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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You look curvy, to me.
I think you should be allowed to call yourself whatever you want, though. You have pictures, so people can see you.
Label yourself as you choose as a form of expression. you can't quantify things like 'curvy' and 'fabulous', anyway...... |
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"You look curvy, to me.
I think you should be allowed to call yourself whatever you want, though. You have pictures, so people can see you.
Label yourself as you choose as a form of expression. you can't quantify things like 'curvy' and 'fabulous', anyway......"
Agree with Cleo...you can't quantify them
But hell yes, you have got curves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no admit about it.
Fat is derogatory and I don't talk about myself in a negative way that's a quick way to comfort eating 
You are whatever you want to be and fuck anyone who disagrees  |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
"There's no admit about it.
Fat is derogatory and I don't talk about myself in a negative way that's a quick way to comfort eating
You are whatever you want to be and fuck anyone who disagrees "
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"There's no admit about it.
Fat is derogatory and I don't talk about myself in a negative way that's a quick way to comfort eating
You are whatever you want to be and fuck anyone who disagrees "
haha comfort eating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat is what people call you when you reject them "
Haha. So true. Funny how it doesn't bother them when they chat you up though. Fab can be a silly playground. Love the swings though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the people hsppy to play with bigger women will say your curvy, those who wont will say your fat. If they wont play with you anyway their opinion is unimportant so stick with curvy |
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy  Confused"
Personally, I think that if your waist appears smaller than your hips when looking from the front then that's curvy... if your waist is larger then that's not.
Your photo in the red undies demonstrates perfectly that you are indeed sexy.... oops I mean curvy
Cal x |
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused
Personally, I think that if your waist appears smaller than your hips when looking from the front then that's curvy... if your waist is larger then that's not.
Your photo in the red undies demonstrates perfectly that you are indeed sexy.... oops I mean curvy
Cal x"
Awww thank u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
You don't even have to be fat for some people to call it you, just have to be not 'perfect'. I wouldn't class you as fat though, I'm fat! Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can call myself a purple giraffe if I want to its my profile to do with as I want
I hate labels
And the day I start worrying what others may call me is the day I leave fab ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the same time there's a lot of thin women on here who call themselves curvy! Curvy is definitely the way forward in my opinion, gotta live a nice round ass too   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
Fat?? In what universe could you possibly be fat?? Dear god! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some days I feel like a whale or a hippo. Other days I feel fat. Some days I feel I look curvy. However I've enough photos for people to make up their own minds if I'm too big for then or not. It's their choice just as how I chose to describe myself was mine. Life's far too short to worry what box you tick on the Internet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I'd say it's about boob, waist and hop ratio!
If your waist is noticeably smaller than your boobs and hips (yours is btw) then you're curvy.
If there's no discernible difference - or the waist is larger - then you're large.
That's how I see it anyway - but that's only one opinion! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I'd say it's about boob, waist and hop ratio!
If your waist is noticeably smaller than your boobs and hips (yours is btw) then you're curvy.
If there's no discernible difference - or the waist is larger - then you're large.
That's how I see it anyway - but that's only one opinion! Xx"
Hip even - not seen many good hops lately! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
Omg!! Hun, you are so not fat!!! You are beautifully curvy!! Now I on the other hand am what I'm calling fabulous. I know im fat. I know i need to lose weight. You know what though? I'm slowly learning that if people don't like me for who I am and how I look then it's their problem. I'm much more than the outer shell!!
Soz, mini rant over. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think curvy is very sexy...however if you have what looks like two pairs of tits then I'd say that's fat...and at the end of the day fat might be sexy to some but health wise it's not ideal so the shouldn't be such a stigma, maybe not use the word fat... overweight doesn't sound as cutting...?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think curvy is very sexy...however if you have what looks like two pairs of tits then I'd say that's fat...and at the end of the day fat might be sexy to some but health wise it's not ideal so the shouldn't be such a stigma, maybe not use the word fat... overweight doesn't sound as cutting...??"
Who cares if anyone is called fat, I certainly don't because I am, no one is telling me anything new. We don't need to be spared 'cutting' remarks |
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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
Fat ? Really? Who ever said that is a fool. Your body is absolutely sexy. Perfect curves. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
I'm sure people have lots of opinions, I'd just like to say you have lovely hair xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
Not a chance your fat your looking in fantasic shape to me its when your skelenton is showing thats when to get worried |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Littlemisspink. As others have said 'Fat' is a derogatory term and a horrible word to use as it could really upset. You describe yourself as you like , curvy , fabulous , gorgeous, anything you want. and you look all of them to me. I would love to feel your curves xx. |
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By *andlebarMan
over a year ago
South Northumberland |
As many have said.. whats in a label.. call yourself what you like.. a size 10 woman migt see a size 16 as fat.. a size 30 lass may see her as skinny.. its all subjective.. and calling someone else fat (or skinny) isnt necisarily derogitory if its not intended to be.. however in my opinion bigger girls are sexier.. i get very turned on just looking at the fuller figured lady whether thats a size 20 or up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nowt like a good look at me thread and all the sucking up to the op. Well done op "
I think it's a reasonable question to ask. I had myself down as ample,a man I met said I should be curvy as I'm not fat enough to be ample. Someone else said I'm not curvy because I have a large stomach,so I went with large. I don't remember what it says now but if a man reads my profile he will know he isn't getting a hot body. Unless he thinks fat is hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nowt like a good look at me thread and all the sucking up to the op. Well done op
I think it's a reasonable question to ask. I had myself down as ample,a man I met said I should be curvy as I'm not fat enough to be ample. Someone else said I'm not curvy because I have a large stomach,so I went with large. I don't remember what it says now but if a man reads my profile he will know he isn't getting a hot body. Unless he thinks fat is hot. "
The ladies of fab stick together. If a guy asked this he would have the s**t ripped out of him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nowt like a good look at me thread and all the sucking up to the op. Well done op
Holding my sides "
These white knights, should hand in their man cards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are loads on here that are plain porky/ obese but call themselves curvy.
