Morning. This is post for single guys really. Just trying to use my experience to help single guys, especially the newbies.
My advice is just to be patient and keep at it. I
have been on here previously and have been back for a while.
It takes months not weeks generally(unless you are a Brad Pitt lookalike lol) to get your profile right and develop friendships. 90% of your messages wont get a reply. Its just the way it is. Dont fret about it or get arsey. Keep your initial messages polite and try to include something from the persons profile that shows you have read it.
Try to go to socials or clubs. Its a great way to meet people and to show the kind of person you are face to face. It may or may not lead to something right away but it may help getting a meet in the future.
I have some great friends on my list and had some great meets. Patience is a virtue.
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Just to add to the post :-
We tend to find that we speak to people more on fab chat then via mail.
Chat gives you a real chance to let your personality shine through, hint - don't be a disrespectful tool and people will WANT to talk to you.
Me and Millie always respect a decent conversation more than a huge cock or ripped abs
Mike |
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I've realised starting up topics in the forum also helps you as the people can see your personality and you can share ideas and stories at the same time. |
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It's social Darwinism. I'm starting to think if some men haven't got the wit or ability to write about themselves, then even if they accept and act on profile advice, they still won't have the wit or ability to message people. |
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"Just to add to the post :-
We tend to find that we speak to people more on fab chat then via mail.
Chat gives you a real chance to let your personality shine through, hint - don't be a disrespectful tool and people will WANT to talk to you.
Me and Millie always respect a decent conversation more than a huge cock or ripped abs
Mike"
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