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Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx |
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"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
maybe they changed their mind or never really intended to meet you in the first place OP? I don't know... |
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I wont talk on the phone but my partner will. I don't want people to have the opportunity to call me and interrupt my life. I like nsa sex in a box (not literally, obviously) and want it in its place. I have given my number in the past and had people call or text at inappropriate times. Okay I can ignore the call, but I don't want the intrusion. I think verifications should be enough. |
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By *os BobCouple
over a year ago
plymouth |
Our circumstances are such that we cannot risk the phone ringing at any old time. We use our "swing phone" which is only used after a meet is virtually assured using FAB messages and verifications. We phone en-route to confirm on our way and exact place etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate talking on the phone full stop.
I know I'm not a couple, but when people expect me to do this I cease contact.
One man even wanted a picture of me holding a copy of today's newspaper.
I'm not jumping through hoops for people. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Not a couple, but I will not speak on the phone prior to meeting. I'm well enough verified to prove I'm real. Will give out my number after a successful social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate speaking on the phone i have a really strong accent xx i will speak via kik tho as u can record voice clips xx also i cant risk my phone going off when one of the grandies is playing on it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
they don't like giving number out I've come across this a lot xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not willing to speak on the phone either, I hate speaking on the phone to people I don't know at the best of times and we feel we are verified enough that it's really not needed |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
We don't like to talk on the phone either, well Mrs doesn't and I don't mind so much, usually it's a fem to fem chat most want anyway, as said previously we are verified enough.
She says if they want to meet we'll talk then, we did try on a couple of occasions but she found it uncomfortable.
Having said all that we have been let down on 60% of the meets we have arranged and these have been with verified profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the female half, I don't wish to give out my number to people I haven't met. I don't particularly want the hassle of unwanted texts or calls once someone has it and I can't be bothered to have a second phone. I've also found that having given the number that on occasion the incoming call is then from a withheld number. For us communication on Fab works just fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't talk on the phone, we are verified so its clear we are a couple, talking on the phone doesn't guarantee anything real life still gets in the way sometimes and you can't make a meet and a phone chat does nothing to prevent that |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
As a general rule I will not proceed with a meet unless there is some phone contact at some stage before hand. I think for woman on here this is even more important, whether looking to meet single men or couples. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
Am not a couple and will happily speak on Skype webcam on a pre-arranged date and time but won't give my phone number out before that |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"It's a no from me too. I have enough veris to prove I'm genuine!! veris mean nothing coz what's good and acceptable for one isn't for another xx    "
Veris are not a rating system... they are a statement to say that you turned up, were who you say you are, and the meet happened. Mine clearly state I'm female, and not some 22 stone fella called Jim with halitosis and BO. Thats all they need to show - anything too graphic doesn't get shown as I find that distasteful (just my view - but I'm a prude on here) |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx
As a general rule I will not proceed with a meet unless there is some phone contact at some stage before hand. I think for woman on here this is even more important, whether looking to meet single men or couples."
Thanks for pointing out what is important - in your view - I don't call, don't cam prior to meeting - have been on fab for over 5 years, and never had a no show - but I am not a prolific meeter, and chat on here for weeks/months prior to meeting. Its horses for courses, people will find ways that work for them. |
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"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
I don't think they're scared but if it's important to you and I can see why it would be as a single woman and they don't want to do it they aren't right for you. |
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My wife flatly refuses to speak on phone unless it's with couple or someone we have met previous , it's a nerve thing I guess and she prevers others to make first move at club too , but I don't mind I always chat on phone or start the banter off in clubs  |
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"Not a couple, but I will not speak on the phone prior to meeting. I'm well enough verified to prove I'm real. Will give out my number after a successful social "
It's my number, I'm not handing it out to all & sundry |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"My wife flatly refuses to speak on phone unless it's with couple or someone we have met previous , it's a nerve thing I guess and she prevers others to make first move at club too , but I don't mind I always chat on phone or start the banter off in clubs "
But why would she need to prove she's a woman if you have already met?  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Not a couple, but I will not speak on the phone prior to meeting. I'm well enough verified to prove I'm real. Will give out my number after a successful social
It's my number, I'm not handing it out to all & sundry "
Swingers are funny aren't we? "Ill fuck you, but you're not getting my number cos you might be a weirdo" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are your pics for real? Fantastic. We guess others can't believe you are genuine with modelling pics like yours, so they are seeking reassurance. PS we are the response before yours also."
