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Why go dogging if you can't get it up?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love dogging and go very reg. I found that I turn up and get soft ones flopped out, I do all the hard work getting em hard then they cum in mouth then bugger off.
So I started doing shows, stripping ect to get them excited and hard. My fuck buddy "hosts" the meets, by saying stuff like if your hard she wants fucking.
Why do men still insist that if the cock is soft they can stick a condom on and attempt to stick it in my pussy? In my 40 odd years I've never had a man be able to get a soft one in.
I get nothing from a soft cock being bumped on my ass in the attempt of going in. PLEASE ffs, get hard if your going to go dogging. If not stand back and let those who can have a go.
I could have been home doing house work
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I guess they go because they don't expect the dreaded droop. But in the heat of the moment they freeze (perhaps if not used to an audience?) and so have some unexpected, er, performance issues.
But you're right, move aside and wait until you're ready to go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're definitely not the only woman who has this problem - !!!
Can be the same with meets - they get all excited arranging it, and then have gone off the boil by the time you get there...
I try to be polite, and say that "it's just one of those things" - but it's so bloody frustrating!!!!!
Thank goodness I'm Bi and can enjoy hours, days, making love with a woman and not have these problems...!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met several women in my life who assume it's the man's job to be "ready" and that they don't need to do any work.
If you meet any manwhore such as myself, it's probably gonna take a lot more than flashing your tits to have a reasonable effect  |
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"I love dogging and go very reg. I found that I turn up and get soft ones flopped out, I do all the hard work getting em hard then they cum in mouth then bugger off.
So I started doing shows, stripping ect to get them excited and hard. My fuck buddy "hosts" the meets, by saying stuff like if your hard she wants fucking.
Why do men still insist that if the cock is soft they can stick a condom on and attempt to stick it in my pussy? In my 40 odd years I've never had a man be able to get a soft one in.
I get nothing from a soft cock being bumped on my ass in the attempt of going in. PLEASE ffs, get hard if your going to go dogging. If not stand back and let those who can have a go.
I could have been home doing house work
Rant over. "
Love to be closer never had a problem. Cum quickly occasionly but ready and willing pretty straight away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That said however, I've been in a couple of threesomes where I've not been able to perform as well as I wanted 'cos I was put off by the way the other guy was behaving.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How does dogging work? Do you just turn up and see who is there by chance ?
Or is it all arranged?
Dogging is not my style, but if I did turn up and didn't find the woman attractive then my cock wouldn't be interested either!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ? "
Oh dear...not good, but saying that, ive seen some terrible things whilst out, and things that would make your eyes water (and not just because its dark and no-one can see fuck all, an all of a sudden a cock hits you in the eye) its certainly an eye opener... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How does dogging work? Do you just turn up and see who is there by chance ?
Or is it all arranged?
Dogging is not my style, but if I did turn up and didn't find the woman attractive then my cock wouldn't be interested either!
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Can be arranged but mostly people just turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ? "
You really came on a swinging site to express judgemental comments about consenting sexual acts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ?
You really came on a swinging site to express judgemental comments about consenting sexual acts? "
yes I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ?
You really came on a swinging site to express judgemental comments about consenting sexual acts? "
Looks that way doesn't it !
This kind of judgemental attitude happens all the time on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ?
You really came on a swinging site to express judgemental comments about consenting sexual acts?
Looks that way doesn't it !
This kind of judgemental attitude happens all the time on here "
so you don't agree with safe sex then not the sort of thing most swingers would want to hear ,I don't care what she does was just asking a question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ?
You really came on a swinging site to express judgemental comments about consenting sexual acts?
Looks that way doesn't it !
This kind of judgemental attitude happens all the time on here so you don't agree with safe sex then not the sort of thing most swingers would want to hear ,I don't care what she does was just asking a question "
So would you like to conduct a consensus on those women who perform oral sex with a condom ?
From previous threads it would be roughly 10% , if that .
So why be so down on the op for taking cum in her mouth ?
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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If multiple men not getting hard is a regular occurrence, I'd maybe rethink the situation.
I think I'd feel a bit soul destroyed if men repeatedly were going soft with me. Occasionally it happens and I imagine public play can be a lot of pressure... But I agree with the other commenters that say, men shouldn't be expected to just be ready to go? And that maybe flashing tits it's enough.
Maybe you expect too much? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You really went dogging and let strangers cum in your mouth ?
You really came on a swinging site to express judgemental comments about consenting sexual acts?
Looks that way doesn't it !
This kind of judgemental attitude happens all the time on here so you don't agree with safe sex then not the sort of thing most swingers would want to hear ,I don't care what she does was just asking a question
So would you like to conduct a consensus on those women who perform oral sex with a condom ?
From previous threads it would be roughly 10% , if that .
So why be so down on the op for taking cum in her mouth ?
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hehe hey I bow to your superior knowledge |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If multiple men not getting hard is a regular occurrence, I'd maybe rethink the situation.
I think I'd feel a bit soul destroyed if men repeatedly were going soft with me. Occasionally it happens and I imagine public play can be a lot of pressure... But I agree with the other commenters that say, men shouldn't be expected to just be ready to go? And that maybe flashing tits it's enough.
Maybe you expect too much? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could have been home doing house work
Rant over. "
If you like , you could come here and do the housework . Might be warmer than dogging and a chance to get out the house xx |
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By *ERGIE6Man
over a year ago
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Can understand posters frustration if they cant get it up maybe they should watch
you wouldnt want to stand their with a hard on all excited and female change her mind and leave you on the spot
dont know why people going on about condims etc its up to the individuals involved if its fir them |
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