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Fat or curvy.....

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Where does the line get drawn between the 2 ?! Not that I'm complaining haha I'm a fan of both but wondered out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where does the line get drawn between the 2 ?! Not that I'm complaining haha I'm a fan of both but wondered out of curiosity. "

hmmm i get called curvy but tbh id call myself fat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as I said on the other thread I'm fat ....I have a few curves but its all fat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"as I said on the other thread I'm fat ....I have a few curves but its all fat "
your body to make your call sp k....but to me you are curvy....not fat....delicious to off course...!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been told recently I'm not fat but gorgeous. Ive got large on my profile but it's fat

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I call myself curvy don't care what others call me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have distinct shape, you're curvy. My fiancé is curvy for example.

If you have a gut hanging over and your back collects in chunky ripples, you're just fat and likely to be grossly overweight.

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By *ustaceSmithMan over a year ago

Woodbridge

Oddly enough, I believe that this is a really important issue, and that in the absence of photographs, there needs to be more honesty. But also the choice of terms is confused. "Curvy" is the opposite of "slim": these are body morphologies, as is "large". "Athletic" implies tone and low BMI; the term "a few pounds extra" has meaning, as does "fabulous" (meaning high BMI?). Simplest would be if weight as well as height were a required input in the absence of photographs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oddly enough, I believe that this is a really important issue, and that in the absence of photographs, there needs to be more honesty. But also the choice of terms is confused. "Curvy" is the opposite of "slim": these are body morphologies, as is "large". "Athletic" implies tone and low BMI; the term "a few pounds extra" has meaning, as does "fabulous" (meaning high BMI?). Simplest would be if weight as well as height were a required input in the absence of photographs. "

Possibly. I have a high BMI though. Yet people would be silly to call me fat. Overweight? 100%!!! I'm 21 stone. But fat? Nothing on here to describe me haha

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By *rystalizedEyesWoman over a year ago

Wellington

I personally think there's so much bad stigma around the word fat! I am fat and it's not degrading, it's a fact! Some people like it and some don't, but whatever I classify myself isn't going to change my weight. What matters is that I like the size I am, making whatever you call me acceptable x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmmmm i have this debate in my head almost everyday and it seems to be holding us back from meets because i would prefer to put fat instead of curvy :-/

When i say it holds us back from meets i mean we get offers but im nor confident enough that they will be happy with me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have curves under my fat

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Why should there be an absence of photographs, that to me is the whole point of using a site like this! Curvy is a flattering term, large is not - surely that's a no-brainer?

In discussions I use the term 'thumping great girlie' anyway, bugger what anyone else thinks I should be called!!

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

I've met with some ladies who have described themselves on here as curvy, but in the flesh I would say they were large and met other woman who are the other way.......it's all up to the individual how they class themselves and what they feel comfortable with (in my humble opinion)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met with some ladies who have described themselves on here as curvy, but in the flesh I would say they were large and met other woman who are the other way.......it's all up to the individual how they class themselves and what they feel comfortable with (in my humble opinion)"

Were you dissapointed with said ladies?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this old thing - they can be miles apart - my daughter is curvy but a size 6

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm size 16/18 ,5" and am defo fay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"as I said on the other thread I'm fat ....I have a few curves but its all fat your body to make your call sp k....but to me you are curvy....not fat....delicious to off course...!"
thank you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I still want pleasantly plump as an option

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

Were you dissapointed with said ladies?

Nope as I've always met socially first and always have good banter with all my meets....oh and stay in contact

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Were you dissapointed with said ladies?

Nope as I've always met socially first and always have good banter with all my meets....oh and stay in contact

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you still fuck the ladies who were larger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im 5ft3ish and a size 16, 18 in some shops and id say im fat. Not that long ago I was gym mad and pretty toned going most days and I'd go to zumba 4 times a week too all the muscle I built has become fat so im now fatter than I was before

my arms are horrible. Moral of the story, be happy with your body no matter what size

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

Did you still fuck the ladies who were larger

You probably won't believe me but I rarely meet to 'fuck' anyway as I love the social and banter side of it. To be honest I probably wouldn't get funky with a lass I wasn't physically attracted to

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I used to describe myself as large then would always get corrected to the fact I'm curvy, so now I go by curvy and I've had no one correct me so it's must be the right fit for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there are photos, you can more or less see what size people are.