We all have an image of ourselves, I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Love curves but not keen on layers would be my preference.
Just be happy in yourself and if not happy make strides to do something about it...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nowt like a good look at me thread and all the sucking up to the op. Well done op
I think it's a reasonable question to ask. I had myself down as ample,a man I met said I should be curvy as I'm not fat enough to be ample. Someone else said I'm not curvy because I have a large stomach,so I went with large. I don't remember what it says now but if a man reads my profile he will know he isn't getting a hot body. Unless he thinks fat is hot. "
Yeah I've had the messages questioning my choice of body type description too, which varies between curvy, large and fabulous. And the frequency of "who do these fat cows think they are calling themselves curvy" type threads and statuses gives the impression some people are bothered too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nowt like a good look at me thread and all the sucking up to the op. Well done op
I think it's a reasonable question to ask. I had myself down as ample,a man I met said I should be curvy as I'm not fat enough to be ample. Someone else said I'm not curvy because I have a large stomach,so I went with large. I don't remember what it says now but if a man reads my profile he will know he isn't getting a hot body. Unless he thinks fat is hot.
Yeah I've had the messages questioning my choice of body type description too, which varies between curvy, large and fabulous. And the frequency of "who do these fat cows think they are calling themselves curvy" type threads and statuses gives the impression some people are bothered too..."
At the end of the day as long as you have some clear pics you should call yourself whatever you're comfortable with!
And for every guy who has a go at us ladies - the sheer numbers of guys with tummies and love handles who call themselves 'athletic' is laughable!
Do I message them to tell them I think they're 'average' though? No - I leave it to them!
'Nuff said I think girls!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
you my dear are a sexy curvy lady have no fears, you are not fat |
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
The point at which they want to?! It's all subjective and personal. We have no say in it really. |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire East |
Whatever you like  I'm a size 18 so I'm fat BUT I'm in propertion and my waist is 11 inches smaller than my bust and hips so I call myself curvy. As long as you're comfortable with it who cares? It's all subjective anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put curvy as that what my oh side sees me as but I see fat! I have pictures they can decide what I am to them!
I stated if they was looking for thin /model type i wasn't the Girl for them in my profile x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can't get out your bed because you can't fit through your bedroom door, then you can call yourself fat..
Anything less is just more fun..
I think.
I love a girl with meat on them, and plenty of others do too.
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put a picture on your profile then people can decide how fat they think you are!
Sorted!
i have many pics on my profile "
Yes you do - and you made us all look
I'm not judging your look at me thread OP .....
you were asking a genuine question I'm just grumpy and old and bored of everyone going on and on about being fat or thin or gay!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvy/fat/athletic
All in the eyes of the person looking at you because it's different for everyone
As long as you have clear body pics then let them decide what they think you are and stop worrying about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes be happy with what you have if you can improve on it that's great but happiness comes from within and others will like you for who you are not your BMI x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never refer to another lady as fat it's horrible I always use curvy but then again I love a fuller figure on a lady and we are far to quick to use derogatory terms in my view |
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"Curvy/fat/athletic
All in the eyes of the person looking at you because it's different for everyone
As long as you have clear body pics then let them decide what they think you are and stop worrying about it"
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
You are definitely curvy and not fat.....trust me I've made a thorough inspection of your pictures!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are definitely not fat but curvy and stunning
Women embrace your shape men. I'm a size 18 with 38j boobs and I call myself curvy . My pics are me and I'm proud of my figure xx |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused
You are definitely curvy and not fat.....trust me I've made a thorough inspection of your pictures!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are in no way fat! I can't believe someone called you fat! They must have been blind. One guy of here once called me a "larger lady" I wasn't bothered by it at all because I'm really comfortable in my own skin. Don't let anybody make you doubt yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I wouldn't expect anyone to label themselves as fat curvy is to us when there are bits going out and bits going in. Then whether that person is size 8 or 16 is beside the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
Think you look lush - curvalicious in fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what size should a woman stop callin her self curvy an admit there just fat iv been calls fat and curvy Confused"
Your deffo not fat and and prob curvy would be spot on ...
We have met couples and the women describes herself as thin and we wouldn't put them in the curvy description x |
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