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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I know men do it sometimes (allegedly) but would a woman do it or would you walk away? I've walked before ( well ran, he looked like Freddie Kruger) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done a few 
were you just too nice to say no?"
Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .
And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .
So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Done a few
were you just too nice to say no?
Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .
And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .
So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear ..... "
That made me laugh, sorry! I love how liberated you are |
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When I'm on a meet I'm told I give good date (whatever that means). I don't assume sex. I do assume a good time but if I'm not feeling it I won't go through with it and I wouldn't expect my date to do it either. Sex is as much a mind game as a physical thing. If the two elements aren't working it is likely to be "forgettable" and that's not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done a few
were you just too nice to say no?
Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .
And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .
So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear ..... "
Hahaha... It's a moment of Opps isn't it... X
Yes I will as I enjoy the whole experience and my pure attraction is such a limited band. Also I do not need to be attracted physically to have a good time as part of a group thing. I obviously have my limitations and do refuse people but yes I would x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play solo, but I've still taken a few for the team.
Once I meet someone, I'm often too polite (or gutless) to say if they're hideous.
Turn the lights down and think of England, Cleo..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I play solo, but I've still taken a few for the team.
Once I meet someone, I'm often too polite (or gutless) to say if they're hideous.
Turn the lights down and think of England, Cleo....."
I'm by no means an oil painting, but even I have taken one for the team. Primarily because I didn't want to hurt the lady's feelings, and also as I believe everyone deserves good sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done a few
were you just too nice to say no?
Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .
And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .
So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear .....
Hahaha... It's a moment of Opps isn't it... X
Yes I will as I enjoy the whole experience and my pure attraction is such a limited band. Also I do not need to be attracted physically to have a good time as part of a group thing. I obviously have my limitations and do refuse people but yes I would x "
I guess ladies like us and Cleo give everyone a chance huh ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did on my old couples account. Just so my ex fb could screw another woman. And hated myself for it afterwards. It wouldn't have been so bad if she had been half decent but she wasn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because of how we play, I probably havent seen the faces of at least half the men I have had sex with - my head is usually occupied with men at the other end of the bed!!
The situation and the environment turns me on, if the guys add to it then great!
If we played one on one then I may have a different take on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty shallow so don't think i could do it.
I'm pretty shallow too and I've done it more than once..  "
Saying that, i've been in 5 relationships and i only found 2 of those guys physically attractive when i first met them. Suppose i could apply that kind of thinking to taking one for the team. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha ive done this a few times being on lads holidays and rugby tours they always turn out to be the best laughs and most friendly and in the end they get through all the boys so they do very well in my eyes these not so good looking people |
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"Ok so I know men do it sometimes (allegedly) but would a woman do it or would you walk away? I've walked before ( well ran, he looked like Freddie Kruger)"
I can't run my fast but there is no way I would take one for the team. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went through with a meet few months back because I was too embarrassed and nice to say that I didn't fancy him
Awful experience "
Fancy a meet. At night lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have in the past
when I first started this I met a guy who looked nothing like his pics, I was new to this and just didn't know how to tell him I didn't want to go back to his hotel, so I went through with it, soon as he had finished I got dressed and legged it, I hated myself after for just not saying but I felt awkward when put on the spot
I wouldn't do it now, I guess you toughen up with time |
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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago
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When we were fresh out of the box we had a meet at our home and the couple looked nothing like their profile pics. She went to the loo, as soon as she left the room, he practically grabbed Jacky's hand and said "Come on, let's get cracking" and with that, they went upstairs to the bedroom. She reappeared from the loo, and appeared surprised to find her partner gone. That made for an awkward evening and when I suggested going upstairs she said "No" twice. It was only when I said it was a separate room that she agreed.
Difficult evening. |
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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago
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"When we were fresh out of the box we had a meet at our home and the couple looked nothing like their profile pics. She went to the loo, as soon as she left the room, he practically grabbed Jacky's hand and said "Come on, let's get cracking" and with that, they went upstairs to the bedroom. She reappeared from the loo, and appeared surprised to find her partner gone. That made for an awkward evening and when I suggested going upstairs she said "No" twice. It was only when I said it was a separate room that she agreed.
Difficult evening."
I rest my case for always having a social meeting somewhere first...lol |
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We've never taken one for the team as it's usually me 'taking' and he joins in
'Him' has sometimes told me that I won't be playing with a particular someone as he doesn't like them or they've said something wrong etc. I always do as Him tells me single guy wise, as it's for US not just me.
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"We've never taken one for the team as it's usually me 'taking' and he joins in
'Him' has sometimes told me that I won't be playing with a particular someone as he doesn't like them or they've said something wrong etc. I always do as Him tells me single guy wise, as it's for US not just me.
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I'd love to be considered xx |
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