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Swinger site or not ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This site is called fabswingers but when your chatting to people and They say to you I wouldn't say I was a swinger what's that all about What are they doing on this website then why don't they just go on a dating site and leave the genuine swingers to it.

What's your _iew to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say it is a forum site lol.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

What's a genuine swinger?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree. But prepare for a hammering from the site police! Lots of moaning is done but as a swingers site for couples it is great. Mr W

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By *estinysswingersCouple over a year ago

Worsley

This site is what you make of it. If you get what you're looking for whose anyone to judge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest I dont class myself as a swinger because I'm single. In my head swingers are couples having sex with other people with their partners consent. I'm just having a good time with them ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This site is called fabswingers but when your chatting to people and They say to you I wouldn't say I was a swinger what's that all about What are they doing on this website then why don't they just go on a dating site and leave the genuine swingers to it.

What's your _iew to it "
.....

Its a swingers site....end off if you don't like it leave ????? and stop belly acheing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest I dont class myself as a swinger because I'm single. In my head swingers are couples having sex with other people with their partners consent. I'm just having a good time with them ??"

Totally agree with this

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

It's whatever you want it to be.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I use this site the way I wish to, and don't bother with how others use it. If they say 'I'm not a swinger' and it annoys you, then just don't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not a swinger, my account isn't banned. In fact i could actually make an account that didn't exclude me from being on here despite not being a swinger.

Some people just aren't into fuck and go, doesn't mean we want dating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not.

-Courtney

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

That very much depends on your and their definition of a swinger.

To some only romantically involved couples can be swingers... but these people are often looking for a single woman to join them, but singles can't be swingers

Others like myself don't really give a shit as I am only looking to meet men not couples.

I don't care how people use this site, swingers, not swingers, swingles, their choice. I know how and why I use it and am happy with that.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"What's a genuine swinger?"

You will have either a Certificate of Real and Authentic Playing issued by the UK Swinging Society or a Swinging National Order Badge issued by the American Order of Meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's a genuine swinger?

You will have either a Certificate of Real and Authentic Playing issued by the UK Swinging Society or a Swinging National Order Badge issued by the American Order of Meets."

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

"What's a genuine swinger?

You will have either a Certificate of Real and Authentic Playing issued by the UK Swinging Society or a Swinging National Order Badge issued by the American Order of Meets."

Bugger!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This site is what you make of it. If you get what you're looking for whose anyone to judge. "
The OP point is they say I'm not really a swinger. So what do they want from the site? Mr W

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"What's a genuine swinger?

You will have either a Certificate of Real and Authentic Playing issued by the UK Swinging Society or a Swinging National Order Badge issued by the American Order of Meets."

Bingo.... I have one.

The ink is still wet, but it's real

Cheers

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This site is what you make of it. If you get what you're looking for whose anyone to judge. The OP point is they say I'm not really a swinger. So what do they want from the site? Mr W "

Sex. Same as most people here, when you boil it down.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Surely people can use this site for whatever they choose, what harm does it cause other people that they use it in a different way to them.

Just avoid the ones you don't want to meet....simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your _iew to it .....

Its a swingers site....end off if you don't like it leave ????? and stop belly acheing.

"
So why do people say they are not swingers? And why be aggressive towards someone's opinion? Mr W

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

swinging, it is whatever you think it is, there is no right or wrong answer, just go with the flow and do what you are comfortable with, respect others, respect yourself and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your _iew to it "
See this is the problem with the forum. You aren't allowed a valid opinion. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"swinging, it is whatever you think it is, there is no right or wrong answer, just go with the flow and do what you are comfortable with, respect others, respect yourself and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

never gonna be a swinger

i signed up initially out of curiosity

stuck around because the forums were a laugh more than anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"swinging, it is whatever you think it is, there is no right or wrong answer, just go with the flow and do what you are comfortable with, respect others, respect yourself and have fun

Second that

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W "

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can see it from both sides .

We meet plenty of singles , who many feel aren't real swingers . Without them it would be a less enjoyable site for us .

We meet t girls , who again some say shouldn't be here . Without them it would be less enjoyable too .

But there are plenty of wannabes , dreamers , fakes , armchair swingers , and those who have no intention of meeting anyone . Without them it wouldn't make a blind bit of difference to us .

As long as one can out those that thrive on wasting people's time , everyone should have a good experience from the site . However they choose to use it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can see it from both sides .

We meet plenty of singles , who many feel aren't real swingers . Without them it would be a less enjoyable site for us .

We meet t girls , who again some say shouldn't be here . Without them it would be less enjoyable too .

