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"real woman ,more effort,and can -uck for england" All women are real are they not ? And so the cycle continues. Mrs. | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? " Exactly us slim girls are real too. | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? " Absolutely spot on question. I think it's a lack of the need to inflate prior to play  | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? " Yes, I'm intrigued too  | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too." Who said that ?  | |||
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"real woman ,more effort,and can -uck for england" The "real woman" comment is an insult to ALL women. We are all real regardless of our size | |||
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"For me, I just think curves are so sexy and feminine! Curves rule!!! FTW!!! Claire XX" There is that word 'curves' again...surely the most misused term on fab | |||
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"For me, I just think curves are so sexy and feminine! Curves rule!!! FTW!!! Claire XX There is that word 'curves' again...surely the most misused term on fab "Bit like 'athletic'. | |||
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"For me, I just think curves are so sexy and feminine! Curves rule!!! FTW!!! Claire XX There is that word 'curves' again...surely the most misused term on fab
Bit like 'athletic'."True  | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7" Like all slim women are | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7" Here we go....and now slim = vain and narcissistic .... | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? " One you don't need to blow up with a foot pump ?? | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7" What a silly comment to make  | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are "Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28. As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself. Claire XX | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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"For me, I just think curves are so sexy and feminine! Curves rule!!! FTW!!! Claire XX There is that word 'curves' again...surely the most misused term on fab
Bit like 'athletic'." | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7" I am a bit hung up on the way I look. Not sure why men find fat attractive even though I've been told recently by someone I've met that he likes the way I look | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups? "I have plenty of hang ups I just don't air them. These threads never go down well. Everyone appreciates something different. | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
Claire
XX"So all larger women don't have body hang ups? I'm a size 10 and love my body. I worked hard for it and I'm not shy about showing it off. | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7" I'm a fat lump and a bit hung up about how I look and men have told me they like me for me and I have amazing sex with the men I met.....nothing to do with my size | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups? "No I'm not saying that either. As much as you can be any size and confident. They are women of all sizes that have hang ups too. What I was trying to say though is in my expierence. It's has been the slimmer women. Ok yes I'm making a comment based on only a handful of women. Claire XX | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7I'm a fat lump and a bit hung up about how I look and men have told me they like me for me and I have amazing sex with the men I met.....nothing to do with my size " Looking at your pics I wouldn't use the word fat at all. I fact I never use it to describe any woman. Claire XX | |||
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"Morbid obesity does nothing for me tbh. Curves as in hour glass shape yes. Curves as in rolls of fat nope. I do wonder rif a lot of men actually find them attractive or simply espouse this preference because they think they'll be easy. Would be an interesting experience to get two profiles one a size 20 the other a size 8 message some guys who often claims to love BBW from the size 20 account arrange a meet for a specific date then message from the sie 8 account looking to meet for the same date and see how many cancel the BBW for the slim meet." I'd certainly prefer the size 20 lady! Claire XX | |||
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"Morbid obesity does nothing for me tbh. Curves as in hour glass shape yes. Curves as in rolls of fat nope. I do wonder rif a lot of men actually find them attractive or simply espouse this preference because they think they'll be easy. Would be an interesting experience to get two profiles one a size 20 the other a size 8 message some guys who often claims to love BBW from the size 20 account arrange a meet for a specific date then message from the sie 8 account looking to meet for the same date and see how many cancel the BBW for the slim meet." Spot on. | |||
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"real woman ,more effort,and can -uck for england" Good lord, seriously?!!
Do you think being fat makes one real?!! I'm a size 22, my daughters are 8, 10 and 12. The size 12 is usually an eight but she's seven months pregnant: we're all real!