They should be able to call themselves whatever they want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you still fuck the ladies who were larger

You probably won't believe me but I rarely meet to 'fuck' anyway as I love the social and banter side of it. To be honest I probably wouldn't get funky with a lass I wasn't physically attracted to "

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Im 5ft3ish and a size 16, 18 in some shops and id say im fat. Not that long ago I was gym mad and pretty toned going most days and I'd go to zumba 4 times a week too all the muscle I built has become fat so im now fatter than I was before

my arms are horrible. Moral of the story, be happy with your body no matter what size

From your pictures, I can honestly say that I'm more than happy with your body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my arms are horrible. Moral of the story, be happy with your body no matter what size

From your pictures, I can honestly say that I'm more than happy with your body

Aww thanks haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

You look fine to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

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Forget the gym and get your workouts throu sex. Much more fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

Forget the gym and get your workouts throu sex. Much more fun

Oh i do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman can be slim and curvy, so you're wrong on that account. Curvy indicates an hour glass figure at any size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman can be slim and curvy, so you're wrong on that account. Curvy indicates an hour glass figure at any size."

Im defo an hour glass!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm size 16/18 ,5" and am defo fay"

Five inches tall?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dont have a lable.

Fat arse and thighs small waist curvey/fat/hefalump dont really care i am what i am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be far more likely to lie about my weight than anything else because I weigh the same as a small rhino so it's quite embarrassing. I put fabulous as that felt right (and going by your definition it is, because my BMI is high).

But photos are the way forward, not trying to shoehorn all the different shapes and sizes out there into a few narrow categories. And if someone doesn't have photos for you to be able to work out what they look like, just give them a miss if it's something that's important to you.

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares? "

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

I'm definitely a curvy girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubywoo..deffo nothing wrong with ur fig..very stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

That's different. You've sacrificed your body to raise a child. Nothing you can do really about the muscles being torn, detached and stretched. You look great.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares? "

It is getting boring now isn't it

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman over a year ago

Belfast

I just post enough pictures to let guys see if they're interested. Find that to be the best way!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats why meeting for a social 1st is so important. Its ok looking at pictures but who uses the worst pictures. Its amazing what the right angle can do. I should know

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman over a year ago

Belfast

Works both ways with guys as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5ft 2" and a healthy size 16 ! Round quite large arse and 38C bust, so not overly big boobs but does that make me curvy or fat ??

Not sure but I would describe myself fabulously chubby haha

Whatever smokes your tyres ........ Be yourself and be happy xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares?

It is getting boring now isn't it

Most topics have.

Beards, cock size, older women, piercings.

Why not really break the mould and talk about knitting, soap carving, and the art of mime?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares?

It is getting boring now isn't it

Most topics have.

Beards, cock size, older women, piercings.

Why not really break the mould and talk about knitting, soap carving, and the art of mime?"

I can't knit

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

Does your body weight/size suit your body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm curvy mostly but when i start to feel uncomfortable being me that is when it becomes fat. I don't like fat me so i tend to stay curvy. I can't speak for anyone else though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I call myself large, not curvy.

I'm a fatty and I'm ok with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares?

It is getting boring now isn't it

The same question was raised just three days ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm most definitely fat lol like me or lump me so to speak xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This topic has been done to death. Have a search! And who actually cares?

It is getting boring now isn't it

Most topics have.

Beards, cock size, older women, piercings.

Why not really break the mould and talk about knitting, soap carving, and the art of mime?"

I may start some geeky threads lol ie arrow v the flash

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many ladies who would describe themselves as fat would appreciate a guy they met calling them that? Taxi for one!

