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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford

Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

the list is extensive.

wife found out

accidently deleted account

erased by the time lords

etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

These things happen.

Maybe he got cold feet?

Maybe his life away from fab got in the way?

Try not to worry yourselves about it

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By *rvoyuerMan  over a year ago

Luton

I've had this happen to me....just assumed it was something I said??

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"These things happen.

Maybe he got cold feet?

Maybe his life away from fab got in the way?

Try not to worry yourselves about it "

This literally happened within the hour! Not over a long period of time

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

Loads of reasons some mentioned and others to boot

He could just like the thrill of the chase

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By *ngel n tedCouple  over a year ago

maidstone

Once he got to the holy grail of friends only pics, he must of cum

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Happens to us all the time.... May start to develop a complex!

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By *tallionExoticaMan  over a year ago

Islington

Maybe he was just a figment of your imagination.

Maybe he was part of the Matrix and got 'erased from the system'.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had experienced this before so no love lost and move on x

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

Happens all the time, absolutely nothing to be worried about. There are loads of reasons including he wasn't all he claimed to be. We have been sent a message and the person left the site minutes later

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't worry about it,it happens all the time. I had one myself this morning went UNLOS 10 minutes after messaging me and before I had the chance to reply to his second message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not sure what you think you ought to be worried about? People come and go all the time. I've done it before without saying anything to anyone and i nearly did a couple of days ago. Don't assume it is anything to do with you.

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By *tallionExoticaMan  over a year ago

Islington

Jokes aside, there could be a variety of factors.

- Maybe he was hiding something, probably cheating his wife / girlfriend.

- Maybe he was testing out the waters of swinging and found it a little too overwhelming.

- Maybe he just wanted to boost his egocentric self.

- Maybe he left and will resurface back again under another pseudonym.

- Maybe its Maybelline.

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By *oBananas78Couple  over a year ago

London

One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford

I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

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By *tallionExoticaMan  over a year ago

Islington


"One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple "

Oh that's definitely true.

They look like a great couple no doubt.

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple "

Thankyou that's very kind

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

No, don't be worried. These things happen and no one except for the perp can know the reason why.

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple

Oh that's definitely true.

They look like a great couple no doubt."

Why thankyou very much!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"
I think he got ejected from the site for being a pathological liar

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

"

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

"

He was probably fake then. All the hot men are on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?"

Great,cynical minds think alike

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By *tallionExoticaMan  over a year ago

Islington


"One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple

Oh that's definitely true.

They look like a great couple no doubt.

Why thankyou very much!"

You're most welcome!

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?"

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

He was probably fake then. All the hot men are on here "

I know, can normally spot them a mile off! I'm clearly not on point today...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aliens...they are always knocking around oct. Nov. Time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

Happens all the time, absolutely nothing to be worried about. There are loads of reasons including he wasn't all he claimed to be. We have been sent a message and the person left the site minutes later "

I've arranged a meet with guys - and gone on site on the morning of the meet to find they went unlos overnight! Happened a few times!

It's either nerves

They were fake

Or I'm fugly!!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Aliens...they are always knocking around oct. Nov. Time "

And yes you are hot woman!!

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

"

Depends what your using to access the site on, some phones you can just hold your finger on the picture for long enough and a option to image search it will appear

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

Happens all the time, absolutely nothing to be worried about. There are loads of reasons including he wasn't all he claimed to be. We have been sent a message and the person left the site minutes later

I've arranged a meet with guys - and gone on site on the morning of the meet to find they went unlos overnight! Happened a few times!

It's either nerves

They were fake

Or I'm fugly!!

Xx"

Most definitely not the latter! X

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

Depends what your using to access the site on, some phones you can just hold your finger on the picture for long enough and a option to image search it will appear"

Well I am using a smart phone but there are not pictures left to click on since he left the site?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

"

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Aliens...they are always knocking around oct. Nov. Time

And yes you are hot woman!!"

**blushes**

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

Depends what your using to access the site on, some phones you can just hold your finger on the picture for long enough and a option to image search it will appear

Well I am using a smart phone but there are not pictures left to click on since he left the site?"

Oh well you could try it next time someone messages a pic or play around viewing profiles with public pics to try and use the search function

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions "

And what will this bring up?

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By *hortieWoman  over a year ago

Northampton

At a guess....

He left.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Happens all the time, might've shit himself if he thought he was in with a chance

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos "

Hahaha surely there porn for that!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions

And what will this bring up?"

Any other places his pictures are on the net. It could show you that he has profiles on another site which of course is no problem or it could show you that he was using a porn stars picture, a minor celebritys or a male models.

Since he left the site it doesn't really matter but it can be a useful tool if you suspect someone might not be genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos

Hahaha surely there porn for that! "

But it might be better if its real people, who they can interact with

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos

Hahaha surely there porn for that!

