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so want to orgasm from just being pounded
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have always wanted to orgasm from a guy just being in me,have met,and have had all the going todo this and give me my first orgasm from inside but never happend yet..just not met the right guy or one of them women it will never happen to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never happened for me.
I don't cum from penetrative sex. I require more subtle, detailed stimulation than just pounding. I find endless rough sex boring and painful.
It's very easy to feel inadequate if you don't do what other women do, on here.
Just be you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't cum from penetrative sex either, never had. I have to have my clit stimulated to be able to cum at all and it took me a long time to make it happen. I do cum with my magic wand very easily when I am playing with myself and that is a good way to get to know my body and find out what I like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs GNB had never cum from penetrative sex before... until i choked her. Now she does it everytime lol.
Obviously that approach may not be ideal to you though haha! I think apart from clit stimulation it is all mental with her - she orgasms when she pegs me... can't get my head round that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never happened for me.
I don't cum from penetrative sex. I require more subtle, detailed stimulation than just pounding. I find endless rough sex boring and painful.
It's very easy to feel inadequate if you don't do what other women do, on here.
Just be you.
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Looking at you I'd say "inadequate" is the last word I'd use to describe you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have always wanted to orgasm from a guy just being in me,have met,and have had all the going todo this and give me my first orgasm from inside but never happend yet..just not met the right guy or one of them women it will never happen to. "
Tracy, my ex had same problem, we found that a lot of foreplay and mutual masturbation turned us on so much. Just as we were both about cum, I would enter her deeply, while she continued to wank. It did to some explosive cums! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never happened for me.
I don't cum from penetrative sex. I require more subtle, detailed stimulation than just pounding. I find endless rough sex boring and painful.
It's very easy to feel inadequate if you don't do what other women do, on here.
Just be you.
Looking at you I'd say "inadequate" is the last word I'd use to describe you! "
You're very kind.
It's easy to feel substandard in a place where some women appear to be able to fit two sets of hand-luggage in their vagina and anus, and seemingly cum when the wind changes.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it takes a pounding before I can cum. I hate it when a guy tells me to cum when we have been at it 5 mins too.
Just feel under pressure and its a guaranteed way for it not to happen xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cant speak for women but the received wisdom is that most women cannot orgasm from penetrative sex and need clitoral stimulation. This isnt surprising since the clitoris is of course a little out of position or direct penile stimulation. Of course certain positions do lend themselves to more stimulation of the clitoris such as the man grinding on top where both your pubic mounds are in close contact, the womans legs are wide open, her pussy splayed and her clitoris fully exposed.
I am a big fan of the spoons position where the woman can have her legs open, her upper leg propped open o my upper leg thus allowing deep penetration and me being able to massage her sex which is invariably fully engorged.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cant speak for women but the received wisdom is that most women cannot orgasm from penetrative sex and need clitoral stimulation. This isnt surprising since the clitoris is of course a little out of position or direct penile stimulation. Of course certain positions do lend themselves to more stimulation of the clitoris such as the man grinding on top where both your pubic mounds are in close contact, the womans legs are wide open, her pussy splayed and her clitoris fully exposed.
I am a big fan of the spoons position where the woman can have her legs open, her upper leg propped open o my upper leg thus allowing deep penetration and me being able to massage her sex which is invariably fully engorged.."
Sensible chap. Not every woman responds to being sledge-hammered. I can take rough sex for about thirty seconds before it stops being pleasant and is just horrible. |
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I think its all about getting an orgasm and it does not necessarily have to be by penetrative sex. Penetrative sex is for procreation and for me sex is more for recreation. So orgasm the way you want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its all about getting an orgasm and it does not necessarily have to be by penetrative sex. Penetrative sex is for procreation and for me sex is more for recreation. So orgasm the way you want "
I can have amazing and fulfilling sex without having an orgasm, though.
Sex isn't always 'all about getting an orgasm', is it?
