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"It is actually very nice to read a thread that's not detrimental to single men X " Thank you, That's what I thought xx *yes I know very unusual from me lol x | |||
"It is actually very nice to read a thread that's not detrimental to single men X Thank you, That's what I thought xx *yes I know very unusual from me lol x" Lol I don't know if it's unusual from you but they do get a bit of a slating from time to time ! | |||
"I really like the scene in Carry on Abroad where Sid introduces his wife as 'this is the wife, don't laugh' "Didn't even do that lol We got to the bar and then she decided to go to the loo and this guy came from knowhwere x | |||
"It is actually very nice to read a thread that's not detrimental to single men X Thank you, That's what I thought xx *yes I know very unusual from me lol x Lol I don't know if it's unusual from you but they do get a bit of a slating from time to time ! " Yeah I'm a bit of a hater from time to time, but I was genuinely impressed xx | |||
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"We went to the Spa the other day just to get out of the house. When we arrived a young man came up to me and asked if he could introduce himself to my wife. I was so surprised I nearly fell over lol Well done young man, not all you singles are all bad xx" I am not being funny here, but am I the only one who read this as weird? Are you her husband or her father? Do you control who speaks to her? Anyone who asks my partner if he can speak to me gets short shrift - I can speak for myself and do. Why would one want to ask permission? | |||
"We're not all bad!! " Nice trunk..  | |||
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"Wow...well done for having the most deluded patronizing thread of the week...majority of us "single guys" care little of your approval, the way some couples beleive they are a coveted prize on here is hysterical..and to be fair intensely boring... theres someone on hold for you by the way...called "reality" shall i put them through...." there was no need for the last bit/insult... but the rest of it is absolutely fair and valid it may have been a shot.... but is could be seen as extremely condescending | |||
"Wow...well done for having the most deluded patronizing thread of the week...majority of us "single guys" care little of your approval, the way some couples beleive they are a coveted prize on here is hysterical..and to be fair intensely boring... theres someone on hold for you by the way...called "reality" shall i put them through.... there was no need for the last bit/insult... but the rest of it is absolutely fair and valid it may have been a shot.... but is could be seen as extremely condescending " Well it wasn't meant to be, we've had a ton of grief from single guys on here and I thought I'd put a postive out there for them Xx | |||
"We went to the Spa the other day just to get out of the house. When we arrived a young man came up to me and asked if he could introduce himself to my wife. I was so surprised I nearly fell over lol Well done young man, not all you singles are all bad xx I am not being funny here, but am I the only one who read this as weird? Are you her husband or her father? Do you control who speaks to her? Anyone who asks my partner if he can speak to me gets short shrift - I can speak for myself and do. Why would one want to ask permission? " I did think it a little strange and I did tell him to just ask her himself. He was Turkish & according to someone there that's their culture, I was just happy he wasn't rude to her as so many are xx | |||
"I found this to be a compliment to single guys on the fact it was a sign of respect " I actually did too | |||
"I found this to be a compliment to single guys on the fact it was a sign of respect I actually did too " Thank you, that's always I was trying to do xx | |||
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"A few of us aren't arseholes "A few | |||
"I have to say I am happy to see this thread..nice to see the single men complemented" You should see me threads to balance this out | |||
"I have to say I am happy to see this thread..nice to see the single men complemented You should see me threads to balance this out "Your or more.threads? | |||
"I have to say I am happy to see this thread..nice to see the single men complemented You should see me threads to balance this out "I've read many of your threads | |||
"A few of us aren't arseholes "i think that more aren't than are..... but some people like to focus on the negative because it "absolves" themselves in any part of the choosing process.... no need to defend yourself dude....... if you aren't, then you aren't... the people who need to know that already know that! | |||
"We went to the Spa the other day just to get out of the house. When we arrived a young man came up to me and asked if he could introduce himself to my wife. I was so surprised I nearly fell over lol Well done young man, not all you singles are all bad xx I am not being funny here, but am I the only one who read this as weird? Are you her husband or her father? Do you control who speaks to her? Anyone who asks my partner if he can speak to me gets short shrift - I can speak for myself and do. Why would one want to ask permission? " If he had just gone up and spoken to her maybe that would have been interpreted as him being pushy or rude ! I think it was respectful of him | |||
"Wow...well done for having the most deluded patronizing thread of the week...majority of us "single guys" care little of your approval, the way some couples beleive they are a coveted prize on here is hysterical..and to be fair intensely boring... theres someone on hold for you by the way...called "reality" shall i put them through...." just remembered why we only go to clubs on a sat evening  | |||
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"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site." To be fair it starts off by bashing their house | |||
"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site. To be fair it starts off by bashing their house" quite agree with you ,,,,, stared off quite nicely and then ,,,,,,,but yes 90 % of single men are great ,,,,, but there is 10% which spoil it for the rest and its some of those 10% who totaly ruined the 4 times we tried going to a everyone is allowed evening and so we vote with our feet | |||