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'm definitely a curvy girl

I am not at all sure about that - slim and curvy in all the right places I would say

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"Thats why meeting for a social 1st is so important. Its ok looking at pictures but who uses the worst pictures. Its amazing what the right angle can do. I should know

Sadly sometimes true, but why on earth do so many people feel the need to disguise their true figures by using only pics which are unfairly flattering and are in effect a form of deception.

I met someone who does just this recently and felt somewhat duped

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where does the line get drawn between the 2 ?! Not that I'm complaining haha I'm a fan of both but wondered out of curiosity. "

It doesn't.

Next.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thats why meeting for a social 1st is so important. Its ok looking at pictures but who uses the worst pictures. Its amazing what the right angle can do. I should know

Sadly sometimes true, but why on earth do so many people feel the need to disguise their true figures by using only pics which are unfairly flattering and are in effect a form of deception.

I met someone who does just this recently and felt somewhat duped

Because it makes me feel better about myself. Anyone that i consider meeting gets to see me as i am before hand so they can easily back away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I be called myself curvy. Others might say I'm fat. I tend not to care.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thats why meeting for a social 1st is so important. Its ok looking at pictures but who uses the worst pictures. Its amazing what the right angle can do. I should know

Sadly sometimes true, but why on earth do so many people feel the need to disguise their true figures by using only pics which are unfairly flattering and are in effect a form of deception.

I met someone who does just this recently and felt somewhat duped

Get intouch with trading standards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive noticed a lot a curvy/fat ladies meet a lot of toned guys. Guess we must like them afterall

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

" Anyone that i consider meeting gets to see me as i am before hand so they can easily back away."

Good on you and both brave and honest! I wish all people would act like this

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I be called myself curvy. Others might say I'm fat. I tend not to care.

I think many people would care either, not with an absolutely stunning face like yours

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I be called myself curvy. Others might say I'm fat. I tend not to care.

I think many people would care either, not with an absolutely stunning face like yours "

Ooops ...I DON'T think many people would care......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as you are pretty it really doesn't matter what your body or personality is like apparently....just as well i pretend to have a nice body then.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"As long as you are pretty it really doesn't matter what your body or personality is like apparently....just as well i pretend to have a nice body then."
that's me out the equation then

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By *arriedaffairMan over a year ago

worcester

One persons fat is anothers curvy. We all like different things. Thats what makes the world tick. Its all about attraction?

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By *arriedaffairMan over a year ago

worcester

One persons fat is anothers curvy. We all like different things. Thats what makes the world tick. Its all about attraction?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thats why meeting for a social 1st is so important. Its ok looking at pictures but who uses the worst pictures. Its amazing what the right angle can do. I should know

Sadly sometimes true, but why on earth do so many people feel the need to disguise their true figures by using only pics which are unfairly flattering and are in effect a form of deception.

I met someone who does just this recently and felt somewhat duped

Sorry

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

I think it depends on your waist:hip ratio.

No matter what size, BMI index or weight you are, if your waist to hip ratio is less than 0.85, you should be curvy.

If your waist:hip ratio is more than 0.85, no matter if you're fat or thin, you're not that curvy.

Just how I look at it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you have distinct shape, you're curvy. My fiancé is curvy for example.

If you have a gut hanging over and your back collects in chunky ripples, you're just fat and likely to be grossly overweight.

That's me then......The correct term is obese

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"As long as you are pretty it really doesn't matter what your body or personality is like apparently....just as well i pretend to have a nice body then."

I disagree - pretty with no personality does nothing for me!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

BMI is a completely useless tool for measuring anything other than irrelevant numbers.

Im living (healthy) proof of that, as are most people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me"
agreed

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

Well sorry I might as well desbribe myself as tall - it would be equally misrepresenting myself - or how about tall and skinny? Some women may like those characteristics but that does not mean I should feign having them!! If you are vastly overweight and your pics testify to this fact just say it like it is ffs..its not like it is going to put off the many man who are attracted to you and your figure. Otherwise IMHO you are deluding yourself and so are all the others who do the same!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

It's a bit like people describing themselves as attractive. Not everyone will see it that way. Does that make them deluded too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As long as you are pretty it really doesn't matter what your body or personality is like apparently....just as well i pretend to have a nice body then.

