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What do you tell your vanilla friends
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By *ool11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I tell them all the juicy stories, no names of course though. They love it and think it's brill lol x"
I've never said a single word to anyone, my friends couldn't be trusted with that kind of ammunition on me.
P.s nice profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I told my newest mates I was a swinger, one came out as questioning, one as a swinger and the rest said get on with it, good luck, wish I had the balls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's too embarrassing to tell anyone this kind of stuff . Just enjoy the lifestyle quietly , why would you bother telling anyone .
Keep the juicy stuff to yourself ,yummy |
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"We don't tell anyone! The ex-husband and ex-wife would have a field day! Mind you they both wouldn't know fun if it screamed in their face lol x"
My ex has popped up on here in a couples profile 
My best friends know and are fine with it. Others wouldn't understand so I tell them it's a dating site |
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Not discussed it with mates - apart from the three of them I found on here in my first week, lol.
Do love going into work after a few days off and being asked what I've been up to. Just say out with mates in London, never mention it was at a swingers club, but sometimes wish I could. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't tell anyone! The ex-husband and ex-wife would have a field day! Mind you they both wouldn't know fun if it screamed in their face lol x"
 same here! We don't get much free time so when we do have a night off we make most of it and get a hotel and go to a club. Just tell people got a lovely night away booked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I told my mates everything none of them would believe me. They'd think I was taking the piss. So instead I keep it to myself and smile away when they're telling me about their lives and how they wish they had more excitement lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is hard on a Monday morning getting asked "what did you get up to at the weekend?"
I hate lying, so my answers are always bland.
They must think I lead an incredibly boring life! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They know nothing. If hubby and i get to meet together it will normally involve a weekend away and parents babysitting so all they need to know is we have booked a hotel for a night off from the kids. When i meet alone i meet midweek evening's and no one does anything exciting midweek so no one asks. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I'm just interested what you fab lot tell your vanilla friends if they ask what you get up to in your spare time? "
It depends how well I know them, or how I gauge their reaction might be in terms of how broadminded/adventurous they are themselves.
I tell my best mate, but then he was a right dirty stop out back in the day (before marriage and kids)...He's just a little be envious of all the kinky shit I get up to with lots of different women.
I also discussed it with another mate, who it turns out actually used to have a profile on here himself.
For the most part though I keep it under my hat...not too difficult to do as a single fella |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I told my mates everything none of them would believe me. They'd think I was taking the piss. So instead I keep it to myself and smile away when they're telling me about their lives and how they wish they had more excitement lol x"
One of my most vanilla friends asked us what we did last night. Adam replied "ooooh the usual, went to a club where everyone took off their clothes and had sex". She just giggled and said "no really you two, what did you do"? I said "we went for a curry"! Which she completely accepted. Giggle.
I have 3 girlfriends that know. A hadn't told any of his friends, but possibly could tell 1.
We don't tell because we chose to be a little secretive but if We meet someone We know at a club it wouldn't bother us. Just don't want to become a talking point.
V and A xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told one of my mates who instantly asked if he could fuck E made a great video as knowing him so well I could pretty much direct the action like a proper amateur porno and see exactly what I wanted lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tell them all the juicy stories, no names of course though. They love it and think it's brill lol x
I've never said a single word to anyone, my friends couldn't be trusted with that kind of ammunition on me.
P.s nice profile "
Thanks. You to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tell the truth just miss out the bits I don't want them to know, if I have been to a club I say I've been to a club I just don't say its a swingers club, if I go to a cenima I say I've been to the cenima I just don't say its an adult cenima, you get the picture |
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My mum asked last night why I was on the pill cos I'm not having sex. I said how do you know I might be out every weekend shagging different guys!
Cue family pissing themselves saying, bollocks you just lie on your couch watching tv (also true).
So I do tell the truth just people don't believe me  |
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