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"Morbid obesity does nothing for me tbh. Curves as in hour glass shape yes. Curves as in rolls of fat nope. I do wonder rif a lot of men actually find them attractive or simply espouse this preference because they think they'll be easy. Would be an interesting experience to get two profiles one a size 20 the other a size 8 message some guys who often claims to love BBW from the size 20 account arrange a meet for a specific date then message from the sie 8 account looking to meet for the same date and see how many cancel the BBW for the slim meet. I'd certainly prefer the size 20 lady! Claire XX" I wouldn't. Vive la difference | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too." I'm not real | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Here we go....and now slim = vain and narcissistic .... "Sigh...wish there was a palm hitting face/banging head against wall emoticon! | |||
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"Morbid obesity does nothing for me tbh. Curves as in hour glass shape yes. Curves as in rolls of fat nope. I do wonder rif a lot of men actually find them attractive or simply espouse this preference because they think they'll be easy. Would be an interesting experience to get two profiles one a size 20 the other a size 8 message some guys who often claims to love BBW from the size 20 account arrange a meet for a specific date then message from the sie 8 account looking to meet for the same date and see how many cancel the BBW for the slim meet." That would certainly be an interesting experiment! | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real "Shit, I shagged a ghost! | |||
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"Why do some of us find larger ladies so attractve and desirable. " Usually because they think big girls are easy. Mind you I am a big girl and in my case they could just be right lol | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups? "Apparently not! We're also sexual Olympians too don't you know! | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost! "Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above "I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life  ....... | |||
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" They also tend to love cunnillingus a lot. " Again, unlike slim women | |||
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 Why limit the pleasure you can have?
An interesting thread a couple of years ago posed a question to all, asking if you would enjoy fucking with someone who was the opposite sex's version of yourself. Not genetically ha, but someone who was the same level of intellect, same age, had the same interests, and had the same physical attributes, eg a size 20 woman with a guy carrying extra pounds, say a cuddly chap with a 46" waist, a slender 5'2" female with a slim 5'7" guy built like a racing snake and a 5'8" toned lady with a 6'2" gym bunny guy, etc...
The answers tended towards a lot of the men said it would be wonderful as they could connect with someone who had the same desires whilst fucking. However the majority of the ladies (but not all) said they wouldn't have a fantasy of someone who was the same physically?
I have no doubt that it indicated men have fewer hangups about who they sleep with, but perhaps also indicated that a lot of ladies have hangups about how they look, irrelevent of their build? | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
Claire
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So all larger women don't have body hang ups?
I'm a size 10 and love my body. I worked hard for it and I'm not shy about showing it off."Your body is stunning xx | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7" Sorry but that's bullshit. | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life ....... "I'm here  | |||
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"Thank you for all your comments and I dint post this to cause any offence. Its just a personal prefernce of mine. Big voluptuous women turn me on. They are so yummy and warm in and out of bed. They also tend to love cunnillingus a lot. " Stop generalising so much. | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life ....... "Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing "Grabbing popcorn! Lol Claire XX | |||
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"There is such a load of rubbish on this thread! My wife is slim, she is real, she has curves, some curve outwards, some curve inwards, she does not have hangups about her body, she eats like a horse, is fantastic in bed, loves her pussy being licked and has never seen the inside of a gym. Some people fancy her, some people dont. If you don't, just walk on by, dont make up bullshit about how she is shit in bed, or body obsessed or any other such nonsense to justify your preference."  | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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Oi, pass me some....greedy guts "My final word for you has just been posted on your other thread ... | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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Oi, pass me some....greedy guts
My final word for you has just been posted on your other thread ..."and mine to you - I hope you read it | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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Oi, pass me some....greedy guts
My final word for you has just been posted on your other thread ..."He's not having a rant about bigger women,just the terminology | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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Oi, pass me some....greedy guts
My final word for you has just been posted on your other thread ...
and mine to you - I hope you read it "Did thank you | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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Oi, pass me some....greedy guts
My final word for you has just been posted on your other thread ...
He's not having a rant about bigger women,just the terminology"That and saying we shouldn't say beautiful what gave us that right and as not only I but others have pointed out what is beautifull to one isn't another .. | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too. I'm not real
Shit, I shagged a ghost!
Well you must have done,us slim girls aren't real you know,just ask the guy above
I'd better go find myself a fat lass...clearly I've never shagged any 'real women'... ..what a wasted life .......
Surprised your on this thread as you've got a thread having a rant about us bigger /larger /fat women ...yes I'm in mood for a row as pmsing
Grabbing popcorn! Lol
Claire
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Oi, pass me some....greedy guts
My final word for you has just been posted on your other thread ...
