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Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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If you change your looking for to men then you will appear in searches and your pics will get seen. In my experience it's men who do the most fabbing since they're the largest demographic. If they can't see you, they can't Fab you. Of course, that also opens you up to receiving messages from them as well. They are lovely pics, by the way. |
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over a year ago
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"Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
Its a bit unusual to be obsessed with fabs. Sounds like your a bit insecure? Your both stunning. Just enjoy the pictures and dont worry about fabbing. |
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I think its usual too. I don't look at who has fabbed or how many. If this is not a 'look at me' post and an honest question, maybe look deeper at why you need her photos to be 'the most noticed' or 'the best'. What is that implying about you and your relationship? |
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over a year ago
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Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X |
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Very attractive couple.
Really wouldn't worry about Fabs, makes you seem shallow and false.
You really don't need the abuse that could bring.
Enjoy it for what it is.
Some of those photos would look very good as oil paintings in the style of Jack Vettriano. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shows a slightly external locus of identity and value
Not a massive issue itself just don't let other people's _iews of your life and parter and yourself become more important than your own.
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"I think its usual too. I don't look at who has fabbed or how many. If this is not a 'look at me' post and an honest question, maybe look deeper at why you need her photos to be 'the most noticed' or 'the best'. What is that implying about you and your relationship? "
This!  |
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Thanks for the replies guys!
Sorry... Maybe I sounded a bit moany in the opening message. I did mean it in a light hearted way. I/we are not insecure... :o)
I just like showing my beautiful girl off.
I didn't think that was unusual? I was just curious as to how some pics get miles more fabs than others... When I obviously think Alice is worthy of more. :o)
We are actually open to single guys, and sometimes (but not often) play with them too.
Maybe I'm just being massively biased and need to get over it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's fine to take a fab as a little compliment, nothing shallow or pathetic about that at all.
Getting the hump if you don't get as many fabs as you'd like is a slightly different thing. |
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"Shows a slightly external locus of identity and value
Not a massive issue itself just don't let other people's _iews of your life and parter and yourself become more important than your own.
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...and this! |
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It sounds like you are seeking attention because you are otherwise unfulfilled...
Doesn't really matter how many Fabs your partner gets...
But would be nice if there were more pictures of the male half of the couple!  |
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She's beautiful and lots of men leave to know that their partner is admired by others as long as you know she's a person not a trophy I don't see a problem.
You will certainly get more fabs after this post I hope you achieve your aim and more importantly I hope it brings you the results you're after  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies guys!
Sorry... Maybe I sounded a bit moany in the opening message. I did mean it in a light hearted way. I/we are not insecure... :o)
I just like showing my beautiful girl off.
I didn't think that was unusual? I was just curious as to how some pics get miles more fabs than others... When I obviously think Alice is worthy of more. :o)
We are actually open to single guys, and sometimes (but not often) play with them too.
Maybe I'm just being massively biased and need to get over it!"
Sounds like you're slightly overthinking it them. Some of the pics which get thousands of fabs are people who accept every friend request, or go on cam a lot, or work in clubs - many many reasons which don't necessarily mean they're in any way more attractive than Alice. |
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I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder and your post does make it seem you value her as a prize you have won, rather than a person and it validates you and your worth that you have met and caught someone who you think, and other should think, is physically attractive. Your avatar reminds me of those parties I have heard about - female clothed, male naked, but in reverse - for me (pepper), I much prefer the male to be objectified, but I am just weird like that. Still trying to find those parties where I can show off MY black cop (tongue in cheek, of course) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X"
Bit rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it's natural to think your partner is the sexiest woman on here but that's not always enough in the fickle world of fab.
Some hot pics are well just that hot, others are well known ladies / have huge friends list / interact a lot in chat rooms & forums.
Once you are known you generally get hotlisted & then people automatically fab any subsequent upload. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies guys!
Sorry... Maybe I sounded a bit moany in the opening message. I did mean it in a light hearted way. I/we are not insecure... :o)
I just like showing my beautiful girl off.
I didn't think that was unusual? I was just curious as to how some pics get miles more fabs than others... When I obviously think Alice is worthy of more. :o)
We are actually open to single guys, and sometimes (but not often) play with them too.
Maybe I'm just being massively biased and need to get over it!"
You can mess around with set it so your looking for single men, pick a good time of the day Friday evening say,put a status up ( not a fab my pics but sy "hey guys whis free tonight?" do a forum look at me post to get the first few in.
Then with your location being London you'll get enough of a boost to get you into the bottom of the top fanned list and then you'll quickly rise up it.
