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Why wink and then nothing??.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm wondering if anyone else has the answer to this? I occasionally get a wink from some one which I assume indicates that there is some sort of interest there so I have a look at their profile & put together a considered message based on that & then nothing! It's happened quite a few times now & I find it a little confusing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot depends on yours and their interpretation of what the wink means. Or they could just have pressed the wrong button!"
True but it's happened too often for them all to have hit the wrong button! As I've said I'm assuming there's some sort of interest otherwise why bother? Just curious for people's thoughts as it obviously isn't just me that has experienced it. |
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A wink can mean they might be interested, based on what they can see on your profile
If you message and they don't reply, I'd take it as they aren't interested now you've interacted with them?
A million and one reasons why that might be, but just take no reply as no interest = easy  |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"I've winked people when d*unk and hrony who in the cold light of the next day I've though "why on earth did I do that""
Yes and then the next day your too embarrassed and just have to block them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"had it twice in 2 days i reply and then nothing can understand it  "
Depending on when you messaged (say when they're offline) your message could have gotten pushed off the front page |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I'll send a wink to a good profile or set of photos. ..doesn't mean I want to particularly meet up with them though ..just an appreciation wink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the wink for guys I think I have no chance with, I'm such a wuss, it's my way of saying 'I'm interested' without the message, if I get one back ill message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate... |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate..."
We do both. We wink if it's a maybe and reply to well written messages xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate...
We do both. We wink if it's a maybe and reply to well written messages xx"
You Must be the exception then I'M afraid xx
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate...
We do both. We wink if it's a maybe and reply to well written messages xx
You Must be the exception then I'M afraid xx
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Yeah we are the bollocks lol |
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"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate..."
So you send out 10 messages. Log off for a while and then come back later to an inbox of 10 replies. As you open them they all say no thanks. Would that make you feel better???
I'd rather keep my inbox for positive messages, a no reply is a no thanks anyway according to the site FAQ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate...
So you send out 10 messages. Log off for a while and then come back later to an inbox of 10 replies. As you open them they all say no thanks. Would that make you feel better???
I'd rather keep my inbox for positive messages, a no reply is a no thanks anyway according to the site FAQ. "
thats a fair point |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate...
So you send out 10 messages. Log off for a while and then come back later to an inbox of 10 replies. As you open them they all say no thanks. Would that make you feel better???
I'd rather keep my inbox for positive messages, a no reply is a no thanks anyway according to the site FAQ. "
Having said that if we say no and people ask why, we tell them politely. That's help us too as I didn't even realise I had a beer belly til we joined Fab lol x |
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"good post this, i find women or couples don't intially wink which is strange but from a guy's prospective do we not got sick of typing a detailed message to not even receive a reply personally I just think that's rude and bad manners but it wont change on here unfortunate..."
We reply to messages but a wink means that we have to check the winkers profile to decide if we want to chat so the onus is on us. Bit of a time problem when you receive hundreds. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the comments guys. It's interesting to hear everyone's thoughts on the subject, I never particularly take a wink as an indication that a meet is wanted but just always assumed an interest so thought that person/couple might exchange at least a message to find out a little more but hey no worries I'm not one to lose sleep over these things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are reluctant to Wink for the same reason - were not sure how it is interpreted. Perhaps wrongly we assume most single guy winks are all par for the course, we get them even when profile says they are deleted. If its from a couple we assume its some expression of interest. Not really sure why we have a different interpretation. No wonder everyone is confused!! |
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