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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me

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By *olfcartweaselCouple  over a year ago

Melrose

Because sex is fun, and gets exponentially better the more people are involved?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because we choose to try the life style ,loved it and the atmosphere it gives ,as for clubs why not nothing to loose by giving it a bash lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

I'm here because a friend at the time put me on it.

I never expected to get into it and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm here to meet like minded people for fun! Love going to clubs as I can dress up without being judged and I love the social side

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are on fab to enjoy lots of exciting sexual adventures .

We don't go to clubs as they are often boring and full of people who just seem to want to chat and socialise .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Because sex is fun, and gets exponentially better the more people are involved?"

Not really...depends who you are with

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"We don't go to clubs as they are often boring and full of people who just seem to want to chat and socialise ."

That's me

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I haven't found what I'm looking for yet but will do one day.!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why can't you say here?

I fuck men because I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm here to meet like minded people for fun! Love going to clubs as I can dress up without being judged and I love the social side

"

I'll judge you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck. "

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck. "

Fair enough...but you can fuck each other and watch yourself while doing it (or in a video)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because we like group sex and find it adds an extra dimension to our intimate sex life

We enjoy being in the social company of people who are very open about their sexual lives and tastes...It adds a certain something to some of the conversations we have around our dinner table with some of the friends we've made..

As to clubs, they can be fun but we've been to some right shit holes we wouldn't go back to...they're a good way to meet new people who are up for playing

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By *irceWoman  over a year ago

Gloucester

No clubs,here to "explore" some people climb mountains i prefer to go for the south pole...hehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't go to clubs as they are often boring and full of people who just seem to want to chat and socialise .

That's me "

Me too

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"We are on fab to enjoy lots of exciting sexual adventures .

We don't go to clubs as they are often boring and full of people who just seem to want to chat and socialise ."

Well there is action in clubs...quality is very debatable but action is there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck.

Fair enough...but you can fuck each other and watch yourself while doing it (or in a video) "

Nah prefer it our way more fun. Plus we fuck other people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are on fab to enjoy lots of exciting sexual adventures .

We don't go to clubs as they are often boring and full of people who just seem to want to chat and socialise .

Well there is action in clubs...quality is very debatable but action is there"

True , and we went for long enough to work that out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Here to explore fantasies that we can't do without the involvement of others and as for swingers club we like to take the fun on a group level on occasion so yeah

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to be fucked and have my pussy filled.I have no passion to know why your here.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"No clubs,here to "explore" some people climb mountains i prefer to go for the south pole...hehe "

You could find a mountain to climb also there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We only meet at clubs and parties. Why? Because it's the best fun and enables us to fuck lots of people and we like that. Xxxx

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"I like to be fucked and have my pussy filled.I have no passion to know why your here. "

Yeah you have passion for only cum apparently.

Hope you use condoms honey...

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"We only meet at clubs and parties. Why? Because it's the best fun and enables us to fuck lots of people and we like that. Xxxx"

How many does she fuck in average per night? What about him?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck.

Fair enough...but you can fuck each other and watch yourself while doing it (or in a video)

Nah prefer it our way more fun. Plus we fuck other people. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The forums amuse me. I don't go to clubs.

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

I only go to clubs if I meet a guy who wants to try one but is scared to on his own.

I'll go for the social side and leave him to do what he wants.

So far none have left my side all night

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By *sianmale89Man  over a year ago

Stockport


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me "

dunno....first just signed on to chat and perv really now a month ago I decided to get photo verified and maybe try some where down the line getting a meet be it social or the other..

as for the club thing? not my thing really..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Came back to Fab after meeting some wonderful people. Many of those have sadly now left Fab so I just chat and get to know people but keep my little black book should my mood change and I fancy some fun. X

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck.

Fair enough...but you can fuck each other and watch yourself while doing it (or in a video)

Nah prefer it our way more fun. Plus we fuck other people. "

So you like to fuck around. Well I like it too so I can understand.