But it might be better if its real people, who they can interact with"

Indeed of course....

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

It happens to me a few time getting on grand with a couple just arranging our meet when they disappeared n then a few months later I see them back on n I message them no reply must b messers . Lately chatting to this gorgeous coloured young lady hope her parents did not catch her cos same thing we were getting on grand she sent me her gorgeous photos n dissapeared too u win some u loose some

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions

And what will this bring up?

Any other places his pictures are on the net. It could show you that he has profiles on another site which of course is no problem or it could show you that he was using a porn stars picture, a minor celebritys or a male models.

Since he left the site it doesn't really matter but it can be a useful tool if you suspect someone might not be genuine."

Thankyou i had no idea this was possible!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions

And what will this bring up?

Any other places his pictures are on the net. It could show you that he has profiles on another site which of course is no problem or it could show you that he was using a porn stars picture, a minor celebritys or a male models.

Since he left the site it doesn't really matter but it can be a useful tool if you suspect someone might not be genuine.

Thankyou i had no idea this was possible!"

You're welcome

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By *L RogueMan  over a year ago

London

Happened to me yesterday.

It happens. Don't dwell on it.

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By *tallionExoticaMan  over a year ago

Islington


"Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos

Hahaha surely there porn for that!

But it might be better if its real people, who they can interact with

Indeed of course.... "

Well there's no better appeal than having to interact with people who know how to talk.

Very few understand the seduction of the mind. That's something porn wouldn't be able to replicate at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos

Hahaha surely there porn for that!

But it might be better if its real people, who they can interact with

Indeed of course....

Well there's no better appeal than having to interact with people who know how to talk.

Very few understand the seduction of the mind. That's something porn wouldn't be able to replicate at all. "

Never a truer word spoken. Amazing how seductive good conversation and banter can be!

Most of the guys on here don't get that, although I am betting most of the successful ones do!

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By *acelvisMan  over a year ago

Thurso


"One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple "

Totally agree with this comment x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

Don't be worried - it's happened to us loads, at one point I thought we were cursed on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Joined up looked at your pictures bashed one out shot his muck went unlos

Hahaha surely there porn for that!

But it might be better if its real people, who they can interact with

Indeed of course....

Well there's no better appeal than having to interact with people who know how to talk.

Very few understand the seduction of the mind. That's something porn wouldn't be able to replicate at all.

Never a truer word spoken. Amazing how seductive good conversation and banter can be!

Most of the guys on here don't get that, although I am betting most of the successful ones do!"

Absolutely right!

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?"

Of course but very short lived!

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

Don't be worried - it's happened to us loads, at one point I thought we were cursed on here."

You gotta take the good with the bad for sure! Just a shame when you feel like you've found someone worth talking to then in actual fact that's not the case!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!"

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"One thing is certain though he has missed out as you are a gorgeous couple

Totally agree with this comment x"

Thanks so much x

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to...."

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all."

I still don't get what there could be to be concerned/worried about though?

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all.

I still don't get what there could be to be concerned/worried about though?"

He was local, he may have recognized us. Don't really fancy that due to the nature of this site! Would like to keep this part of our lives seperate from 'Normality'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all.

I still don't get what there could be to be concerned/worried about though?

He was local, he may have recognized us. Don't really fancy that due to the nature of this site! Would like to keep this part of our lives seperate from 'Normality' "

Well seeing as you've put your location as exactly the same as ours, you'd only know he was local if you had divulged where you were as we both know 'near Chelmsford' could be anywhere

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple  over a year ago

midlands

I scare them into unlos before I've even read the message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all.

I still don't get what there could be to be concerned/worried about though?

He was local, he may have recognized us. Don't really fancy that due to the nature of this site! Would like to keep this part of our lives seperate from 'Normality' "

But what does that have to do with him leaving the site? He could have recognised you and still been on the site? Would that make you less concerned?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

Maybe a married man and wife caught him out

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I scare them into unlos before I've even read the message "

We do it by sending face pictures

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By *expuss2015Woman  over a year ago

Planet Sex

Ive had messages from guys in the past and before Ive had chance to message back it says they are no longer on the site. I just delete the message they've sent without even reading it! I find it quite bazzare too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe it was yet another single bloody female pretending to be a man!!! When will you single females lear.... hold on.....somethings not quite right here????

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all.

I still don't get what there could be to be concerned/worried about though?

He was local, he may have recognized us. Don't really fancy that due to the nature of this site! Would like to keep this part of our lives seperate from 'Normality'

Well seeing as you've put your location as exactly the same as ours, you'd only know he was local if you had divulged where you were as we both know 'near Chelmsford' could be anywhere "

Like i stated in my title message we did do so

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford

Who knows hey?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

It comes with the site. Ever heard of the phrase, thrill of the chase?

