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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ever woman loves receiving oral, well most do. Is it hard for a lady to find a guy who knows how to use his tongue,,,and I mean really knows how to use it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it quite hard to find a guy who uses his tongue to my liking but in this game that's hardly surprising, you can't meet a guy off a sex site and expect him to know your body
It's very rare I cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general"
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have noticed lots of guys on fab promise "oral pleasures of the like youve never experienced!" Unfortunately for me the technique is sometimes lacking. Honestly some guys think that just because theyve put their tongue down there you should be having instant orgasms, lol. Do love a guy with the proper skills though  x |
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By *huramMan
over a year ago
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do "
Use words.
Tell them to put their finger in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Use words.
Tell them to put their finger in."
Seriously a lot of guys don't appreciate that, I've had a few take offence when I have suggested they may want to try a different technique |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I class my self as 1 of those guys that has the skill and doesn't just say it. I've had some that go yea yea wat ever. And some say prove it so I have and they have been speak less. Apperrently my technic is amazing. I also use fingers and fist if liked while using my tongue. Even some who like oral but never cum through receiving it. They cum. I'm not be big headed but everyone has a telant and I guess it's my telant. I just love it and can't seem to get enough. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do "
Tell them!! Guys quite like it when I ask them to do that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Tell them!! Guys quite like it when I ask them to do that "
When u ask them to finger and fist bbe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like it much and I've had enough guys who are genuinely good at it .
I am very much more of a giver than a receiver "
I know and Sabrina's very good I know |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do "
my favourite position is 69er with the woman on top as its easier to use tongue and fingers together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different women like different styles of oral.
Makes me laugh when men say they're amazing at it.
Most men start doing what other women have enjoyed, and it's awful.
As long as a woman is prepared to give instructions, every man can be amazing at oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id class my self as very good at it, based on a few ladies responses and not just my better half, because I like to learn what works and an very reponsive to ladies. I really really enjoy doing it, so theres no point being average at something you love and I agree a well place finger or 2 always helps the cause. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Use words.
Tell them to put their finger in.
Seriously a lot of guys don't appreciate that, I've had a few take offence when I have suggested they may want to try a different technique"
im more than happy for a lady to tell me exactly what they like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My OH is very skillful in the oral department but then he knows my body and what I like very well.
I enjoy oral sex and i do come with other guys and it's enjoyable but it's not as good as my OH but that's because I'm very comfortable with him and I know it's going to be good and other factors
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Different women like different styles of oral.
Makes me laugh when men say they're amazing at it.
Most men start doing what other women have enjoyed, and it's awful.
As long as a woman is prepared to give instructions, every man can be amazing at oral."
Completely this....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving oral, using my tongue, mouth (suctioning can realy make the clit stand out), fingers and fist if liked.
The trick is to realise that no 2 women are alike. you need to use all your senses to gauge how its going, what are they saying and what noises are they making, how wet are they, hows their muscle tone and how are they moving, what are their pelvic floor muscles doing is your hand being crushed! How are they breathing, have they developed a "sexual flush" and how swollen are their genitals. By taking all this and more into account you can fine tune what you are doing; but it is still easier once you get to know them and what they like and dislike.
Ladies don't be backwards in coming forward men are not mind readers, don't slate us for getting it wrong but sit us down and (gently) explain what works for YOU and what doesn't it can save a (W)hole lot of frustration on both sides!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love giving oral, using my tongue, mouth (suctioning can realy make the clit stand out), fingers and fist if liked.
The trick is to realise that no 2 women are alike. you need to use all your senses to gauge how its going, what are they saying and what noises are they making, how wet are they, hows their muscle tone and how are they moving, what are their pelvic floor muscles doing is your hand being crushed! How are they breathing, have they developed a "sexual flush" and how swollen are their genitals. By taking all this and more into account you can fine tune what you are doing; but it is still easier once you get to know them and what they like and dislike.
