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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,we are new to this and it excites my wife about the thought of it,she is not quiet ready yet,any genuine advice would be greatly welcomed,many thanks   |
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Would suggest to see if you can find a group social to go to, you can meet and talk to people without any pressure to do anything else. Also you might meet someone you would like to meet again privately  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi thankyou for that,I don't really want to take her to a club where it's all full on,cos she's nervous around it at the moment,we will try and find somewhere in the southwest or Cornwall where we can meet people chat and hope to make some new friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was like your wife. We both fantasised about for years but I was too nervous incase reality wasn't as good as the fantasy and I worried it would change our relationship.
In the end I bit the bullet and booked a night at a swingers club hotel. The idea was just to see what it was like and how we would feel about it.
My nerves went almost as soon as we got there and we've not looked back x |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi thankyou for that,I don't really want to take her to a club where it's all full on,cos she's nervous around it at the moment,we will try and find somewhere in the southwest or Cornwall where we can meet people chat and hope to make some new friends.
Thanks for your advice "
We started our swinging by visiting a club and now only swing in clubs. Please don't think it is "full on" - far from it. There is never any pressure to perform. You can simply chat, or watch, or play together and be watched, soft swing, fully swing, or arrange threesomes or moresomes or go as far as fully fledged gangbangs - and do all this at your own pace. The initial nerves at joining a club soon go. |
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"I was like your wife. We both fantasised about for years but I was too nervous incase reality wasn't as good as the fantasy and I worried it would change our relationship.
In the end I bit the bullet and booked a night at a swingers club hotel. The idea was just to see what it was like and how we would feel about it.
My nerves went almost as soon as we got there and we've not looked back x "
Hi
Which swingers club hotel did you go to the first time? (or could others recommend?)
My gf and I are in a similar situation and the idea of a hotel/club sounds good.
Many thanks |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I was like your wife. We both fantasised about for years but I was too nervous incase reality wasn't as good as the fantasy and I worried it would change our relationship.
In the end I bit the bullet and booked a night at a swingers club hotel. The idea was just to see what it was like and how we would feel about it.
My nerves went almost as soon as we got there and we've not looked back x
Hi
Which swingers club hotel did you go to the first time? (or could others recommend?)
My gf and I are in a similar situation and the idea of a hotel/club sounds good.
Many thanks "
From your location Liberty Elite would be a good choice. Clean, elegant and like a night club with swinging. On site accommodation too. |
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