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Unattractive half of the couple
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering what happens when you organise a meet and the other half is not as attractive as they look on the pictures  .
What happens then , do you let only 3 play ? How do you tell them the reason why you are no longer playing is coz the other one is not as hot ?
Please share your experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends
They may not be as attractive as their pics but still ok to play with
If I met a couple and wasn't attracted to both I wouldn't play with either I don't think I could say....not keen on your Mrs but I'll fuck you and I'm not sure I'd respect anybody who would do that to their partner anyway to be honest |
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"Just wondering what happens when you organise a meet and the other half is not as attractive as they look on the pictures .
What happens then , do you let only 3 play ? How do you tell them the reason why you are no longer playing is coz the other one is not as hot ?
Please share your experiences"
if i was in the couple where one was not as hot as you would like and you asked for just 3 to play i'd tell you where to go lol
if i meet as a couple i play as a couple whether i'm the minger or my partner is. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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having stood behind the bar of a swingers club, I have seen many occasions where a couple have spoken to each other about not fancying another couple.
Hours and a few wines later.....
The 4 are chatting about the 'immediate attraction there was when they saw each other'....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would very much depend on what was different about them from their pictures. If you get on socially with people, sometimes play comes about naturally, but if it was clear that wasn't going to happen for either of us, We'd just say that on reflection, the meet will only be a social one...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"having stood behind the bar of a swingers club, I have seen many occasions where a couple have spoken to each other about not fancying another couple.
Hours and a few wines later.....
The 4 are chatting about the 'immediate attraction there was when they saw each other'......."
Haha love it : )
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I suppose it depends on how unattractive...
For us there has to be attraction, but what makes a person attractive can many things.
I personally wouldn't have sex with someone really overweight or with bad body odour.
However, where a person may not initially be attractive, if you hit it off on a personal level that can and has meant looks are simply not important.
Other times we have though wow you look great and are interested in us! Then the personality puts us off 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play
I'll put the kettle on 
stop doing that, even in jest.
I have noticed a few times you put yourself down."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play
I'll put the kettle on "
God no, i will make the coffee/tea. you just stretch out on the sofa and what the telly, i can put some porn on if you want?
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"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."
Maybe for you my standards are acceptable high even if tipsy apperently 
All depends on the starting standards you are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play
I'll put the kettle on
God no, i will make the coffee/tea. you just stretch out on the sofa and what the telly, i can put some porn on if you want?
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Can I watch the Norwich game instead please?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play
I'll put the kettle on
stop doing that, even in jest.
I have noticed a few times you put yourself down."
Sorry xx |
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"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine...
Maybe for you my standards are acceptable high even if tipsy apperently
All depends on the starting standards you are looking for "
Full of typos |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play
I'll put the kettle on
stop doing that, even in jest.
I have noticed a few times you put yourself down.
Sorry xx"
nothing to be sorry about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our initial meets are only ever social,,and after discussing later either of us wasn't happy for whatever reason then there would not be a play meet,,we are a couple and will play as a couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a couple where socially we all got on great and we all fancied each other but when we started playing me and the guy got on great but Clarence and the other wife didnt. So he just discretely let me know and we just ended things xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played "
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking? |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Our initial meets are only ever social,,and after discussing later either of us wasn't happy for whatever reason then there would not be a play meet,,we are a couple and will play as a couple "
However, we have had one occasion where we met a couple at a club, decided not to play but just chat with them. We got on so well, that we ended up in the hotel room with them and had a great session! Perhaps the exception that proves the rule? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a phrase when we see a mismatched couple in the looks department.
That being that one of them 'has done well'.
It's normally the guy.
I think it might be me in our case!  |
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"We have a phrase when we see a mismatched couple in the looks department.
That being that one of them 'has done well'.
It's normally the guy.
I think it might be me in our case! "
Unless he is Brad Pitt...he is a lucky fella indeed.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have a phrase when we see a mismatched couple in the looks department.
That being that one of them 'has done well'.
It's normally the guy.
I think it might be me in our case!
Unless he is Brad Pitt...he is a lucky fella indeed.
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I'm not, and I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?"
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man..."
That's disgusting. People are horrible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible "
Yup theres some real charmers out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible
Yup theres some real charmers out there "
i have to say that distgusting no one has the right to impact on some one like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible "
WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible
WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far. "
Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible
WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.
Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago "
fuck that mate you are a human being a deserve the same respect as every one else, what a horrid nasty fooker who ever said that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible
WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.
Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago
fuck that mate you are a human being a deserve the same respect as every one else, what a horrid nasty fooker who ever said that"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man..."
Thats truly hidious!! How can people be like that!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played
Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?
100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...
That's disgusting. People are horrible
WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.
Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago "
Mrs Bendy likes a big bloke! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yer we had one recently. The lady was not what we though at all and the bloke was ok. Thing was he went home leaving us with her plus turn out not a proper couple. Had to say we were not impress. Just told her we where not interested and went home. |
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I met a couple with a friend but we had to travel to meet them n between d driving n I think they were older than what they said they were I could not get it up but still licked her out though . I've met one r 2 ladies n I did not click n just said so but they were ok cos we had agreed before hand if we did not click we just say good bye . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's in the eye of the beholder of course, but I wouldn't sleep with someone I wasn't attracted to and I know that P would support me on that.
Conversely We've turned up at a social meet to see how we all get on and I've been rejected on age, hair colour and been told I'm not attractive enough for the third party so it goes both ways.
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