But there are plenty of wannabes , dreamers , fakes , armchair swingers , and those who have no intention of meeting anyone . Without them it wouldn't make a blind bit of difference to us .

As long as one can out those that thrive on wasting people's time , everyone should have a good experience from the site . However they choose to use it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger "

Are we ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your _iew to it "

I'm a single guy, de facto I'm a time wasting knobhead who cannot read

Also, how dare I be bi, I must be the scum of the earth

On the plus side though, my fingers get a lot of use pushing buttons.... On my keyboard

In all seriousness and joking aside, I don't care if I'm a swinger or not, I'm having fun exploring my sexuality

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger

Are we ?

Who knows

just you do your thing and love every second

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

We just like having sex with other couples or hot singles xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger "
How can you judge That? Me W

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger How can you judge That? Me W"

I can't as I don't know the definition agreed that we can judge consistently.

They are a couple who swing by one watching, the other playing.

No right or wrong, but some couples may think that strange.

Until people agree what it is, people play by their own definition, others will maybe judge it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

"
Get the chip off your shoulder and show me the OP or for that matter any other person me included using singles as an example. Be nice and less aggressive towards opinions please. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger How can you judge That? Me W

I can't as I don't know the definition agreed that we can judge consistently.

They are a couple who swing by one watching, the other playing.

No right or wrong, but some couples may think that strange.

Until people agree what it is, people play by their own definition, others will maybe judge it.

"
Fair point my nan. But the OP has obviously had an issue with timewasters I presume. I agree use it as you see fit. The trouble is how some folks pounce on a perfectly valid opinion like the OP has. Not you I note. Mr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know you can have a reasoned debate without aggression! Mr W

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Just be nice people. Use the site as you wish but you can understand the confusion people cause to a swinging couple who expected the site to be exactly what it says on the tin. Mr W

I wouldn't call them a typical swinging couple.

So what is a genuine swinger How can you judge That? Me W

I can't as I don't know the definition agreed that we can judge consistently.

They are a couple who swing by one watching, the other playing.

No right or wrong, but some couples may think that strange.

Until people agree what it is, people play by their own definition, others will maybe judge it.

Fair point my nan. But the OP has obviously had an issue with timewasters I presume. I agree use it as you see fit. The trouble is how some folks pounce on a perfectly valid opinion like the OP has. Not you I note. Mr "

Thank you sir

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is a real swinger? From my point of _iewing its couples who like swapping there wife’s or share their wife with a single females most but some time single if the interested in single men…One down side is no matter who they are most of them single females single and some couples are wannabes just so they can explore or make fun of genuine swinger whose serious about their interests…that’s what I think hope I right.

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By *onyneMan over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a useitinwhateverwayyoufeelcomforatablewith site...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My thoughts regarding couples who want a swinging site only for "genuine" swinging couples is they start their own one and only allow "genuine" swinging couples to join. Then they could all leave us open minded singles and couples to get on with our sex lives in peace.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And if people would take the trouble to look around the site (the interest being a good place to start) they would see that the site caters for all people and tastes. I would like a name change if anything to deter the wrong kind of people from joining.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My thoughts regarding couples who want a swinging site only for "genuine" swinging couples is they start their own one and only allow "genuine" swinging couples to join. Then they could all leave us open minded singles and couples to get on with our sex lives in peace. "

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Yes indeed!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx"

"used to be"

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm here.

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx

"used to be""

Only the wording changed, not the intent xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx

"used to be"

Only the wording changed, not the intent xx"

But isn't this site proof that the intent, like the wording, has changed?

-Courtney

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx

"used to be"

Only the wording changed, not the intent xx"

It seems to me that, with the propensity of couples looking for singles to play with, the intent has definitely changed over the last few years.

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx

"used to be"

Only the wording changed, not the intent xx

It seems to me that, with the propensity of couples looking for singles to play with, the intent has definitely changed over the last few years."

Yeah not really swinging though more about couples acting stuff out or not letting the other partner play xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Although I agree that anyone has a right to be on here, technically it wasn't meant for you.

Swinging used to be called wife swapping and was only really for couples xx

"used to be"

Only the wording changed, not the intent xx

It seems to me that, with the propensity of couples looking for singles to play with, the intent has definitely changed over the last few years.

