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over a year ago
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"I've been on pof for ages, it's alright if your after sex, so that's why I came back here, no hidden meaning!! "
I have been on a pof date every night this week . And again tonight
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my god POF!! I met a few people from there...difference between POF and here is there is less bullshit on here (mostly
Though I did rename it a few times...
Plenty of fucking and All talk no trousers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my ex on pof
I've also had some really good sex from girls on pof!
Also some shit dates n sex aswell.
I like this site more because it's real and everybody is likeminded and knows what they want and want to try hence why I'm here 
Plus less bullshit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your looking for sex on pof what do u search ?"
You don't tell them just date them s few times when you have sex either see them again or not
Most put out if you can do a date midweek and meet again at weekend I am at the age when a lot of us have grown up kids . I could quite easily go and stay in London tonight
Just send son a text .
Was single dad for 13 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your looking for sex on pof what do u search ?
You don't tell them just date them s few times when you have sex either see them again or not
Most put out if you can do a date midweek and meet again at weekend I am at the age when a lot of us have grown up kids . I could quite easily go and stay in London tonight
Just send son a text .
Was single dad for 13 years "
This attitude is the reason I didn't stay on POF. On here you know men just want sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"80% of profiles are fakes. Avoid"
Massive over estimation but I have encountered more time wasters on POF in a couple of months than in several years on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you were on there were you as open about your intentions as we are on here?
I always got impression it was used for dating as well as 'meets' so there would be a higher chance of meeting someone you would know from vanilla life. So if you put that you just after X, Y, Z it could be more "awkward" than if on here..?
I accept might just be my impression as i keep my fab life quieter than others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were on there were you as open about your intentions as we are on here?
I always got impression it was used for dating as well as 'meets' so there would be a higher chance of meeting someone you would know from vanilla life. So if you put that you just after X, Y, Z it could be more "awkward" than if on here..?
I accept might just be my impression as i keep my fab life quieter than others"
It is more awkward to just say sex and the girls make it clear in the first few mails they want more than sex
Men have been having sex with women for years with no commitment women do expect thAt some men won't commit
It's no big deal |
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Been of POF, meet a few great women, sex good as well but never meet any willing to go into swinging, so its here for that. But you never know who might be the next meet and what fun you might end up having. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus the 'not looking for anything serious' screams FUCK to me!! Believe it or not I wasn't on there for sex; I was hoping to find a partner in crime until I got fed up with the too'ing and fro'ing blokes pretending they want to date you, you get to the point of swapping numbers then wam! Cock pic!! So hence why I decided to give up and come to the professional site!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your looking for sex on pof what do u search ?"
You put 'wants a relationship ' as your criteria..bullshit your way through to a meet..have sex... Ha ha
Or could try ...wants to date but nothing serious...same as above
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus the 'not looking for anything serious' screams FUCK to me!! Believe it or not I wasn't on there for sex; I was hoping to find a partner in crime until I got fed up with the too'ing and fro'ing blokes pretending they want to date you, you get to the point of swapping numbers then wam! Cock pic!! So hence why I decided to give up and come to the professional site!!
Lol"
Yes that's why I came off..in my post I forgot to say that's what generally happened to me not what I did??!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many mind games,reminded me why I choose to stay single !"
I have a meet with one from there tonight . Say I can come over at 7.30 and have to be gone before the kids get up . She is ok 35 size 12 probably 7/10 here I am struggling to even get a message .
If she is nice and doesn't want to swing then I won't it is hard having a vanilla relationship after swinging but If they are worth it it's easy to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea met a guy from there, he might as well have been on fab......prefer this place, more honest, and you never know what's round the corner, love can happen in the most unexpected places, at the most unexpected time.....just enjoy the ride, or rides    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on POF years back, and received lots of messages, and was picking and choosing. Completely different ballgame to Fab.
Guess I'm ugly to the ladies of fab. *awaits kisses and sympathy* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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over in Ireland its just a hunting ground for female civil servants with good jobs with the 3 Ps, permanent ,pensional and pay incremental, teachers ,nurses, ect government jobs ect . they just want to double up there income and have the life they feel they were born to get .Its full of creeps like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps a lot of the people on POF who are just looking for a shag just don't know about this site?
There's definitely a lot of people on there also on here but there's also plenty on POF who are actually looking for a partner.
