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where has everyone gone from FAB
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I think men are reading a lot more forum posts and starting to become more choosey, you'll still get the guys that will text absolutely everyone..but I think single guys in particular are wishing up to sight a bit... |
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Thank god! Thought it was just me, but looks like things are definitely quieter. I wonder whether it has to do with all the recent media attention, which has attracted a lot of 'newbies' to these sites who aren't real swingers?
I do feel the nature of the site has changed subtly, something of the vibe seems missing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I think men are reading a lot more forum posts and starting to become more choosey, you'll still get the guys that will text absolutely everyone..but I think single guys in particular are wishing up to sight a bit..."
Wow! A little harsh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For single guys this is quite normal - the trick is to be patient, chat in the post, get to understand how it all works and enjoy fab as a whole."
Haha. I love that the patience thing has been used on a couple for a change  |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"We used to get lots of messages whenever we logged on. Now we get none. "
Well, I'd send you one to say what great pics and how I can't believe you get no messages, but I'm too old to message you apparently lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here though ours is a recent profile so I guess there's the natural early burst of enthusiasm for a new couple on the site and then things settle down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only time we get messages is during 'face pic friday', other than that our inbox is extremely quiet.
I wouldn't message you because you're not looking for single guys. This doesn't count. "
If anyone wants to pass the time of day in our inbox that's cool.
We don't meet single men, doesnt mean we don't talk to them  |
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"The only time we get messages is during 'face pic friday', other than that our inbox is extremely quiet.
I wouldn't message you because you're not looking for single guys. This doesn't count.
If anyone wants to pass the time of day in our inbox that's cool.
We don't meet single men, doesnt mean we don't talk to them "
Trouble is, I'd be afea_ed of a reply saying "can't you read? Dildo brain, it's says no men" so I don't message anyone who isn't looking for bi men.
The only abuse I like is self. |
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we have never had loads anyway, so not really noticed a huge decline, probably we too old for many on here and we do say ourlowerage limit is 40 so that stops the men that actually reading profiles from messaging too much lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we feeling your pain too,
we started off well when we joined but now pretty much nothing
maybe our profile not good enough or one of us is putting people off, really not sure
hopefully it will improve for us all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you send a message, and it is notnreplied to, the next time you try to send a message it atates above the input section that. You have contacted this person before they didnt reply.. and that it could be conside_ed rude to message them again..
Maybe all thise unreplied to guys just dont want to be rude?
Perhaps send out messages yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We still get a fair few and if we switch to wanting singles for a day or two it still goes through the roof. Much more Respectful messages rather than dickhead messages which shows people on here are much nicer or the chancers have done one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's fairly natural to feel a decline after being on the site for a while - the local users who meet your preferences will have already looked, messaged and perhaps met you.....or decided that you're not for them.
Fab is never going to provide an endless stream of couples to meet....but we find that changing up your profile pics and prose, meeting people through clubs and parties and perhaps widening the search a little will always help.
Oh, and if our experience of opening up on occasion to single men is anything to go by Fab is perfectly fit and healthy.....couple of hund_ed messages a day!!  |
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"It's fairly natural to feel a decline after being on the site for a while - the local users who meet your preferences will have already looked, messaged and perhaps met you.....or decided that you're not for them.
Fab is never going to provide an endless stream of couples to meet....but we find that changing up your profile pics and prose, meeting people through clubs and parties and perhaps widening the search a little will always help.
Oh, and if our experience of opening up on occasion to single men is anything to go by Fab is perfectly fit and healthy.....couple of hund_ed messages a day!! "
You sure? Didn't think there was many guys on this site lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's fairly natural to feel a decline after being on the site for a while - the local users who meet your preferences will have already looked, messaged and perhaps met you.....or decided that you're not for them.
Fab is never going to provide an endless stream of couples to meet....but we find that changing up your profile pics and prose, meeting people through clubs and parties and perhaps widening the search a little will always help.
Oh, and if our experience of opening up on occasion to single men is anything to go by Fab is perfectly fit and healthy.....couple of hund_ed messages a day!!
You sure? Didn't think there was many guys on this site lol"
 
You wanna see our inbox? 
Put a meet up, and we could probably double that! |
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In my experience of Fab and other sites, it always goes crazy in the summer time and really quiets down once the weather turns cooler. I would say I have about 50% more messages in the spring and summer. I have no idea why, but I'm convinced it's a seasonal thing!! |
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