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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's another single guy moaning but not about the usual stuff of not getting a meet or having messages deleted off etc this ones different. I know us men can be rude to you ladies and I read enough on the forums about these dickhead men But what about you ladies that are rude? Had some really abusive messages from some ladies just cause I would not drop everything to meet them. I have my son with me at the moment so time with him is precious I explained tthis to them and I got blocked called a wanker and a timewaster etc
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Rude message from guys are not really a problem because it just confirms that you wouldnt want to meet them anyway.
I would think the same goes for rude messages from women and couples....
Finding out in a message saves you the hassle of shaving ya bits, putting ya glad rags on etc to meet them - only to find out they are not the sort of person that you would want to meet anyways... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look in the 2nd cupboard on the right (next to the door)
In there you'll find tin hats, riot shields and pepper spray, just in case this thread takes a turn for the worst  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are rude/obnoxious/nasty people in all walks of life whether they be female or male. It's no different online, as much as people say "it's not real" it is so real. Your dealing with real people, some of whom enjoy the anonymity of sites like these and so express themselves in ways they never would face to face. Discussing it over and over won't change anything, in general, people are gits, in my opinion lol but some gits match other gits and the challenge is seeking out the gits who match you   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why? Sorry but this is a forum and I know single men get a bad name as most act like dickheads on here but there are some of us on here that don't act like that and if someones rude because I won't drop everything to meet them cause of my boy then it's an issue to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never been rude to anyone and I shan't start now.
However, I do not like kids, and am not expected to like those that belong to others, or be flexible about potential playmates domestic arrangements.
I have a busy life myself, and why should I not be miffed if I planned something well in advance, for the plan to fall apart if the other's person child is sick/school closed due to snow/whatever???!!!
Hence I have yet to play with anyone who has kids.
This is my choice, and is clearly stated in my profile.
I have had peeps being unkind about me lacking in tolerance and compassion because of my unyielding dislike of kids messing up with social arrangement.
Guess what? Water on duck's back!
Plenty more fish in the sea, so I just wave goodbye and move on!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look in the 2nd cupboard on the right (next to the door)
In there you'll find tin hats, riot shields and pepper spray, just in case this thread takes a turn for the worst "
is it really that bad? I thought I'd made a valid point will keep gob shut in future I guess I posted as I was trying to say that I was telling this woman the facts why I could not meet and I got called a liar a timewaster and for no reason apart from not meeting as I had my son, her answer was get a baby sitter. That ain't gonna happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take no notice of them babe,they are obviously not worth meeting,you are doing the right thing by putting your son first,hes whats important.If women and men on here cant understand that sometimes meets arent possible at the drop of a hat, for whatever reason,then they shouldnt be on here,and try to be abit more reasonable xxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i try to be polite to everyone but sometimes you have to be blunt and straight
i can come accross as a bitch yet if you meet me u would see ima pussy cat really x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest a don't think that in this case the gender of a person is the issue - we have had our fair share of ass holes regarding this matter we once had a guy ask if we could either dump our kid with someone or the other idea was leave my kid in it's high chair whilst we "went up stairs..." needless to say I told him where to go but it shows that they are not the right peeps to be meeting block and forget them! plenty more fish in the sea as they say...  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
with single females...
most are lovely
some are not
some you will like
some you will not
some will like you
some will not
some believe their own hype
some don't
now with single guys and couples..
all of the above again..  |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest a don't think that in this case the gender of a person is the issue - we have had our fair share of ass holes regarding this matter we once had a guy ask if we could either dump our kid with someone or the other idea was leave my kid in it's high chair whilst we "went up stairs..." needless to say I told him where to go but it shows that they are not the right peeps to be meeting block and forget them! plenty more fish in the sea as they say... "
Good grief! The balls on some people. I read tales in these threads that leave me slack jawed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest a don't think that in this case the gender of a person is the issue - we have had our fair share of ass holes regarding this matter we once had a guy ask if we could either dump our kid with someone or the other idea was leave my kid in it's high chair whilst we "went up stairs..." needless to say I told him where to go but it shows that they are not the right peeps to be meeting block and forget them! plenty more fish in the sea as they say...
Good grief! The balls on some people. I read tales in these threads that leave me slack jawed."
Yeh a no - does make you think twice about swinging - it did me we had not been on the scene long when that happened but you can't tar everyone with the same brush live and learn is all you can do!!! so far have not had to deal with somebody like that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone loses their temper.
and everyone can come across as shit.
if you dont like someone ignore them or block.
this also goes for pushy people and timewasters. if you got a kid and they cannot respect that then they aint worth a damn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - one person less to bother about, make sure you block her too!!!
I do have children - they are all adults but they've been known to thwart a good shagging session by returning home!!! Thankfully I've been spared them turning up whilst I've been in full flow. Always double lock the door anyway!