Of course but very short lived!

It is highly possible you weren't the only one he was chatting to....

Yeah i get that....initially jus got a little concerned that's all.

I still don't get what there could be to be concerned/worried about though?

He was local, he may have recognized us. Don't really fancy that due to the nature of this site! Would like to keep this part of our lives seperate from 'Normality'

Well seeing as you've put your location as exactly the same as ours, you'd only know he was local if you had divulged where you were as we both know 'near Chelmsford' could be anywhere

Like i stated in my title message we did do so"

Sorry Id forgotten. Did he know whereabouts you were too? If so maybe he thought you were a little close for comfort perhaps if he had a partner

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By *rikki1967ukMan  over a year ago

peterborough


"These things happen.

Maybe he got cold feet?

Maybe his life away from fab got in the way?

Try not to worry yourselves about it

This literally happened within the hour! Not over a long period of time"

May be newbie who got scared. Cracking profile pics could just pushed him to far and he panicked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe he never really existed???

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By *iss InnocenceWoman  over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Happen a few times to me now last time was last wk 2 days b4 R meet and I woman too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

Had exactly the same happen to us yesterday,

couple messaged us to ask about our profile etc, we messaged them back, message was read and then hey presto they were gone, member no longer on site.

Fake profiles we guess. we never give too much info our anyway until we can confirm they are genuine.

Tossers more likely...in the true sense of the word.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People panic when their fantasy seem to start to become reality .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?"

Well at least it shows he wasn't blind, just checked out your profile and yes, you are stunning, so he got that right......B & S xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These things happen.

Maybe he got cold feet?

Maybe his life away from fab got in the way?

Try not to worry yourselves about it

This literally happened within the hour! Not over a long period of time"

He came...

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions

And what will this bring up?

Any other places his pictures are on the net. It could show you that he has profiles on another site which of course is no problem or it could show you that he was using a porn stars picture, a minor celebritys or a male models.

Since he left the site it doesn't really matter but it can be a useful tool if you suspect someone might not be genuine.

Thankyou i had no idea this was possible!

You're welcome "

Used this method today! Best thing ever!

He told me he was a personal trainer and I replied 'well the internet seems to think your a male model'....user no longer in site! Haha!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I guess because he was quite local I'm just panicking thinking maybe he recognised us or something?

More of a shame because we have only been considering select men at the mo and he was pretty hot ha! Damn it! Thanks all never mind x

Are you sure it was him? Can you reverse search his pictures?

Oh i don't know? How would i do that?

On a desk top use tineye or Google reverse search for example and follow the instructions

And what will this bring up?

Any other places his pictures are on the net. It could show you that he has profiles on another site which of course is no problem or it could show you that he was using a porn stars picture, a minor celebritys or a male models.

Since he left the site it doesn't really matter but it can be a useful tool if you suspect someone might not be genuine.

Thankyou i had no idea this was possible!

You're welcome

Used this method today! Best thing ever!

He told me he was a personal trainer and I replied 'well the internet seems to think your a male model'....user no longer in site! Haha! "

Oh lol.

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By *otty69Couple  over a year ago

bedford

Dont worry , am sure there are plenty more potentiols out there, could be a variety of reasons..if he decides to come back im sure he will mail you... in mean time keep looking lol

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

Well at least it shows he wasn't blind, just checked out your profile and yes, you are stunning, so he got that right......B & S xx"

Really thankyou you're all gonna give us big heads!! X

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover


"Don't worry about it,it happens all the time. I had one myself this morning went UNLOS 10 minutes after messaging me and before I had the chance to reply to his second message. "

he could have stolen someone's profile as happened to me, and when it was time to show up, he'd have to reveal his true identity

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Been chatting to a guy he had pics, and conversation was going very well seemed so nice and genuine. Sent us a face pic, told us where he was based (quite local) where he worked etc Kept looking at our profile as he said we were "so amazing" (his words not mine) added him as a friend and now he's no longer on the site! Wtf?? Anyone enlighten me as to what could have happened? Should i be worried?

Had exactly the same happen to us yesterday,

couple messaged us to ask about our profile etc, we messaged them back, message was read and then hey presto they were gone, member no longer on site.

Fake profiles we guess. we never give too much info our anyway until we can confirm they are genuine.

Tossers more likely...in the true sense of the word."

Absolutely so annoying though isn't it! X

Well I say that but once you realise they are fake its just like whatever!

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By *im and her xo OP   Couple  over a year ago

Near Chelmsford


"Don't worry about it,it happens all the time. I had one myself this morning went UNLOS 10 minutes after messaging me and before I had the chance to reply to his second message.

he could have stolen someone's profile as happened to me, and when it was time to show up, he'd have to reveal his true identity"

Oh jeez that sucks! (pun intended)

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