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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi folks,
I was driving along today, and a question suddenly popped into my head.
Are we in this " sexual community"always just looking for the next sexual thrill and high? Is it in a way like a drug addiction? IE Once they get bored of a certain sexual activity, they will then push to find the next sexual "high"? And if so..where does it end?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi folks,
I was driving along today, and a question suddenly popped into my head.
Are we in this " sexual community"always just looking for the next sexual thrill and high? Is it in a way like a drug addiction? IE Once they get bored of a certain sexual activity, they will then push to find the next sexual "high"? And if so..where does it end?
Max x"
Brilliant question , and one we have asked ourselves many a time .
Oh my days , we have tried so much over the 4 years we have been swinging . And continually look to push our boundaries . So much so that we no longer have any !
That high comes from exploring our sexual dreams and putting them into practice .
Yet we can experience it from any one of dozens of scenarios , depending on our mood and that of our playmates . Or simply with each other ....
It's such an exhilarating and liberating life we lead , and we are loving it .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not like that. I have a high sex drive, like chatting (even to myself), not that experimental or desperate for something new.
I also don't wanna relationship, and don't wanna be exclusive to one guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to say yes, I do feel like I'm chasing the high going from extreme to extreme both as a tgirl and as a guy. I almost don't have the motivation to revisit even experiences I have enjoyed but will make the extra effort for something new! |
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"I'd have to say yes, I do feel like I'm chasing the high going from extreme to extreme both as a tgirl and as a guy. I almost don't have the motivation to revisit even experiences I have enjoyed but will make the extra effort for something new! "
Wow !
We would love to reach a new high with you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies.
I just thought that we continually look for the next "sexual thrill or high" so that we can get our "sexual hit". Does that mean that the next thrill or high has to be greater than the last so that we don`t get bored? IE once you`ve done all the pussy fucking, you move on to anal then fisting then gangbangs, orgies etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi folks,
I was driving along today, and a question suddenly popped into my head.
Are we in this " sexual community"always just looking for the next sexual thrill and high? Is it in a way like a drug addiction? IE Once they get bored of a certain sexual activity, they will then push to find the next sexual "high"? And if so..where does it end?
Max x"
Why not try skydiving sex, you can't get much higher than that.
No idea how you would do it, but it would be fun trying it. |
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Honestly, no. When it's just the two us - 99.3% of the time, or thereabouts - there's no question of boredom. We love sex together and can't see that changing. We play with others only infrequently, so that's not likely to become boring, either.
We have, though, met people in the swinging world who seemed to be always looking for the next 'frontier' and needed increasingly bizarre sex to keep them 'satisfied'. We felt very vanilla in comparison, but happy to be so. |
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"Honestly, no. When it's just the two us - 99.3% of the time, or thereabouts - there's no question of boredom. We love sex together and can't see that changing. We play with others only infrequently, so that's not likely to become boring, either.
We have, though, met people in the swinging world who seemed to be always looking for the next 'frontier' and needed increasingly bizarre sex to keep them 'satisfied'. We felt very vanilla in comparison, but happy to be so."
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over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies.
I just thought that we continually look for the next "sexual thrill or high" so that we can get our "sexual hit". Does that mean that the next thrill or high has to be greater than the last so that we don`t get bored? IE once you`ve done all the pussy fucking, you move on to anal then fisting then gangbangs, orgies etc.
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Not really. I live a relatively quiet life then, when I need to blow off steam I'll go to a club and fuck as many guys as I can, then I'll lead a relatively quiet life again for a while. I find no pleasure in trying to reach beyond something I already enjoy. |
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"What are your coping mechanisms like OP? Could be that. You even need skills to cope with boredom and not just every day stress."
I have or need coping mechanism. It`s just a general question i`m asking and has nothing to do with what i need or don`t need. |
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"What are your coping mechanisms like OP? Could be that. You even need skills to cope with boredom and not just every day stress.
I have or need coping mechanism. It`s just a general question i`m asking and has nothing to do with what i need or don`t need. "
Ok, that's one of the things that can cause riskier behaviour. You can cross that out then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"* don`t need or have a coping mechanism. "
Make your mind up... 
Addictions can be caused as a way of coping and dealing with things, anything at all. I know i've used sex addiction for this reason myself, but i'm not into pushing myself further. I do like 3sums more than 1 on 1 sex for example and like the *idea* of other things but i keep them as ideas only and don't push like you do.
I might not be the best best person to help you work this out actually, will see what people who do this stuff think. |
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"* don`t need or have a coping mechanism.
Make your mind up...
Addictions can be caused as a way of coping and dealing with things, anything at all. I know i've used sex addiction for this reason myself, but i'm not into pushing myself further. I do like 3sums more than 1 on 1 sex for example and like the *idea* of other things but i keep them as ideas only and don't push like you do.
I might not be the best best person to help you work this out actually, will see what people who do this stuff think."
Sorry was just a spelling mistake earlier.
I don`t have a sex addiction. My original question, was just a random questions asked out of curiosity about how other people flet about this question. Nothing else. Personally I have been in this "sexual community on and off for a few years, and sometimes feel the need to up the thrill, but I certainly don`t need it every time. |
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"* don`t need or have a coping mechanism.
Make your mind up...
Addictions can be caused as a way of coping and dealing with things, anything at all. I know i've used sex addiction for this reason myself, but i'm not into pushing myself further. I do like 3sums more than 1 on 1 sex for example and like the *idea* of other things but i keep them as ideas only and don't push like you do.
I might not be the best best person to help you work this out actually, will see what people who do this stuff think.
Sorry was just a spelling mistake earlier.
I don`t have a sex addiction. My original question, was just a random questions asked out of curiosity about how other people flet about this question. Nothing else. Personally I have been in this "sexual community on and off for a few years, and sometimes feel the need to up the thrill, but I certainly don`t need it every time. "
Fair enough, you did say it was just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good question. We had plenty of barriers a couple of years ago. Now? Well we like to see if there is anyone that can push us further. I suspect our no list is very very small.
...but vanilla sex we love too. |
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"Hi folks,
I was driving along today, and a question suddenly popped into my head.
Are we in this " sexual community"always just looking for the next sexual thrill and high? Is it in a way like a drug addiction? IE Once they get bored of a certain sexual activity, they will then push to find the next sexual "high"? And if so..where does it end?
Max x"
That's a fantastic question, might even be worth exploring as a PhD research topic for the right person.
I think it depends on ones starting point and motivation for pushing sexual boundaries. For some in conservative cultures, it can be a way of forging a unique identity away from and in resistance to restrictive pressures. |
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