I disagree - pretty with no personality does nothing for me!! "

Phew :P

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fat or curvy how cares what you choose to call yourself. If you have pics that accurately represent your shape what does it matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The way I look at it is big is beautiful I'd rather have a lady with some meat on her no offence to thin girls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can a bloke be called curvy. Think about that one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing is. If a guy turned up looking nowt like hes pictures the ladies of fab would run. The guys meeting ladies who look nowt like there picture most would still fuck it. Thats why ladies get away with it

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I'm fat, the line is up to you

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By *arriedaffairMan over a year ago

worcester

"Fat or curvy how cares what you choose to call yourself. If you have pics that accurately represent your shape what does it matter. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a bloke be called curvy. Think about that one."

Yes defo curves are about hips bums n boobs/moobs !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am more than curvy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat or curvy how cares what you choose to call yourself. If you have pics that accurately represent your shape what does it matter. "

Ah but we don't have pics that accurately represent ourselves if we deliberately choose flattering pics. Apparently they are misrepresentation and we are deluding ourselves because we want to put nice pics and call ourselves curvy instead of fat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sandy your not fat you look hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is. If a guy turned up looking nowt like hes pictures the ladies of fab would run. The guys meeting ladies who look nowt like there picture most would still fuck it. Thats why ladies get away with it

I had a meet that was nowt like his pics I recon pics were taken 10yrs earlier lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Where does the line get drawn between the 2 ?! Not that I'm complaining haha I'm a fan of both but wondered out of curiosity. "

How many of these threads must we endure? Honestly, do we need calipers, slide rules a degree in weights and measures?!!

It's subjective!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'"
my waist is 29" my hips are 38" how does that make my waist larger than my hips and thankyou because after losing 11 1/2stone everyone has told me not to lose anymore weight and thanks to one sentence you've undone all the good work. I'm 7lb over the recommended body weight for my height.

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"Fat or curvy how cares what you choose to call yourself. If you have pics that accurately represent your shape what does it matter. "

And if a women who is very slim (or some would say skinny - not myself I would hasten to add) and has narrow hios and small breasts were to refer to herself as curvy would that be alright?

People know and understand what words in our language mean for the most part it IS their maternal language after all.

My pics show quite clearly that I am NOT tall, is it all right therefore if I refer to myself as such? this example is no different!!

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By *onia1969Woman over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Where does the line get drawn between the 2 ?! Not that I'm complaining haha I'm a fan of both but wondered out of curiosity. "

I'd say I was fat but some curves to (size 24)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat or curvy how cares what you choose to call yourself. If you have pics that accurately represent your shape what does it matter. "

So true!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a meet that was nowt like his pics I recon pics were taken 10yrs earlier lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'my waist is 29" my hips are 38" how does that make my waist larger than my hips and thankyou because after losing 11 1/2stone everyone has told me not to lose anymore weight and thanks to one sentence you've undone all the good work. I'm 7lb over the recommended body weight for my height."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im 14 1/2 stone. My ideal weight is 11stone. If that makes me a fat bastard then so be it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'"

How rude!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

Well, in that case I am sorry, in your pics your waist looks significantly larger than that and I am very surprised that you are only half a stone over weight....the BMI would have me at more overwight than that!!!"
my bmi is 26.2 but thankyou anyway, guess everyone else was trying to make me feel good its nice to get an honest answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

What about a beer belly

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

I know women who have had three or four children and do not suffer from 'mummy tummy' - it is largely a symptom of how much you over eat and allow yourself to put on far too much extra weight during pregnancy. The idea that you should eat for two (especially when you are probably already somewhat prone to eating too much) is a complete and utter fallacy and this habit leads too many examples of 'mummy tummy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

Why would you listen to one person's opinion? You have done fantastically well. Listen to the positives and ignore the negatives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get called curvy... but always say I'm more than curvy... I'm a very big girl. Just don't want any bad surprises if we meet!

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'

How rude!!! "

Indeed many will see it as such. We should spend more time saying what we think and less time bull shiting because we are worried about offending people with fragile sensitivities!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

Why would you listen to one person's opinion? You have done fantastically well. Listen to the positives and ignore the negatives.