He's not having a rant about bigger women,just the terminology"Read his thread on here . | |||
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"Why do some of us find larger ladies so attractve and desirable. " Er, dunno, could it be because you've noticed there's a lot of them on Fab? | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? " Don't need batteries or a pump | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J" In fairness there are a lot of slim women that fit the above also... | |||
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"Why do some of us find larger ladies so attractve and desirable. " Caveman thing , it's obvious she comes from a tribe with a large food supply Same as women find blokes in leather attractive, it's onpbvious they come from a tribe that has the knowledge to kill animals and make clothes to keep them warm | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J In fairness there are a lot of slim women that fit the above also... "Most likely but it's obviously less so in his experience | |||
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"Lets be honest about this,,and i could be wrong..i sometimes am. Some guys pitch up on here expressing their admiration for BBWs or whatever because they think that FAB is full of lonely BBWs crying out for a man to find them attractive and even love them. Of course we know that isnt necessarily true. " You think that's only applicable to fat women? Judging by the threads started by frustrated men, they can't believe ANY woman on here isn't gagging for cock as they're desperate, lonely, washed up slappers, regardless of age, size, marital status or looks! | |||
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"What makes slim women desirable each to their own I say " | |||
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"I believe a lot of men do genuinely find bigger women more attractive but of course there are a few who wrongly believe that bigger women are easier to get! How boring would the world be if we all were attracted to the same type! " | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J" So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom "Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. | |||
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"Why do some of us find larger ladies so attractve and desirable. " | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. "but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better  | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups? "I used to be properly large. As in a size 20/22. I'm currently reducing that. I can absolutely state I had way more body hang-ups when I was bigger than I do now. Not saying that's true of everyone, but that is my personal experience. | |||
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"Why do some of us find larger ladies so attractve and desirable. " Contrast? I like hard bodies against my soft curvy one? | |||
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"Didn't take long for the "real" comments. What makes a woman real? Exactly us slim girls are real too." And the ones in the middle too!! | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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I used to be properly large. As in a size 20/22. I'm currently reducing that. I can absolutely state I had way more body hang-ups when I was bigger than I do now. Not saying that's true of everyone, but that is my personal experience."I just smile to myself, I will never be thin it I know what a bloody difference losing weight has made to me physically and mentally and if that means a few random guys on the internet don't want to shag me fair enough I will chose choice from the three fold more messages imget since losing weight | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups?
I used to be properly large. As in a size 20/22. I'm currently reducing that. I can absolutely state I had way more body hang-ups when I was bigger than I do now. Not saying that's true of everyone, but that is my personal experience."For me, I think curvy/large/bbw (or however ladies label themselves) are very sexy. Shapely curves are very attractive and curvy ladies should feel like the hot, sexy girls that they are. Ignore the body hangups and there are a lot of men who love larger ladies out there | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups?
I used to be properly large. As in a size 20/22. I'm currently reducing that. I can absolutely state I had way more body hang-ups when I was bigger than I do now. Not saying that's true of everyone, but that is my personal experience.
For me, I think curvy/large/bbw (or however ladies label themselves) are very sexy. Shapely curves are very attractive and curvy ladies should feel like the hot, sexy girls that they are.
Ignore the body hangups and there are a lot of men who love larger ladies out there"There may be, but I didn't like me larger. And it's my opinion that matters most when it comes to my own body. | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups?
I used to be properly large. As in a size 20/22. I'm currently reducing that. I can absolutely state I had way more body hang-ups when I was bigger than I do now. Not saying that's true of everyone, but that is my personal experience.
For me, I think curvy/large/bbw (or however ladies label themselves) are very sexy. Shapely curves are very attractive and curvy ladies should feel like the hot, sexy girls that they are.
Ignore the body hangups and there are a lot of men who love larger ladies out there
There may be, but I didn't like me larger. And it's my opinion that matters most when it comes to my own body."And never was truer word spoken. | |||
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"It's rare to see a thread asking why people are attracted to slimmer women, why is that? Do BBWs find it insulting or patronising that so many men feel they need to make a special point of being attracted to them as if it's unusual? " Yes, and because it drags out people who assume we are an easy target because they personanlly don't find big women attractive, must be the reason why others go for them. . And why can't a big woman label herself as beautiful if she feels she is? Same as a slim woman can, we have a right to cal ourselves whatever we want to. | |||
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"beause we arnt hung up on how we look 24/7 Like all slim women are
Interesting point. Something I was going to comment about. Just couldn't seem to word it right. I'm not saying that all slim women have hang ups, but larger ones don't. I've dated women of all sizes. Personally I have found that slimmer women do seem to be worried more about their size. There is always going to be something sexy about a confident woman. No matter if she is size 8 or 28.