"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site." What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx | |||
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"but yes 90 % of single men are great ,,,,, but there is 10% which spoil it for the rest " I disagree. I am perfectly capable of working out if a guy is a jerk or not. The fact that some are fools doesn't stop me talking to those that are not. I don't lump guys into one category. Apart from when joking. So they each get the same opportunity to impress me. I also feel that the jerks make it easier for good guys to stand out. The competition isn't that difficult. So if you think you're not a jerk but not having any luck then you're not sticking out from the crowd. | |||
"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site. What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx" 
I think the problem here is that recent negative contributors have parachuted into the thread halfway through,not realising it's actually standing up for the single guy... | |||
"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx" Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't  | |||
"It is actually very nice to read a thread that's not detrimental to single men X " still unusual though, the guy used as the example in ops club visit was a clever boy ,right move ,probably got him the desired affect for his outlay  hugs | |||
"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't "Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx | |||
"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site. What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx
I think the problem here is that recent negative contributors have parachuted into the thread halfway through,not realising it's actually standing up for the single guy..." | |||
"It is actually very nice to read a thread that's not detrimental to single men X still unusual though, the guy used as the example in ops club visit was a clever boy ,right move ,probably got him the desired affect for his outlay hugs "Unfortunately not, E was polite to him, but just didn't fancy him Xx | |||
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"We don't meet single guys but we have met some really nice, polite and respectful single men when we have been to a club. A moment that really sticks in our minds is when one particular chap asked if he could join us and we replyed telling him that it wasn't really our thing. He didn't bat an eyelid and just said "thats okay, I enjoy a good conversation anyway, that's all I want". We know he is on Fab and would have loved to verify him as a true gent but it was one of our first times there and forgot to ask for his username as we were so nervous. There are good uns out there!" | |||
"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site. What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx
I think the problem here is that recent negative contributors have parachuted into the thread halfway through,not realising it's actually standing up for the single guy..."No... the problem is the single guy doesn't "need" someone to stand up for him...by doing so it generalises them...like many people have said...theres some useless singles...some useless couples...useless Transexuals..etc.etc... | |||
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"I think it was very nice of him to come over and ask you, yes he could have just gone in for the kill I guess but he respected the fact she wasn't alone, thanks OP, good thread x" Welcome xx | |||
"Mate . Like most sites we keeo them going without us there nothing. . " I don't agree, most men on here aren't site supporters. * note I said most, not all xx | |||
"We went to the Spa the other day just to get out of the house. When we arrived a young man came up to me and asked if he could introduce himself to my wife. I was so surprised I nearly fell over lol Well done young man, not all you singles are all bad xx" I'm going to ignore the inevitable bun fight above my post. Hoorah for the single, polite guy. | |||
"Wow...well done for having the most deluded patronizing thread of the week...majority of us "single guys" care little of your approval, the way some couples beleive they are a coveted prize on here is hysterical..and to be fair intensely boring... theres someone on hold for you by the way...called "reality" shall i put them through...." I wondered how long the nice atmosphere would last. Was this really necessary? | |||
"Wow...well done for having the most deluded patronizing thread of the week...majority of us "single guys" care little of your approval, the way some couples beleive they are a coveted prize on here is hysterical..and to be fair intensely boring... theres someone on hold for you by the way...called "reality" shall i put them through.... I wondered how long the nice atmosphere would last. Was this really necessary?" Don't worry, I'm used to it  | |||
"We're not all bad!! Nice trunk.. "But some of us are totally bad, just not stupid, so end up having a great time on here. | |||
"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site. To be fair it starts off by bashing their house quite agree with you ,,,,, stared off quite nicely and then ,,,,,,,but yes 90 % of single men are great ,,,,, but there is 10% which spoil it for the rest and its some of those 10% who totaly ruined the 4 times we tried going to a everyone is allowed evening and so we vote with our feet " I'm sure there are many single men who are rude. Personally I can't believe it because I don't understand why and I haven't really seen it. There are so many comments on it though that it must be true. However, I can't understand why people on here don't comment on how extremely rude some of the women are. Granted it is in a slightly different, perhaps less direct, way but some of the things that I read on profiles, who do they think they are ? I'm sure getting hundreds of men emailing you to choose from is exceedingly tiresome. In real, outside of fab, life if men acted the way some women do inside fab then they would be castigated. It's also damned if you do and damned if you don't as you can see in this thread. I liked the original post and I do think it was quite respectful, however, I can also see the ladies point later on that she is her own woman and the man should have spoke to her directly. Therefore the only conclusion is that everyone