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mens obsession with anal!!??
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over a year ago
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
  
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??  "
It's about variety and another hole we can use.... If we could stick it in your ear we probably would! |
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Lol you noticed too hun
Personally I am not a fan of bum fun coz it can be bloody painful n not in a nice way if done wrong
I get the whole ohhhh it's tighter thing and the it's a different orgasm thing it's just the it's ouchy and in essence a sewage outlet pipe that grims me out
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u?? "
Done properly it provides different sensations and enjoyment for both man and women. It's adds variety and a bit of filthy nastiness into our repitoir which is exciting . Don't want to do it ? Then don't do it . Sex is for pleasure not unhappiness ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, I think it makes men feel more in control!  "
Pretty much this but for me it's even greater when the female is really into it and orgasms from it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol you noticed too hun
Personally I am not a fan of bum fun coz it can be bloody painful n not in a nice way if done wrong
I get the whole ohhhh it's tighter thing and the it's a different orgasm thing it's just the it's ouchy and in essence a sewage outlet pipe that grims me out
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now I wouldn't let an anaconda up there 
And yes I get every hole is a goal..
But its one of the 1st questions I get asked..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"LOL I'm glad you return the question.
What do they reply when you ask if they take it up the ass?
Why do you think TV/S do so well on this site? he he"
Straight out no haha
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My fb Ruby has orgasm through anal, I think it depends how it's done. "
Oh I'm one of those women who find it hard to orgasm ..but id definitely love to experience an anal one..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is more psychological than physical, Anus in the past was like a forbidden place that no entry allow but we all want to try something that is not permitted........that extra kinky and taboo feeling |
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"We given it a try a few time,s i wanted to try it more than Paul to be honest every time it did not do a lot for me i just felt very full down there and in need of a good poo"
Think that's every woman's worst nightmare and 1st thought
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is more psychological than physical, Anus in the past was like a forbidden place that no entry allow but we all want to try something that is not permitted........that extra kinky and taboo feeling "
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surprisingly ive never actually done it....but do like finger/thumb/tongueing a cute little bum.... but it doesnt all have to be about full penetration. Perhaps its the taboo, or perhaps the knwoledge that the lady you are with, is allowing you into her most intimate spot, hence you are hugely valued. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u?? "
NOT a fan myself |
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"Lol you noticed too hun
Personally I am not a fan of bum fun coz it can be bloody painful n not in a nice way if done wrong
I get the whole ohhhh it's tighter thing and the it's a different orgasm thing it's just the it's ouchy and in essence a sewage outlet pipe that grims me out
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Sewage outlet pipe |
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By *lascumMan
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u?? "
Yep love it but love giving it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've certainly noticed a strong predominance of anal in online porn, these days.
Can't see the attraction, myself. Gimme a good, old-fashioned fanny-fuck, any day of the week. Warm, wet, slippery and delicious. Why bother with the alternative? - tight, dry, smelly...
I'd happily lick my fingers after being inside a wet pussy - not after being up an arsehole though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've certainly noticed a strong predominance of anal in online porn, these days.
Can't see the attraction, myself. Gimme a good, old-fashioned fanny-fuck, any day of the week. Warm, wet, slippery and delicious. Why bother with the alternative? - tight, dry, smelly...
I'd happily lick my fingers after being inside a wet pussy - not after being up an arsehole though."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??
It's about variety and another hole we can use.... If we could stick it in your ear we probably would!"
True that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I enjoy anal immensely, both giving and receiving (real cock, toys etc), plus I live to rim a gorgeous female derrière. Anal can be immensely pleasurable, but like all activities, care and respect are paramount. If one is a respectful and considerate partner, then the female recipient can have a wonderful experience, go at it like a bull in a china shop and that's a whole different thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy anal immensely, both giving and receiving (real cock, toys etc), plus I live to rim a gorgeous female derrière. Anal can be immensely pleasurable, but like all activities, care and respect are paramount. If one is a respectful and considerate partner, then the female recipient can have a wonderful experience, go at it like a bull in a china shop and that's a whole different thing!"
Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I enjoy anal immensely, both giving and receiving (real cock, toys etc), plus I live to rim a gorgeous female derrière. Anal can be immensely pleasurable, but like all activities, care and respect are paramount. If one is a respectful and considerate partner, then the female recipient can have a wonderful experience, go at it like a bull in a china shop and that's a whole different thing!
Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging. "
Ok excuse my ignorance but what is pegging ??