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By *irceWoman  over a year ago

Gloucester


"No clubs,here to "explore" some people climb mountains i prefer to go for the south pole...hehe

You could find a mountain to climb also there "

That is very true....have had a few hmm surprises darn FaB jokers lol.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple  over a year ago

Stretford


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me "

Can I ask why you want people to answer in an open forum but you're not prepared to give your reasons openly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never been to a club or party. I joined Fab to have sex after a 13 year relationship with someone sexually incompatible, and I've discovered I'm way kinkier than I ever knew! The forums and the friendships have been a lovely bonus.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Never been to a club or party. I joined Fab to have sex after a 13 year relationship with someone sexually incompatible, and I've discovered I'm way kinkier than I ever knew! The forums and the friendships have been a lovely bonus."

Good that you are kinkier than expected! I would like to know how much kinkier though

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me

Can I ask why you want people to answer in an open forum but you're not prepared to give your reasons openly."

Just to know what people thinks

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By *orthwest_cplCouple  over a year ago

Stretford


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me

Can I ask why you want people to answer in an open forum but you're not prepared to give your reasons openly.

Just to know what people thinks"

But why can't we know what you think without having to PM you?

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

Because it is my thread

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

Because we are swingers, so we join swinging websites, go to swingers clubs, meet other swingers, swing with them etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So basically it's a thread where you're trying to get people to message you to start a conversation thread?

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

Ermm,,,because it puts a smile on our faces

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't figure out how to delete my account.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Can't figure out how to delete my account. "

Ahahahahahah

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"So basically it's a thread where you're trying to get people to message you to start a conversation thread?

"

I am trying to dominate the world

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I do not have a television licence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because a few months back, I met a guy (Chris) in town. He told me straight off he was a swinger so as to be no confusion......I was intrigued so here I am.....simples!

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple  over a year ago

London

To stay in touch with people we meet in clubs and some times we don't go to clubs to meet people and some times we do.

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By *restatynCplCouple  over a year ago

Rhyl


"Because it is my thread"

And it's our choice not to give you our answer without knowing yours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

wow some people want to know the in's n out's of megs arse on here.

I wont say why I'm on here that's my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got told if I didn't join a kitten would be drowned

Seriously though I was recommended the site and I enjoy the forum and the people who I have talked to in messages are nice people who I feel I can talk to about things I wouldn't talk about to other people in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont understand,why would you be on a sex site and not be looking for sex,i am not talking about people on a break either, we started swinging to explore my bi side,it has progressed from there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We only meet at clubs and parties. Why? Because it's the best fun and enables us to fuck lots of people and we like that. Xxxx

How many does she fuck in average per night? What about him?"

Oooh anything from one to 5 or 6 and him maybe the same and certainly so if it's a bi evening

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wow some people want to know the in's n out's of megs arse on here.

I wont say why I'm on here that's my choice. "

But your status says to ask you anything you like

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"We only meet at clubs and parties. Why? Because it's the best fun and enables us to fuck lots of people and we like that. Xxxx

How many does she fuck in average per night? What about him?

Oooh anything from one to 5 or 6 and him maybe the same and certainly so if it's a bi evening "

Ah ok average time of Sex per partner...?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We only meet at clubs and parties. Why? Because it's the best fun and enables us to fuck lots of people and we like that. Xxxx

How many does she fuck in average per night? What about him?

Oooh anything from one to 5 or 6 and him maybe the same and certainly so if it's a bi evening

Ah ok average time of Sex per partner...?"

Tell you what you show us yours and we may show you ours. ...a conversation is a two way thing... what you have going on here is more of a 20 questions interrogation, and it's beginning to get boring!

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am on Fab to meet people, socially or otherwise, who enjoy the same lifestyle as me. I go to clubs to meet people like me and, hopefully, fuck them.

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By *aneandpaulCouple  over a year ago

cleveleys

Because we like to like minded people we keep this private from our friends and its good to chat Jane

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck. "

Exactly!

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"Because it is my thread"

Once you put a thread on an open forum it is no longer your own - it is public and you lose control of it. In trying to maintain control you just sound unnecessarily pompous

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

It was a fake...no profile pic either

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple  over a year ago

Fareham

What a bizarre thread! The OP sounds like a total novice trying to get a buzz by asking people to talk about their kinky lifestyles - 'what do you do? How often do you do it? Where do you do it? How long does it take?...

He also comes across as a tad judgemental - are you REALLY a swinger OP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What a bizarre thread! The OP sounds like a total novice trying to get a buzz by asking people to talk about their kinky lifestyles - 'what do you do? How often do you do it? Where do you do it? How long does it take?...