"
because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

Why would you listen to one person's opinion? You have done fantastically well. Listen to the positives and ignore the negatives.

The ladies of fab allways stick together. Shame the same cant be said if guys.O

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get called curvy... but always say I'm more than curvy... I'm a very big girl. Just don't want any bad surprises if we meet! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion"

But he was stating his opinion, not a fact. And if you both have different opinions, his counts for bugger all!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'

How rude!!!

Indeed many will see it as such. We should spend more time saying what we think and less time bull shiting because we are worried about offending people with fragile sensitivities! "

Because if guys are honest all the time they wont ever empty there balls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Polar!! That's not true....... As a mum of 3 I can make a personal judgement .......absolutely wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'

How rude!!!

Indeed many will see it as such. We should spend more time saying what we think and less time bull shiting because we are worried about offending people with fragile sensitivities! "

Your right I'm all for honesty however not offending! That lady has done amazingly well and you judged her and were very rude to her.

You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion

But he was stating his opinion, not a fact. And if you both have different opinions, his counts for bugger all!!"
you know I actually felt good about myself for the first time in my life now everyone can fuck off with all the bullshit.

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Polar!! That's not true....... As a mum of 3 I can make a personal judgement .......absolutely wrong "

True and indeed anyone can make the judgement as to how much sustenance is required on a daily basis, but, if they get it wrong then they only have themselves to blame when they get fat or as many of them insist on seeing it 'curvy'..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A rather polarizing view..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion

But he was stating his opinion, not a fact. And if you both have different opinions, his counts for bugger all!!you know I actually felt good about myself for the first time in my life now everyone can fuck off with all the bullshit."

DRAMA

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion

You should feel good Infact u should feel amazing!.

You have done brilliantly well.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion

DRAMA

"
maybe you don't know what it's like to be grossly overweight all your life and manage to conquer it after two years of fucking hard work to be told your significantly overweight at 7lb over the recommended weight for your height, when you do then come back and tell me I'm being dramatic

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

I do not think that at all. I am simply being honest about the difference I see between fat women and curvy women.

I see no reason why this should instigate a character assassination since I have certainly not attached anyone personally her, simply questioned their perception of themselves as 'curvy' when they are quite clearly not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading this thread makes me think people should worry less about body shape, and more about their personality type. You get me?!

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"A rather polarizing view..

Hahaha...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Polar!! That's not true....... As a mum of 3 I can make a personal judgement .......absolutely wrong

Perhaps you could enlighten us all here as to the exact measurements one would need to claim to be curvy as i don't remember seeing that in the glossary? That way we can stop offending people by calling ourselves curvy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

I do not think that at all. I am simply being honest about the difference I see between fat women and curvy women.

Ive had many a lady inbox me to put me down. I used to be faboulous but fuck it i thought ill be average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm between curvy to 'bbw' I think, I'm not sure, I'm fat I know that much but I am me, take me or leave me!

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

DRAMA

maybe you don't know what it's like to be grossly overweight all your life and manage to conquer it after two years of fucking hard work to be told your significantly overweight at 7lb over the recommended weight for your height, when you do then come back and tell me I'm being dramatic"

No indeed I don't, but then I never allowed myself to get that way.

Your weight loss incidentally is highly commendable but it has nothing to do with the debate about curvy v fat in this thread.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

DRAMA

No indeed I don't, but then I never allowed myself to get that way.

Your weight loss incidentally is highly commendable but it has nothing to do with the debate about curvy v fat in this thread."
I wasn't even talkimg to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

because he wasn't aware I'd lost weight so therefore giving an honest opinion

DRAMA

I certainly do. Im 3 1/2 stone overweight.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Polar!! That's not true....... As a mum of 3 I can make a personal judgement .......absolutely wrong "

I carried twins and after having them weighed a stone less than before I was even pregnant I still got a mummy tummy for a few months till it returned to normal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess polar is off diamonds christmas card list now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm between curvy to 'bbw' I think, I'm not sure, I'm fat I know that much but I am me, take me or leave me!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cor, its like a playground in here at times. Last one to the swings is a loser

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cor, its like a playground in here at times. Last one to the swings is a loser

I've been on the swings watching!

