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Who as the hardest time ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just throw this out there in Fabland
Who as the hardest time on here;
1. Single females being harassed
2. Couples being harassed
3. Single men getting abused
4. Bi men for being Bi
5. Bi women getting harassed
6. Other reasons - please add
See what you make of that one
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of everyone I think the single guys seem to get the hardest time,Bi or straight
That's based on 7 years of being on an off this site and being out and about at clubs and parties
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it fairly easy. All i hear is a bunch of whingers....not sure who has it the hardest..... Those who moan the loudest?"
Or those who have to hear the moans?
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I have it fairly easy. All i hear is a bunch of whingers....not sure who has it the hardest..... Those who moan the loudest?"
actually.... basically the answer i was going to give
people think they have it hard... this is suppose to be fun!!!
on the grand scale of "sweating the small stuff" this is a blip...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it fairly easy. All i hear is a bunch of whingers....not sure who has it the hardest..... Those who moan the loudest?
actually.... basically the answer i was going to give
people think they have it hard... this is suppose to be fun!!!
on the grand scale of "sweating the small stuff" this is a blip...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it fairly easy. All i hear is a bunch of whingers....not sure who has it the hardest..... Those who moan the loudest?
Or those who have to hear the moans?
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I knew there was a reason i have my fingers in my ears |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it fairly easy. All i hear is a bunch of whingers....not sure who has it the hardest..... Those who moan the loudest?
Or those who have to hear the moans?
I knew there was a reason i have my fingers in my ears "
.....but I'm not like all those other guys.....they all say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women can put filters on, that gets rid of half the tripe in your inbox.
Men, stop acting like arses, there you go.
I'd say probably bi guys getting turned down for their sexuality is the saddest reason, loads of us enjoy them though so it doesn't matter too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone who has an opinion that is not quite in keeping with the self appointed forum police's _iew and voices it on the forum..."
That's just your opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women can put filters on, that gets rid of half the tripe in your inbox.
Men, stop acting like arses, there you go.
I'd say probably bi guys getting turned down for their sexuality is the saddest reason, loads of us enjoy them though so it doesn't matter too much."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another mixed bag - some I totally agree with others are hard to swallow - but forum topics are for open discussion not a "shop window of opportunity"
please keep them coming and fill your boots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just throw this out there in Fabland
Who as the hardest time on here;
1. Single females being harassed
2. Couples being harassed
3. Single men getting abused
4. Bi men for being Bi
5. Bi women getting harassed
6. Other reasons - please add
See what you make of that one
J "
Who as/has** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really have a hard time at all.. Never had a cross word with anyone and conducted myself in an appropriate manner to have had some really successful meets.
Hard times are brought upon a person by the person..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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This makes me sad.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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Really??? That's horrendous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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Thank Fuck for being an unattractive minger! I may not attract any attention but I've never had messages like that.  |
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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Bloody hell :/
I apologise on behalf of all men. That's disgusting. |
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
Bloody hell :/
I apologise on behalf of all men. That's disgusting. "
don't apologise on my behalf that's got nothing to do with me i'm innocent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
Bloody hell :/
I apologise on behalf of all men. That's disgusting. "
It's not your fault, Dorian.
Mere mortals lack your innate class and decorum, sadly.
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd racpe you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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Even the whiniest single guy would agree that no reply is better than any and all of these.... |
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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That's really quite disturbing.  . I'd know idea it was as bad as that. Such a shame |
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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Seriously Cleo ? That's ridiculous. .. regardless of the fact that you're officially one of the sexiest ladies on the site (as voted by forum members), why would anyone believe it's ok to be offensive like that to anyone?
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
Seriously Cleo ? That's ridiculous. .. regardless of the fact that you're officially one of the sexiest ladies on the site (as voted by forum members), why would anyone believe it's ok to be offensive like that to anyone?
Cal "
Well, I don't mean to judge, but it's never from people with a discernible amount of intelligence.
Nor from people who have had any success on here.
So, yes. Ignorant turnips with cocks, who can type, really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women can put filters on, that gets rid of half the tripe in your inbox.
Men, stop acting like arses, there you go.
I'd say probably bi guys getting turned down for their sexuality is the saddest reason, loads of us enjoy them though so it doesn't matter too much."
I just wish the search function could reflect this. Nothing worse than getting to the end of a profile blurb or even worse part way through chatting to be told I/We don't meet bi men. It would save a lot of time and aggro. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
This makes me sad.
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(Our heroe astride his white hobby horse)
Never mind them dear, I think your wonderful. Mmmmwahh!
Exit stage right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
This makes me sad.