He also comes across as a tad judgemental - are you REALLY a swinger OP?"

Maybe he works for Sydney University

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"What a bizarre thread! The OP sounds like a total novice trying to get a buzz by asking people to talk about their kinky lifestyles - 'what do you do? How often do you do it? Where do you do it? How long does it take?...

He also comes across as a tad judgemental - are you REALLY a swinger OP?

Maybe he works for Sydney University "

Yea I am their spy ahahahah

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"How long does it take?..."

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple  over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Why are you on Fab? Why you go to Swinger Clubs?"

Because they wouldn't have me on the other site

Because we have kids and are too cheapskate for hotels, so clubs provide somewhere to play.

Mr ddc

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple  over a year ago

Derbyshire


"How long does it take?...

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening."

Oooh, that'll teach me to read the whole thread before replying

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

I am probably not.

I just like Sex and make mew friends to pass time with, not interested in having as much partners as I can...

I prefer a few good partners, than a lot of crap ones. A lot of good partner would be awesome

Quality not quantity. Swingers seem to privilege quantity from your responses I am sure someone does not though

I am searching quality AND quantity...privileging the first one though

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"How long does it take?...

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening."

SUMMARY:

She could not move. She cum. She wanted another one as she did many times that night She was upset I said a lot of times she could not move maybe too. Minger

The 2nd time went better. 10-15min. She cum. She wanted to continue but the husband was pretty jealous. She stopped. She searched me and speak to me again afterwards without the husband. What do you think? Jealousy

My first date here would have been probably the same. She said she wanted a cheap shag. I suppose she wanted to have sex with me and then go to a swinger club. Hopefully I did not do the first. Once in my life that no Sex means the right thing..............

I am checking if you really want to have good Sex, or you just want to have as many partners as you possibly can. It really feels like the second.

Ah yeah then there is people who only likes to attack others for no reason...no sex life at all I suppose. I am sorry

Not mentioning Time wasters, dreamers, fakes which this site for sure tried to minimize compared to many other. Best site I found for now

I am here, so hope is still in me

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By *ancs MinxWoman  over a year ago

Burnley


"So basically it's a thread where you're trying to get people to message you to start a conversation thread?

"

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"So basically it's a thread where you're trying to get people to message you to start a conversation thread?

"

Yes I am trying to dominate world

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I joined fab to get a shag lol, but now just using the forum, it is comedy gold.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman  over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"How long does it take?...

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening.

SUMMARY:

She could not move. She cum. She wanted another one as she did many times that night She was upset I said a lot of times she could not move maybe too. Minger

The 2nd time went better. 10-15min. She cum. She wanted to continue but the husband was pretty jealous. She stopped. She searched me and speak to me again afterwards without the husband. What do you think? Jealousy

My first date here would have been probably the same. She said she wanted a cheap shag. I suppose she wanted to have sex with me and then go to a swinger club. Hopefully I did not do the first. Once in my life that no Sex means the right thing..............

I am checking if you really want to have good Sex, or you just want to have as many partners as you possibly can. It really feels like the second.

Ah yeah then there is people who only likes to attack others for no reason...no sex life at all I suppose. I am sorry

Not mentioning Time wasters, dreamers, fakes which this site for sure tried to minimize compared to many other. Best site I found for now

I am here, so hope is still in me "

Are you STILL going on about your club experiences?! When will you break it down into minute by minute detail for us, we are all dying to know even more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't go to clubs.

Wife don't want sex unless d*unk on holiday.

Love chatting and wanking

Wanted to try cock after thinking about it all my life.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I am checking if you really want to have good Sex, or you just want to have as many partners as you possibly can. It really feels like the second."

You're judging a single woman for having lots of nsa sex on this website? Really?

Touch of the green-eyed monster there I reckon. Maybe the reason I am more successful than you on here and in clubs is because I dont blab about my meets on here.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"You're judging a single woman for having lots of nsa sex on this website?"

The only judge here is you (and many others on this site).

So are you confirming from your experience that many girls on this website on here want a lot of low quality nsa sex with as many partners they possibly can and nothing more?

This is my experience for now. Nothing more than that...and if anyone falls in this category, please do not contact me, it will be only a waste of time for me

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Are you STILL going on aboou your club experiences?! When will you break it down into minute by minute detail for us, we are all dying to know even more"

Also sec by sec if required

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 16/10/15 15:59:41]

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You're judging a single woman for having lots of nsa sex on this website?