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Reading this thread makes me think people should worry less about body shape, and more about their personality type. You get me?!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

surely what's fat and curvy comes down to personal preferences, it's like asking what's ugly and what's not, a guy who genuinely likes big women may see a size 16 as curvy where as guys who like slim women may see a size 16 as fat

surely at the end of the day it's down to what you like, if your not attracted to somebody because they are to fat/curvy don't meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cor, its like a playground in here at times. Last one to the swings is a loser

I've been on the swings watching!

Is THAT what the references to swinging are???? No wonder its been quiet....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cor, its like a playground in here at times. Last one to the swings is a loser

I've been on the swings watching!

Is THAT what the references to swinging are???? No wonder its been quiet...."

Lol

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

" I still got a mummy tummy for a few months till it returned to normal"

And that is the key - it returned to normal - as did my sister in law's who also had twins after he birth of her first daughter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

I do not think that at all. I am simply being honest about the difference I see between fat women and curvy women.

So why wouldn't you call a woman skinny if she was skinny because some women are underweight and it can cause significant problems. My sister had problems conceiving because she was underweight for example.

If you're gonna say it as you see it, be consistent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Yes it is and ive worn it 4 times!

I need to sort my mind set out

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

I do not think that at all. I am simply being honest about the difference I see between fat women and curvy women.

If you're gonna say it as you see it, be consistent."

In the same way that it would appear that calling a woman who is actually fat, fat is deemed offensive by many ...and similarly there are also grave health counter indications to being obese

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doctor "_olarfox" ........ After giving birth naturally to both my older children I walked out of hospital a size 10 flat tummy and BMI 21/22

Then I gave birth naturally to my 3rd child I walked out of hospital a size 16 mummy tummy and BMI 22/23

I have always gone to gym regular and jog 4-5 times a week can you explain how I can change this ?

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doctor "_olarfox" ........ After giving birth naturally to both my older children I walked out of hospital a size 10 flat tummy and BMI 21/22

Then I gave birth naturally to my 3rd child I walked out of hospital a size 16 mummy tummy and BMI 22/23

I have always gone to gym regular and jog 4-5 times a week can you explain how I can change this ? YES HAVE LOTS OF SEX

Hahaha "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Polar!! That's not true....... As a mum of 3 I can make a personal judgement .......absolutely wrong "

Wrong wrong wrong!

I have 4 babies 2 with a 12 month gap, this was amassive contributing factor to my mummg tummy actually!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

I do not think that at all. I am simply being honest about the difference I see between fat women and curvy women.

If you're gonna say it as you see it, be consistent.

In the same way that it would appear that calling a woman who is actually fat, fat is deemed offensive by many ...and similarly there are also grave health counter indications to being obese "

Think her point was you are quite happy to insult overweight people by calling them fat...yet in your words.. "And if a women who is very slim (or some would say skinny - not myself I would hasten to add) "....so why wouldn't you call a slim woman skinny?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because a woman has a mummy tummy doesn't mean their not curvy we are what we describe ourselves! Just be honest and be yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doctor "_olarfox" ........ After giving birth naturally to both my older children I walked out of hospital a size 10 flat tummy and BMI 21/22

Then I gave birth naturally to my 3rd child I walked out of hospital a size 16 mummy tummy and BMI 22/23

I have always gone to gym regular and jog 4-5 times a week can you explain how I can change this ?

Hahaha "

I've had three c sections if you want to see a prime example of a fuck stomach pop round here i'll show you, i can assure you you'll feel loads better about yours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doctor "_olarfox" ........ After giving birth naturally to both my older children I walked out of hospital a size 10 flat tummy and BMI 21/22

Then I gave birth naturally to my 3rd child I walked out of hospital a size 16 mummy tummy and BMI 22/23

I have always gone to gym regular and jog 4-5 times a week can you explain how I can change this ?