should be a bit less quick to judge and allow for a little flex in your own opinions to try to accommodate the variances in other people. Sorry for the long post but I will leave you with this. I don't think I've ever since a guy being rude in a club because although we might not be the cleverest we aren't stupid and realise it isn't going to help you any. However I have seen some women being at best overly snooty and at worst downright dismissive. I was once in a club with a black girl in the couples room and I'm fairly certain that a woman from another couple was making racist comments (and I kick myself now that I didn't do any thing but it was under her breath and I couldn't be sure). Obviously it is just that she is an idiot but there was also definitely an air of 'I am a woman in a swingers club so i am all powerful' about it. I'm just saying this is really the only disrespectful thing I have seen (although im not a seasoned club goer by any means) and it was from a woman ! | |||
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"Another post that starts off by bashing single men, its a good job were not a race because you'd all be getting blocked by the site. To be fair it starts off by bashing their house quite agree with you ,,,,, stared off quite nicely and then ,,,,,,,but yes 90 % of single men are great ,,,,, but there is 10% which spoil it for the rest and its some of those 10% who totaly ruined the 4 times we tried going to a everyone is allowed evening and so we vote with our feet I'm sure there are many single men who are rude. Personally I can't believe it because I don't understand why and I haven't really seen it. There are so many comments on it though that it must be true. However, I can't understand why people on here don't comment on how extremely rude some of the women are. Granted it is in a slightly different, perhaps less direct, way but some of the things that I read on profiles, who do they think they are ? I'm sure getting hundreds of men emailing you to choose from is exceedingly tiresome. In real, outside of fab, life if men acted the way some women do inside fab then they would be castigated. It's also damned if you do and damned if you don't as you can see in this thread. I liked the original post and I do think it was quite respectful, however, I can also see the ladies point later on that she is her own woman and the man should have spoke to her directly. Therefore the only conclusion is that everyone should be a bit less quick to judge and allow for a little flex in your own opinions to try to accommodate the variances in other people. Sorry for the long post but I will leave you with this. I don't think I've ever since a guy being rude in a club because although we might not be the cleverest we aren't stupid and realise it isn't going to help you any. However I have seen some women being at best overly snooty and at worst downright dismissive. I was once in a club with a black girl in the couples room and I'm fairly certain that a woman from another couple was making racist comments (and I kick myself now that I didn't do any thing but it was under her breath and I couldn't be sure). Obviously it is just that she is an idiot but there was also definitely an air of 'I am a woman in a swingers club so i am all powerful' about it. I'm just saying this is really the only disrespectful thing I have seen (although im not a seasoned club goer by any means) and it was from a woman ! " The man she played with after rejecting the first guy was very rude  | |||
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"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't
Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx"Well, maybe the reason why you think 90% of single guys are jerks is because 90% of the single guys you meet are jerks. Could it be something to do with your selection process, I wonder? Or maybe it's just the guys that message you? | |||
Only been to a club once and saw for myself how arrogant and cocky some men can be with couples.
Nice to hear a couple praise a single lad once in a while.
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"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't
Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx
Well, maybe the reason why you think 90% of single guys are jerks is because 90% of the single guys you meet are jerks. Could it be something to do with your selection process, I wonder?
Or maybe it's just the guys that message you?"thank you for someone finally saying what i have been thinking for the last couple of days... I have been really biting my tongue with such a low attitude about us single guys to begin with why would we really want you to message us anyway.... oooh i am sooooooo special!!!!!
sorry... i take back those last 5 word... that's facetious of me...
the good thing for me is about 99% of the couples i interact with don't share the same "attitude" about single men as the OP apparently does, heck maybe they are just friendlier up north....or outside the south east... or maybe its essex..... actually it might just be southend!!! | |||
"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't
Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx
Well, maybe the reason why you think 90% of single guys are jerks is because 90% of the single guys you meet are jerks. Could it be something to do with your selection process, I wonder?
Or maybe it's just the guys that message you?
thank you for someone finally saying what i have been thinking for the last couple of days... I have been really biting my tongue
with such a low attitude about us single guys to begin with why would we really want you to message us anyway.... oooh i am sooooooo special!!!!!
sorry... i take back those last 5 word... that's facetious of me...
the good thing for me is about 99% of the couples i interact with don't share the same "attitude" about single men as the OP apparently does, heck maybe they are just friendlier up north....or outside the south east... or maybe its essex..... actually it might just be southend!!! "Well put...it might sink in now.. | |||
"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't
Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx
Well, maybe the reason why you think 90% of single guys are jerks is because 90% of the single guys you meet are jerks. Could it be something to do with your selection process, I wonder?