The only judge here is you (and many others on this site).

So are you confirming from your experience that many girls on this website on here want a lot of low quality nsa sex with as many partners they possibly can and nothing more?

This is my experience for now. Nothing more than that...and if anyone falls in this category, please do not contact me, it will be only a waste of time for me "

You're talking rubbish and you know it. You stated yourself on this very post that you are looking for quality AND quantity, yet you judge a woman for having the same.

You are either the rudest, most clueless wannabe swinger I have ever come across, or you are a colossal troll. Either way, I just hope I am never unfortunate enough to bump into someone as judgemental as you.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple  over a year ago

harrow


"Because we like to fuck and watch each other fuck. "

this

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By *orthwest_cplCouple  over a year ago

Stretford


"This is my experience for now. Nothing more than that...and if anyone falls in this category, please do not contact me, it will be only a waste of time for me "

Your experience is based on 2 club visits. You have had many statements to the contrary from experienced swingers yet still base everything on 2 visits.

We've been going to clubs for upwards of 15 years and have found that generally, but not always, if someone only wants a quickie it is a single guy.

Maybe when you have a little more experience in the scene your views will change, or maybe you are just determined to be wrong.

Your opinions, as someone who is very new to swinging, do seem a little naive and your refusal to listen to other, more experienced, points of view seems to suggest that you are someone who is 'always right'.

Good luck with your future club visits.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

You commented in ALL my threads with angry comments. Everyone can make their own conclusions

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

It's no one else's business as to why I am on the site........

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"This is my experience for now. Nothing more than that...and if anyone falls in this category, please do not contact me, it will be only a waste of time for me

Your experience is based on 2 club visits. You have had many statements to the contrary from experienced swingers yet still base everything on 2 visits.

We've been going to clubs for upwards of 15 years and have found that generally, but not always, if someone only wants a quickie it is a single guy.

Maybe when you have a little more experience in the scene your views will change, or maybe you are just determined to be wrong.

Your opinions, as someone who is very new to swinging, do seem a little naive and your refusal to listen to other, more experienced, points of view seems to suggest that you are someone who is 'always right'.

Good luck with your future club visits. "

Sorry what? What are the opinions of the more experienced swingers? I am searching for those ...give me some please

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I am on here to meet some people to have fun sex with.

I prefer quality, and don't often meet - but never go for one night stands or quick meets... I prefer something more regular, and find it gets better the more I know someone.

I do have a lover who knows I am on fab, although he isn't, and we have an open relationship, so it works for us.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple  over a year ago

Stretford


"Sorry what? What are the opinions of the more experienced swingers? I am searching for those ...give me some please "

You haven't searched very hard. Read back over this thread and your 2 club visit threads. Plenty of opinions on those although as you took no notice the first time I doubt you'll take any notice on a second reading.

I think Wyrd is probably right in her appraisal of you.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"You're talking rubbish and you know it. You stated yourself on this very post that you are looking for quality AND quantity, yet you judge a woman for having the same.

You are either the rudest, most clueless wannabe swinger I have ever come across, or you are a colossal troll. Either way, I just hope I am never unfortunate enough to bump into someone as judgemental as you."

Thanks for the additional unjustified offences

You are judging that I am judgemental. Funny story

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"I am on here to meet some people to have fun sex with.

I prefer quality, and don't often meet - but never go for one night stands or quick meets... I prefer something more regular, and find it gets better the more I know someone."

Thanks for your answer. I hope you are not the only one thinking in this way

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple  over a year ago

harrow

Everyone has their own reasons, none of which are right or wrong .As there can be no right or wrong answer to the question there should be no criticism or judgement to the answers it is what it is.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Everyone has their own reasons, none of which are right or wrong .As there can be no right or wrong answer to the question there should be no criticism or judgement to the answers it is what it is. "

Thanks. Try to explain it to them please...

I made this thread to know what girls want on here

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple  over a year ago

harrow


"Everyone has their own reasons, none of which are right or wrong .As there can be no right or wrong answer to the question there should be no criticism or judgement to the answers it is what it is.

Thanks. Try to explain it to them please...

