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Is my profile to vain ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile. |
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"Please let me know if my profile is to vain any critism is good critism thanks ."
I think if you want to appeal to intelligent women you need to know that it's "too" and "criticism".
And there isn't any point in saying you're reasonably good looking if you don't have any pics so we can judge for ourselves. |
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"I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile. "
Your job is no excuse not to have any, loads on here work yet have pictures even though they could risk their job |
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"I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile. "
Nonsense. what you're saying is that someone could recognise your arse if you posted a photo of it. That is arrogant. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is your profile too vain?
Not really, but you did then put this question in the forum, so you are really saying "Look at me, Look at ME!"
Good luck with playing hard-to-get with the ladies. "
Nope i just think it's good to know if people thinks I'm being to abrupt. But all comments are welcome . Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile.
Your job is no excuse not to have any, loads on here work yet have pictures even though they could risk their job"
True!
You can set the pictures to private or to disappear once the message is read too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get some decent pics, it's not difficult!"
Totally understand I have pictures in private I believe a women should be chased not doing the chasing. So if I ever message anyone I attaché my pictures to every message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile.
Your job is no excuse not to have any, loads on here work yet have pictures even though they could risk their job
True!
I do that Alice any ways there all hidden in private if I ever message anyone I send pictures.
You can set the pictures to private or to disappear once the message is read too"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please let me know if my profile is to vain any critism is good critism thanks ."
Opi think you need public pics before most would even consider meeting you!
Also I personally hate code-word demands from men, women or couples! It's a person's prerogative whether they read a profile or not - which is why mine is there for entertainment only.
Essentially though - if you're getting the attention/meets you want then leave it as it is. If you're not - add some pictures and tweak the text to make it friendlier. As bananarama and fun boy three sang before you were born - 'It ain't what you say it's the way that you say it!'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Slightly arrogant - I dislike profiles where people state what they look like and people will ALWAYS say they're good looking because you're not going to say you're butt ugly with no teeth and a gammy leg if you have want to attract someone. Just stick a bloody anonymous photo in public and let people judge for themselves. Even if you use the work excuse, everyone's on here for the same bloody reason.
Remove the codeword thing as well, that always always always looks vain. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Slightly arrogant - I dislike profiles where people state what they look like and people will ALWAYS say they're good looking because you're not going to say you're butt ugly with no teeth and a gammy leg if you have want to attract someone. Just stick a bloody anonymous photo in public and let people judge for themselves. Even if you use the work excuse, everyone's on here for the same bloody reason.
Thank you I have removed the code word I didn't want to put it. But the amount of women that do it I thought I would see if people do the same back. I agree it is annoying .
Remove the codeword thing as well, that always always always looks vain."
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"I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile. "
Your job is a decent reason for not having face pics, but you can have body shots that show your physique. If you're worried about being found out, avoid using photo's that are online elsewhere, they can easily be cross matched.
You'll still need to send face pics to people you might be wanting to meet, nobody is going to meet someone they've not seen.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly arrogant - I dislike profiles where people state what they look like and people will ALWAYS say they're good looking because you're not going to say you're butt ugly with no teeth and a gammy leg if you have want to attract someone. Just stick a bloody anonymous photo in public and let people judge for themselves. Even if you use the work excuse, everyone's on here for the same bloody reason.
Thank you I have removed the code word I didn't want to put it. But the amount of women that do it I thought I would see if people do the same back. I agree it is annoying .
Remove the codeword thing as well, that always always always looks vain."
Why do it if you find it annoying?!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I totally understand about the pics but they ain't up due to job that's my own fault so ino that's a negative that's why I hope I can make it up with my profile.
Your job is a decent reason for not having face pics, but you can have body shots that show your physique. If you're worried about being found out, avoid using photo's that are online elsewhere, they can easily be cross matched.
You'll still need to send face pics to people you might be wanting to meet, nobody is going to meet someone they've not seen.
Cal
Cal"
Thank you I agree with everything you said selfie session it is this afternoon lol . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Slightly arrogant - I dislike profiles where people state what they look like and people will ALWAYS say they're good looking because you're not going to say you're butt ugly with no teeth and a gammy leg if you have want to attract someone. Just stick a bloody anonymous photo in public and let people judge for themselves. Even if you use the work excuse, everyone's on here for the same bloody reason.
Thank you I have removed the code word I didn't want to put it. But the amount of women that do it I thought I would see if people do the same back. I agree it is annoying .
Remove the codeword thing as well, that always always always looks vain.
Why do it if you find it annoying?! "
To see if women and couples actually read profiles aswell. But I've taken it down it was a valid point. |
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We also generally ignore the "code-word" thing in peoples profiles, we'd rather compose a proper message that really shows that we've read a profile and meet the aspects that they're looking for.
For a single bloke, it's a bit pointless. It's not as if single men get loads of "fancy a fuck" messages... or general any messages at all if we believe the forums  |
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