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Where's your comfort zone? One on one/club/hotel meet. Group sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3somes Paul love,s to share "
With someone special ( not special needs) private , or to put on a show for others but some stuff is kept private behind closed doors . We all know sex is better with someone we trust
The rest no problem happy for group etc
It's not the situation is the person your with |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
anything, apart from receiving in a public space..then its whether the person/ people i am with, can hold my zone for me. when ive done it with the right person its awesome..when ive done it with the wrong one..its awful and i cant carry on...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happy with hotel meets, club meets and very seldomly may bring someone home. Also a bit of an exhibitionist so don't mind to have an audience. Just would not do anything in a public vanilla place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do one on one with eachother. We've done threesomes and foursomes. We've done public and private, with and without others. We have also had one or two orgies (always with people we have spoken with previously).
I don't think that any particular situation would be outside my comfort zone. However, it is highly dependant on the people I'm with. I have to be comfortable with them. I can't just start playing with someone because they happen to be playing in the same room next to me. I have to have a rapport with them.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours? "
I'm the same. Love lots of kinky play, but need to feel comfortable, so definitely one on one...xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours? "
Honestly ?
Any situation with the right people 
Currently loving both home visits and public toilet fun .... What are we like ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a very social swinger so play mostly at clubs and parties!
I find group play 'fun' - but the best sex by far is still (and will always be) one on one in either a private room or hotel, house etc! I don't mind being watched but I don't 'get off' on it!! I tend to go with whatever my chosen partner is most comfortable with!
Tbh I'm glad I prefer 1on 1 above all else - because it means that if I end up falling in love with a non-swinger (who will accept my broad minded friends/social life!) then I won't feel the need to stray!!   |
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My comfort zone is with the person/people I'm with. I've tried pretty much all of those scenarios but it's a bit like I have that t-shirt now. I think sex is better the more you know someone so I generally don't do casual stuff these days. We're all different and I think go through different phases of what suits us at any given time. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours?
Honestly ?
Any situation with the right people
Currently loving both home visits and public toilet fun .... What are we like ? "
actually i think you two are amazing, quite inspirational in fact. i bet you have an awesome dynamic, and that must be really special to witness..i just admit, i am not there..yet.. maybe its because im relatively new, or maybe, its because im single and havent found the right playmate..but respect to you, not that you need it..i just wanted to say it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours?
Honestly ?
Any situation with the right people
Currently loving both home visits and public toilet fun .... What are we like ?
actually i think you two are amazing, quite inspirational in fact. i bet you have an awesome dynamic, and that must be really special to witness..i just admit, i am not there..yet.. maybe its because im relatively new, or maybe, its because im single and havent found the right playmate..but respect to you, not that you need it..i just wanted to say it."
Wow ..... Wasn't expecting that
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3somes Paul love,s to share
With someone special ( not special needs) private , or to put on a show for others but some stuff is kept private behind closed doors . We all know sex is better with someone we trust
The rest no problem happy for group etc
It's not the situation is the person your with "
For me it depends on the person/ people there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours?
Honestly ?
Any situation with the right people
Currently loving both home visits and public toilet fun .... What are we like ?
actually i think you two are amazing, quite inspirational in fact. i bet you have an awesome dynamic, and that must be really special to witness..i just admit, i am not there..yet.. maybe its because im relatively new, or maybe, its because im single and havent found the right playmate..but respect to you, not that you need it..i just wanted to say it."
I agree.
I think they are bloody brilliant. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Definitely clubs for us - we are exhibitionists and like being watched - but clubs also give us the chance to try out lots of new things - I particularly like the attention of three or four men at a time which is something that would be harder to arrange outside the club environment. Clubs also remove the problem of a no show and give you the chance to see who you are about to play with before committing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to think I was relaxed in most situations, 121, 3somes, group, gb, dogging etc, all something I have experience of. Never been to a club, though, never felt the need.
Not sure I could pick one, but it would involve one female and two or more men. Love seeing a woman being the centre of attention! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours?
Honestly ?
Any situation with the right people
Currently loving both home visits and public toilet fun .... What are we like ? "
One of the best couples on this whole site in my view! And they put up amazing photos too! |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
Northamptonshire |
Clubs only for us. We find them relaxing and friendly places to enjoy a night out, plus if we arrange to meet up with another couple and we aren't for each we can all still have fun elsewhere.
Dave |
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We like clubs for preference, but it takes more planning than having someone over (e.g. babysitting). Also we insist on a social meet before anyone comes to ours, which helps us feel more comfortable/safer |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"As for me I prefer one one meet.I do express my naughty and kinky side better. But in public i can't.
Where's yours? "
I'm comfortable with all of them. It's more a question of ensuring that I meet play partners where both parties are going to be most at ease and relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi group sex in a club is fun!
Dogging, car meets or anything outside is way beyond my comfort zone, doesn't appeal to me at all...
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It's a shame that there isn't much bi play in the club I frequent.
Maybe in time they may get a bi night going? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi group sex in a club is fun!
Dogging, car meets or anything outside is way beyond my comfort zone, doesn't appeal to me at all...
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Me either. I like creature comforts like a bed. |
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