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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I got blocked by a couple who messaged me after i showed interest in the meet they had put up.

I logged on after being at work as normal to find a somewhat abusive kind of message saying the had tried to contact me about it... They hadnt even given me chance to reply...

Anyway rant over thier loss.

Just found it funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Has anyone else had this kind of experience?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends when you showed interest , and when the meet was .

If it was for that evening and you didn't get back to them I can't blame them .

Fail to see how it's their loss , but if it makes you feel better it's all good

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens."

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

"

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a single bloke get blocked all the time. Often chatting away then suddenly blocked, and you think what did I say/do wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't even attempt to understand what goes on in people's heads on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that "

Very true, indeed, and i thought it was just us men who were needy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As a single bloke get blocked all the time. Often chatting away then suddenly blocked, and you think what did I say/do wrong lol"

Happens a lot ive had it too.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards"

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn't even attempt to understand what goes on in people's heads on here "

Duely noted honeypot!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that "

What about this makes you think they're needy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward. "

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

"

This is also proving hard!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You didn't jump quick enough through the hoop...

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Has anyone else had this kind of experience?"

No, you are the first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy? "

Because the guy didn't reply till he finished work .

I am guessing they were pissed off that he didn't reply sooner .

The reason I asked when the meet was is because if it was for that evening I could understand it . But the next day .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You didn't jump quick enough through the hoop..."

Hoops dont pay bills

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

This is also proving hard! "

Yes it can be for single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Has anyone else had this kind of experience?

No, you are the first."

Thought so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You didn't jump quick enough through the hoop..."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

This is also proving hard!

Yes it can be for single men "

Oh i know the ratio and quality of other guys is much higher than me, not denying that.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy?

Because the guy didn't reply till he finished work .

I am guessing they were pissed off that he didn't reply sooner .

The reason I asked when the meet was is because if it was for that evening I could understand it . But the next day ....."

See my problem with this is that the people who blocked for reasons known only to themselves I don't think its fair to call them needy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy?

Because the guy didn't reply till he finished work .

I am guessing they were pissed off that he didn't reply sooner .

The reason I asked when the meet was is because if it was for that evening I could understand it . But the next day .....

See my problem with this is that the people who blocked for reasons known only to themselves I don't think its fair to call them needy."

I agree maybe someone else jumpes through the hoop quicker.... Only they will know.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

This is also proving hard!

Yes it can be for single men

Oh i know the ratio and quality of other guys is much higher than me, not denying that."

The ratio of men to women is high, I couldn't comment on the comparative quality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

This is also proving hard!

Yes it can be for single men

Oh i know the ratio and quality of other guys is much higher than me, not denying that.

The ratio of men to women is high, I couldn't comment on the comparative quality. "

Well interlinking from another thread im no ripped gym going 8inch hung guy.

Just a generally happy, normal guy who enjoys the adult scene

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a single guy I'm always getting blocked!!

We talk for a week or two ... Arrange a meet .. Then last minute get blocked...

Some times I get a msg saying all kinds of weird stuff .. Then blocked.

Best ones are the I don't do blacks then block... Which is cool except I never made any contact with them or viewed their profile!!! Wierd!!

P.s I'm not black???

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By *nleashedCrakenMan  over a year ago

Widnes

Some block, some don't.

I got blocked by one single woman I'd been talking to. We'd said we'd arrange something. I posted her the next day. She said I was being to pushy and blocked me. Fair enough, Lesson learnt.

About a week later similar situation, different girl so decided I'd leave it a little longer to get back to her. When I did, about 4 days later, she posted back to say I'd left it too long and clearly wasn't interested in her and blocked me.

Sometimes you just can't win so now I just do what I want, if it works great, if it doesn't so what?.

It's just not worth getting worked up about.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

This is also proving hard!

Yes it can be for single men

Oh i know the ratio and quality of other guys is much higher than me, not denying that.

The ratio of men to women is high, I couldn't comment on the comparative quality.

Well interlinking from another thread im no ripped gym going 8inch hung guy.

Just a generally happy, normal guy who enjoys the adult scene"

the majority of men on here aren't ripped, gym going, 8 inch hung guys either. They're just like you. Men in their twenties do find it more difficult if some of the threads I've read are indicative.....the traditional advice is go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy?

Because the guy didn't reply till he finished work .

I am guessing they were pissed off that he didn't reply sooner .

The reason I asked when the meet was is because if it was for that evening I could understand it . But the next day .....

See my problem with this is that the people who blocked for reasons known only to themselves I don't think its fair to call them needy."

Fair point , but I can only comment on how I see it . Call me judgemental

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We've been blocked by loads of people for loads of reasons. It happens.

Just thought not giving me time to reply was a tad harsh. I know nevermind onwards and upwards

It must feel harsh I agree but as you say onward and upward.

Just finding someone to keep it up now hahaha

This is also proving hard!

Yes it can be for single men

Oh i know the ratio and quality of other guys is much higher than me, not denying that.

The ratio of men to women is high, I couldn't comment on the comparative quality.

Well interlinking from another thread im no ripped gym going 8inch hung guy.

Just a generally happy, normal guy who enjoys the adult scene

the majority of men on here aren't ripped, gym going, 8 inch hung guys either. They're just like you. Men in their twenties do find it more difficult if some of the threads I've read are indicative.....the traditional advice is go to clubs "

Advice ive seen before its that circle of gettinf your first veri, but cant get one until you meet. Etc but yes clubs are the way forward i agree.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy?

Because the guy didn't reply till he finished work .

I am guessing they were pissed off that he didn't reply sooner .

The reason I asked when the meet was is because if it was for that evening I could understand it . But the next day .....

See my problem with this is that the people who blocked for reasons known only to themselves I don't think its fair to call them needy.

Fair point , but I can only comment on how I see it . Call me judgemental "

Me too, it's what makes it interesting

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By *km45Man  over a year ago

UTTOXETER

You can't win on this site. If I get blocked then I move on. Used to bother me now I just think there loss plenty of other fab ladies on here.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan  over a year ago

Widnes

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By *nleashedCrakenMan  over a year ago

Widnes


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy? "

I always feel needy when you put new pics up but that's just because they look so hot. xx

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By *nleashedCrakenMan  over a year ago

Widnes


"You can't win on this site. If I get blocked then I move on. Used to bother me now I just think there loss plenty of other fab ladies on here. "

You can you know. Just take the good stuff that happens and ignore the bad. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It Was for the next day, and we had spoken before.

Well maybe not thier loss who knows.

Ah , the next day , that's different then .

Don't worry about it ....

They sound needy and no one needs that

What about this makes you think they're needy?

I always feel needy when you put new pics up but that's just because they look so hot. xx"

Ah thanks

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