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"I enjoy anal immensely, both giving and receiving (real cock, toys etc), plus I live to rim a gorgeous female derrière. Anal can be immensely pleasurable, but like all activities, care and respect are paramount. If one is a respectful and considerate partner, then the female recipient can have a wonderful experience, go at it like a bull in a china shop and that's a whole different thing!
Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging.
Ok excuse my ignorance but what is pegging ??
I had to google it a few weeks back after reading it on a profile. Its anal penetrative play - dildos strap ons etc -for both male and female to enjoy
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"It is more psychological than physical, Anus in the past was like a forbidden place that no entry allow but we all want to try something that is not permitted........that extra kinky and taboo feeling "
Spot on imho. Feels naughtier. |
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Genuinely...no offence aimed...BUT...If a man puts his cock up a womans anus...then i'm sorry but it's more of a homosexual act than straight.
And why men want to do it is quite beyond me...99% of the time is because the little boy in them think its 'naughty'..
Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...
Not for me ta |
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"Genuinely...no offence aimed...BUT...If a man puts his cock up a womans anus...then i'm sorry but it's more of a homosexual act than straight.
And why men want to do it is quite beyond me...99% of the time is because the little boy in them think its 'naughty'..
Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...
Not for me ta"
What an utterly ridiculous statement. Firstly, Not all Gay men practice anal. Most however I'm led to believe enjoy oral sex. Guessing you like your cock sucked, Does that make you gay?
It is just a sexual act like any other. Some enjoy it and some don't.
"Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!..."
That could describe a great many mouths too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u?? "
Yes to both lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Genuinely...no offence aimed...BUT...If a man puts his cock up a womans anus...then i'm sorry but it's more of a homosexual act than straight.
And why men want to do it is quite beyond me...99% of the time is because the little boy in them think its 'naughty'..
Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...
Not for me ta
What an utterly ridiculous statement. Firstly, Not all Gay men practice anal. Most however I'm led to believe enjoy oral sex. Guessing you like your cock sucked, Does that make you gay?
It is just a sexual act like any other. Some enjoy it and some don't.
Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...
That could describe a great many mouths too! "
Each to their own...sticking it up someone's shitter is not my idea of hot sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me the attraction was and is taboo.
Admittedly to begin with I didn't see the appeal and I can understand people's reservations regarding hygiene and pain but as long as there is trust, respect, and a good amount of lube it's great naughty fun.
You can't go in there like an express train, takes preparation.
I say this having given and received.
I also bloody love rimming a lady's bottom and she's into it and anal it is extremely sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Really what an ass of a post.
Most guys just want to penetrate your glory hole. Give us a break.
Watching programme few years back. He was gay and had anal sex. He died shortly after. The other guy fucking his hole passed on cancer. I was shocked... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really what an ass of a post.
Most guys just want to penetrate your glory hole. Give us a break.
Watching programme few years back. He was gay and had anal sex. He died shortly after. The other guy fucking his hole passed on cancer. I was shocked... X"
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I'm not sure whether this is a troll or a lack of understanding but you do realise cancer is not a contagious disease or an STD? |
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Variety, control (as mentioned above) and it is a nice feeling when giving!
Not everyones cup of tea but with some lasses the thought of it puts them off so much they would never enjoy. Each to their own of course.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think most the guys ive know aint obsessed its just I don't have a fanny,,so,,,,,,,, |
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"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.
Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??
Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u?? "
Try asking them if THEY like it up the ass! |
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I personally enjoy anal but it shocks me how many guys think they can just slam it in without any lube or warming up! Dipping your cock in a juicy pussy first does not in my experience count as lube. It all disappears too quickly lol. Need real lube and to build up to a full cock with fingers first, then just the head. If you do it properly it can be amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm in the mood I LOVE it - hard!!!!
It has to be initiated by me though or I'm not relaxed enough and it hurts!!
Poppers helps too! X"
What are poppers? |
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It's because..
The taboo element still exists, this thread is evidence of that. And, because it's unlikely that the girl will have had anal sex with everyone they've been to bed with. Again this thread is the evidence, there are men that aren't keen.
But.. It is probably the act most requiring of trust and therefore the greatest intimacy. Personally the second when a girl realises that she is going to come from anal penetration and tells me is one of the horniesr things you can hear.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm in the mood I LOVE it - hard!!!!
It has to be initiated by me though or I'm not relaxed enough and it hurts!!
Poppers helps too! X
What are poppers?"
Used to be amyl nitrate but now contain other substances. They help relax you for anal. They can make you giggly too! Used to be known as a gay drug for obvious reasons.
Available in many clubs but understandably frowned on by some though they're legal. X |
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