Enter stage left:
(Our heroe astride his white hobby horse)
Never mind them dear, I think your wonderful. Mmmmwahh!
Exit stage right."
Several women have been lovely about my post, as well. Are they white knights trying to fuck me, too?
Sometimes people are genuinely conciliatory and kind.
You sound horrid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone who has it 'bad' has tools to tackle it. I have had my share of abusive messages (connected to marital status in my case) and as a result everyone is now blocked from messaging and I do my own. Hooray, no more abusive messages. For nearly every problem on here, there is a simple solution available within the existing site tools. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
This makes me sad.
Enter stage left:
(Our heroe astride his white hobby horse)
Never mind them dear, I think your wonderful. Mmmmwahh!
Exit stage right.
Several women have been lovely about my post, as well. Are they white knights trying to fuck me, too?
Sometimes people are genuinely conciliatory and kind.
You sound horrid."
Actually, I meant you are wonderful. It was a piss take of myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
This makes me sad.
Enter stage left:
(Our heroe astride his white hobby horse)
Never mind them dear, I think your wonderful. Mmmmwahh!
Exit stage right.
Several women have been lovely about my post, as well. Are they white knights trying to fuck me, too?
Sometimes people are genuinely conciliatory and kind.
You sound horrid.
Actually, I meant you are wonderful. It was a piss take of myself."
I'm sorry. Late night soap-box.
Thank you.
Xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
This makes me sad.
Enter stage left:
(Our heroe astride his white hobby horse)
Never mind them dear, I think your wonderful. Mmmmwahh!
Exit stage right.
Several women have been lovely about my post, as well. Are they white knights trying to fuck me, too?
Sometimes people are genuinely conciliatory and kind.
You sound horrid.
Actually, I meant you are wonderful. It was a piss take of myself.
I'm sorry. Late night soap-box.
Thank you.
Xxxxxx"
I'm here all week. Please try the fish. |
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
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These types of messages are just pure abuse are disgraceful - I've come across this before!
They certainly don't reflect the majority luckily but it's very disturbing and I have certainly never received any!
Having just had a quick peruse of your profile Cleo - they are just pure jealousy messages!! Block and ignore but I'd report the 'rape' type messages or anything of a similar vane! |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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...Cleo - they are just pure jealousy messages!! Block and ignore but I'd report the 'rape' type messages or anything of a similar vane! "
Report ALL messages that are abusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me!
Sample of first messages, out of the blue:
'Cock-loving slag'.
'Fucking tranny.'
'Dirty slut.'
'I'd rape you so hard, you filthy bitch.'
'Are your legs always together to hide your cock?'
'Too much fat to be sexy.'
And when I politely say no, thank you:
'You're a boring c**t. No wonder your husband don't fuck you.'
'Wouldn't fuck you, tranny slag'.
'Only joking lol. Never fuck an ugly P*ki'
'Good. I bet you're a diseased c**t'
'Don't want a dirty immigrant whore, anyway...'
They're just the ones I can think of.
And I mean every. Single. Day.
Xxxx
This makes me sad.
Enter stage left:
(Our heroe astride his white hobby horse)
Never mind them dear, I think your wonderful. Mmmmwahh!
Exit stage right.
Several women have been lovely about my post, as well. Are they white knights trying to fuck me, too?
Sometimes people are genuinely conciliatory and kind.
You sound horrid.
Actually, I meant you are wonderful. It was a piss take of myself.
I'm sorry. Late night soap-box.
Thank you.
Xxxxxx
I'm here all week. Please try the fish. "
I will darling. And tip the waitresses! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally people who don't utilise the site tools that are there to minimise grief and wasted effort"
I've spent months looking for the 'abusive c**t' filter, the 'single-digit IQ' filter, and the 'psychopath trainee' filter, but haven't had any luck.
Perhaps you could point me in the right direction for these?  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"normally people who don't utilise the site tools that are there to minimise grief and wasted effort
I've spent months looking for the 'abusive c**t' filter, the 'single-digit IQ' filter, and the 'psychopath trainee' filter, but haven't had any luck.
Perhaps you could point me in the right direction for these? "
I said normally, not everyone.
clearly, you are the exception |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just throw this out there in Fabland
Who as the hardest time on here;
1. Single females being harassed
2. Couples being harassed
3. Single men getting abused
4. Bi men for being Bi
5. Bi women getting harassed
6. Other reasons - please add
See what you make of that one
J "
oh its easily women they get so many messages and most are ridiculous so they get annoyed then unfortunately they take it out on the genuine guys ,so guys come in second place   hugs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody...it's a website, you can't have a hard time on a website you voulenteer to be on, you just click off fab if you don't like the place and find it hard, literally one click
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