Hahaha

I've had three c sections if you want to see a prime example of a fuck stomach pop round here i'll show you, i can assure you you'll feel loads better about yours

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

" I still got a mummy tummy for a few months till it returned to normal

And that is the key - it returned to normal - as did my sister in law's who also had twins after he birth of her first daughter

So it's obvious that all women do get a mummy tummy then it's just wether it returns to normal afterwards, that's the issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You my think your perfection personified however give me a fun big bloke any day over a guy with a good body and shit attitude.

I do not think that at all. I am simply being honest about the difference I see between fat women and curvy women.

If you're gonna say it as you see it, be consistent.

In the same way that it would appear that calling a woman who is actually fat, fat is deemed offensive by many ...and similarly there are also grave health counter indications to being obese "

But you said you wouldn't call a woman skinny so aren't you just being a bit hypocritical then? If you think women should call themselves fat, then you should also be saying women should call themselves skinny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I call myself curvy don't care what others call me agreed

No, not 'vastly' but significantly yes and when your waist is clearly larger than your hips I do not think you can in anyway justifiably refer to yourself as 'curvy'

How rude!!!

Indeed many will see it as such. We should spend more time saying what we think and less time bull shiting because we are worried about offending people with fragile sensitivities! "

Why do you Always have to wade in on these threads? I think you have a big issue with womens weight and frankly an ugly attitude.

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Everyone HAS fat, some people ARE fat.

Curvy can be in either category.

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doctor "_olarfox" ........ After giving birth naturally to both my older children I walked out of hospital a size 10 flat tummy and BMI 21/22

Then I gave birth naturally to my 3rd child I walked out of hospital a size 16 mummy tummy and BMI 22/23

I have always gone to gym regular and jog 4-5 times a week can you explain how I can change this ?

I'm sure your tummy has beautiful memories like mine does! I just thought if he was going to be so judgemental the least he could do is be constructive with his critism

I've had three c sections if you want to see a prime example of a fuck stomach pop round here i'll show you, i can assure you you'll feel loads better about yours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/"

What about the loose skin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/

What about the loose skin "

Just Divorce him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/

What about the loose skin "

Just shag men who aren't fussy, job done

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Reading this thread makes me think people should worry less about body shape, and more about their personality type. You get me?!"

Yeah, there's also that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy tummy is a badge of honour wear it with pride, people who aren't willing to accept you for who you are should jog right on

Polar!! That's not true....... As a mum of 3 I can make a personal judgement .......absolutely wrong "

He is partly right. I've had three but people are always shocked when they find out.

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By *ery curious maleMan over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

Love the 3 B's - Belly Boobs and Bum

A bit of mummy tummy is fab

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/"

Meow...its ok my friends know that my personality is just fine thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvy fat plump I like them all more to play with and hold on to its so sexy x

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By *isdirtygirlCouple over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

Love the 3 B's - Belly Boobs and Bum

A bit of mummy tummy is fab "

Absofuckinglutely!

Him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly of topic from op but how do guys feel about a "mummy tummy" ?

Seriously thinking of leaving amd returning after a few months at the gym....so i feel more confident and take up the offers haha

Love the 3 B's - Belly Boobs and Bum

A bit of mummy tummy is fab

Absofuckinglutely!

Him."

May i second that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you wobble you are fat.if you have a out in out shape you are curvy.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"If you wobble you are fat.if you have a out in out shape you are curvy."

What if you have an in and out hourglass shape but wobbly bits too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you wobble you are fat.if you have a out in out shape you are curvy.

What if you have an in and out hourglass shape but wobbly bits too? "

Its all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you prod your finger into your stomach and make a dimple you're curvy. If you make waves you're fat. I make a tsunami

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/

What about the loose skin

Just shag men who aren't fussy, job done

Doggy is best as you can rest it on the bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least if u are over weight (fat) you can lose weight unfortunately not much can be done for an ugly personality :-/

What about the loose skin

Just shag men who aren't fussy, job done

Doggy is best as you can rest it on the bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mummy tummy, now there's a subject.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yellow crayons taste best.

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