I made this thread to know what girls want on here "

Paradoxically I can't actually tell you that it was aimed at you as much as everyone else without being critical or judgemental... I was hoping I wouldn't be forced into pointing that out but hay ho

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

Yeah right. Who did I judge?

I said I do not like a certain kind of behaviour, as I will not have fun at all in that way...well unless I can have 20 girls in one night!?!? I suppose girls can so they do it

If someone felt offended...well not my problem

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah right. Who did I judge?

I said I do not like a certain kind of behaviour, as I will not have fun at all in that way...well unless I can have 20 girls in one night!?!? I suppose girls can so they do it

If someone felt offended...well not my problem "

Muppet!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me "

I'm here because I'm not there lol xx

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Yeah right. Who did I judge?

I said I do not like a certain kind of behaviour, as I will not have fun at all in that way...well unless I can have 20 girls in one night!?!? I suppose girls can so they do it

If someone felt offended...well not my problem

Muppet!"

Is it an offence...?

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me

I'm here because I'm not there lol xx"

It sounds logic!

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"How long does it take?...

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening."

I was just about to say the same thing.

Keep still ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cause it's easier to pull Bi girls than its is in "normal" surroundings - can't really walk up to a gal in a bar & ask if she's Bi....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are here to meet like minded people for fun! We like going to clubs, but we dont get to go as much nowadays. We love the social side of swinging & meeting nice people too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I like to get fucked in the ass while another cock is in my mouth and my wife doesn't have a penis

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"How long does it take?...

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening.

I was just about to say the same thing.

Keep still ladies!"

I am wondering what is the green arrow

I receive these kinds of comments from people who are well below my standards. Good job

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because I like to get fucked in the ass while another cock is in my mouth and my wife doesn't have a penis "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"How long does it take?...

I think the OP is still miffed that the first time he met someone at a club they tired of him after 5 mins, and he's checking he wasn't short changed.

The green arrow is enlightening.

SUMMARY:

She could not move. She cum. She wanted another one as she did many times that night She was upset I said a lot of times she could not move maybe too. Minger

The 2nd time went better. 10-15min. She cum. She wanted to continue but the husband was pretty jealous. She stopped. She searched me and speak to me again afterwards without the husband. What do you think? Jealousy

My first date here would have been probably the same. She said she wanted a cheap shag. I suppose she wanted to have sex with me and then go to a swinger club. Hopefully I did not do the first. Once in my life that no Sex means the right thing..............

I am checking if you really want to have good Sex, or you just want to have as many partners as you possibly can. It really feels like the second.

Ah yeah then there is people who only likes to attack others for no reason...no sex life at all I suppose. I am sorry

Not mentioning Time wasters, dreamers, fakes which this site for sure tried to minimize compared to many other. Best site I found for now

I am here, so hope is still in me "

you know the difference between you and the people replying, whether they want quickies, club visits, ggod one to ones or whatever they seem to be getting what they want. Your the one that's not, do you think it's not you that's doing something wrong.

I know exactly what I want and I'm getting just that.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

Good for you that you can read minds

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Good for you that you can read minds "
who are you talking to?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman  over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Good for you that you can read minds who are you talking to?"

Can you not read his mind?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Good for you that you can read minds who are you talking to?

Can you not read his mind? "

not on this occasion, I'm only apart time whitch

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The green arrow is the little green symbol beside your name on your posts... it links to previous posts you have made.

OP, your history may not show you in the most flattering light...

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"The green arrow is the little green symbol beside your name on your posts... it links to previous posts you have made.

OP, your history may not show you in the most flattering light... "

That's very generous of you .... I am sure others would go much further.

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"The green arrow is the little green symbol beside your name on your posts... it links to previous posts you have made.

OP, your history may not show you in the most flattering light...

That's very generous of you .... I am sure others would go much further."

What can I say... I'm just sweetness and light (hahaha )

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By *restatynCplCouple  over a year ago

Rhyl


"Good for you that you can read minds "

You use 5 sentences to say fuck all.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"Good for you that you can read minds

You use 5 sentences to say fuck all."

Sad thing is, it's not even trolling.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"The green arrow is the little green symbol beside your name on your posts... it links to previous posts you have made.

OP, your history may not show you in the most flattering light... "

It seems it does not matter as clever people will not judge based on Forum comments.

