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He wants to play with couples but she refuse
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
We ve been together for quite long time about year and half start swinging so far met for threesomes FFM play she seems to like it a lot
But recently we had a conversation about meeting up with couples but she strongly refusing saying that having sex with another man would be wrong and could spoil future relationship between us for what
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"respect her wishes?"
Sometimes it's just sounds wrong from my point of view ffm
She was not jelious but seem like she think that i will so can't cross this line yet |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"respect her wishes?
Sometimes it's just sounds wrong from my point of view ffm
She was not jelious but seem like she think that i will so can't cross this line yet"
Uhm, excuse me? I can't make head nor tail of what you are trying to say.
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"Why do you say ' yet ' ?
Think it would be fair "
It isn't like sharing out a bag of sweets. If either partner doesn't want to do something even if they are happy for the other one to its wise to respect their wishes. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I would happily have a FFM meet with my current lover, but would not be interested in MMF as thats not what works for us, but being poly and open, we both meet others as singles. Works for us.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you are sad because your girl wants you to fuck other girls but she refuses to fuck other men...Is that your problem!? Seriously...!?
Looks like that  "
Not sad at all
thought this could be fun and d spice things up thats all |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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For us at least rule number 1 for successful swinging (actually the only rule) is never try to persuade your partner to do anything that they are uncomfortable with. Mutual trust, security and understanding will often create an environment where one partner will, by themselves and without pressure, push their own boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Respect her wishes.. I haven't had sex with other men on meets. Ladies yes.
Talk to her and make sure she's happy "
Keeping her happy was the main reason we start swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
We ve been together for quite long time about year and half start swinging so far met for threesomes FFM play she seems to like it a lot
But recently we had a conversation about meeting up with couples but she strongly refusing saying that having sex with another man would be wrong and could spoil future relationship between us for what
Any suggestions? "
Listen to what she wants or it will all fall apart. if and when she is ready she will do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about Soft swing, my wife has no interest in being fucked by other men. she's had plenty of offers and my blessing but she loves sex with women more. she will play with men and she enjoys wanking, sucking and receiving from men just no penetration and we're both happy and content |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
We ve been together for quite long time about year and half start swinging so far met for threesomes FFM play she seems to like it a lot
But recently we had a conversation about meeting up with couples but she strongly refusing saying that having sex with another man would be wrong and could spoil future relationship between us for what
Any suggestions? "
Honestly interested in why she thinking her shagging a man could spoil your relationship but your shagging woman won't
Of course you have to respect her wishes, if she don't want to she don't want to but im seriously interested to know her reason behind this feeling |
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