Or maybe it's just the guys that message you?
thank you for someone finally saying what i have been thinking for the last couple of days... I have been really biting my tongue
with such a low attitude about us single guys to begin with why would we really want you to message us anyway.... oooh i am sooooooo special!!!!!
sorry... i take back those last 5 word... that's facetious of me...
the good thing for me is about 99% of the couples i interact with don't share the same "attitude" about single men as the OP apparently does, heck maybe they are just friendlier up north....or outside the south east... or maybe its essex..... actually it might just be southend!!!
Well put...it might sink in now.. "Unlikely. | |||
"We're not all bad!! Nice trunk..
But some of us are totally bad, just not stupid, so end up having a great time on here. "god you're ugly you really should get help with your pics hugs | |||
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"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't
Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx
Well, maybe the reason why you think 90% of single guys are jerks is because 90% of the single guys you meet are jerks. Could it be something to do with your selection process, I wonder?
Or maybe it's just the guys that message you?
thank you for someone finally saying what i have been thinking for the last couple of days... I have been really biting my tongue
with such a low attitude about us single guys to begin with why would we really want you to message us anyway.... oooh i am sooooooo special!!!!!
sorry... i take back those last 5 word... that's facetious of me...
the good thing for me is about 99% of the couples i interact with don't share the same "attitude" about single men as the OP apparently does, heck maybe they are just friendlier up north....or outside the south east... or maybe its essex..... actually it might just be southend!!! "We did met a guy from Southed, he was so cool E went to play with him again on their own, maybe he was in the top 10% | |||
"I have to say I am happy to see this thread..nice to see the single men complemented You should see me threads to balance this out
Your or more.threads? "My threards, sorry a typo | |||
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"*threads Fucking mobile phone..." What the fuck you saying bro? Lol xx | |||
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"What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with bashing single men, it's the complete opposite xx Saying you were so surprised can be seen as a backhanded insult. If you didn't think single guys were jerks there's be no need to be taken aback that one wasn't
Oh I see, yeah we do think 90% of guys are jerks on here, that's why we don't allow them to message, but when we do find one they have to stand out as said earlier xx
Well, maybe the reason why you think 90% of single guys are jerks is because 90% of the single guys you meet are jerks. Could it be something to do with your selection process, I wonder?
Or maybe it's just the guys that message you?
thank you for someone finally saying what i have been thinking for the last couple of days... I have been really biting my tongue
with such a low attitude about us single guys to begin with why would we really want you to message us anyway.... oooh i am sooooooo special!!!!!
sorry... i take back those last 5 word... that's facetious of me...
the good thing for me is about 99% of the couples i interact with don't share the same "attitude" about single men as the OP apparently does, heck maybe they are just friendlier up north....or outside the south east... or maybe its essex..... actually it might just be southend!!! "This is | |||
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"They don't care much for single females either "How'd you know that? Lol x | |||
"I understand the sentiment behind the thread, but it does sound a little condescending. In fab we are all in categories and there are idiots in each category ie, couples, single men, single women etc. Because of the amount of men on here, there are going to be fractionally more idiots in that group but it does not mean the other groups ate abstained of being arsehole. Also single men don't need saving, they don't need the Op to give them a boost. In swinging though we've been in similar situations whereby guys have approached my OH first. It's meant as a sign of respect and whilst it can annoy the feminists out there, it's of no harm " Nope, was just trying to be nice and show that not all single guys are jerks, that's all, nothing more xx | |||
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"Being a single guy.it is very difficult to approach some couples both in clubs and house party in fact approaching your hubby for permission to speak to the wife is a courtesy. I don't see anything wrong with it. Some men don't like the idea of single bloke approaching their wife without permission. that's rude and disrespectful. " Well said xx | |||
"Being a single guy.it is very difficult to approach some couples both in clubs and house party in fact approaching your hubby for permission to speak to the wife is a courtesy. I don't see anything wrong with it. Some men don't like the idea of single bloke approaching their wife without permission. that's rude and disrespectful. " For me, its disrespectful not to think I have an opinion and I am controlled by what my man thinks. He respects me enough to trust me to make my own decisions, as I am an adult. I am not his possession, nor he mine .... I just don't get it guys approaching him unless they want to play with him. | |||
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