Once you've been on the top lage they'll all get a lot of fabs but equally they will all end up on port blogs as the top fabbed pages get regularly copied |
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"Thanks for the replies guys!
Sorry... Maybe I sounded a bit moany in the opening message. I did mean it in a light hearted way. I/we are not insecure... :o)
I just like showing my beautiful girl off.
I didn't think that was unusual? I was just curious as to how some pics get miles more fabs than others... When I obviously think Alice is worthy of more. :o)
We are actually open to single guys, and sometimes (but not often) play with them too.
Maybe I'm just being massively biased and need to get over it!"
Never get over being massively biased toward your partner |
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"Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X
Bit rude."
Not sure why this is rude when it's a statement of our opinion and not aimed at anyone in particular but if we've caused offence, apologies and we'll stay out out of here from now on. |
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Now just being picky here please don't get annoyed but although some of the pictures are stunning they could be better nothing actually to do with her but
IMHO i feel that the pictures could be taken slightly better/ tweaked very slightly. Ie as the photographer perhaps explore some free online training from photography websites and youtube etc or try photoshop to see if you can adjust parts of the photos.
Now remember just my opinion on your photos since you are the people looking to get fabs. |
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"Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X
Bit rude.
Not sure why this is rude when it's a statement of our opinion and not aimed at anyone in particular but if we've caused offence, apologies and we'll stay out out of here from now on. "
It wasn't rude in my opinion. Don't stay away because someone disagrees with you unless you really can't handle it, that's what forums are about |
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"Thanks for the replies guys!
Sorry... Maybe I sounded a bit moany in the opening message. I did mean it in a light hearted way. I/we are not insecure... :o)
I just like showing my beautiful girl off.
I didn't think that was unusual? I was just curious as to how some pics get miles more fabs than others... When I obviously think Alice is worthy of more. :o)
We are actually open to single guys, and sometimes (but not often) play with them too.
Maybe I'm just being massively biased and need to get over it!
Never get over being massively biased toward your partner "
This..you just want everyone to appreciate what you do. Hotpics is fickle anyway so try and forget about it.
You have some fantastic pics |
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Wow!! Great looking woman and nicely taken pics. For what it's worth, I've just fabbed all her pics.
They certainly deserve to be high up on hot pics but you find a lot of the top spots are consistently taken by ladies who seem to have a big fanbase and post new pics all the time. It can be difficult for other (sometimes more deserving, in my opinion) pics to get a look in. |
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Whenever we put a new pic up I (jay) am constantly checking and updating Bec on where we are on top fabbed. We have made it up there a couple of times but changing your preferences to allow men is the way to get the Fabs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X
Bit rude.
Not sure why this is rude when it's a statement of our opinion and not aimed at anyone in particular but if we've caused offence, apologies and we'll stay out out of here from now on.
It wasn't rude in my opinion. Don't stay away because someone disagrees with you unless you really can't handle it, that's what forums are about "
Thanks, no not worried about handling it but don't want to set out to have a go at anyone or start a forum barney - no one appreciates those! X |
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........"
Nearly all of us are to an extent or we wouldn't be posting in the forum, putting pictures of ourselves up, trying to persuade people to our point of _iew.
I don't think the op is fixated really. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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hey many people want reassurance, compliments, other ways of showing appreciation.......
go for it.
and some knocking you will appear on those other threads wanting similar |
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........"
Something that still amazes me: all rather sad really...in my opinion of course. |
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"Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X
Bit rude.
Not sure why this is rude when it's a statement of our opinion and not aimed at anyone in particular but if we've caused offence, apologies and we'll stay out out of here from now on.
It wasn't rude in my opinion. Don't stay away because someone disagrees with you unless you really can't handle it, that's what forums are about
Thanks, no not worried about handling it but don't want to set out to have a go at anyone or start a forum barney - no one appreciates those! X"
I think plenty of people appreciate forum barneys  sometimes I think some contributors could start an argument in an empty room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........
Nearly all of us are to an extent or we wouldn't be posting in the forum, putting pictures of ourselves up, trying to persuade people to our point of _iew.
I don't think the op is fixated really."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you change your looking for to men then you will appear in searches and your pics will get seen. In my experience it's men who do the most fabbing since they're the largest demographic. If they can't see you, they can't Fab you. Of course, that also opens you up to receiving messages from them as well. They are lovely pics, by the way."
This! She is stunning mate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fabs don't mean anything - there are some rough people on here who get loads and stunners who get few. Alice falls into the latter Btw - that first pic where she is bent over, wow! X
Bit rude.