That said, I don't play with men with young children. I tried it once - wasn't for me as weekends were taken up with the kids - quite right too, but I have limited play time and I don't have to fit in with someone elses plans. If it were a partner, that's different, you compromise, you know the situation, but with so many single men with grown up kids/no kids why complicate my life!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's another single guy moaning but not about the usual stuff of not getting a meet or having messages deleted off etc this ones different. I know us men can be rude to you ladies and I read enough on the forums about these dickhead men But what about you ladies that are rude? Had some really abusive messages from some ladies just cause I would not drop everything to meet them. I have my son with me at the moment so time with him is precious I explained tthis to them and I got blocked called a wanker and a timewaster etc
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and the point of this thread is?
i dont mean to be rude but if your trying to tell us you can get rude women as well as men i doubt your telling anyone anything they didnt already know
all i can say is welcome to my world lol  |
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Think it's already been said! but men, women, couples etc some can be understanding of certain situations, some are complete shitheads. Same as in everywalk of life. Sometimes you just gotta laugh, we don't get many messages at all, but a lately had a few that wish we could copy and paste on here!! Yup nice women, dickhead women, nice men, dickhead men and they all on here! and they pity they don;t have little dickhead flags!!
xx Mrs Fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd seriously have my doubts as to whether the other person was genuine if they replied to me in that way.
Were they verified?"
no they were not verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However, I do not like kids, and am not expected to like those that belong to others, "
Awwwww bloody hell I knew that there was something that liked about you - Eureeka !!! I don't like kids either, but for some bizarre reason the litle critters seem to like me
Whats that all about then ?
Bob x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to agree with op theres have been a couple of times i've had to cancel because one of my kids are ill thankfully never had any bother just rearranged meet but it shouldn't matter if your a mum or dad if your child is ill thats the end of it and if people dont like it its thier problem . |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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" we once had a guy ask if we could either dump our kid with someone or the other idea was leave my kid in it's high chair whilst we "went up stairs..." "
shocking - and potentially dangerous - thats why I always suggest they are locked in either a cage or a dog kennel |
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By *averiMan
over a year ago
Swindon to bristol |
"Here's another single guy moaning but not about the usual stuff of not getting a meet or having messages deleted off etc this ones different. I know us men can be rude to you ladies and I read enough on the forums about these dickhead men But what about you ladies that are rude? Had some really abusive messages from some ladies just cause I would not drop everything to meet them. I have my son with me at the moment so time with him is precious I explained tthis to them and I got blocked called a wanker and a timewaster etc
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I wonder if the number of 'rude' blokes on here is something like the number of Females on here with inflated egos?
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One thing you'll find here is that the ratio of genuine decent honest single females to selfish lying bitchy ones is lower than that of genuine decent honest single males to time wasting wankers.
Most of the time, the 'alleged' single females are the worst.
All you can do is hope she (or probabably he) had a really shitty day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's another single guy moaning but not about the usual stuff of not getting a meet or having messages deleted off etc this ones different. I know us men can be rude to you ladies and I read enough on the forums about these dickhead men But what about you ladies that are rude? Had some really abusive messages from some ladies just cause I would not drop everything to meet them. I have my son with me at the moment so time with him is precious I explained tthis to them and I got blocked called a wanker and a timewaster etc
I wonder if the number of 'rude' blokes on here is something like the number of Females on here with inflated egos?
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i think probably so
it dont take long for a lot of women on here to turn into egotistical arse hole, ive seen it in the chat room so many times, a few nice comments and they think their Kate Moss and talk to guys like shit, but if the guy gets arsey back everyone has a go at him because we all have to arse lick the woman dont we lol |
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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago
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Whoever puts swinging before family, work etc is crazy. However so many messers on here I guess it makes us very sceptical. If someone can't meet for some reason its up to them but if they do it repeatedly they shouldn't be surprised that people walk away. Seems sensible to me. |
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By *amaraGraceCouple
over a year ago
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speaking about putting your kids first it stuns me the amount of photos i have seen on here with kids clothes,toys,and even pics on the wall in the background!!! some peeps need to put their kids first too just like you do
"Here's another single guy moaning but not about the usual stuff of not getting a meet or having messages deleted off etc this ones different. I know us men can be rude to you ladies and I read enough on the forums about these dickhead men But what about you ladies that are rude? Had some really abusive messages from some ladies just cause I would not drop everything to meet them. I have my son with me at the moment so time with him is precious I explained tthis to them and I got blocked called a wanker and a timewaster etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hummm i must admit i dont like to see kids photos in the back ground of pics but a toy dont really give a childs identity away does it?
some people are just thoughless, dont men they care more about swinging than their kids because they forgot to tidy up before taking pics lol |
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