Ladies don't be backwards in coming forward men are not mind readers, don't slate us for getting it wrong but sit us down and (gently) explain what works for YOU and what doesn't it can save a (W)hole lot of frustration on both sides! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love giving oral, using my tongue, mouth (suctioning can realy make the clit stand out), fingers and fist if liked.
The trick is to realise that no 2 women are alike. you need to use all your senses to gauge how its going, what are they saying and what noises are they making, how wet are they, hows their muscle tone and how are they moving, what are their pelvic floor muscles doing is your hand being crushed! How are they breathing, have they developed a "sexual flush" and how swollen are their genitals. By taking all this and more into account you can fine tune what you are doing; but it is still easier once you get to know them and what they like and dislike.
Ladies don't be backwards in coming forward men are not mind readers, don't slate us for getting it wrong but sit us down and (gently) explain what works for YOU and what doesn't it can save a (W)hole lot of frustration on both sides! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ladies don't be backwards in coming forward men are not mind readers, don't slate us for getting it wrong but sit us down and (gently) explain what works for YOU and what doesn't it can save a (W)hole lot of frustration on both sides! "
Seriously as I said in an above post some guys really don't like being told what they are doing isnt working for you, I've done it a few times where I've suggested to a guy that he may want to try something else, and told him how I like it and I've had guys take offence on more than one occasions, things is it totally kills the mood when that happens so its catch 22 do you just take what they offer or tell them what they are doing isnt working for you and hope they aren't the type to take offence |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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Ladies don't be backwards in coming forward men are not mind readers, don't slate us for getting it wrong but sit us down and (gently) explain what works for YOU and what doesn't it can save a (W)hole lot of frustration on both sides!
Seriously as I said in an above post some guys really don't like being told what they are doing isnt working for you, I've done it a few times where I've suggested to a guy that he may want to try something else, and told him how I like it and I've had guys take offence on more than one occasions, things is it totally kills the mood when that happens so its catch 22 do you just take what they offer or tell them what they are doing isnt working for you and hope they aren't the type to take offence "
If it isn't working for you the way he is doing it, then what have you got to lose. just tell him and if he cant adapt to the way you like it then your getting no enjoyment anyhow |
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I love to perform oral on a lady. Loads of tongue first then while I'm giving the clit plenty of tongue my finger or fingers are fuckin her hard an fast always find it makes a lady cum in my mouth mmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do "
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind....."
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it. "
Yeah me too, has to be slow and sensual, nothing worse than a guy fingering you so fast they are actually thumping your muff on the in stroke
I like it when they put their finger in and use a kind of beckoning motion rather than pulling their finger in and out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it. "
Funny, that's what she said had put her off. I think its men watching to much porn and trying to imitate it. Rather than jamming fingers in and out, much better to start with a single finger slow and gentle and build from there (unless you're asked to do it hard and fast of course) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it.
Yeah me too, has to be slow and sensual, nothing worse than a guy fingering you so fast they are actually thumping your muff on the in stroke
I like it when they put their finger in and use a kind of beckoning motion rather than pulling their finger in and out "
Naughtynymphos....you almost read my mind - the beckoning motion usually hits the g-spot if you get it just right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seriously as I said in an above post some guys really don't like being told what they are doing isnt working for you, I've done it a few times where I've suggested to a guy that he may want to try something else, and told him how I like it and I've had guys take offence on more than one occasions, things is it totally kills the mood when that happens so its catch 22 do you just take what they offer or tell them what they are doing isnt working for you and hope they aren't the type to take offence "
well unfortunately there are some people out there both male and female who are idiots! Provided it was done in a fairly tactful way i.e. "no, not there, up a bit, a bit more..oh yes, yes that's it! use more fingers harder, harder yesss" and not "your crap my last boyfriend was far better at this! he used to...." It shouldn't be a problem any more than I would hope it wouldn't be a problem if I asked the woman giving me a blow job to pay attention to this area and not that one and to play with my balls at the same time (yes ladies some men like their balls fondling or sucking when they are having a BJ). But then I can't speak for every male or female and if there is someone out there who thinks they are gods gift but are insecure in it they may get riled or feel threatened and react badly in which case guess who wouldn't be getting a return visit. But that doesn't help you at the time. I suppose you have to play it by ear and hope you get someone who is sensitive and open to suggestion. Another point to consider is if they were that selfish with oral sex would they be any less selfish in other aspects of sex? I guess there is no easy answer and its a suck it and see situation (pun intended lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it.