As for the use of the word " curvy" well I'm a size 16-20 and that's how I describe myself.
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Larger women don't have hang ups?
I used to be properly large. As in a size 20/22. I'm currently reducing that. I can absolutely state I had way more body hang-ups when I was bigger than I do now. Not saying that's true of everyone, but that is my personal experience.
For me, I think curvy/large/bbw (or however ladies label themselves) are very sexy. Shapely curves are very attractive and curvy ladies should feel like the hot, sexy girls that they are.
Ignore the body hangups and there are a lot of men who love larger ladies out there"I agree and I was never short of attention when I was massive, however, diabitis, high cholesterol!estral, arthritis are not sexy I chose to !ose weight for my health and as I said previously I will never be thin but to say bbws are better in bed and have less hangups(which someone said) is comp!etly ludicrous I've lost weight not had a personality transplant | |||
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"It's rare to see a thread asking why people are attracted to slimmer women, why is that? Do BBWs find it insulting or patronising that so many men feel they need to make a special point of being attracted to them as if it's unusual? Yes, and because it drags out people who assume we are an easy target because they personanlly don't find big women attractive, must be the reason why others go for them. . And why can't a big woman label herself as beautiful if she feels she is? Same as a slim woman can, we have a right to cal ourselves whatever we want to." I have no problem with you calling yourself beautiful, I think more people should take a look at themselves band see their beauty. I just feel this is all a bit patronising. | |||
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"It's rare to see a thread asking why people are attracted to slimmer women, why is that? Do BBWs find it insulting or patronising that so many men feel they need to make a special point of being attracted to them as if it's unusual? Yes, and because it drags out people who assume we are an easy target because they personanlly don't find big women attractive, must be the reason why others go for them. . And why can't a big woman label herself as beautiful if she feels she is? Same as a slim woman can, we have a right to cal ourselves whatever we want to. I have no problem with you calling yourself beautiful, I think more people should take a look at themselves band see their beauty. I just feel this is all a bit patronising." I didn't mean you, I was picking up on the other thread about why BBWs think they have a right to call themselves beautiful or whatever was said. Yes I do find this thread a little patronising | |||
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"It's rare to see a thread asking why people are attracted to slimmer women, why is that? Do BBWs find it insulting or patronising that so many men feel they need to make a special point of being attracted to them as if it's unusual? " I kind of think that some men see it as a fetish & by introducing the word beautiful into the mix it makes it all okay. As with all shapes & sizes not everyone is 'beautiful'. There is no SBW term as far as I am aware of..... | |||
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"It's rare to see a thread asking why people are attracted to slimmer women, why is that? Do BBWs find it insulting or patronising that so many men feel they need to make a special point of being attracted to them as if it's unusual? Yes, and because it drags out people who assume we are an easy target because they personanlly don't find big women attractive, must be the reason why others go for them. . And why can't a big woman label herself as beautiful if she feels she is? Same as a slim woman can, we have a right to cal ourselves whatever we want to. I have no problem with you calling yourself beautiful, I think more people should take a look at themselves band see their beauty. I just feel this is all a bit patronising. I didn't mean you, I was picking up on the other thread about why BBWs think they have a right to call themselves beautiful or whatever was said. Yes I do find this thread a little patronising " I think the other thread is misunderstood. As I said I think everyone should look at themselves and see their beauty. | |||
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"Fab is full of BBWs. If you state on your profile no BBWs watch the tirade of abuse you will receive." Try it and let us know what happened | |||
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"Fat,thin,curvy ,short,tall etc we are all women and some men like us what ever our size and shape.....thank you " | |||
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"Men who think I am an easy target because I'm big, are in for a challenge. I can usually tell genuine from non genuine. Who's actually interested and who's just trying their luck. I'd like to think someone has approached me because they think we have something in common by what they have read. This is usually obvious with how they message me. I state I'm big because I know this will put some people off so make it clear form the off rather than disappoint later on. If a guy specifically likes certain physical attributes because they are large then I'm not insulted. We all have preferences. Well for me I don't have a body type preference, I go for someone who can stimulate my mind and if they're good looking by my standards (whatever they are) then that's a bonus. " Its good to see a profile thats honest about what your looking for cosmic perfectly sensible to me. | |||
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"Why do some of us find larger ladies so attractve and desirable. " Instead of asking other people to explain what you like, why not tell us? | |||
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I think that in the real world slimmer women will always be perceived as better looking than bigger women - it is like this!
