I physically stop a guy if it starts to feel too intense, I don't like not knowing what to expect. So wish I could have been one of the girls who orgasms at the drop of a hat "
i remember for a long time holding back because i felt like i needed a wee and i didnt want to pee on anyone lol
then i met a guy who was far more experienced than i was who explained that it was ok to just relax thro it and that i wouldnt pee myself and if i did so what lol
we are never to old to learn from others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x"
You will meet the right person that you will feel 100% comfortable wiyh and be able to let go.
Maybe you have some hang ups from your upbringing or experiences in life that hold you back? |
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x
your still young tho and probably still learning about your body
i never had a orgasum at all till i was over 30, took a lot of self exploring till i knew my body well enough to know how to do it, but once you know yourself you can share it with others "
Totally agree with that. I was 22. First time I had a wank. I'd had sex with *ahem* one or two prior to that... finally I found out what I'd been faking! 
Keep trying... I hope it works for you one day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x
You will meet the right person that you will feel 100% comfortable wiyh and be able to let go.
Maybe you have some hang ups from your upbringing or experiences in life that hold you back?"
Who knows.. My Dad was a git (physically) to my Mum when I was young but nothing else of note (my Mum's a social worker so I'm aware far worse goes on!).
Perhaps as you say it'll happen when I find the right person. Ho hum |
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In the meantime, you could explore it yourself. Probably too much information but what the hell... I'm not sure what I was doing but I remember being at a girls night in someone's house and they were all talking about it. As I sat quietly in the corner taking it in, I realised that there was seriously something missing from my sexual experiences. They were all talking vibrators and the like, I didn't have one back then, but I went home that night absolutely determined to find out what all the fuss was about.
I figured I was just gonna touch it till it did something. It took a while, it generally still does, especially with a new partner, but when it came I knew all about it.
Didn't go out much after that!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd settle for being able to orgasm full stop! Spare a thought for girls like us x
You will meet the right person that you will feel 100% comfortable wiyh and be able to let go.
Maybe you have some hang ups from your upbringing or experiences in life that hold you back?
Who knows.. My Dad was a git (physically) to my Mum when I was young but nothing else of note (my Mum's a social worker so I'm aware far worse goes on!).
Perhaps as you say it'll happen when I find the right person. Ho hum "
I find different situations affect me in whether i get hard and whether i cum or not.
I find more intimate encounters more arrousing physically than what in most mens minds should be that ultimate male fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the meantime, you could explore it yourself. Probably too much information but what the hell... I'm not sure what I was doing but I remember being at a girls night in someone's house and they were all talking about it. As I sat quietly in the corner taking it in, I realised that there was seriously something missing from my sexual experiences. They were all talking vibrators and the like, I didn't have one back then, but I went home that night absolutely determined to find out what all the fuss was about.
I figured I was just gonna touch it till it did something. It took a while, it generally still does, especially with a new partner, but when it came I knew all about it.
Didn't go out much after that!
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Oh no, that's honestly not the problem - started buying toys a couple of years back when I realised I nor a man was going to manage alone!
Get to the point of being in danger of breaking the headboard I'm gripping it so hard but then have to stop whatever has got me in that state. A few guys have threatened to just carry on regardless but I honestly think I'd be furious if they ever did after I'd said stop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the meantime, you could explore it yourself. Probably too much information but what the hell... I'm not sure what I was doing but I remember being at a girls night in someone's house and they were all talking about it. As I sat quietly in the corner taking it in, I realised that there was seriously something missing from my sexual experiences. They were all talking vibrators and the like, I didn't have one back then, but I went home that night absolutely determined to find out what all the fuss was about.
I figured I was just gonna touch it till it did something. It took a while, it generally still does, especially with a new partner, but when it came I knew all about it.
Didn't go out much after that!
Oh no, that's honestly not the problem - started buying toys a couple of years back when I realised I nor a man was going to manage alone!
Get to the point of being in danger of breaking the headboard I'm gripping it so hard but then have to stop whatever has got me in that state. A few guys have threatened to just carry on regardless but I honestly think I'd be furious if they ever did after I'd said stop!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the meantime, you could explore it yourself. Probably too much information but what the hell... I'm not sure what I was doing but I remember being at a girls night in someone's house and they were all talking about it. As I sat quietly in the corner taking it in, I realised that there was seriously something missing from my sexual experiences. They were all talking vibrators and the like, I didn't have one back then, but I went home that night absolutely determined to find out what all the fuss was about.
