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Ladies and gents - Do you ever get jealous/envious of others on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good morning my lovelies. It's pissing down outside so I thought I'd start a thread - as you do! 
I've noticed recently that I just don't seem to have the jealousy/envy 'gene' at all! I fully accept there are far more beautiful women on here than I - with stunning bodies and great boobs - and rather than being bothered by it I just enjoy their pics - and am delighted when I get to meet/play with them!
So - is everyone with me on this? Do you love seeing a gorgeous woman/guy (of the same sex!) at a club or here on fab - or do you feel a teensy bit envious? Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't understand the jealousy/envy thing. I like seeing other people enjoy themselves. Plus, I like seeing lots of hot people because that means there is plenty of choice for who to play with. 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all. I do have body image issues and not much self confidence, but Mrs GNB has been a huge factor in the progress I've made in getting over those issues.
I don't look at any of the guys on here and think 'oh i wish i looked like that', even though i do think there are a lot of good looking guys on here. |
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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago
Port Talbot |
No - never jealousy. I'm realistic about myself, good and bad points, and have seen some beautiful women and attractive men on here that leave me and mine standing! I don't envy them, more like appreciate them, and make the best of what I can offer.. |
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Don't have a jealous bone in my body and have no qualms in telling my slimmer/prettier friends how lovely they look.
However, as I'm suffering from alopecia I do feel envious of people with lovely hair. Travelled home on the train with my daughter's boyfriend last week. Talking to him I couldn't take my eyes of his hair. He's Asian with jet black thick hair...gorgeous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I dont do jealousy, I do envy, for example someone has a great pair of shoes I get envious but not jealous.
For a fat girl I'm body confident and I've found that people struggle to accept that and try and bring me down with snide comments due to their own insecurities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To a degree yes,although it just inspires me more to get my backside to the gym to exercise. Can't do f*ck all about my mug though  "
You look fantastic as you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have the jealousy or envious gene either. As much as I'd like a fitter body it's never going to happen. I don't feel jealous seeing women with men I'm attracted to or have met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I see a beautiful body or a lovely face, I tell them.
I'm a big believer in making someone walk taller.
Pouring salt in someone else's sugar won't make mine any sweeter!
Xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see a beautiful body or a lovely face, I tell them.
I'm a big believer in making someone walk taller.
Pouring salt in someone else's sugar won't make mine any sweeter!
Xxxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see a beautiful body or a lovely face, I tell them.
I'm a big believer in making someone walk taller.
Pouring salt in someone else's sugar won't make mine any sweeter!
Xxxx"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see a beautiful body or a lovely face, I tell them.
I'm a big believer in making someone walk taller.
Pouring salt in someone else's sugar won't make mine any sweeter!
Xxxx"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I see a beautiful body or a lovely face, I tell them.
I'm a big believer in making someone walk taller.
Pouring salt in someone else's sugar won't make mine any sweeter!
Xxxx"
Great attitude!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jealousy and envy are both pointless as far as I believe, in the swinging world in particular. I admire things or people and freely compliment them, I'm sure there are different dynamics in some other people / couples etc though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish i had a car, and could get out more at nights. If i concentrated on others being able to do this then i might get jealous of that, but i just focus more on what i'm able to do and do it.
I don't compare myself to other people or who they're fucking. Never been the jealous type, which was good coz an ex was into headfucking me and tried to make me jealous a fair bit but he never got a reaction from me. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Good morning my lovelies. It's pissing down outside so I thought I'd start a thread - as you do!
I've noticed recently that I just don't seem to have the jealousy/envy 'gene' at all! I fully accept there are far more beautiful women on here than I - with stunning bodies and great boobs - and rather than being bothered by it I just enjoy their pics - and am delighted when I get to meet/play with them!
So - is everyone with me on this? Do you love seeing a gorgeous woman/guy (of the same sex!) at a club or here on fab - or do you feel a teensy bit envious? Xx
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Not really. I do feel that this is a tendency more common amongst female members of the site. Guys in my experience just treat it as friendly competition. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good morning my lovelies. It's pissing down outside so I thought I'd start a thread - as you do!
I've noticed recently that I just don't seem to have the jealousy/envy 'gene' at all! I fully accept there are far more beautiful women on here than I - with stunning bodies and great boobs - and rather than being bothered by it I just enjoy their pics - and am delighted when I get to meet/play with them!
So - is everyone with me on this? Do you love seeing a gorgeous woman/guy (of the same sex!) at a club or here on fab - or do you feel a teensy bit envious? Xx
Not really. I do feel that this is a tendency more common amongst female members of the site. Guys in my experience just treat it as friendly competition. "
Possibly!
Fortunately as there are so many more men on here than women there's no need for the women to see it as a competition! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No place in swinging for jealousy, it's just stupid.
Personally I think it can be a healthy thing being a little envious.. Makes me strive for the things that I am envious over!! |
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I always used to say no and mostly I'm not the slightest bit envious except recently I've started realising how happy couples are when they are both swinging and that happiness is something I'm slightly envious of. I see that people have had sex with others I just think 'good for them' with no jealousy or envy. Maybe winsome is a more accurate word to use. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"I am a bit envious that I don't get to all the great socials that seem to be going on, but that's my own doing. "
Honestly, I am feeling this a little yesterday and today.