With the odd exception
I think body confidence is far more attractive than simply being a size 10 - I have been both ends of the scale and I can honestly say that at 40 I feel more comfortable in my own skin than ever before - it has nothing to do with the size of my body
And I certainly don't feel more 'real' what is that about?
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better "I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you? I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women. I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom "No. Not what I think. You put those words into my mouth I'm not sure why though? Perhaps you can illuminate me? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you
Hateful? "Maybe the wrong word. Unpleasant then. Or is saying my opinion is bullshit being nice? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you
Hateful?
Maybe the wrong word. Unpleasant then. Or is saying my opinion is bullshit being nice?"Stick around you will see far far far worse. | |||
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"I'm exhausted after reading all of this thread
I think that in the real world slimmer women will always be perceived as better looking than bigger women - it is like this!
With the odd exception
I think body confidence is far more attractive than simply being a size 10 - I have been both ends of the scale and I can honestly say that at 40 I feel more comfortable in my own skin than ever before - it has nothing to do with the size of my body
And I certainly don't feel more 'real' what is that about?
"I totally agree with you re the point you made re age. I am definitely way more confident with my body now than I was say 20 years ago. Back then I was a size 10 & toned but lacked the confidence I have now that I'm older, larger with wobbly bits & don't really give a toss what others think. | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you
Hateful?
Maybe the wrong word. Unpleasant then. Or is saying my opinion is bullshit being nice?
Stick around you will see far far far worse. "I have experienced it. And we left fab as a result. I'm trying to show this is typical fab: Post something nice, inoffensive and even then someone starts getting shitty. I won't just accept it. The forums can be interesting but can be very hostile at times. Needs sorting | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you "are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful "I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to say | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to say"OK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else"Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? "no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
"I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general. Why is that bullshit? Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure. That's my preference. Is that bullshit to your mind too? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? " | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? "Thanks | |||
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"we are just so cuddly n bubbly "Oh my word, great pics! | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? "your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative. I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go. So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed. If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier | |||
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"we are just so cuddly n bubbly
Oh my word, great pics! "thank you xx | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier"I see your point, of course. No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc. But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself? She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is"I might have if you hadn't stated it wasn't about your partner anyway I'm just thankful my partner didn't have your attitude otherwise I would probably have issues and hangups for losing the weight bit my issue was never about people having preferences for larger ladies if they didn't in would never have got shagged the issue was your assumption about personality. | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is"My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive. | |||
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Although I'm not a small girl, I went to a club with 2 ladies who no less than a size 30. Bees round a honey pot and I got no action! " I like larger ladies and I LOVE redheads Mmmmmmm | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she isI might have if you hadn't stated it wasn't about your partner anyway I'm just thankful my partner didn't have your attitude otherwise I would probably have issues and hangups for losing the weight bit my issue was never about people having preferences for larger ladies if they didn't in would never have got shagged the issue was your assumption about personality.
"You made the assumption, not me. Many things can make a woman sexy to me: long hair, beautiful eyes, a pretty face, an intelligent mind, a sexy attitude, curves and many other things. At no point did I rubbish slim women or say that they can't be sexy. Indeed, many are. All I did was praise curvy women in general. And where is the harm in that? Plus add that women with no boobs and boyish figures didn't turn me on. My preference, my opinion. Not bullshit. Ultimately you made assumptions about my thought processes (wrongly). Your problem | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she isI might have if you hadn't stated it wasn't about your partner anyway I'm just thankful my partner didn't have your attitude otherwise I would probably have issues and hangups for losing the weight bit my issue was never about people having preferences for larger ladies if they didn't in would never have got shagged the issue was your assumption about personality.