Click the green arrow and tell me what it is wrong, I am curious

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"The green arrow is the little green symbol beside your name on your posts... it links to previous posts you have made.

OP, your history may not show you in the most flattering light...

That's very generous of you .... I am sure others would go much further."

Where would they go? To fuck themselves?

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"The green arrow is the little green symbol beside your name on your posts... it links to previous posts you have made.

OP, your history may not show you in the most flattering light...

It seems it does not matter as clever people will not judge based on Forum comments.

Click the green arrow and tell me what it is wrong, I am curious "

Of course people will draw conclusions from what you post on the forum... What are they supposed to use... Esp? This is your public face on the fab forum.

What's wrong? Your sense of entitlement, expectations and lack of discretion and respect for starters.

Imagine yourself in someone else's shoes and read what you write. You aren't coming across well

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

I do not care really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm on here because I like sex. If theres another reason will sombody please turn the light on.

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By *restatynCplCouple  over a year ago

Rhyl


"I do not care really "

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand."

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences...

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By *restatynCplCouple  over a year ago

Rhyl


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences..."

We do not care really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cause it's easier to pull Bi girls than its is in "normal" surroundings - can't really walk up to a gal in a bar & ask if she's Bi...."

A mate at work I had. That's what his wife used to do.

She only wanted a girl every couple of months or so but would see a girl she liked and 9 times out of 10 would end up with her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand."

you get very personal and you don't get blisters on your hand if it was Wanking you were referring to ,forums are about debating a question in a lighthearted way sometimes comments are ambiguous in their meaning, mine are lighthearted all the time ,I am here to take the proverbial and meet interesting people

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By *olarfoxMan  over a year ago

North Cambs


"It would be nice to know why. If you want to know my reasons message me "

I am single and I enjoy having lots of sex....simples

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

because I'm single but I still have a sex drive, I don't want a relationship so coming on here and using clubs gives me what I'm looking for, sex without commitment

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences...

We do not care really."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences..."

hey don't take it to heart but a useful tip when starting a thread is to put your reasons to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences...

We do not care really.

"

You're not sharing experiences OP, at the start of the thread you were questioning experienced swingers about their motivation and second guessing them. Not the best way of learning.

You're so quick to dismiss others comments and their guidance, in a club situation are you the same?

If a lady told you to stop would you?

There are so many of your comments which appear to question a woman for why she wants multiple sex partners, how long she has sex for, I can't help but feel that you're both judging and aiming to shame these people for wanting what you do too.

You come across as a hypocrite and a chauvanist. I hope to never come across you

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"You come across as a hypocrite and a chauvanist. I hope to never come across you"

Hypocrisy is here, but not in me: it lives inside the haters of this Forum and beyond

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences...

We do not care really.

You're not sharing experiences OP, at the start of the thread you were questioning experienced swingers about their motivation and second guessing them. Not the best way of learning.

You're so quick to dismiss others comments and their guidance, in a club situation are you the same?

If a lady told you to stop would you?

There are so many of your comments which appear to question a woman for why she wants multiple sex partners, how long she has sex for, I can't help but feel that you're both judging and aiming to shame these people for wanting what you do too.

You come across as a hypocrite and a chauvanist. I hope to never come across you"

why would you cum across him are you gay

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not care really

No wonder you have blisters on your hand.

This is the level of the 95% of the comments in the Forum ...and I was naive enough to hope to have found a useful place to share experiences...

We do not care really.

You're not sharing experiences OP, at the start of the thread you were questioning experienced swingers about their motivation and second guessing them. Not the best way of learning.

You're so quick to dismiss others comments and their guidance, in a club situation are you the same?

If a lady told you to stop would you?

There are so many of your comments which appear to question a woman for why she wants multiple sex partners, how long she has sex for, I can't help but feel that you're both judging and aiming to shame these people for wanting what you do too.

You come across as a hypocrite and a chauvanist. I hope to never come across youwhy would you cum across him are you gay "

Ladies and gentlemen the comic stylings of trademark... Don't forget to tip the waitress

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You come across as a hypocrite and a chauvanist. I hope to never come across you

Hypocrisy is here, but not in me: it lives inside the haters of this Forum and beyond "

Once again you are questioned and you don't answer. The only reply is what boils down to 'I'm rubber and you're glue.'

