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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
Just had a young couple chat us up. They seemed nice, we set a date for them to come over and then said as you have plenty of time until next week can you get photo verifed. Read then deleted, I asked why and mentioned that most people will want that if they're letting you into their home, blocked, 10 mins later UNLOS.
Why bother? As if we're going to let an unverified person or couple into our home xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if the PV is important to you why did you make a date with a couple who aren't PV?
Because they already said therir waiting to do that in the morning, seemed legit xx"
Sounds dodgy overall, but I'd have accepted waiting til the morning for a PV.
Wishing you better luck in future  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if the PV is important to you why did you make a date with a couple who aren't PV?
Because they already said therir waiting to do that in the morning, seemed legit xx"
Well if they already said they would do it in the morning, why start pressing them on it?
Can't help but feel that you scared them off. |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
You aren't alone in this type of behaviour, I had been contacted after commenting in a good morning forum thread by a single younger lady who was looking for females, after chatting a bit she sent me a friends request and I accepted, I've facial pix in mine she didn't and then she went UNLOS, really weird...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You aren't alone in this type of behaviour, I had been contacted after commenting in a good morning forum thread by a single younger lady who was looking for females, after chatting a bit she sent me a friends request and I accepted, I've facial pix in mine she didn't and then she went UNLOS, really weird...
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That's because she was a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it double standards "
Because you appear to expect others to do something you won't do yourself.
Don't get me wrong, we would never invite an unknown person into our house, but at the same time we would never ask nor expect them to invite them into there's.
We feel that a neutral location for a first meet is they only way to go which is why we only meet in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You aren't alone in this type of behaviour, I had been contacted after commenting in a good morning forum thread by a single younger lady who was looking for females, after chatting a bit she sent me a friends request and I accepted, I've facial pix in mine she didn't and then she went UNLOS, really weird...
That's because she was a man. "
That seems like an obvious to me. Lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You aren't alone in this type of behaviour, I had been contacted after commenting in a good morning forum thread by a single younger lady who was looking for females, after chatting a bit she sent me a friends request and I accepted, I've facial pix in mine she didn't and then she went UNLOS, really weird...
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We don't understand what the united nations law of the sea has to do with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a young couple chat us up. They seemed nice, we set a date for them to come over and then said as you have plenty of time until next week can you get photo verifed. Read then deleted, I asked why and mentioned that most people will want that if they're letting you into their home, blocked, 10 mins later UNLOS.
Why bother? As if we're going to let an unverified person or couple into our home xx"
Petty and another no any rant! The delete button is,at the bottom of your home page!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a young couple chat us up. They seemed nice, we set a date for them to come over and then said as you have plenty of time until next week can you get photo verifed. Read then deleted, I asked why and mentioned that most people will want that if they're letting you into their home, blocked, 10 mins later UNLOS.
Why bother? As if we're going to let an unverified person or couple into our home xx
Petty and another no any rant! The delete button is,at the bottom of your home page! "
^ moany |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have been asking for a phone call or webcam first...
I could upload pics of me and a few fabswinger ex's...
hey presto..my partners running late but said she we should get started..I just hope my poorly mother in law doesnt die after I've shot my load.I hate rushing away from a meet.Just verify us anyway, and we'll meet up next week..in fact, I'll send the wife, oops I mean gf over to you.
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"Just had a young couple chat us up. They seemed nice, we set a date for them to come over and then said as you have plenty of time until next week can you get photo verifed. Read then deleted, I asked why and mentioned that most people will want that if they're letting you into their home, blocked, 10 mins later UNLOS.
Why bother? As if we're going to let an unverified person or couple into our home xx"
I would imagine that they weren't what they said they were so photo verification was never going to be possible. It is also possible that they were genuine and your questioning scared them off but alas, as in all these cases we shall never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BlondieandRogue that's what i said we would never invite any one to our house or go to theres without meeting them first. We always meet in a pub on our first meet"
Oh, I see. Didn't quite read that way to me. In that case I take it back.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
OK the chances are they weren't going to get photo verified (its not compulsory for the site, just certain members), but if they'd told you they were going to do so, why keep asking them to do so? And why are you blaming them for being fake when you were the ones who contacted them in the first place?
I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it. Up to you how you use the site, but I can't see much satisfaction coming your way by using it the way you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wether they are verified or not is irrelevant you are still letting strangers into your home "
It's funny when people use verifications as 'proof' of anything. |
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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago
Gerrards Cross |
"Isn't this the normal behaviour of males macarading as women on here?#justasking"
It may be (don't know, haven't had it happen yet), but what do they expect to achieve? Were they ust going to turn up to the meet alone, or maybe with some kind of a blow up doll and pretend the wife just isn't very chatty? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK the chances are they weren't going to get photo verified (its not compulsory for the site, just certain members), but if they'd told you they were going to do so, why keep asking them to do so? And why are you blaming them for being fake when you were the ones who contacted them in the first place?
I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it. Up to you how you use the site, but I can't see much satisfaction coming your way by using it the way you do."
Succinctly put! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"You aren't alone in this type of behaviour, I had been contacted after commenting in a good morning forum thread by a single younger lady who was looking for females, after chatting a bit she sent me a friends request and I accepted, I've facial pix in mine she didn't and then she went UNLOS, really weird...
We don't understand what the united nations law of the sea has to do with it"
That it wasn't plain sailing |
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"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it."
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members. |
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"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members."
There can't be many left they can message, they've blocked most of us by the sound of it |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members.
There can't be many left they can message, they've blocked most of us by the sound of it "
They blocked me, but then I dont play with couples, so I'm no fun to experiment on  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members.
There can't be many left they can message, they've blocked most of us by the sound of it
They blocked me, but then I dont play with couples, so I'm no fun to experiment on "
I was blocked ages ago because I didn't agree with their opinion lol......and I don't play with couples either, I was so heart broken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members.
There can't be many left they can message, they've blocked most of us by the sound of it
They blocked me, but then I dont play with couples, so I'm no fun to experiment on
I was blocked ages ago because I didn't agree with their opinion lol......and I don't play with couples either, I was so heart broken."
I bkocked them myself when I disagreed on a previous post. Then they couldn't see me  |
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"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members.
There can't be many left they can message, they've blocked most of us by the sound of it
They blocked me, but then I dont play with couples, so I'm no fun to experiment on
I was blocked ages ago because I didn't agree with their opinion lol......and I don't play with couples either, I was so heart broken."
I got a message then a block, but strangely I wasn't heart broken  |
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"So if the PV is important to you why did you make a date with a couple who aren't PV?
Because they already said therir waiting to do that in the morning, seemed legit xx"
When will people realise that photo-veries are a waste of time?
They don't prove anything, and are too easily faked. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I am a great proponent of people using this site the exact way they wish to without criticism, but after a few recent posts I'm starting to think you are only messaging people you know are a bit suss just so you can post on the forum about it.
I agree, particularly with the other thread about 'experimenting' with forum members.
There can't be many left they can message, they've blocked most of us by the sound of it
They blocked me, but then I dont play with couples, so I'm no fun to experiment on
I was blocked ages ago because I didn't agree with their opinion lol......and I don't play with couples either, I was so heart broken.
I got a message then a block, but strangely I wasn't heart broken "
Forgot to say they did message me first as well |
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