You made the assumption, not me.
Many things can make a woman sexy to me: long hair, beautiful eyes, a pretty face, an intelligent mind, a sexy attitude, curves and many other things.
At no point did I rubbish slim women or say that they can't be sexy. Indeed, many are.
All I did was praise curvy women in general. And where is the harm in that? Plus add that women with no boobs and boyish figures didn't turn me on.
My preference, my opinion. Not bullshit.
Ultimately you made assumptions about my thought processes (wrongly). Your problem "like I said im must thankful my partner didn't have hour attitude. P's the bullshit remark still stands. | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive. "Really? Wow! Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she isI might have if you hadn't stated it wasn't about your partner anyway I'm just thankful my partner didn't have your attitude otherwise I would probably have issues and hangups for losing the weight bit my issue was never about people having preferences for larger ladies if they didn't in would never have got shagged the issue was your assumption about personality.
You made the assumption, not me.
Many things can make a woman sexy to me: long hair, beautiful eyes, a pretty face, an intelligent mind, a sexy attitude, curves and many other things.
At no point did I rubbish slim women or say that they can't be sexy. Indeed, many are.
All I did was praise curvy women in general. And where is the harm in that? Plus add that women with no boobs and boyish figures didn't turn me on.
My preference, my opinion. Not bullshit.
Ultimately you made assumptions about my thought processes (wrongly). Your problem like I said im must thankful my partner didn't have hour attitude.
P's the bullshit remark still stands.
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me"Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ... | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ... "I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you "You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves"I just don't think he's going to get it. He sees himself as an ambassador for all large women | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselvesI just don't think he's going to get it. He sees himself as an ambassador for all large women
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves"I said "Is that ok by you?" rhethorically after saying "I have never offended her and stick by what I say". And, for the record, in my experience, BBW make the best lovers. Just saying. Just my opinion. Others can disagree, others will (and have) agreed (see above). Simple | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves
I said "Is that ok by you?" rhethorically after saying "I have never offended her and stick by what I say".
And, for the record, in my experience, BBW make the best lovers.
Just saying. Just my opinion.
Others can disagree, others will (and have) agreed (see above). Simple "One poster above has just suggested she feels her performance has changed .... I can't speak for anyone else. My 'performance' depends on who I am with, and how we gel ... not on my weight .... anyway, I think BBC make the best lovers .... | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves
I said "Is that ok by you?" rhethorically after saying "I have never offended her and stick by what I say".
And, for the record, in my experience, BBW make the best lovers.
Just saying. Just my opinion.
Others can disagree, others will (and have) agreed (see above). Simple "I disagree  | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves
I said "Is that ok by you?" rhethorically after saying "I have never offended her and stick by what I say".
And, for the record, in my experience, BBW make the best lovers.
Just saying. Just my opinion.
Others can disagree, others will (and have) agreed (see above). Simple
One poster above has just suggested she feels her performance has changed .... I can't speak for anyone else. My 'performance' depends on who I am with, and how we gel ... not on my weight .... anyway, I think BBC make the best lovers .... "If that is what you have found, that's your opinion and it would be churlish for anyone else to disagree with you, wouldn't it? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves
I said "Is that ok by you?" rhethorically after saying "I have never offended her and stick by what I say".
And, for the record, in my experience, BBW make the best lovers.
Just saying. Just my opinion.
Others can disagree, others will (and have) agreed (see above). Simple I disagree "As is your prerogative. Who am I took argue with your experiences? | |||
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"Because they have curves and are sexy as hell, in my opinion, both in looks and attitude. I've always found them to be excellent lovers and adventurous in the bedroom. J So if thats the reason why you think BBW are sexy, does this mean you think slim women have poor attitudes, are poor lovers and are not adventurous in the bedroom
Also I must assume that if your partner were to lose wait she would start to have a poor attitude in bed, wouldn't be sexy anymore, she would become a worse lover and would become less adventurous bed? Who knew. but did you not know this was true or maybe after losing 11 and 1/2stone I'm qualified to say that is complete billshit and completly the reverse, thought I was OK before but things can only get better
I didn't make any hateful comments so why have you?
