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over a year ago
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i recently met a couple at a non-swinging party, and i have to say, it nearly turned out like one. i got talking to a lady for most the night, who seemed to be attracted to my soft voice and congruence. she was very sexy, and though i respected she was with her fella and friends, she was very overly flirty. i didn't take the bait, and her fella watched closely all night. later on she came over and said she would be leaving soon, and kissed my cheek whilst placing her leg against my groin, and asking if i wanted her number. i declined and said your fella looks a nice guy, and maybe she should go and keep him company. long story short, i was very proud that i never made an idiot of me and her fella, though my mates(some girls also) now slate me for it. i repsect couples who swing, and i wont stray over to couples that clearly dont. pat on the back for me i think haha.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i recently met a couple at a non-swinging party, and i have to say, it nearly turned out like one. i got talking to a lady for most the night, who seemed to be attracted to my soft voice and congruence. she was very sexy, and though i respected she was with her fella and friends, she was very overly flirty. i didn't take the bait, and her fella watched closely all night. later on she came over and said she would be leaving soon, and kissed my cheek whilst placing her leg against my groin, and asking if i wanted her number. i declined and said your fella looks a nice guy, and maybe she should go and keep him company. long story short, i was very proud that i never made an idiot of me and her fella, though my mates(some girls also) now slate me for it. i repsect couples who swing, and i wont stray over to couples that clearly dont. pat on the back for me i think haha. "
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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago
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nah well done you for being able to read the signs so well !
this is the difference between the lifestyles , you flirt with another guys woman in a packed bar then all hell would break loose and then on the other hand a bit of flirting at a swingers club bar and its the norm and accepted,
ok probably stating the obvious but hey  |
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"thought would be plain to understand by actually reading what i wrote. pummff"
It was plain.
You didnt. But he would have.
And i'm not saying either of you is right or wrong.
Everyone gets to make their own decisions about what they do.
Including the lady in question.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i recently met a couple at a non-swinging party, and i have to say, it nearly turned out like one. i got talking to a lady for most the night, who seemed to be attracted to my soft voice and congruence. she was very sexy, and though i respected she was with her fella and friends, she was very overly flirty. i didn't take the bait, and her fella watched closely all night. later on she came over and said she would be leaving soon, and kissed my cheek whilst placing her leg against my groin, and asking if i wanted her number. i declined and said your fella looks a nice guy, and maybe she should go and keep him company. long story short, i was very proud that i never made an idiot of me and her fella, though my mates(some girls also) now slate me for it. i repsect couples who swing, and i wont stray over to couples that clearly dont. pat on the back for me i think haha. "
got any photos of your conguence????? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok, positive reinforcement is certainly not on the up!
nothing wrong with feeling good about ones self for not acting like most men would of done in the same circumstance. you know,. the same type of men most women type cast across the board. |
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Pat on the back? What for? For crying out loud, you reckoned she was flirting with you, lovely, it was in a 'vanilla' environment and you really couldn't do much else than walk away. Hey, in every day life, lots of people flirt with each other - I think I'm just used to it so don't take it too seriously! (tongue very firmly in cheek there!). take care. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the lady found you atractive and liked the attention.
Her fella got a "thrill" knowing that his partner was still attractive to the opposite sex.
I think that was it. You read it right. A nice bit of flirting but it was going no further. She was just stoking her fire for later when she got home.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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she was indeed, and most people on here cant seem to grasp that.
her fella was none too pleased, and that was quite apparent for the duration we was in the pub. i did feel a bit awkward, but not as much as i was if i had been completely sober. it was just a happy little moment when i refused to take her on, and felt a little sorry for the guy to be honest. hence i told her to go and give him some attention.
'self promotion' hahaha some sour pusses on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with NN that she was probably looking for a bit on the side! 
Perhaps you should carry some business cards in future, to point peeps to this site if and when opportunities present themselves.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ahhhh a cynic. well if i had taken her number off her,i could of forwarded it to you.haha
its a true event, but nowt so funny as folk!.
business cards eh haha....hmmm |
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but I think you did the right thing so RESPECT to you sir.