I figured I was just gonna touch it till it did something. It took a while, it generally still does, especially with a new partner, but when it came I knew all about it.
Didn't go out much after that!
Oh no, that's honestly not the problem - started buying toys a couple of years back when I realised I nor a man was going to manage alone!
Get to the point of being in danger of breaking the headboard I'm gripping it so hard but then have to stop whatever has got me in that state. A few guys have threatened to just carry on regardless but I honestly think I'd be furious if they ever did after I'd said stop!"
Maybe thats what you need.
Someone to take things out of your control.
To "push" you further than you thought you should go.
Only you know.
Hopefully you will find out one day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never squited before(Chrissie here not Carl obviously lol) and wonder if it is an art I can learn, or is it just that some people never do?
Is it a relaxation problem I have?"
Sorry, poor forum etiquette - clearly hijacked your thread!!
Have it back, I think I'm in for a long wait to solve my problem  |
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I can count the number of times I have gushed on one hand and I have no problems being relaxed.
If someone knows the right spot... well
one guy got me to gush in a most unrelaxing place with a crowd watching... but I didn't know he had until I felt the puddle spreading. He thought he was god's gift... I wondered what's so great about that?
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for both the ladies on the thread,lol
its all about relaxation and not being anxious,just relax the mind and youl get there,,
j has recently squirted after a long time of trying ang searching for the right technique,found one and yes at first she did think she was gonna wee herself but,once she got past that feeling it happened |
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I am with polo on this, once someone starts me gushing, it just flows lol.
You have to be happy about not weeing, but i do think its down to techniques.kev taught me how to do it on other women by getting me too look for the tyre track,feel in your pussy when aroused and u will know what i mean,follow that and stimulate, carry on past the point at which u think u would normally come, and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dont let it worry you hun your still only young i knew a few women who never orgasmed till well into their 30s one girl found pot helped now imnot sugesting you try drugs but thats supposed to help you relax isnt it lol As for the squirting or i call it gushing thats another thing that happens or doesnt dont worry about it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the meantime, you could explore it yourself. Probably too much information but what the hell... I'm not sure what I was doing but I remember being at a girls night in someone's house and they were all talking about it. As I sat quietly in the corner taking it in, I realised that there was seriously something missing from my sexual experiences. They were all talking vibrators and the like, I didn't have one back then, but I went home that night absolutely determined to find out what all the fuss was about.
I figured I was just gonna touch it till it did something. It took a while, it generally still does, especially with a new partner, but when it came I knew all about it.
Didn't go out much after that!
Oh no, that's honestly not the problem - started buying toys a couple of years back when I realised I nor a man was going to manage alone!
Get to the point of being in danger of breaking the headboard I'm gripping it so hard but then have to stop whatever has got me in that state. A few guys have threatened to just carry on regardless but I honestly think I'd be furious if they ever did after I'd said stop!"
Might actually be a physical/anatomical/Neurological problem...personally I would get that possibility explored as well maybe..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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seriously chrisse, it is relaxation id only eva done it twice b4 i met chris ...it does fel like u need a wee and u need to stop , but ride thru it let urself go ...its ace... |
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I don't know so much it's something you can learn necessarily.
I only did it for the first time maybe 2 years ago. It was a complete accident and *Him* was trying something new. It worked
Once i'd done it once, it just seemed to happen and I rarely have any/much warning that it's going to happen. Sometimes I don't even notice till after. It's definately not something I can do if i'm 'trying'.
I've only very recently done it in front of others and it seems to be received quite well - the last couple we met bought out extra towels the second time we met them I had warned them!
*Her* |
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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago
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I orgasm and squirt. Separately and occasionally together. Think orgasms can be a learned skill but squirting depends on the skill and confidence of your partner. Mine takes less than 20 seconds, timed it! Guys with magic fingers are great. Quite a few others who can out there. Good luck, this is all about sexual discovery after all. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wish I could learn to do it, I have manage on 3 ladies but like all my ladies to gush, apparenty Donkey Dick have a reputation making them squirt/gush with 15 seconds, what is the magic trick? |
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"I've never squited before(Chrissie here not Carl obviously lol) and wonder if it is an art I can learn, or is it just that some people never do?
Is it a relaxation problem I have?
Sorry, poor forum etiquette - clearly hijacked your thread!!
Have it back, I think I'm in for a long wait to solve my problem "
is it a problem? sounds fantastically intense |
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