But it will pass shortly. |
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By *jswingCouple
over a year ago
Derby |
Speaking for myself, as I won't speak for her although I'm fairly sure she feels the same, I don't have a jealous or envious bone in my body and although I'm just a average guy who's just plodding through life I'm very content thank you very much. Baz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm jealous of the entire swinging scene in the UK. I'm from the US and it totally sucks here. That's what I'm jealous of. You guys and girls in UK totally understand what the true meaning of swinging is. |
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"I'm jealous of the entire swinging scene in the UK. I'm from the US and it totally sucks here. That's what I'm jealous of. You guys and girls in UK totally understand what the true meaning of swinging is. "
There does seem to be a dearth of swingers in the USA. There's a guy from Manhattan rollman or some thing and he says the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm feeling a bit crap I do sometimes feel slightly envious at others' bodies/lingerie/shoes/whatever but then I remind myself it's either something I could have but am too lazy, or that I'm never going to have so there's no point worrying. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm feeling a bit crap I do sometimes feel slightly envious at others' bodies/lingerie/shoes/whatever but then I remind myself it's either something I could have but am too lazy, or that I'm never going to have so there's no point worrying."
Honey you're a goddess and we adore you!
The fact that you're top of hot pics - and deservedly so - should give you all the confidence you need! If it doesn't - come to mine for dinner and I'll tell you how ace you are!
Lingerie and shoes are just 'stuff' - and they tend to be peeled off pretty quickly anyway!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If jealously starts creeping in then your in the wrong game of pleasure and need to think over options again "
I agree.. But when I 1st joined ( have since rejoined) I didn't fully understand .. Soon got over that thou  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a lovely thread well done OP it's so nice to see the kind words and support you give each other
Anna xx "
Thank you! Loving the white basque Anna! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Envious of the freedom people have on here to go where they want, when they want to. Yes, I know, im married so I should accept it but its not that easy to accept my restrictions. And dont start me on the body issues, there are some fabulous people on here, I had a reasonable size body once, but let it go, struggling now to regain it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although fab is abundant with ladies much more beautiful than myself I'm not jealous of their looks although I do take a minute to admire the beauties on here
However, I do sometimes envy the confidence of some women and men on here in terms of the picturess they share on here and how body confident everyone seems to be on here - not that anyone has reason not to be.
Hope that makes sense, I just seem to ramble on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No although if someone on our friends list posts a picture of some sort of deviant sexual act (Dp normally) we get jealous we have not done it.
Our bodies pass muster for ourselves and that's all we care about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm feeling a bit crap I do sometimes feel slightly envious at others' bodies/lingerie/shoes/whatever but then I remind myself it's either something I could have but am too lazy, or that I'm never going to have so there's no point worrying.
Honey you're a goddess and we adore you!
The fact that you're top of hot pics - and deservedly so - should give you all the confidence you need! If it doesn't - come to mine for dinner and I'll tell you how ace you are!
Lingerie and shoes are just 'stuff' - and they tend to be peeled off pretty quickly anyway! "
You're very kind. Certainly don't feel like that all the time - but everyone has their off days x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm feeling a bit crap I do sometimes feel slightly envious at others' bodies/lingerie/shoes/whatever but then I remind myself it's either something I could have but am too lazy, or that I'm never going to have so there's no point worrying.
Honey you're a goddess and we adore you!
The fact that you're top of hot pics - and deservedly so - should give you all the confidence you need! If it doesn't - come to mine for dinner and I'll tell you how ace you are!
Lingerie and shoes are just 'stuff' - and they tend to be peeled off pretty quickly anyway!
You're very kind. Certainly don't feel like that all the time - but everyone has their off days x"
We do! After a hard day with the kids I sometimes look in the mirror ad wonder why the hell anyone would want me!
I think all we singles must have those days!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell no.
I think I rock and the better half also loves me, so those two things are all that matters.
We need to get out of this culture of comparing ourselves to strangers on the Internet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only time I get envious is when it's hard to get out to clubs and parties due to work and family. But that's my personal issues and the choices I made |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jealous? No. Envious? Perhaps a little at times if I'm honest - particularly of the fit, handsome, hung and charming guys and their damn perfect genes and personalities. Bastards!! Ha ha
I know where I stand in life's attractiveness scale so have accepted that and try to make the best of a bad situation - but any guy who says he wasn't slightly envious of that popular kid in school who all the girls liked pretty much effortlessly on their part is kidding themselves I think (unless of course they WERE that kid! ) |
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"If I'm feeling a bit crap I do sometimes feel slightly envious at others' bodies/lingerie/shoes/whatever but then I remind myself it's either something I could have but am too lazy, or that I'm never going to have so there's no point worrying.
Honey you're a goddess and we adore you!
The fact that you're top of hot pics - and deservedly so - should give you all the confidence you need! If it doesn't - come to mine for dinner and I'll tell you how ace you are!
Lingerie and shoes are just 'stuff' - and they tend to be peeled off pretty quickly anyway!
You're very kind. Certainly don't feel like that all the time - but everyone has their off days x
We do! After a hard day with the kids I sometimes look in the mirror ad wonder why the hell anyone would want me!
I think all we singles must have those days!! "
Oh we do every now and again, then think what the hell, life is too short |
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