Not sure why this is rude when it's a statement of our opinion and not aimed at anyone in particular but if we've caused offence, apologies and we'll stay out out of here from now on. "
You didn't say it was your opinion though 
There are some pics in the most fabbed that make me go  but others must like them
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This thread is no different (I think it's actually preferable) to the "who is the best/hottest/mostpopular" that run almost daily. At least this guy isn't hoping to impress people just to win favour, he genuinely thinks his partner is beautiful. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"This thread is no different (I think it's actually preferable) to the "who is the best/hottest/mostpopular" that run almost daily. At least this guy isn't hoping to impress people just to win favour, he genuinely thinks his partner is beautiful."
or fab Monday, Tuesday.......
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........
Nearly all of us are to an extent or we wouldn't be posting in the forum, putting pictures of ourselves up, trying to persuade people to our point of _iew.
I don't think the op is fixated really."
Why did I post a new pic yesterday? Because it was a request and I wanted the attention......  |
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........
Nearly all of us are to an extent or we wouldn't be posting in the forum, putting pictures of ourselves up, trying to persuade people to our point of _iew.
I don't think the op is fixated really.
Why did I post a new pic yesterday? Because it was a request and I wanted the attention...... "
Why do we post new pictures when we aren't even meeting at the moment? |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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Other than getting pissed off about it, no there's nothing wrong with you. You _iew your missus as the hottest lady on fab, you put effort into taking good pics and you feel you're not getting the recognition you feel your lady deserves, but it's an illusion, the most fab pics on here are basically porn, not the type of pics you are posting.
Something similar happens with men on here, you can have the most tasteful pics ever but a lad posts a pic of his massive 10" slong on a crappy camera phone people fab the shit out of it, fact is porn sells, arty pics are appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We think the hottest pics and fabbing pictures is just another fun part of this site.
Jasmine has made page three a few times which we were happy about, but we wouldn't be devasted if the picture didn't get in at all or nobody fabbed them.
Have fun. |
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"Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
We often wondered how some pics get literally thousands of fabs when they'd only been up for half an hour and just came to the conclusion that they have lots of friends/very well known etc and just left it at that  there other fun things to be doing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........"
Human nature. People often follow crowds and in experiments if there's say 10 people with 9 shills who are in on it an deliberately pick a clearly wrong answer (say which line is shortest out of three and they pick a middle one) the 10th person who is the real subject will almost always change their answer to one they know is wrong because that's what the crowd says.
So it's only logical that we apply the same subconscious processes to our own appearance and the aperance and value of our selected partners.
I've watched guys go from madly adoring the girl they've just met to dumping them as when they've introduced her to their friends they've all put her down/say paid she looks ugly etc even when it's just because they're bitter it's incredible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion) |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion) "
We agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion)
We agree "
yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion)
We agree
yep "
And yep!
(By the way, great pics OP )
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My pics have been on the top of the most fabbed pics lots of times but being honest although it's a compliment in a way , it's also true what others have said - it makes you prime for the pic collectors and the people who will copy the shot and use it elsewhere ! Unfortunately for us this as happened several times and now our pics have been used on hamster , Twitter and other sex sites plus people have set up fake profiles on here with them !
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion) "
Bang on. A fab is a nice, simple pick me up. It's not necessary but it's nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion)
Bang on. A fab is a nice, simple pick me up. It's not necessary but it's nice."
And is it even a nice feeling pick me up if you get them after asking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why are so many people fixated on being validated by people they don't know, and are very unlikely to ever meet........"
This! Some people need to get off the Internet and enjoy real life. Instagram is the worst for this! |
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"I think its usual too. I don't look at who has fabbed or how many. If this is not a 'look at me' post and an honest question, maybe look deeper at why you need her photos to be 'the most noticed' or 'the best'. What is that implying about you and your relationship? "
Just that he's proud of her and wants others to appreciate her like he does. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Now just being picky here please don't get annoyed but although some of the pictures are stunning they could be better nothing actually to do with her but
IMHO i feel that the pictures could be taken slightly better/ tweaked very slightly. Ie as the photographer perhaps explore some free online training from photography websites and youtube etc or try photoshop to see if you can adjust parts of the photos.
Now remember just my opinion on your photos since you are the people looking to get fabs."
From someone with only three rather poor pictures of his cock this is a bit rich. The op's pictures are stylish and erotic, and are of a very attractive model. We have Fabbed plenty of them.
I enjoy getting fabs, so I can sort of understand your feelings but I see it all as a bit of a game, trying to select photos that will attract interest. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion)
We agree
yep
And yep!