Funny, that's what she said had put her off. I think its men watching to much porn and trying to imitate it. Rather than jamming fingers in and out, much better to start with a single finger slow and gentle and build from there (unless you're asked to do it hard and fast of course)"
I don't want it to build. I'd rather be kissed as my clit is stroked gently. I think plenty of men can give oral and finger fuck. Not many can stroke a clit properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it.
Yeah me too, has to be slow and sensual, nothing worse than a guy fingering you so fast they are actually thumping your muff on the in stroke
I like it when they put their finger in and use a kind of beckoning motion rather than pulling their finger in and out
Naughtynymphos....you almost read my mind - the beckoning motion usually hits the g-spot if you get it just right "
I'd make an excellent lesbian me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it.
Funny, that's what she said had put her off. I think its men watching to much porn and trying to imitate it. Rather than jamming fingers in and out, much better to start with a single finger slow and gentle and build from there (unless you're asked to do it hard and fast of course)
I don't want it to build. I'd rather be kissed as my clit is stroked gently. I think plenty of men can give oral and finger fuck. Not many can stroke a clit properly."
No no what you need is two guys, one down there while the other kisses you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear that u cum through oral or in general
Orals the only way I can cum, I've never cum through penatrive sex when it happens its always been through oral, but I need a finger too and men just don't seem to lick and finger at the same time it's either one or the other and I'll never cum through a tongue alone, I lay there thinking 'put your finger in for crying out loud' while they are licking, but they hardly ever do
Licking is always a good start, but you must start fingering once the lady is ready for it.
I did have one lady who said no to fingering and licking, but after trying it for a few minutes suddenly changed her mind.....
I hate fast finger fucking when I'm receiving oral. I've had to stop men when they do it.
Yeah me too, has to be slow and sensual, nothing worse than a guy fingering you so fast they are actually thumping your muff on the in stroke
I like it when they put their finger in and use a kind of beckoning motion rather than pulling their finger in and out
Naughtynymphos....you almost read my mind - the beckoning motion usually hits the g-spot if you get it just right
I'd make an excellent lesbian me "
Me too...... Oh no, I'd never leave the house to meet as I'd be too busy playing with my boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm so glad it's not just me!;I think oral is seriously over rated. I've enjoyed it with a few guys but it's never the main event for me. I don't know if I'm just *really* sensitive but I find a lot of guys are too heavy with their tongue and it hurts, and don't even get me started on sucking my clit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love making women cum orally,its my thing its making a woman tremble thats the turn on, i think if you really love giving oral then it becomes easier,exploring a woman with your tongue ,reading her body and how she reacts is part of it,every woman is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I absolutely love giving oral and always have done since I was a teenager. I know some men don't like the idea too! C loves to receive oral and is extremely receptive to oral! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love giving a woman oral. It's something I'm very good at. However it's not something you do still need to change your technique for different women. For example my ex used to love to roll her clit very hard between my teeth and bottom lip. I'm guessing not all women would like that. Also I don't mind if a woman tells me what to do. If it makes her cum, the. All the better. That gets me more turned on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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This would help us and make the whole thing much more fun for everyone involved.
Nothing wrong with being given a little guidance, from the mans point of view.
The main reason for going down on a woman or a man is to give pleasure, with the partner you have been with for years you know what works as you have had time to understand their body. But with someone new while it is fun learning a few hours together not quite the same as a few years.
So please ladies don't be shy |
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