I was just expressing the reasons BBW are attractive to me. That's all. I didn't say anything derogatory about slim women.
I hope you are adult enough - both posters - to apologise. Both of you are you talkimg to me? What hateful comments? You think some stating they think your comment is bullshit is hateful
I think saying my opinion is bullshit is unpleasant, especially when it is offered on such a non-contentious matter! I didn't run anyone down, say anything bad about slim women. So why such an awful thing to say? Don't understand it. And think it a wholly unnecessary thing to sayOK, your entitled to your opinion as is everyone else
Thank you. Yes, I am entitled to my opinion, just as you are yours. Do you accept it was wrong to call it bullshit? no I don't as in my opinion it was bullshit, are you going to get upset everytime someone disagrees with you because if you get upset over the word bullshit what you going to do when someone strongly disagrees with you?
Why was it bullshit then?
I simply explained why I am attracted to BBWs.
In what way is that bullshit? iii assuming it's the male speaking. If your partner lost lots of weight would she become less appealing to you, less attractive, less adventurous? Or would she still be the same person but in a smaller healthier body?
I wasn't talking about my partner in particular, I was simply trying to explain why I like women with curves in general.
Why is that bullshit?
Certainly I prefer a woman to have curves rather than be pencil thin, with no bust and a boyish figure.
That's my preference.
Is that bullshit to your mind too? your just not getting it, we all have preferences yours is for large women and the fact that you like curves etc, fine. That's not my issue, the issue was putting all large women as being more fun and adventurous you wasn't talking!ing about your partner directly but my question was about your partner younchose notmto answer it which is hour prerogative.
I've been on both sides of the fence, having been extremely overweight all my adult life (around the 21 and 1/2 stone mark) in the last 2 years I'm down to 10 stone with must a couple of lb to go.
So with losing weight have I lost all my sexiness, confidence and no longer adventurous. I may no longer be appealing physically to some but my mind hasn't changed.
If my partner was had the same attitude as you I'd probably be upset thinking he was going to leave me for making myself fitter and healthyier
I see your point, of course.
No, I wouldn't just "go off" my Anne if she lost a lot of weight etc.
But have you considered that I posted what I did because I wanted to make her feel good about herself?
She can, at times, be a little insecure and I was hoping she might see the thread and feel reassured that I love and desire her as she is. She is sexy as hell to me and love her just the way she is
My point would be, I would not need a charitable attitude to anyone feeling I needed to be told I was okay being the weight I am ... whatever weight I am. I personally would find that offensive.
Really? Wow!
Anyway, I know Anne. You don't. I have never offended her so stick by what I say. Is that ok by you? She has told me that I have made her feel loved, wanted and desired like never before - her ex never made her feel that way. So I'm pleased to have helped build her self esteem as much as it has in our time together. Her opinion is all that matters to me
Why are you asking me if her opinion is the only one that matters to me. I am just saying, 'ease don't judge or assume all those women you label as bbws are the same ... or have self esteem issues, or need you to be a white knight for them, some can fight their own battles, or don't even see it as a battle ...
I didn't ask you if her opinion is the only one that matters to you
You stated it was the only one that matters to you, then you asked if that was okay with me ... why ask me, as my opinion does not matter ... according to you, all bbws have the same issues, as you have lumped them altogether as one group. I find that attitude disturbing, no matter what size I am, I would not assume everyone of any group had the same attitude to everything, including themselves
I said "Is that ok by you?" rhethorically after saying "I have never offended her and stick by what I say".
And, for the record, in my experience, BBW make the best lovers.
Just saying. Just my opinion.
Others can disagree, others will (and have) agreed (see above). Simple
One poster above has just suggested she feels her performance has changed .... I can't speak for anyone else. My 'performance' depends on who I am with, and how we gel ... not on my weight .... anyway, I think BBC make the best lovers ....
If that is what you have found, that's your opinion and it would be churlish for anyone else to disagree with you, wouldn't it? "I am using it as a point to illustrate how such a comment can be seen as ridiculous as well as offensive, but the irony is lost obviously | |||
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And shit load of re-quoting!!"Hadn't noticed any sycophancy | |||
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