I say let them stay on POF and leave us fabbers be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"80% of profiles are fakes. Avoid"
Wildly inaccurate statement! I'd say 5% of profiles are fake at most which makes it the dating site with the least fake profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on POF for over 4 years and on Tinder for 2 years. Use both sites regularly but has been nothing but a waste of time so far.
Just a handful of messages but no meets. Same applies with this site. Still early days though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had luck on POF. Even better luck on OKCupid. They have a question and answer section. A lot of questions about sex and things you've done or want to try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your looking for sex on pof what do u search ?
You don't tell them just date them s few times when you have sex either see them again or not
Most put out if you can do a date midweek and meet again at weekend I am at the age when a lot of us have grown up kids . I could quite easily go and stay in London tonight
Just send son a text .
Was single dad for 13 years "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be, when I felt it was expected of me to want to be in a relationship, but I made no effort and left shortly afterwards.
Then I realised that it was perfectly ok for me to look for sex and perhaps that was all I was actually looking for, joined here and have been a happy girl since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were on there were you as open about your intentions as we are on here?
I always got impression it was used for dating as well as 'meets' so there would be a higher chance of meeting someone you would know from vanilla life. So if you put that you just after X, Y, Z it could be more "awkward" than if on here..?
I accept might just be my impression as i keep my fab life quieter than others
It is more awkward to just say sex and the girls make it clear in the first few mails they want more than sex
Men have been having sex with women for years with no commitment women do expect thAt some men won't commit
It's no big deal "
I think we all get how deceit works, and that by definition the lady doesn't know she's being lied to. Just that maybe in some people's eyes the fact she's in blissful ignorance doesn't make you a nice guy.
Admittedly, you're not stealing their life savings or murdering them so if your case is shit happens and I'm not as bad as some, then you have a point.
Oh, and being on a dating site explains all the car shots. They do seem obligatory. |
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"Who's tried it? Did you enjoy it?"
I've met a couple of girls of POF - one of them was a one nighter (fine with me!), the other i saw a few times but she started to get attached and started talking about going out on more 'proper' dates..... I naturally ran for the hills
(Just to clarify we were both up front at the start it was just sex then she moved the goal posts, I wasn't being a total bitch! Lol). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex and I met on there and she's back on there now but to many cheats and liars she says so not to dissimilar to Fab lol"
What's her name on there I'd like to check her out |
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over a year ago
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"My ex and I met on there and she's back on there now but to many cheats and liars she says so not to dissimilar to Fab lol
What's her name on there I'd like to check her out"
It would cost ya Think she keeps her profile hidden most of the time as generally inboxes around 100 messages a day if not, like I said not to different to woman's inboxes on here. |
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"My ex and I met on there and she's back on there now but to many cheats and liars she says so not to dissimilar to Fab lol
What's her name on there I'd like to check her out
It would cost ya Think she keeps her profile hidden most of the time as generally inboxes around 100 messages a day if not, like I said not to different to woman's inboxes on here."
I'm lucky if I get one message a week and apparently according to men on POF I'm too fat to date |
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The twats delete my profile as no room for Tgirls on POF!
I joined got bombarded ... Had to explain to everyone I was Tgirl ... Got even more messages but POF don't do that so deleted my profile or blocked it!
Only does men/women and no place for those in between ....
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"My ex and I met on there and she's back on there now but to many cheats and liars she says so not to dissimilar to Fab lol
What's her name on there I'd like to check her out
It would cost ya Think she keeps her profile hidden most of the time as generally inboxes around 100 messages a day if not, like I said not to different to woman's inboxes on here.
I'm lucky if I get one message a week and apparently according to men on POF I'm too fat to date "
Well most of them probably have their own insecurities and just being knobs. Great boobs cheeky. X
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Never met a single guy on POF that actually wanted a relationship, they all seem to bullshit to get sex, or you don't 'put out' on the date, then you never here from them again, yet the site is designed for dating leading to relationships not casual encounters .
On here I've lost count of the amount of guys that I meet for a casual encounter, then Persue me for more and most want to be in that relationship monogamously too, yet this site is designed for socially casual sexual encounters, but at least if you do meet a guy for just NSA, you know from the get go that's all he wants anyway, so less disappointment, which means I'll stick to fab thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ben was on there before we met.
He reckon he got more messages and sex from POF than fab! And that's saying something!  "
I actually agre with this.