Modelling pics? I'm good at a selfie, but that's as far as it goes!
If my pics were better quality, you'd see that cellulite and stretchmarks make me as far from model material as you can possibly imagine.
I understand your point, though. I refer people who don't believe I'm just an ordinary, lumpy, suburban mummy to my verifications, which I display for ten minutes, or so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate speaking on the phone i have a really strong accent xx i will speak via kik tho as u can record voice clips xx also i cant risk my phone going off when one of the grandies is playing on it x "
I find my accent can put people off, too! |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Not a couple, but I will not speak on the phone prior to meeting. I'm well enough verified to prove I'm real. Will give out my number after a successful social
It's my number, I'm not handing it out to all & sundry
Swingers are funny aren't we? "Ill fuck you, but you're not getting my number cos you might be a weirdo" "
I don't fuck anybody until I feel sure of them - that may be after one social or after 4... and they do not get my number until I feel happy to do so, so not not a funny thing at all. I'm on fab for additional fun in life, not to feel obliged to act in any particular way - if folk don't like it, they are not forced to meet me. |
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"Not a couple, but I will not speak on the phone prior to meeting. I'm well enough verified to prove I'm real. Will give out my number after a successful social
It's my number, I'm not handing it out to all & sundry
Swingers are funny aren't we? "Ill fuck you, but you're not getting my number cos you might be a weirdo" "
Nah I'll fuck them away from home. No way in hell do I want them speaking to my children or messaging me whilst I'm baking or what ever at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate listening to myself (f) on the phone; we give out our number but only use it to confirm that we are waiting for the others... We have verifications from people who have meet us and have pic's so what moe do people want ?
Had requests to 1st do phone sex before a meet and that is a flat no and bye ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
You can call us anytime  lol |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"We have a phone just for this side of our life because people will ring and text you at any time"
We also like to keep our swinging and real lives separate. An old phone with a new pay as you go sim card serves the purpose. It is only switched on when we want it to be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem,speaking on the phone if I feel it's needed,and a meet is pretty much on the cards... a voice tho ,has been known to put me off.
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Put you off enough not to meet? Curious.
I hate talking on the phone. I've done it only a couple of times for meets, when the people were exceptional and not pushy about it.
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I hate speaking on the phone i have a really strong accent xx i will speak via kik tho as u can record voice clips xx also i cant risk my phone going off when one of the grandies is playing on it x
I find my accent can put people off, too!"
Really? That surprises me. what kind of accent do you have Cleo? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem,speaking on the phone if I feel it's needed,and a meet is pretty much on the cards... a voice tho ,has been known to put me off.
Her
Put you off enough not to meet? Curious.
I hate talking on the phone. I've done it only a couple of times for meets, when the people were exceptional and not pushy about it.
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Squeaky voices just don't do it for me . .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate talking on the phone full stop.
I know I'm not a couple, but when people expect me to do this I cease contact.
One man even wanted a picture of me holding a copy of today's newspaper.
I'm not jumping through hoops for people."
I agree with this.
I've been asked the newspaper thing too. I told them to find someone else to meet. If someone wants to chat on Skype to see if we get along, that's great and I am more than happy. If they demand a phone number then they can chat to someone else. Only people we have met get that, and even then not always.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
We've never felt the urge or need to chat on the phone. We won't talk on the phone prior to a meet, ever, but once we meet we don't shut up! If it's carved in stone for the other person that we do chat then we won't meet them. We feel equally as strong about that.
That's just how some people prefer it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no problem,speaking on the phone if I feel it's needed,and a meet is pretty much on the cards... a voice tho ,has been known to put me off.
Her
Put you off enough not to meet? Curious.
I hate talking on the phone. I've done it only a couple of times for meets, when the people were exceptional and not pushy about it.
Squeaky voices just don't do it for me . . "
Oof! Poor high-pitched folk!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it some couples are scared to chat on phone to,confirm I know it's way of sorting out fakes but some couples have veris and still won't chat find it very upsetting when trying to arrange a meet xxxx"
E and I are both quite shy and HATE talking on the phone to, when all is said and done, a total stranger. We find it easier to talk face to face when we meet. We never give our phone numbers out till after a meet if at all and its never caused us an issue yet.  |
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I won't chat on the phone, cam, skype or kik. I don't give out my number, even those I have known for years don't have my number.
I think I have more than enough veris to prove I am indeed a woman. |
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