I'm starting to think that you're trolling everyone on here, or rather I'm hoping you are

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"why would you cum across him are you gay "

Good that he did not say inside me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"why would you cum across him are you gay

Good that he did not say inside me "

Youd be so lucky that I came inside you! Or are you trying to insult me by inferring that I'm gay? So a hypocrite, a chavanist and a biggot too?! Wow you're ticking all the boxes

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

It was a joke

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well this thread went well

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

Ahahah yes, compared to the other ones

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I'm just here for a shag and I don't fancy my neighbours

It's really that simple

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By *olarfoxMan  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Well I'm just here for a shag and I don't fancy my neighbours

It's really that simple "

I'm the same, only in my case I do actually fancy one or two of my neighbours too....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we meet at home if we can - if not possible we go to a club and usually have fun - if we dont play with others we make our own fun and dont get down over it - we just like the whole social and sexy set up

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

At present it's purely for the forums. Taking a break from meeting as it's lost it's buzz for us at the moment.

When we are meeting, we don't go to clubs. Tried a couple and not for us at all. Tend to meet privately or at small private parties.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well I'm just here for a shag and I don't fancy my neighbours

It's really that simple

I'm the same, only in my case I do actually fancy one or two of my neighbours too.... "

You don't live in Tipton, you wouldnt if you did

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was a joke "

It was a joke based around me cumming up your ass at my expense. To me that's not funny

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was a joke

It was a joke based around me cumming up your ass at my expense. To me that's not funny"

The idea turned me on a little if I'm honest

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"When we are meeting, we don't go to clubs. Tried a couple and not for us at all. Tend to meet privately or at small private parties."

I partially agree. However if you tried only once, it could happen that you met the wrong person.

I would suggest you to try again ...it could be fun

If you prefer intimate meet it is of course better to avoid clubs ...I like both, my preference depends on the type of meet (...or meat)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was a joke

It was a joke based around me cumming up your ass at my expense. To me that's not funny

The idea turned me on a little if I'm honest "

Hahaha

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"When we are meeting, we don't go to clubs. Tried a couple and not for us at all. Tend to meet privately or at small private parties.

I partially agree. However if you tried only once, it could happen that you met the wrong person.

I would suggest you to try again ...it could be fun

If you prefer intimate meet it is of course better to avoid clubs ...I like both, my preference depends on the type of meet (...or meat) "

We just don't feel comfortable or relaxed in clubs, even when we have been with friends.

So stick with more intimate meets.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When we are meeting, we don't go to clubs. Tried a couple and not for us at all. Tend to meet privately or at small private parties.

I partially agree. However if you tried only once, it could happen that you met the wrong person.

I would suggest you to try again ...it could be fun

If you prefer intimate meet it is of course better to avoid clubs ...I like both, my preference depends on the type of meet (...or meat)

We just don't feel comfortable or relaxed in clubs, even when we have been with friends.

So stick with more intimate meets."

I prefer clubs simply because people can see you in the flesh before they approach you

I do prefer more intimate meets in some ways, i mean having the full attention of one man in a nice cozy bed beats a plastic bed with a guy who's already thinking about his next shag while he's with you

But I just find clubs easier and less time wasting than arramging and meeng off here

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"plastic bed with a guy who's already thinking about his next shag while he's with you "

And some people here offended me because I said this is LOW level sex...crazy

From my short experience, inside clubs you need to be lucky enough to pick up people who do not go frequently in clubs, and hence do not like quick shags

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London

I would add that depends on the guy. I hope not everyone are like that in clubs

I hope the same for girls...sigh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"plastic bed with a guy who's already thinking about his next shag while he's with you

And some people here offended me because I said this is LOW level sex...crazy

From my short experience, inside clubs you need to be lucky enough to pick up people who do not go frequently in clubs, and hence do not like quick shags "

Hey just giving my opinion not everybody will agree

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed

Because the chess club got annoyed with us knocking all their pieces over.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"plastic bed with a guy who's already thinking about his next shag while he's with you

And some people here offended me because I said this is LOW level sex...crazy

From my short experience, inside clubs you need to be lucky enough to pick up people who do not go frequently in clubs, and hence do not like quick shags

Hey just giving my opinion not everybody will agree "

I agree

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man  over a year ago

London


"Because the chess club got annoyed with us knocking all their pieces over."

Which opening do you prefer...?

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