As long as you're honest on POF then it can work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"POF has the same people as FAB - at least some of the people here are honest about their intentions!  "
I've been on POF , actually still am, but have my profile hidden.
I've noticed quite a few on there who are also on here, and I've always said its Fab under a different guise
It's known here as Plenty of F**ks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's POF's fault I'm here!
About a year after divorcing the ex, I was home alone, bored. Joined POF - got chatting to a few people, went on a few dates. No sex (my choice)
Chatted to a guy who told me about fab, so I had a look - scared me to death! My marriage had been THE most vanilla thing in the world!
But I soon became hooked - and met Will
So, thanks POF!!
Sara |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had another POF account deleted by admin. I'm open about my intentions in a roundabout way. It censors certain phrases so I always used to substitute "$ex" and "t!ts" etc. "Fun" is borderline outlawed though!
Met an ex on there, but when I joined for casual meets didn't find much compatible people tbh (cock teases or wedding ring searchers). Still chat with a couple off people off there but not a patch on Fab. Will probably join again a some point but not in a rush! |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
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Ive tried pof all i got was guys just after sex. So deleted my account as i got tired of guys pestering me for sex an plenty of cheating married guys who sauy they love their wife ie partner an then look for a another fem on a dating site i just dont get it. Hence i only stick to fabs. An married guys give the game away by wearing wedding ring in their photos as im into digital photography an have been for 10 years I look deeper into the background ie wedding ring women's things in the back ground of their photo
I think pof is a waste of time for dating tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's tried it? Did you enjoy it?"
A date lined up every night this week apart from tomorrow when it's a lunch date
All pretty reasonable looking girls a few messages swapped and date arranged
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over a year ago
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I thought pof was full of despite people .Reason I thought this was I used to work with a women who was 50 but dressed like a 20 year old .Had fingers missing as been in so many d*unken fights .Her stories made me feel sick .She had meets every day with different men.She didn't even know there names or what they looked like . She wasn't clean or bothered about safe sex . |
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over a year ago
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"I thought pof was full of despite people .Reason I thought this was I used to work with a women who was 50 but dressed like a 20 year old .Had fingers missing as been in so many d*unken fights .Her stories made me feel sick .She had meets every day with different men.She didn't even know there names or what they looked like . She wasn't clean or bothered about safe sex . "
I have been meeting professional women With good jobs no mental issues
I have never met anyone like you described and if I did I would turn and walk away
There are some pretty sorted both financially and mentally women out there who are prepared to put effort in to finding a partner |
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over a year ago
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"I thought pof was full of despite people .Reason I thought this was I used to work with a women who was 50 but dressed like a 20 year old .Had fingers missing as been in so many d*unken fights .Her stories made me feel sick .She had meets every day with different men.She didn't even know there names or what they looked like . She wasn't clean or bothered about safe sex .
I have been meeting professional women With good jobs no mental issues
I have never met anyone like you described and if I did I would turn and walk away
There are some pretty sorted both ñ and mentally women out there who are prepared to put effort in to finding a partner "
Yes good it was just stories she told put me off .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tried POF when i was single, think i recommended Fab to most i spoke too, and most joined here, least here they didnt have to sugarcoat the fact the had no interest in relationships... |
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over a year ago
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"Oh my god POF!! I met a few people from there...difference between POF and here is there is less bullshit on here (mostly
Though I did rename it a few times...
Plenty of fucking and All talk no trousers
Ha ha"
. Hilarious renames! Quite appropriate! |
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over a year ago
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"Just had another POF account deleted by admin. I'm open about my intentions in a roundabout way. It censors certain phrases so I always used to substitute "$ex" and "t!ts" etc. "Fun" is borderline outlawed though!
Met an ex on there, but when I joined for casual meets didn't find much compatible people tbh (cock teases or wedding ring searchers). Still chat with a couple off people off there but not a patch on Fab. Will probably join again a some point but not in a rush!"
I was told if you have your profile deleted by administration on pof, you can't make another profile. They'll just delete it. Is this true? |
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over a year ago
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"I thought pof was full of despite people .Reason I thought this was I used to work with a women who was 50 but dressed like a 20 year old .Had fingers missing as been in so many d*unken fights .Her stories made me feel sick .She had meets every day with different men.She didn't even know there names or what they looked like . She wasn't clean or bothered about safe sex .