Yeah not really swinging though more about couples acting stuff out or not letting the other partner play xx"

That's your opinion though. Valid for you, but not for everybody.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think they should let the swinger title go now. It's so out-dated. Clubs and spas are nothing to do with real swinging are they. Its done in each others' lounges or spare bedrooms. You can't keep some aspects of swinging and ditch the others. Not if you want to be real genuine genuinely "genuine" swingers. It doesn't justify what you are doing or make it more palatable than single people having more than one sexual partner. No matter how you put it or label it,or how many drinks and chats you have in nice hotels before doing it,you're still just sticking your dick in another man's wife or a pussy you haven't made any pledges to. Sorry,I know the truth hurts but you're just shagging around the same as us singletons.

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"I think they should let the swinger title go now. It's so out-dated. Clubs and spas are nothing to do with real swinging are they. Its done in each others' lounges or spare bedrooms. You can't keep some aspects of swinging and ditch the others. Not if you want to be real genuine genuinely "genuine" swingers. It doesn't justify what you are doing or make it more palatable than single people having more than one sexual partner. No matter how you put it or label it,or how many drinks and chats you have in nice hotels before doing it,you're still just sticking your dick in another man's wife or a pussy you haven't made any pledges to. Sorry,I know the truth hurts but you're just shagging around the same as us singletons. "

Yeah we almost never use the term Swinger.

We prefer: Sexual Provocateur

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

So what if it is a swingers site and maybe I am not a swinger. What is anyone going to do about that? Arrest me?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"To be honest I dont class myself as a swinger because I'm single. In my head swingers are couples having sex with other people with their partners consent. I'm just having a good time with them ??"

We don't even consider ourselves 'proper swingers', we're just people who enjoy having sex with others

Mr ddc

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"So what if it is a swingers site and maybe I am not a swinger. What is anyone going to do about that? Arrest me?"

You'll be fine, you have boobs xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Another post by a couple with the hostile attitude towards singles.

We have as much right to be here as you do. As long as we use the site properly and have meets and don't waste anyone's time why do some couples have such a problem with that

Get the chip off your shoulder and show me the OP or for that matter any other person me included using singles as an example. Be nice and less aggressive towards opinions please. Mr W "

I'm going on how you post about singles. And I won't do as you say just because you are a couple and think this site is really only for you

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"So what if it is a swingers site and maybe I am not a swinger. What is anyone going to do about that? Arrest me?"

Probably not, just post threads about how Fab is meant to be for 'real' swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can see it from both sides .

We meet plenty of singles , who many feel aren't real swingers . Without them it would be a less enjoyable site for us .

We meet t girls , who again some say shouldn't be here . Without them it would be less enjoyable too .

But there are plenty of wannabes , dreamers , fakes , armchair swingers , and those who have no intention of meeting anyone . Without them it wouldn't make a blind bit of difference to us .

As long as one can out those that thrive on wasting people's time , everyone should have a good experience from the site . However they choose to use it

I shag all the time! You can call me a swinger or a very happy tart - I don't really mind tbh!

Does that mean I can stay??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

True! Hope you weren't wanting to meet couples though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

True! Hope you weren't wanting to meet couples though!

Not from here. Got my own already

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah we almost never use the term Swinger.

We prefer: Sexual Provocateur

Too many old people trying to dictate to us youngsters what we should be doing and calling ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't do labels

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF) over a year ago

East Midlands

What's your _iew to it "

Ultimately this is a sex site, some swing (I.e group sex, others solely 1 on 1)

Those into group I would define as a swinger (whether they be a couple or a single)

Those only into 1 on 1 I'd define as Nsa sex

Just my two pence worth

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"So what if it is a swingers site and maybe I am not a swinger. What is anyone going to do about that? Arrest me?

You'll be fine, you have boobs xx"

OK, in that case, lets f .....

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Ultimately this is a sex site, some swing (I.e group sex, others solely 1 on 1)

Those into group I would define as a swinger (whether they be a couple or a single)

Those only into 1 on 1 I'd define as Nsa sex

Just my two pence worth"

Darn, you let it out that I'm half a couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do labels "

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"So what if it is a swingers site and maybe I am not a swinger. What is anyone going to do about that? Arrest me?

You'll be fine, you have boobs xx

OK, in that case, lets f .....

Not sure about the cats though xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't you think it is strange when someone complains that singles are not swingers, yet some couples meet them? lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There needs to be a bridge between 'person curious about a threesome' and 'full blown gangbang'. Ideally swinging clubs would be that bridge but let's face it, they are intimidating places as much as they try not to be.

Fab is a place where people can dip their toes in try it. That's a good thing IMHO.

If people want a place with 100% certified swingers then there are parties that cater for this.

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

"Don't you think it is strange when someone complains that singles are not swingers, yet some couples meet them? lol."

Because your just toys to us Muhahahaha

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