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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends.
If we had time off together and looking to meet, we pretty much only go to clubs, combines the social aspect and the chance to take things further in the same place.
We probably would decline 90 % of social meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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social- but if I find them attractive and there's time and somewhere to go, then I will happily play on the same day  Happened once so far, rest have been through meeting in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social first, always
I go into them with no expectations, no air of desperation, if there's no spark, there's no let down and I've had a nice night out
If there is, then happy days! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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I social first, but it has occasionally ended up back to mine for sex.... 
I think its different for 'single' meets - I wouldn't expect any lone woman to go off with some random from the internet without having met him in public first.
Also I don't "play", I fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone, which do you prefer?meeting for a social and then arranging another time to play or meet and then play straight away?"
the clue is in the name haha x |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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social or 2 first for me, before a later play-date
A time might possibly come when everything clicks and the first social just ends up as a play-date.. if it happens it happens. But I haven't done that teenage kind of stuff for over 20 years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends.
If we had time off together and looking to meet, we pretty much only go to clubs, combines the social aspect and the chance to take things further in the same place.
We probably would decline 90 % of social meets. "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't have a lot of opportunity for meets with hubby's shifts so when I/we organise a meet its straight to the fun. A social is just a wasted meet for us. "
Bloody kids.... |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"A social with the hope of play"
Meet in a pub near yours or theirs, if it all goes well, then great, if not, no one knows where the other lives, and you dont have to try and chuck them out your house if they turn out to be weird 
That's what we are most comfortable with, or club meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely happy to meet socially first. Gives both parties the opportunity to get to know each other and then decide if they want to play. It really wouldn't bother me if someone decided that they didn't want to take things further. Life's too short.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they are local, a social meet first. But mostly a social meet with the option to go on and play after.
Sometimes that first meet buzz is just too much to pass on!
Eddie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always a social. if on a rare occassion you both feel really comfortable to take it further then amazing. but never go expecting raw hot sex. got to have some chemistry first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont do social as we only really play in groups - a bit odd if we turn up at a bar with 8 or 9 guys fighting for attention!
For us its straight to playing in a club. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
For me it depends sometimes I will meet in a club and play, sometimes meet in club not play that night but arrange in the future, sometimes social first then play later, sometimes play on first meet social
What I will say different people happens differently and. A lot depends on where my location is and can I play |
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social first but as others have said, if we get on and there is a conducive place to play, we will proceed same day. Last time we met a guy off here for a coffee at a hotel, only took 20 minutes to decide we'd all like to check the hotel room out
But nice to have space to say no if we don't click (which hasn't happened yet actually) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social first, always
I go into them with no expectations, no air of desperation, if there's no spark, there's no let down and I've had a nice night out
If there is, then happy days!"
Pretty much exactly this for me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always arrange a social first to see if attraction. If no attraction we make excuse & say we'll be in touch (less embarrassing). If we like & have time to play then away we go. |
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Always at least one social meet first for us. We can't guarantee we will like who we meet (or them you) having never met them before. We like to talk to each other after a meet to make sure we are happy to meet them again and take things further as if either one of us has any doubt then we won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always request a social meet first it's the only way for us. It helps you to get an idea of the person you're meeting and it gives them the opportunity to check you out too. That way if there's no spark then you can all part amicably and there's no harm done. We have met and C was told on more than one occasion, and in different ways that she was not for the other party, and we've also had to let other people down gently because, well, they weren't for C. Imagine no social and finding that out after you've booked a hotel and got to the room!! |
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