I have been meeting professional women With good jobs no mental issues
I have never met anyone like you described and if I did I would turn and walk away
There are some pretty sorted both ñ and mentally women out there who are prepared to put effort in to finding a partner
Yes good it was just stories she told put me off .
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You never really know till you try but I have found out profile and pictures mean nothing . Until you meet you never really know as you can write anything you like
I look for women local to me that are about my age with no kids or grown up kids. I have a look at the pictures if they are badly dressed or look like they live in a squat I pass them by
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Easiest way to get laid!!
- bastard
Good for chat, bit overwhelming, makes you feel guilty for not replying to everyone - even though you try, but they get clingy and won't leave you alone. Not for making friends!!!!!!
- good girl |
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"We met on POF! Two weeks later, having discovered our mutual history of swinging, we were on here together!!"
Only reason I discovered this site a few years ago was a girl I met on pof! - bastard |
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over a year ago
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"If your looking for sex on pof what do u search ?
You don't tell them just date them s few times when you have sex either see them again or not
Most put out if you can do a date midweek and meet again at weekend I am at the age when a lot of us have grown up kids . I could quite easily go and stay in London tonight
Just send son a text .
Was single dad for 13 years "
Wow.... what a charmer |
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Im not really active on pof anymore as Im on here. Same as everyone ive found very few actually want a relationship.
I went on Okcupid and came out as kinky on there but id hidden the questions! I got messages from married men, women and couples. Even a guy into a polyamorous relationship. We had some interesting conversations actually. |
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over a year ago
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I have and ended up getting stalked by a weirdo (yes woman) my ex is on there now so don't use it out of principle, ironically it was where we first met. |
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"Im not really active on pof anymore as Im on here. Same as everyone ive found very few actually want a relationship.
I went on Okcupid and came out as kinky on there but id hidden the questions! I got messages from married men, women and couples. Even a guy into a polyamorous relationship. We had some interesting conversations actually."
Ooh I'm on OK Cupid |
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over a year ago
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"I'm also on POF too. I'd be happy to go vanilla for the right girl should that ever come around."
Same here . I know a few that have gone vanilla
I Saw one of my friends and she said she doesn't go to any do's as he doesn't know about the past
She also added Sex is so boring now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't know bout fab so I joined pof but ended up meeting my husband on there and eventually we joined fab together. Think you have to take pof as a bit of fun |
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over a year ago
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Met the lovely Sherlock on POF two yrs ago...one date...couldn't make it out the bedroom after that...now we make it to swinging clubs and hotels!! Thankyou POF for providing me with a fantastic fuck buddy!!
POF did good |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
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"I left after several days, nope i didn't enjoy it. couldn't find anyone i fancied in my area."
I did the same , met my ex on there , but then after that I felt everyone was too faraway.
Anyway, it's just this site under different guise, at least here you know from the off what guys really want . |
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"If your looking for sex on pof what do u search ?
You put 'wants a relationship ' as your criteria..bullshit your way through to a meet..have sex... Ha ha
Or could try ...wants to date but nothing serious...same as above
Hahaha spot on girl
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"My ex and I met on there and she's back on there now but to many cheats and liars she says so not to dissimilar to Fab lol
What's her name on there I'd like to check her out
It would cost ya Think she keeps her profile hidden most of the time as generally inboxes around 100 messages a day if not, like I said not to different to woman's inboxes on here.
I'm lucky if I get one message a week and apparently according to men on POF I'm too fat to date "
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Me too Hun funny I've had one the same on here tonight following your dating thread, he wasn't all that so made me realise the lucky escape I had. |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
Ive tried pof unfortunately i met my ex husband on there. Thank goodness im now divorced. I tried it again recently. An it still the same full of boring guys who either want to endless chat an messages on there or want to get in your knickers
I prefer fabswingers i know what the site about an what i registered for. An where i stand. An less bs on here than pof
Majority on the guys on pof dont want to date they just want a shag an thats it an some of them are married i can see a wedding ring on their finger. In their photos. |
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just signed up again ..not expecting much from it and they usually delete my profiles as they dont like trannys much..wasted a week chatting with a women then found out she wasnt as openminded as she though she was .had a few women message me for chats but often they dont have much to say |
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ile as here get loads of messages a day
Don't even need to send a message to start with and I am old 
