I know what you mean as that's a normal reaction to the release and subsequent chemical reaction. However if you and your partner "work" at it you can become aroused again VERY quickly.
Nothing wrong just don't cave in to the release satisfaction. In my limited experience woman like the go again approach if they aren't finished! |
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I don't go off sex then no, if you get me in the right mood I like to carry on with a bit of a wind down at least, oral, clean the lady up a little perhaps...afterplay, that'll often get me going again 
Don't look at your orgasm as the full stop, more a comma, a breathing Pont, one high point of many sha_ed in that time together |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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The thing is.. If you have come and the other party has not and wants to, you must put aside your own needs, or lack of and do whatever she/he needs in order to help it happen.
I think you'll find its THE LAW  |
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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago
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Alan here, I have been like that for years and as soon as I have cum would rather go down the pub !!!
The times when I have waited for a second time the orgasm is half compa_ed to the first. Now when playing I just make sure until all are happy and knowing the sex session will be ending before I cum. Have not found it a problem to cum just once as long as you do not pre ejaculate !!! |
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"I just go completely off it once I have cum"
Stop then, if your not in the mood your not in the mood, spend longer on the foreplay, take time over the kissing and touching, make it last longer before you do cum |
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"The thing is.. If you have come and the other party has not and wants to, you must put aside your own needs, or lack of and do whatever she/he needs in order to help it happen.
I think you'll find its THE LAW "
Hell ... tooooo right xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm like this, I can get hard again no problems but I don't really enjoy the sex. It would be definitely for my partner.
I tend to hold back my orgasm until my partner is satisfied. What is annoying is when they want me to cum so I cum then they want to go again.
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I tend to last for a long time (even at times struggling to cum even though I'm nice and hard). When I do it depends, if after a long session and I blast it then it's normally game set, otherwise if I were to cum during the session, then I would rise again after some more foreplay, rest, drink, piss etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the comments...its not just the cumin again, it's the fact that I just go off of doing anything else. I will enjoy a cuddle but that's as far as it goes. Do you think viagra may help? |
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"Thanks for the comments...its not just the cumin again, it's the fact that I just go off of doing anything else. I will enjoy a cuddle but that's as far as it goes. Do you think viagra may help?"
Im the same, I'm just not interested once I've shot my bolt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a common thing, it's not a problem.
Don't stress you will only make thing's worse.
Am sure there must be some sort of psychological reason but for the life of me dont know what.
Guilt maybe.
Was you caught wanking when you was a teen and subconsciously associate ejaculation with guilt?
I dunno.
Honestly tho if first time feels good what the problem.
I usually find leaving it 12/24hrs inbetween ejaculation helps   |
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"Is there anyone with the same problem as me. When I have ejaculated I go off further sex and don't get an erection again.
Any advice?"
No completely agree, spoff and sleep bosh job done |
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"I tend to last for a long time (even at times struggling to cum even though I'm nice and hard). When I do it depends, if after a long session and I blast it then it's normally game set, otherwise if I were to cum during the session, then I would rise again after some more foreplay, rest, drink, piss etc."
This  She says I'd be crap at a cheeky 'public' quicky. |
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"It's a common thing, it's not a problem.
Don't stress you will only make thing's worse.
Am sure there must be some sort of psychological reason but for the life of me dont know what.
Guilt maybe.
Was you caught wanking when you was a teen and subconsciously associate ejaculation with guilt?
I dunno.
Honestly tho if first time feels good what the problem.
I usually find leaving it 12/24hrs inbetween ejaculation helps "
Dr Freud in the house
I think every teenage boy was discouraged from wanking and every parent that tried to discourage them failed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't always last a huge length of time, but I'm usually good to go again in just a couple of minutes to be honest. (Well, unless I've been drinking...)
Only really get that feeling of losing interest after if I've been wanking. Don't tend to lose the arousal straight away if there's still a hot naked woman in front of me |
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