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"I think its all about getting an orgasm and it does not necessarily have to be by penetrative sex. Penetrative sex is for procreation and for me sex is more for recreation. So orgasm the way you want
I can have amazing and fulfilling sex without having an orgasm, though.
Sex isn't always 'all about getting an orgasm', is it?
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Is it not? It is for me most of the time though. But you may be right for a woman...as they say, men and women have different reasons for having sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its all about getting an orgasm and it does not necessarily have to be by penetrative sex. Penetrative sex is for procreation and for me sex is more for recreation. So orgasm the way you want
I can have amazing and fulfilling sex without having an orgasm, though.
Sex isn't always 'all about getting an orgasm', is it?
Is it not? It is for me most of the time though. But you may be right for a woman...as they say, men and women have different reasons for having sex. "
I imagine most people, men and women, on this site would agree with you. Sex is about the end result; getting an orgasm.
I just see it differently. I'm into D/s, so sex is something I like to put everything into, over a long period of time. It's not just a means to an end.
I fully accept that I'm the weirdo and you're the norm, in this respect, though! |
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"I think its all about getting an orgasm and it does not necessarily have to be by penetrative sex. Penetrative sex is for procreation and for me sex is more for recreation. So orgasm the way you want
I can have amazing and fulfilling sex without having an orgasm, though.
Sex isn't always 'all about getting an orgasm', is it?
Is it not? It is for me most of the time though. But you may be right for a woman...as they say, men and women have different reasons for having sex.
I imagine most people, men and women, on this site would agree with you. Sex is about the end result; getting an orgasm.
I just see it differently. I'm into D/s, so sex is something I like to put everything into, over a long period of time. It's not just a means to an end.
I fully accept that I'm the weirdo and you're the norm, in this respect, though!"
You are different but not a weirdo, good thing is you know what you like without any confusion, enjoy your uniqueness !! |
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"Cant speak for women but the received wisdom is that most women cannot orgasm from penetrative sex and need clitoral stimulation. This isnt surprising since the clitoris is of course a little out of position or direct penile stimulation. Of course certain positions do lend themselves to more stimulation of the clitoris such as the man grinding on top where both your pubic mounds are in close contact, the womans legs are wide open, her pussy splayed and her clitoris fully exposed.
I am a big fan of the spoons position where the woman can have her legs open, her upper leg propped open o my upper leg thus allowing deep penetration and me being able to massage her sex which is invariably fully engorged.."
Ive found that keeping my crotch area shaven helps stimulate the clitoris without pounding like a piledriver like most guys do xxx Made a woman cum for the first time in 4 years with that method xxx |
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Some women are clit girls and can only cum that way, my current partner is the same. you need to grind your pussy forward when on top or in missionary as he pushes in to achieve orgasm from just penetration.
Try cowgirl first and then maybe sex up in the air against a wall!! Thats always good |
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Hi! I haven't yet had an orgasm with anyone but my hubby the next day after any meets! Would love to but he really knows how to push my buttons! Probably all in the mind! Will keep trying as its so much fun anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have always wanted to orgasm from a guy just being in me,have met,and have had all the going todo this and give me my first orgasm from inside but never happend yet..just not met the right guy or one of them women it will never happen to. "
mildred does not cum from penetration normally either , she all ways masterbates to make herself cum, however there is one way she can cum from penetration is cow girl ,lady on top facing eachother works all the time very quickly for mildred , maybe worth a try |
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There don't seem to be any "rules" about what gives orgasm for females (???)
{R (male) commenting}
I've been told I've broken every "convention" of "dating etiquette" yet the female has orgasmed (multiple times!) when she says she has never had that before ever regardless of skill and technique.
What is the mysterious interaction? The important thing is to find what works for you...
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I feel that good sex is as much a mental thing as a physical act. If your heads not in the right place or you dont feel relaxed its always going to be harder to come. Feeling pressure to come from a good pounding is probably going to make it harder to get to where you want to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im the same but found once or twice when being pounded by a curved cock it can make me cum 
 'curved cock' .. With a precise angle "
Exactly can make me squirt to it its just the right angle  |
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