(By the way, great pics OP )
-Courtney"
We agree with this too - well said.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
Yes, it's pretty sad!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great body and great pics. What's not to fab? I almost feel inspired to sort my own body out....but then i remembered the roast dinner and wine waiting for me  ....maybe next week  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
Yes it is sad. Not everybody likes the same thing, it would be a strange world if we did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion)
Bang on. A fab is a nice, simple pick me up. It's not necessary but it's nice."
Yes , exactly this !
it's easy to knock people down , yet still it happens for simply enjoying a very valid part of the site .
They are great pics and fully deserve all the fabs they get .
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Some people are making waaaaay too much of this.
Do we enjoy receiving Fabs for our pictures? Sure! Are we desperate for outside validation? Nope.
Attempting to make people feel like they are somehow needy and/or psychologically insecure for enjoying a rather simple and natural pleasure is a bit bizarre.
(in our opinion)
Bang on. A fab is a nice, simple pick me up. It's not necessary but it's nice.
And is it even a nice feeling pick me up if you get them after asking? "
Hmm. That I don't know since I've never asked. You have made me ponder. |
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Thank you for the kind messages guys. (And the fabs!)
I am actually hugely regretting posting anything at all now, as it seems a lot of people have taken my post in a way it really wasn't intended.
Oooooops.
Completely agree that a lot of people are reading way too much into it.
I'm simply a bloke who adores his wife and also, loves her being adored.
I'm also not obsessed with what other people think, but was just interested to see what other people thought of the whole 'fabbing' thing.
I should've chose my words more wisely!
Obviously, I love Alice getting attention, but I certainly don't feel she is a 'trophy' or treat her as that. We are a partnership and I adore her.
I just happen to enjoy seeing her fucking someone else from time to time... But don't we all on this website?? ;o)
Happy swinging guys. And again thanks for the lovely comments.
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"Thank you for the kind messages guys. (And the fabs!)
I am actually hugely regretting posting anything at all now, as it seems a lot of people have taken my post in a way it really wasn't intended.
Oooooops.
Completely agree that a lot of people are reading way too much into it.
I'm simply a bloke who adores his wife and also, loves her being adored.
I'm also not obsessed with what other people think, but was just interested to see what other people thought of the whole 'fabbing' thing.
I should've chose my words more wisely!
Obviously, I love Alice getting attention, but I certainly don't feel she is a 'trophy' or treat her as that. We are a partnership and I adore her.
I just happen to enjoy seeing her fucking someone else from time to time... But don't we all on this website?? ;o)
Happy swinging guys. And again thanks for the lovely comments.
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"Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
maybe you just sometimes like the attention the photos receive as it is seen as a positive for most to receive fabs on their photos on here? |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Howdy forum readers.
I just wanted to ask a question... Is it wrong that I badly want my gorgeous Alice's pics to be the most fabbed on here? I don't know what's wrong with me? Everytime I post new pics of her I am constantly checking to see how many tabs they have received for the next few days. And when she doesn't reach high up in the 'charts'... I mightily get the arse!
Is that sad? "
Yes that's sad...but nice pics |
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I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks.. |
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"I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks.."
You're a right bundle of fun you aren't you! Do you ever say anything nice! |
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"I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks..
You're a right bundle of fun you aren't you! Do you ever say anything nice!"
Ha ha! isn't he though???.. I'm off to 'cockily strut my stuff'
I had no idea my original post would stir up so much bad feeling!  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks.."
If you could choose between people saying something positive or nice to you or ignoring you altogether which would it be? If the former it isn't an indication of deep seated insecurity but of human nature. We all look for positive feedback in everything we do. Hoping for fabs for a nice set of carefully posed and executed photos of an attractive woman is no different. |
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"I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks..
You're a right bundle of fun you aren't you! Do you ever say anything nice!
Ha ha! isn't he though???.. I'm off to 'cockily strut my stuff'
I had no idea my original post would stir up so much bad feeling! "
Stick around to find out how perfectly innocuous posts can be twisted, judged and generally over reacted to . |
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"I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks..
You're a right bundle of fun you aren't you! Do you ever say anything nice!"
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"I think it's a little sad and reflects some deep rooted insecurity...you desperately want to have the "top" woman...it's basic peacocking behaviour, you can't cockily strut your stuff...even though you've put time and thought into the images...she isn't "most fabbed' and that's a little chink in your armour...i'm not sure if she managed to get most fabbed wether it would let you rest a little or fuel your hunger for more fabs...
For me "most fabbed" is utter bollocks..
You're a right bundle of fun you aren't you! Do you ever say anything nice!
Ha ha! isn't he though???.. I'm off to 'cockily strut my stuff'
I had no idea my original post would stir up so much bad feeling! "
I'm sure you strut your stuff very well as well |
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